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you can look for one reputable hospital to do it officially. or you check it by yourself if you are a pro. It looks like teeth gum and the hole is much smaller in size while the wall looks teeth gum

Kinzo0917:
.how do you confirm if she is a virgin?

I will agree with her, as long as my money no dey comot from my pocket.

Unless she is a virgin I would disagree absolutely

He will gain lies and deceit from her

purples25:
You see that without sex you don't see the need for a relationship.

So a guy won't taste the car engine before he buys. If she really love him she will allow him taste the engine after 6month in the relationship. My own point I no De force sex from a girl

This generation sha, since when did sex become a sign of love.

raphy:
So a guy won't taste the car engine before he buys. If she really love him she will allow him taste the engine after 6month in the relationship. My own point I no De force sex from a girl

So... Some guys go taste... Realize say they no wan buy... Giving the girl high body count, which another guy after tasting... Go also decide say him no want because of that high body count... Who lose in this arrangement.

Taste girls like suya... Dump half eaten food, say you no full, e no sweet ... You no want again... Of cus after that, nobody wan chop your left over...

Until God grace you with the girl wey you go taste and dey okay with...How does this arrangement favor women?

There will be many tested and abandoned food be dat.

Good day ,mature men in the house, i urgently need your input on this

What is the best response to a female who said i am sexualising her.


Some info

She is 20yrs in 200 L

We were chatting n i playfully called her small breast, then she got angry.(she claims to be a virgin)

She loves me but trying to hide it (her elder sis told me)

Tell her No, you aren't a gentleman. She will then beg to come over, and when she does, take your portion 😁 and thank me later if you feel like.

JASONjnr:
Absolutely nothing.....

You should ask yourself what benefits a woman is to man without s*x?

Never give in to this manipulation.

The moment a woman brings this topic up, I will just look elsewhere....

A girl who was to visit me told me that we won't be having s*x and no taking baths together or attempting to touch...
I asked her if she was a virgin and she said no., I told her I wasn't interested in to continue from the talking stage anymore.

She's been calling and texting..... Saying that she was only testing me to see if I was a gentleman.

Shugafree:
Good day ,mature men in the house, i urgently need your input on this

What is the best response to a female who said i am sexualising her.


Some info

She is 20yrs in 200 L

We were chatting n i playfully called her small breast, then she got angry.(she claims to be a virgin)

She loves me but trying to hide it (her elder sis told me)

I hope you won't be offended if she was the one who said 'small prick' to you.

If I were the one, I wouldn't even take offense; I would just do something similar and see how you would react.

It's enough reason for her to be angry, so apologize to her.

Merry100:
I hope you won't be offended if she was the one who said 'small prick' to you.

If I were the one, I wouldn't even take offense; I would just do something similar and see how you would react.

It's enough reason for her to be angry, so apologize to her.

Thanks, but arent u a female ?

I am seeking the opinion of Mature Men

Sonnobax15:

Relationship ain't all about sexxxx man....

Personally I would choose a decent, responsible and well-mannered banny over a lose,sexxxx addict, senseless and an irresponsible banny who would wanna murder my future with different sexxxx styles....

But then again, telling me we won't be sampling each other during our time of courtship, will certainly push me to ask one simple question --"Hope I won't be spending money too?"

You must be joking

idahme:
U know the answer already, it's because you ladies don't offer anything else apart sex. For a man he offers sex and money and other stuff in relationships but most women don't.

You think a girl who offers money like her man and says no sex will be rejected? Nope
Any lady who says that to me I will say no money in relationships also because they usually don't bring money in relationships. If money and sex is out and she accepts the relationship then we are cool.

How will a tertiary virgin tell me no sex relationship and I'm not a fool to know she is manipulating and expect me to bring my resources for someone that may have done 3 to 8 abortions.

boss you are mouthed abeg no vex which one be tertiary Virgin again I don't laugh tire . I dey feel your submission 💯%

This is all a pipe dream anyway. Real life that I know, many girls go through one year, three year relationships without any spending on them, because they want to prove they are not golddiggers. They also give sex for free, to prove they are not prostitutes. After which it doesn't work out between them and the guys that keep entering relationships and breaking up with them.

So all this talk about spending money... Especially for the average homebody girl that wants to prove she's good, those girls don't see the money. The guys may even be borrowing from them. It's common.

