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pocohantas:
Oh, you should see him, kitchen and his babe. It is always them. He sure looks like the bitterness he exudes.

obviously

Can't you see the way it has been painfully wailing since yesterday looking for food like almajari pikin with its friends

SAMBARRY:
obviously

Can't you see the way it has been painfully wailing since yesterday looking for food like almajari pikin with its friends

Just know he is going to follow you everywhere now. Dude is that jobless and vile.

brain54:
What does woke mean...?

Can you explain pls... And how I used it wrong in this instance.

Learning never ends!

Cool.

Woke is a slang that arose from political activism around racial discrimination. As the past tense of awake, it was directed towards young black people (especially) and allies. With the intention of encouraging them to be aware and politically/socially up to date with history in order to avoid repeating mistakes of the past.
Being woke is a very very good thing.

1) it’s not a pejorative (even though right wingers would love it to be). That’s why they attempt to use it as an insult. lol

2) it most certainly doesn’t have anything to do with two people choosing to or not to have kids.

cococandy:
Cool.

Woke is a slang that arose from political activism around racial discrimination. As the past tense of awake, it was directed towards young black people (especially) and allies. With the intention of encouraging them to be aware and politically/socially up to date with history in order to avoid repeating mistakes of the past.
Being woke is a very very good thing.

1) it’s not a pejorative (even though right wingers would love it to be). That’s why they attempt to use it as an insult. lol

2) it most certainly doesn’t have anything to do with two people choosing to or not to have kids.

Well, maybe the word I ought to have used is vogue...

But you know I am Nigerian right? We tend to substitute with the nearest available words. And we have a penchant for creating our own meanings and English out of existing words.

If you want to follow just understand in the context the words are used.

Thanks for the explanation though... It was so woke of you!

SAMBARRY:
ehyaaaaa this tears have not started well na.pump it up

So you have finished frying your mother's eggs you're looking for another girls eggs to fry


Wetin do your testes? cut am fry na

your money is your money Buh you see your egg its our eggss

tori e mo le shii bakery ... i found a purpose for your eggss sumtin you could not do thank me jor

chidiokay:
your money is your money Buh you see your egg its our eggss

tori e mo le shii bakery ... i found a purpose for your eggss sumtin you could not do thank me jor

you never start to wail.oya come open my belle cut the egg na

Painful Newsflash for your bruised ego,the same way my money my money so it is with my eggs.if I no wan give am I no dey give an,nothing wey you fit do about it

Even if a woman dies,her eggs go with her if she chose not to giveit.if you wan die,go and die.her body remains her choice

As for your non existent imaginary Bakery, na for your imagination e go exist and die

Person wey never see bread chop dey talk about bakery

pocohantas:
Just know he is going to follow you everywhere now. Dude is that jobless and vile.

it don meet its match. He go learn the vdm way

Na me go be the lesson teacher of the uncouth boy

SAMBARRY:
it don meet its match. He go learn the vdm way

Na me go be the lesson teacher of the uncouth boy

I trust you deliver.
I trust him to run like a coward.

SAMBARRY:
you never start to wail.oya come open my belle cut the egg na

Painful Newsflash for your bruised ego,the same way my money my money so it is with my eggs.if I no wan give am I no dey give an,nothing wey you fit do about it

Even if a woman dies,her eggs go with her if she chose not to giveit.if you wan die,go and die.her body remains her choice

As for your non existent imaginary Bakery, na for your imagination e go exist and die

Person wey never see bread chop dey talk about bakery

No be your mate boil her two eggs take miemie indomie ... dey play

Okay

brain54:
Well, maybe the word I ought to have used is vogue...

But you know I am Nigerian right? We tend to substitute with the nearest available words. And we have a penchant for creating our own meanings and English out of existing words.

If you want to follow just understand in the context the words are used.

