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Yes! Your wife will deny you sex. For many reasons, hormones, mood, stress, pregnancy, control, etc. She will not be able to explain why. She will deny you sex to the point of aggression.

I am saying this because some guys that love sex (and those who pleasure themselves) so much thinks getting married will give them a partner that they can be having sex with all the time. However this isn’t the case. Even if you guys had lots of sex while you were still dating something in marriage just changes her interest and chemistry.

This is where sex becomes a tool of domination for some women. If you are a cocky guy that thinks your pre-intimacy game is the best. In your arrogance you would think “I sure seh if i touch am for the right places she go fall”. But no! that wont work, infact it will make you look like a fool because she will be staring at you whille you are romancing her and if you look in her eyes you will see disgust, irritation and that look of tyrannical boss. In her mind she’s thinking “I bet i can break and manipulate this guy, see the way he’s begging for sex and worshiping me”

Cases like this is what some women use to dominate men especially the cocky arrogant ones. When women are not in the mood for sex they use it as opportunity to dominate men by saying things and making gestures to diminish his ego. She might say you are wasting your time, she might say your mares are good in making money while you are here boasting about sex matics.

If a man likes sex so much and lacks self control then he isn’t ready for marriage. This is because a woman is looking to dominate and control a man in the marriage.

Also You cannot force her into having sex with you because that would be rape. And if you think you can beat her into submission, you go beat her taya until she kills you or police come to arrest you. So the best thing as a man is to learn self control or else if raising your family properly is your priority then a sexless marriage will lead to resentment and bring lots of negativity into your marriage.

Don’t forget marriage na night market, you might be good at selection but once in a while you will carry bad product. And no matter how smart you think you are, you are only prepared for 50% of her character. Best is to learn self control or choose other expensive and destructive options.

Kudos to the matured ladies out there that understands and respect their men’s physical desires you guys are the best!

As a newly married guy, I see some level of truth in this. Womem are simply weird beings, they will make you question your sanity

tunnyl:
Yes! Your wife will deny you sex. For many reasons, hormones, mood, stress, pregnancy, control, etc. She will not be able to explain why. She will deny you sex to the point of aggression.

I am saying this because some guys that love sex (and those who pleasure themselves) so much thinks getting married will give them a partner that they can be having sex with all the time. However this isn’t the case. Even if you guys had lots of sex while you were still dating something in marriage just changes her interest and chemistry.

This is where sex becomes a tool of domination for some women. If you are a cocky guy that thinks your pre-intimacy game is the best. In your arrogance you would think “I sure seh if i touch am for the right places she go fall”. But no! that wont work, infact it will make you look like a fool because she will be staring at you whille you are romancing her and if you look in her eyes you will see disgust, irritation and that look of tyrannical boss. In her mind she’s thinking “I bet i can break and manipulate this guy, see the way he’s begging for sex and worshiping me”

Cases like this is what some women use to dominate men especially the cocky arrogant ones. When women are not in the mood for sex they use it as opportunity to dominate men by saying things and making gestures to diminish his ego. She might say you are wasting your time, she might say your mares are good in making money while you are here boasting about sex matics.

If a man likes sex so much and lacks self control then he isn’t ready for marriage. This is because a woman is looking to dominate and control a man in the marriage.

Also You cannot force her into having sex with you because that would be rape. And if you think you can beat her into submission, you go beat her taya until she kills you or police come to arrest you. So the best thing as a man is to learn self control or else if raising your family properly is your priority then a sexless marriage will lead to resentment and bring lots of negativity into your marriage.

Don’t forget marriage na night market, you might be good at selection but once in a while you will carry bad product.

you get experience ooo. 100% truth.
Boy friend and girl friend relationship you fit have sex like 10 to 12 times in a month. Girl friend go even dey beg you for more. But marriage Na one Na wayo. To get sex once in a month Na grace.

This always gives me some thinking I swear.
Because I like se× ooo, haa! My girlfriend visited me and stayed two weeks, I only managed to nak her two times, imagine, two times.

Then I thought to myself what If I married her na soo she go dey do me? Shuu

Babe go dey tell me say na morning se× dey sweet pass that I should wait till morning. Haa!

If morning come she go still find another excuse like my D!¢kk is getting bigger everyday as if na my own big pass...........

I'm scared of marriage I swear

Guys also get tired of sex early in marriage. They get tired of that woman very quickly and want another one. They are also tired because of work. Small things also make guys not want sex with their wives again. Guys also form pride and deny sex.

This post is for married people. Sex is a huge part of marriage, but e go tire the both of una one day.

tunnyl:
Yes! Your wife will deny you sex. For many reasons, hormones, mood, stress, pregnancy, control, etc. She will not be able to explain why. She will deny you sex to the point of aggression.