There's no money, just sex most times. So what's all this talk. The girl go gain with no sex self.

Shugafree:
Thanks, but arent u a female ?

I am seeking the opinion of Mature Men

Yes, I am. Mature women are in a better position to answer questions about women.

Shugafree:
Good day ,mature men in the house, i urgently need your input on this

What is the best response to a female who said i am sexualising her.


Some info

She is 20yrs in 200 L

We were chatting n i playfully called her small breast, then she got angry.(she claims to be a virgin)

She loves me but trying to hide it (her elder sis told me)

What you said to her was wrong. Please, do not do so next time.

Merry100:
Yes, I am. Mature women are in a better position to answer questions about women.

Ok, thank u ma'am. I really appreciate

Pls how should my apology go ?

My own experience was that she was always ready to share with me, Asin food, her money and steady sex because it was a school setting.,..yet she won't ask money from me or bill me, but I later find out she was billing other guys and was fucking them too.

I ended the relationship asap

Ibkay32:
The both partners should feel equally valued and fulfilled in the relationship. If one partner sets boundaries, like saying no to sex, there should still be mutual effort to maintain the emotional, intellectual, and spiritual connection.

Love isn’t transactional, but it thrives on give-and-take. If she offers genuine affection, support, and respect, the relationship remains balanced. However, if either partner feels they’re giving more than they’re receiving, it’s a sign to communicate openly and reassess compatibility. Balance ensures both partners feel secure and valued, regardless of physical boundaries.

You're trying to paint a picture of an equally balanced power relationship which is far from possible and not very ideal.

In any relationship between two people,whether platonic or romantic,one party must inevitably hold the most power.

Most of these ladies are no virgins.

Badmashiii:
You're trying to paint a picture of an equally balanced power relationship which is far from possible and not very ideal.

In any relationship between two people,whether platonic or romantic,one party must inevitably hold the most power.

The boyfriend-girlfriend relationship is still in the selection stage. There is no power struggle; it simply entails mutual understanding. Both parties have to put in enough effort to ensure satisfaction for one another.

purples25:
Explain.

You mean whoever can give you the money will touch you.

chipet67:
You mean whoever can give you the money will touch you.

Nope, I said it's fine, keep the money, BUT don't break the rules about the sex.

koladata:
if she hasn't had it before and you confirmed it, then you should wait. but if not , you should run

..with the level of high konji nowadays... which girl has not had it before

Go to the next girl..there are many fishes in the river

No problem...there are many other girls konji is holding out .there.. so no need to waste time

ufotunang:
No problem...there are many other girls konji is holding out .there.. so no need to waste time

Not always easy to detect a girl that has sexual konji, as 100% of Ladies are Chronic Pretenders.

purples25:
Nope, I said it's fine, keep the money, BUT don't break the rules about the sex.

Omoor see courtesy.
I'm sorry if I sounded harsh initially.
I get you now.

koladata:
you can look for one reputable hospital to do it officially. or you check it by yourself if you are a pro. It looks like teeth gum and the hole is much smaller in size while the wall looks teeth gum

The chenkes go agree to go to hospital for that?

U know our chenkes na..

Merry100:
The boyfriend-girlfriend relationship is still in the selection stage. There is no power struggle; it simply entails mutual understanding. Both parties have to put in enough effort to ensure satisfaction for one another.

Mate,there's already a power struggle right from when they exchanged names and contacts.

Who needs the other party the most? You can't tell me they need each other the same way.

Not dis era again. Where deris so much uncertainties.the lady fit be lesbian or woteva bad..
If I dey test new tv how come I no fit test d one am not sure about..

Badmashiii:
Mate,there's already a power struggle right from when they exchanged names and contacts.

Who needs the other party the most? You can't tell me they need each other the same way.

I am not aware of any power struggles that exist in relationships involving two mature individuals.

Women often express their love for men primarily through care, emotional support, and sometimes gifts, while men often show their love and affection for women mainly through financial support and sometimes emotional support.

Money is a man's love language. Even if a woman is not the demanding type, some men will insist that she ask for things or will even offer her gifts on their own. When they genuinely love a woman, men are willing to go the extra mile to show their affection and prove that they are ideal partners.