Thanks for the explanation though... It was so woke of you!

chidiokay:
No be your mate boil her two eggs take miemie indomie ... dey play

na your mama egg you dey chop

As long as its your mom's egg,happy eating

SAMBARRY:
na your mama egg you dey chop

As long as its your mom's egg,happy eating

we dont have to keep going back and forth, woman just bend down and lay

make i even confirm is it jumbo or like the local fowl eggs on the cheap indomie

me i get taste o

[color=#991FCE]It's an interesting perspective to marriage really! But it marvels me why 2 opposite gender as God ordained, would prefer not to follow God's system of marriage with procréation 🤔[/color]

SAMBARRY:
na your mama egg you dey chop

As long as its your mom's egg,happy eating

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I knew they were not black people.

ednut1:
is it not also selfish to give birth to 5 children without stable income?

Agreed, but this DINK model benefits women way more than men. I rather remain single completely than be married without my biological children.

trium:
Women, should be married with kids. Except she is barren and that's no fault of hers. QED

INo humanity.

Selfishness all around.

I love Africa for this reason. Go abroad, Jamaicans, Brazilians, Every person who has an African connection, they have connection to human beings than these selfish people who have become soulless.

Elon Musk was never in their calculations, that's why they loathe him. He has the money to call their bluff. He has kids and he takes care of them. That is being a mashould be subtle about it, unlike before where they complained. That's why they now use social media to deceive Gen Z. Go and check what is happening around the world. There is a declining fertility rate, some of them are caused by health issues caused by us, others are these agendas that prevent procreation, including LGBTQ. Go into the world and multiply jare. Rubbish

While I agree with some of your points. Elon Musk's population drive ideology is for white people, not blacks.

Gerrard59:
Agreed, but this DINK model benefits women way more than men. I rather remain single completely than be married without my biological children.

how does it benefit the woman more?

Nefort:
Do you think their parents did them a favour bringing them to the world to suffer?

Go home to your parents and tell them that what they did was wrong by bringing you to the world. In fact scold your mum for not aborting you.

Basiljoe:
Ironically. Negative birth rates can be associated with prosperity. I[b]'m not totally sure but I think countries with prosperous economies have declining birth rates.[/b]

This is why I love we Africans, once we don get small money like this, na to marry 15 wives and born 50 children.

Individualism of the west has its negative effects.

You are absolutely correct. Wealth begets low birth rates. Israel is the only "developed" country with a high birth rate above 2.1. However, India, much of the wealthier Middle East, Thailand, Indonesia etc., also experience declining birth rates. So, it is much bigger than just prosperity. The individualism of the West has permeated everywhere so it seems.

ednut1:
how does it benefit the woman more?

The man is expected to still provide manly benefits and the woman is still hypergamous. The man does not benefit anything from her. The tale about companionship does not work well as he could get that even as a bachelor. The only benefit comes if the lady is financially higher than the guy.

kingharzy:
LOL...
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No Income, Many Kids NIMK people won't like this

😂

Gerrard59:
You are absolutely correct. Wealth begets low birth rates. Israel is the only "developed" country with a high birth rate above 2.1. However, India, much of the wealthier Middle East, Thailand, Indonesia etc., also experience declining birth rates. So, it is much bigger than just prosperity. The individualism of the West has permeated everywhere so it seems.


The man is expected to still provide manly benefits and the woman is still hypergamous. The man does not benefit anything from her. The tale about companionship does not work well as he could get that even as a bachelor. The only benefit comes if the lady is financially higher than the guy.

false . In many of these relationships its 50:50.

chidiokay:
we dont have to keep going back and forth, woman just bend down and lay

make i even confirm is it jumbo or like the local fowl eggs on the cheap indomie

me i get taste o

ok na konji dey worry you. Go and lay your mother wey no give you basic decency and home training down. Abi what is the difference between you and a pig

Go cook your rotten indomie for your mom and lay her down
Sholo stupid ni eko tioni eminimako e

Most people don't understand what the word racist means.

The US Democrats have bastardised the word so it no longer has the potency it once had

That's why someone will look at this couple who CLEARLY are from 2 different racial backgrounds and call them racists.

Sigh

Cousin9999:
It's probably best that she and that man don't have kids because they're both racist freaks. The world doesn't need more of them.