I am saying this because some guys that love sex (and those who pleasure themselves) so much thinks getting married will give them a partner that they can be having sex with all the time. However this isn’t the case. Even if you guys had lots of sex while you were still dating something in marriage just changes her interest and chemistry.

This is where sex becomes a tool of domination for some women. If you are a cocky guy that thinks your pre-intimacy game is the best. In your arrogance you would think “I sure seh if i touch am for the right places she go fall”. But no! that wont work, infact it will make you look like a fool because she will be staring at you whille you are romancing her and if you look in her eyes you will see disgust, irritation and that look of tyrannical boss. In her mind she’s thinking “I bet i can break and manipulate this guy, see the way he’s begging for sex and worshiping me”

Cases like this is what some women use to dominate men especially the cocky arrogant ones. When women are not in the mood for sex they use it as opportunity to dominate men by saying things and making gestures to diminish his ego. She might say you are wasting your time, she might say your mares are good in making money while you are here boasting about sex matics.

If a man likes sex so much and lacks self control then he isn’t ready for marriage. This is because a woman is looking to dominate and control a man in the marriage.

Also You cannot force her into having sex with you because that would be rape. And if you think you can beat her into submission, you go beat her taya until she kills you or police come to arrest you. So the best thing as a man is to learn self control or else if raising your family properly is your priority then a sexless marriage will lead to resentment and bring lots of negativity into your marriage.

Don’t forget marriage na night market, you might be good at selection but once in a while you will carry bad product. And no matter how smart you think you are, you are only prepared for 50% of her character. Best is to learn self control or choose other expensive and destructive options.

Kudos to the matured ladies out there that understands and respect their men’s physical desires you guys are the best!

no woman shd deny her hubby sex is my right.why will she deny me her body.is beta to be harsh to get wat u want cos if u too gentle u regret

I keep on preaching this...if you must marry as a man...then only marry a small girl you can control...a girl you can instill fear into and she will grow with that fear...women only respect men they fear!...don't go and marry one useless thing like that who will be using even common sex to manipulate you...our ancestors that mostly married girls as young as 16 weren't foolish!

Bizmind95:
I keep on preaching this...if you must marry as a man...then only marry a small girl you can control...a girl you can instill fear into and she will grow with that fear...women only respect men they fear!...don't go and marry one useless thing like that who will be using even common sex to manipulate you...our ancestors that mostly married girls as young as 16 weren't foolish!

Bros she will resent you because you dont know her background and family history. 16 na still development age, who knows if she go turn out to have the same characteristics as those older girls you dey avoid.

She go kom begin hate the way way you dey correct am because she be wild girl and you dey holdd her down

purples25:
Guys also get tired of sex early in marriage. They get tired of that woman very quickly and want another one. They are also tired because of work. Small things also make guys not want sex with their wives again. Guys also form pride and deny sex.

from my personal experiences and those shared with me. My wife libido reduced while my was same, only for me to form new habits like reading as distraction, now she is looking for twice a day. I matched up he tempo for 2 weeks madam stopped for like 4 months and she is young o. My lesson once in a while avoid the needy attitude and intentionally be dramatic too.

True talk

starpower:
from my personal experiences and those shared with me. My wife libido reduced while my was same, only for me to form new habits like reading as distraction, now she is looking for twice a day. I matched up he tempo for 2 weeks madam stopped for like 4 months and she is young o. My lesson once in a while avoid the needy attitude and intentionally be dramatic too.

Does that invalidate all I typed?

Restaurants exist so you can eat out when your wife can't cook.

Bizmind95:
I keep on preaching this...if you must marry as a man...then only marry a small girl you can control...a girl you can instill fear into and she will grow with that fear...women only respect men they fear!...don't go and marry one useless thing like that who will be using even common sex to manipulate you...our ancestors that mostly married girls as young as 16 weren't foolish!

Leave our ancestors out of this. Not everything they did would be approved of today. Humans are fallible.

Women have almost zero control over her men and to get him to listen. So sex is the most effective way of control. I also think women don't stick with men they fear but tolerate them, instead women stick with men they are scared of losing.

Marry a small girl is a good solution but remember that woman change. They don't remain the same as the age. Women on the other hand expect men to change but become surprised when we remain the same.

Its recognising the beauty in the difference and follow each stage of growth with awareness that she isn't the same woman.

It provides you with a new challenge to keep the relationship fun to you as you rediscover a new be-ing inside the same person over and over

CandyOps:
Leave our ancestors out of this. Not everything they did would be approved of today. Humans are fallible.

Women have almost zero control over her men and to get him to listen. So sex is the most effective way of control. I also think women don't stick with men they fear but tolerate them, instead women stick with men they are scared of losing.

