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I need your input on this as am about to make a decision.

felong:
I need your input on this as am about to make a decision.

Past is past forget it and move on. If you keep looking backwards you would never move forward in life.

It doesn't matter, but still shine Ur eye

asdfjklhaha:
Past is past forget it and move on. If you keep looking backwards you would never move forward in life.

past is a choice,if u know your past will haunt u in future,don't do it.

OP, it shouldn't matter because some people who are willing to change and become different, actually change.
Sometimes, it should matter. Because if someone can do something without thinking twice or fully considering the consequences, they might likely do it again.

So, honestly, it depends on the person.

asdfjklhaha:
Past is past forget it and move on. If you keep looking backwards you would never move forward in life.

Follow this advice if you are a fool.

My dear OP, a woman's past matters when hunting for a wife. And please don’t let anyone convince you otherwise.

Because when you choose a woman with a long list of past partners, you’re not just bringing her into your life. You’re bringing in the baggage, emotional scars, and unresolved issues from every relationship she’s ever had.

Sadly, a lot of men marry women who carry deep seated wounds from their past, and those wounds often resurface in their current relationship. She might be married to you, but her mind is still haunted by the ghosts of Obinna, Kunle, Ebuka, Shola, Segun, and every other man who left an imprint on her life. And when old traumas and unresolved issues come to light, you’ll be the one paying the price. If she’s had a string of partners, that means a trail of attachments, unresolved pain, and habits formed from each relationship. These things don’t just vanish because she’s met you.

So, if you’re faced with a woman who says, “Forget about my past,” please and please take a step back. Because body count isn’t just a number; it’s a history, and that history has shaped her into who she is today. Those experiences don’t just disappear; they linger, affecting her trust, her patience, her loyalty, and her ability to bond deeply. And that baggage...if it’s heavy enough, will weigh down your relationship, pierce your heart and tear your life into pieces.

Choose wisely!

janetakan:
OP, it shouldn't matter because some people who are willing to change and become different, actually change.
Sometimes, it should matter. Because if someone can do something without thinking twice or fully considering the consequences, they might likely do it again.

So, honestly, it depends on the person.

People never change, circumstances temporarily force them to put up an act that looks like they have changed. Whenever the circumstances change, they naturally go back to default. An olosho can close shop when she is in love or when she catches a man that provides all her needs financially and dicktually. When the man goes broke or loses his bed prowess, olosho will reopen her shop. Learn to study people and never ever overlook someone's past. Knowing their past will help you predict, prepare and handle your future with them if you believe you can.

asdfjklhaha:
Past is past forget it and move on. If you keep looking backwards you would never move forward in life.

Olosho spotted

Op even kids will laugh at you if you ask them this question.

People don’t really change.

She’ll still fold along the lines of her past tendencies.

Nonexisting1:
People never change, circumstances temporarily force them to put up an act that looks like they have changed. Whenever the circumstances change, they naturally go back to default. An olosho can close shop when she is in love or when she catches a man that provides all her needs financially and dicktually. When the man goes broke or loses his bed prowess, olosho will reopen her shop. Learn to study people and never ever overlook someone's past. Knowing their past will help you predict, prepare and handle your future with them if you believe you can.

Never say never, some people can change.

I have a couple of friends who have changed. Males and females from back then. Like I said, it depends on the person and their personality.

Gbadugbakun:
Olosho spotted

Have you slept with her before?

Has your father slept with her before? If no, then you are a very big fool.

felong:
I need your input on this as am about to make a decision.

It does matter. The truth is most things we are experiencing now are as a result of our past actions.
When you're trying to build life with someone and their past life is too much for you to handle, you should let them go.

felong:
I need your input on this as am about to make a decision.

Since Ur a fool. It doesn't matter. U need to suffer more

janetakan:
Have you slept with her before?

Has your father slept with her before? If no, then you are a very big fool.

You're a child of prostitution that's why you can easily abuse people's father. Your father is your mom's best customer. Night has come better leave Nairaland and enter brothel to hussle with your mother. Country is hard and no food for a lazy ashewo.

If you can't handle don't ask . You should also come out clean while asking

Gbadugbakun:
You're a child of prostitution that's why you can easily abuse people's father. Your father is your mom's best customer. Night has come better leave Nairaland and enter brothel to hussle with your mother. Country is hard and no food for a lazy ashewo.

Is that all?

I am too smart to be selling my body when I am way smarter than you and everyone in your miserable family.
I am also too much of a lover girl to be sharing my beautiful akwa ibom body.

But you, the proud son of a mad witch and a wretched armed robber. Shame!