SAMBARRY:
ok na konji dey worry you. Go and lay your mother wey no give you basic decency and home training down. Abi what is the difference between you and a pig

Go cook your rotten indomie for your mom and lay her down
Sholo stupid ni eko tioni eminimako e

here i am tryna be a gentleman

i even said "please" bend down nd lay d eggs for sampling

You what i don't blame you i blame society for only focusing on men to be "gentlemen"

chidiokay:
here i am tryna be a gentleman

i even said "please" bend down nd lay d eggs for sampling

You what i don't blame you i blame society for only focusing on men to be "gentlemen"

go and bend your mother. Shebi ogoh. Emi nima ko elogbon

Procashtips:
As for what you said, majority of Nigerian parents have children so that they can serve them when they become old even when they left them nothing as inheritance or a good foundation to grow on- Pure selfishness

Many Chinese will say the same thing about their own people. But Chinese are far worse because they basically abuse their kids to mold them into the highest earning investment. And they also get rid of female children mainly because they don't think they can extract as much money out of them.

VULCAN:
Most people don't understand what the word racist means.

The US Democrats have bastardised the word so it no longer has the potency it once had

Please do something of value that you can be proud of instead of accepting crumbs to spread the depraved propaganda of oyinbos.

VULCAN:
That's why someone will look at this couple who CLEARLY are from 2 different racial backgrounds and call them racists.

Sigh

No, they're not. And they don't even have a race, they're mutts. Actually, they're both inbred mutts. In their part of the world, they're so racist and insanely obsessed with complexion, they would rather inbreed to stay lighter.

Cousin9999:
Many Chinese will say the same thing about their own people. But Chinese are far worse because they basically abuse their kids to mold them into the highest earning investment. And they also get rid of female children mainly because they don't think they can extract as much money out of them.

That's not the reason they don't want female children, it's more of legacy (preserving the family name) so they have a cap on how many children they can have.

As for molding, it's more of competition, they're so competitive in China that everyone wants their children to be top of the class in all spheres of life.

Lastly, most Chinese homes don't depend on their children to feed them in old age, they have a govt that cares for the elderly unlike most of African countries.

Procashtips:
That's not the reason they don't want female children, it's more of legacy (preserving the family name) so they have a cap on how many children they can have.

It is. They've been doing it for ages, long before the cap.

Today, it's about cash. Before, it was about who would do the most work on farmland. Regardless, many see their child as an investment.

Procashtips:
As for molding, it's more of competition, they're so competitive in China that everyone wants their children to be top of the class in all spheres of life.

They have a culture of "face." However, it's not a competitive culture that fuels that behavior. It's poverty, a high population (competition for jobs), almost no labor rights, and a poor social safety net.

Procashtips:
Lastly, most Chinese homes don't depend on their children to feed them in old age, they have a govt that cares for the elderly unlike most of African countries.

China has always struggled to establish a clear retirement system. Elder poverty is common, especially in rural areas...Pensions are built on what is now a three-tiered system that advantages urban workers over rural ones, as with nearly every aspect of the Chinese welfare state...But even developed Confucian countries have higher rates of elder poverty, suggesting that family obligations can’t substitute for a state system.

https://foreignpolicy.com/2024/09/17/china-raises-retirement-age-pension-economy/

It is difficult for migrant workers to find jobs that pay for social security for 15 years--the prerequisite for getting a pension when retired. Workers are worried that the retirement age reform would make things even harder.

There is a disparity in social security coverage and benefits between urban workers and migrant workers. Many migrant workers still have to work after the retirement age, with little or no social security. Precarious and informal employment across sectors is a significant reason and will likely continue with the growing gig economy.

https://clb.org.hk/en/content/challenges-and-concerns-surrounding-chinas-retirement-age-reform

Cocolatti:
Go home to your parents and tell them that what they did was wrong by bringing you to the world. In fact scold your mum for not aborting you.

People like you will give birth to 8 children while earning 30k per month. And then you start blaming government for your hardship. The world needs fewer humans like you.

Nefort:
People like you will give birth to 8 children while earning 30k per month. And then you start blaming government for your hardship. The world needs fewer humans like you.

You're dodging the issue. Simply go and do what I said to you in my previous post.