Marry a small girl is a good solution but remember that woman change. They don't remain the same as the age. Women on the other hand expect men to change but become surprised when we remain the same.

Its recognising the beauty in the difference and follow each stage of growth with awareness that she isn't the same woman.

It provides you with a new challenge to keep the relationship fun to you as you rediscover a new be-ing inside the same person over and over

Eventhough l don't agree with your points...but you speak and express yourself very well...l must give you a thumbs up for that...besides, we agree to disagree...so Shalom!!!

Bizmind95:
I keep on preaching this...if you must marry as a man...then only marry a small girl you can control...a girl you can instill fear into and she will grow with that fear...women only respect men they fear!...don't go and marry one useless thing like that who will be using even common sex to manipulate you...our ancestors that mostly married girls as young as 16 weren't foolish!

You are right, I've already bind myself with this decision, nothing will make me marry a girl above 23yrs in this life. I'm not ready for all this matured lady shenanigans (damage matured LovePeddler) I am seeing around.
I have my spec, no one can cajole me into what I'll later regret.

Every woman will deny you sex from time to time. Even if you have 2 side chicks whom you're footing their bill, you'll still not get sex on demand.

The only woman who will give sex on demand is a paid hooker. You may even get some disrespect and attitude sprinkled on top.

Don't marry for sex, marry for more important reasons. Sex will never always be available on a platter, even if you have 5 wives.

dmg1:
You are right, I've already bind myself with this decision, nothing will make me marry a girl above 23yrs in this life. I'm not ready for all this matured lady shenanigans (damage matured LovePeddler) I am seeing around.
I have my spec, no one can cajole me into what I'll later regret.

You're on the right path bro...You've seen the light...the emotionally damaged matured whores have since lost their capacity to truly love a man...they just looking for a SIMP as their retirement plan after they've been used and damaged beyond repair...

Always pandering towards female imperative
Okay
She denies me
Will i force her
No


Will i stil shag??
Hell yes
Will it be her
Most definitely no



I don't stop my provision
Wether i feel like it or im down
I provide regardless.
But there's Always am excuse why women don't do what they supposed to do



Thank God this 6inchss revolver isn't for one woman sha

tunnyl:
Bros she will resent you because you dont know her background and family history. 16 na still development age, who knows if she go turn out to have the same characteristics as those older girls you dey avoid.

She go kom begin hate the way way you dey correct am because she be wild girl and you dey holdd her down

Bros leave such manipulative preaching, how old was Tonto dike, Tiwa savage, Ini Edo etc. when they married, now are they still in their respective husband's house?
Now check out Omotala, Regina Daniels, and wife of kanu nwankwo etc. they all married at the age of 18, and up till today they're still in their respective husband's house enjoying their marriage.
My brother old cargo (damage goods) is not for everyone, if they're your spec fine, but don't try to force it on everyone.

dmg1:
Bros leave such manipulative preaching, how old was Tonto dike, Tiwa savage, Ini Edo etc. when they married, now are they still in their respective husband's house?
Now check out Omotala, Regina Daniels, and wife of kanu nwankwo etc. they all married at the age of 18, and up till today they're still in their respective husband's house enjoying their marriage.
My brother old cargo (damage goods) is not for everyone, if they're your spec fine, but don't try to force it on everyone.

To each his own baba

Then no need of getting married

What my girl did to me

starpower:
from my personal experiences and those shared with me. My wife libido reduced while my was same, only for me to form new habits like reading as distraction, now she is looking for twice a day. I matched up he tempo for 2 weeks madam stopped for like 4 months and she is young o. My lesson once in a while avoid the needy attitude and intentionally be dramatic too.

I too like this comment, if woman deny you sex deny her back, that's why women use sex to control men because they think men can't resist, the moment you reject sex from women it bleeps with their brain, I've had girls beg for sex after rejection, there's a particular girl that tried so hard to the point she got naked, stood in front of me and asked me if she's not beautiful enough, men need to learn how to play their game right, nor be every time woman raise skirt na you go pull trousers

Once you get married, there is no more incentives on a woman to keep the attention of a man, remember, she already got what she want and that is marriage. The one that have sense will keep giving you as much as she can, but that one too will fade over time.
The first year is your lucky year and sex will decline as year goes by, her attention will change when children comes in, nursing babies till they become grown up. That is the reality, a man will have to adjust or simply get another wife period.

Beware: The most dangerous time for any man alive is old age, most women will abandoned their husband totally, check your neighborhood how many husband are still alive.

purples25:
Does that invalidate all I typed?

Be calming down
Your blood too hot....long nose!!!

tunnyl:
To each his own baba

Nah you create thread yet they argue with redpillers upandan....

Iffa catch you ehn....

luminouz:
Be calming down
Your blood too hot....long nose!!!

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