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Good morning guyz...I need a matured advice..
I met this so called lady on Facebook some years back...but we only exchange greetings..I later develop interest in her and she too concur but still saying untill she see me in person before she can decide having me into her heart... because she said is not possible for her to accept someone she hasn't met online like that... Though I didn't force her to accept me but during our chat trying to know each other strength and weakness ....in her own she said she is not Romantic....I was like how on Earth a lady will say she is not Romantic....

Am confused here , see someone am trying to meet in person and if she later accepted me but the romantic aspect, if it lead to marriage will she say she doesn't want sex or romance ... because spouses must know their sexual strengths before marriage because that is what is causing cheating in marriage....

My husband is not doing well on bed this that .....

How do I handle this of her not Romantic...am tired of staffing oloshos ... trying to have a serious relationship that will lead to marriage
....she is not Romantic that wat she told me and am a sexually active matured man... please I need advice

Being romantic is different from liking sex. I knew this guy who was very good in bed but that's where it ended. Somehow they didn't teach him things like candles and flowers and soft light and mood music and soft intrigue as you read read in romance novels and movies.
What the lady is telling you is that she doesn't care for those sorts of things NOT that she doesn't like sex.

WITH TIME WITH YOU, SHE WILL.
JUST TEACH HER, SHE WITH TIME WILL LEARN BETTER.

DaddyCoool:
Being romantic is different from liking sex. I knew this guy who was very good in bed but that's where it ended. Somehow they didn't teach him things like candles and flowers and soft light and mood music and soft intrigue as you read read in romance novels and movies.
What the lady is telling you is that she doesn't care for those sorts of things NOT that she doesn't like sex.

ok thanks sister, but I was like romantic.... anytime I sent her message
.I use sweet romantic terms, like sweetheart, princess... and so on but she will say nothing..i sent her kiss emoji ..she said she doesn't like it...

seanery:
WITH TIME WITH YOU, SHE WILL.
JUST TEACH HER, SHE WITH TIME WILL LEARN BETTER.

and she is this type that always do mum's pet attitude...may be if we spend time together with Tim,Yu mean she will adapt

DaddyCoool:
Being romantic is different from liking sex. I knew this guy who was very good in bed but that's where it ended. Somehow they didn't teach him things like candles and flowers and soft light and mood music and soft intrigue as you read read in romance novels and movies.
What the lady is telling you is that she doesn't care for those sorts of things NOT that she doesn't like sex.

another thing is that she said hope I like her body structure coz she is Lepa skinny... That she doesn't have big side bum...I was like it nothing ...may she doesn't understand those romantic compliments

handsomeyitayo:
another thing is that she said hope I like her body structure coz she is Lepa skinny... That she doesn't have big side bum...I was like it nothing ...may she doesn't understand those romantic compliments

Just cut all the crap and MEET. Without that everything else na wash

handsomeyitayo:
How do I handle this of her not Romantic...am tired of staffing oloshos ... trying to have a serious relationship that will lead to marriage
....she is not Romantic that wat she told me and am a sexually active matured man... please I need advice

Run oooo... Run oooo... she has told u now ooo....
Some women will not tell u the truth...u will hear "don't worry"...when we marry u will see all the romance amd sex u want.....na scam...

This one has told u....and trust me, u can't begin to know the full meaning of what she meant by that statement....u dont want to find out

advanceDNA:
Run oooo... Run oooo... she has told u now ooo....
Some women will not tell u the truth...u will hear "don't worry"...when we marry u will see all the romance amd sex u want.....na scam...

This one has told u....and trust me, u can't begin to know the full meaning of what she meant by that statement....u dont want to find out

please share more light please

handsomeyitayo:
and she is this type that always do mum's pet attitude...may be if we spend time together with Tim,Yu mean she will adapt

Yes with time; everything na time.

Lemme shock u with who my wife was when i met her.
She was the type that was a notice when it comes to making love; but i taught her all dis. Now na me dey run from sex now tht we ar married. Infact na she dey do everything in bed, mine na to just lie down with my back.

What am trying to say is that everything na learning and time. She will get better with time; just teach her

handsomeyitayo:
please share more light please

The things is..most women are not usually upfront with the negatives about themselves

... If a woman is upfront like this..it's usually a case of a tip of the iceberg...there is usually something they are not telling you that is being packaged with small truth..

For example...It's like a lady telling you she was a runs girl before but ddnt tell you she slept with every guy on ur street and has damaged womb...

You never meet someone in real life, you are busy disturbing the peace and quiet of NL. I f I catch you enh?

She's simply challenging you to break her

Sapasenator:
You never meet someone in real life, you are busy disturbing the peace and quiet of NL. I f I catch you enh?

shey make I no ask for advice ni...

handsomeyitayo:
shey make I no ask for advice ni...

Pele o, Ade love, Olu romantic.

DaddyCoool:
Being romantic is different from liking sex. I knew this guy who was very good in bed but that's where it ended. Somehow they didn't teach him things like [b]candles and flowers [/b]and soft light and mood music and soft intrigue as you read read in romance novels and movies.
What the lady is telling you is that she doesn't care for those sorts of things NOT that she doesn't like sex.

Too much romance novels and movies done finish U sha

dkidd:
Too much romance novels and movies done finish U sha

Romance is what makes the ordinary intoxicating, exhilarating