Don't worry. Poverty will soon destroy you!
Rip wretched son of a nobody!

Gbadugbakun:
You're a child of prostitution that's why you can easily abuse people's father. Your father is your mom's best customer. Night has come better leave Nairaland and enter brothel to hussle with your mother. Country is hard and no food for a lazy ashewo.

Idiot! Bastard. He goat come and fight with your mother's breast!

Come and fight ooo. Bloody shoemaker

Gbadugbakun:
You're a child of prostitution that's why you can easily abuse people's father. Your father is your mom's best customer. Night has come better leave Nairaland and enter brothel to hussle with your mother. Country is hard and no food for a lazy ashewo.

Why are you hiding? I said come and fight.
Son of a he goat.
Come now! Foolish stupid animal.

Gbadugbakun:
You're a child of prostitution that's why you can easily abuse people's father. Your father is your mom's best customer. Night has come better leave Nairaland and enter brothel to hussle with your mother. Country is hard and no food for a lazy ashewo.

I said come out ND fight.
Stupid shoemaker. I just saw your profile picture, looking like something hiv rejected.

I see WWE SmackDown happening here...😂😂😂

janetakan:
I said come out ND fight.
Stupid shoemaker. I just saw your profile picture, looking like something hiv rejected.

I don't sleep with brothel hoes abeg. Carry your hiv infested body away from me.

asdfjklhaha:
Past is past forget it and move on. If you keep looking backwards you would never move forward in life.

my brothers if you listen to this advice, you're finished!

Listen and listen attentively! Women are born with value and men have to earn their value.
So, a man has to know a woman's past to know how she has reserved her value

where do these men appear from sef ..

Nazgul:
My dear OP, a woman's past matters when hunting for a wife. And please don’t let anyone convince you otherwise.

Because when you choose a woman with a long list of past partners, you’re not just bringing her into your life. You’re bringing in the baggage, emotional scars, and unresolved issues from every relationship she’s ever had.

Sadly, a lot of men marry women who carry deep seated wounds from their past, and those wounds often resurface in their current relationship. She might be married to you, but her mind is still haunted by the ghosts of Obinna, Kunle, Ebuka, Shola, Segun, and every other man who left an imprint on her life. And when old traumas and unresolved issues come to light, you’ll be the one paying the price. If she’s had a string of partners, that means a trail of attachments, unresolved pain, and habits formed from each relationship. These things don’t just vanish because she’s met you.

So, if you’re faced with a woman who says, “Forget about my past,” please and please take a step back. Because body count isn’t just a number; it’s a history, and that history has shaped her into who she is today. Those experiences don’t just disappear; they linger, affecting her trust, her patience, her loyalty, and her ability to bond deeply. And that baggage...if it’s heavy enough, will weigh down your relationship, pierce your heart and tear your life into pieces.

Choose wisely!

This is GOLDEN!!!

It doesn't matter until experience paternity fraud that's when you will know it matters.

Ladies with multiple sexual partners are less likely to pair bond with their new sexual partners because of their constant comparison with other dudes that has hit their G-sport.

malaria:
If you can't handle don't ask . You should also come out clean while asking

Until it gets to equality in financial contributions that's when equality is thrown out of the window

asdfjklhaha:
Past is past forget it and move on. If you keep looking backwards you would never move forward in life.

Until it gets to your son marrying a prostitute that's when your past matters. Women will always say their past doesn't matter when they put themselves in same scenario but if it's their male children they will never agree to same scenario . This is why men should never accept relationship advice from women

felong:
I need your input on this as am about to make a decision.

'"When a mad girl dance unclothed in the market square..." she is not bother about shame.'
A girl's past doesn't matter to her. She knows what she sow, and mentally prepared to reap.
"...It's her relatives that shame on her behalf!" So you that want to join business with a girl that has a questionable past, are you prepare to bear the shame and responsibilities of what you know nothing about?!
Only unwise people will plant coconuts but expect to reap banana - when the time to harvest come, it will not only matter, it will have weight and occupied space in your life. Albeit unprepare, unaware or innocent you are!

felong:
I need your input on this as am about to make a decision.

I made the mistake of ignoring her past. I almost paid with my life. I’m not saying yours will be the same though. But because of my experience I can never ignore a woman’s past. But our experience are different so follow ur heart

😂🤣🤣🤣

Funny people. After asking what they will gain from a relationship without sex, they are here, afraid of marrying the women whom their fellow men have given past because of their stubborn blokos that must test bearded meat.

Many of you will eat the left overs you positioned for each other by force. You think you're doing women when you collaborate to be sleeping with them and bragging about it amongst yourselves. Na your fellow man go marry am for house.