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There is this girl I am dating recently she has a very big ass she is just 20 and I am 30,as expected many guys are chasing her because of her ass and many of them have become her friends,some are her coursemates,some are her neighbors and some are just random guys toasting her but according to her she is dating none of them.these guys have being her friend of before I even knew her,as we are just 2 weeks into the relationship my plan is to first knack her now that the chemistry is hot and then make rules on how the relationship will be run,and one of the rules is that she will cut off from those male friends because I know their intentions which is to knack her and clean mouth.
but since I am matured I want a lady to settle with in a few years from now so I am giving every girl that comes into my life a chance to see if things will work out between us and I intend giving this one the chance but first I the jealous type I don't like guys touching my girl anyhow

Why you no cut off from her…

Wetin attract you na wetin attract others … enjoy while it. Last

Your plan is to knack her first then proceed to make rules for her. Osheyyyy dictator.. you're ten years older than her and this what you're thinking on a baby. May God forgive you.

Frigga13:
Why you no cut off from her…

Wetin attract you na wetin attract others … enjoy while it. Last

Naso easy?
Everyman naturally wants to monopolize his pussy we are territorial by nature

Skooltynz:
Naso easy?
Everyman naturally wants to monopolize his pussy we are territorial by nature

Enjoy it while it last…

At 30, na 20years old undergraduate you wan follow do serious relationship?


She'd prolly cheat on you with her mates later on but thats not the issue

She's never gonna offer you anything valuable and would always have excuses for being broke, cause of course, she's not working and she's a student.

There's always gonna be a reason to bill you, as per na student


If i were you, i'd not define the relationship and would never take her serious. We go just dey dey, we go knack and I no go bother about her friends.

Get serious with a working class lady abeg

EmperorCaesar:


At 30, na 20years old undergraduate you wan follow do serious relationship?


She'd prolly cheat on you with her mates later on but thats not the issue

She's never gonna offer you anything valuable and would always have excuses for being broke, cause of course, she's not working and she's a student.

There's always gonna be a reason to bill you, as per na student


If i were you, i'd not define the relationship and would never take her serious. We go just dey dey, we go knack and I no go bother about her friends.

Get serious with a working class lady abeg

Na my mates I go date before

Even working class babe seff dey bill

MadamVanessa:



Your plan is to knack her first then proceed to make rules for her. Osheyyyy dictator.. you're ten years older than her and this what you're thinking on a baby. May God forgive you.

A twenty year old girl is a grown woman already nothing baby for here even men older than me are after her too.

Skooltynz:
Na my mates I go date before

Even working class babe seff dey bill

You dont get me.

Working class dey bill but she go dey drop too. I dont go into a relationship with stingy women that are not ready to drop shi shi. Never came across one


Working class ladies have limited options than an undergraduate. Maybe a few colleagues and some bosses

Undergraduates get corpers, course mates, final year guys, and working class guys too. Na long thing you go dey

Plus, at 20, she no fit dey serious na

If you need a fling, stay with her… if you need something serious, leave her and go for someone between 24-27, these type know what they want weda working or undergraduate.

24-down just want to explore, they’re open to the highest bidder, the best knacker, the guy oda ladies gush about. You can’t use rule to keep a big nyash below the age of 24.

They’ll fvck and continue fvcking until they’re 24 and above, that’s when they start seeing the need to be serious in a relationship

20yrs undergraduate with big ukwu for naija university na him you won take serious wey busy body and puna go still dey scratch na him u think say only you go colonize..🙄

U neva serious.. when you serious u go tlk well.😏

Skooltynz:
There is this girl I am dating recently she has a very big ass she is just 20 and I am 30,as expected many guys are chasing her because of her ass and many of them have become her friends,some are her coursemates,some are her neighbors and some are just random guys toasting her but according to her she is dating none of them.these guys have being her friend of before I even knew her,as we are just 2 weeks into the relationship my plan is to first knack her now that the chemistry is hot and then make rules on how the relationship will be run,and one of the rules is that she will cut off from those male friends because I know their intentions which is to knack her and clean mouth.
but since I am matured I want a lady to settle with in a few years from now so I am giving every girl that comes into my life a chance to see if things will work out between us and I intend giving this one the chance but first I the jealous type I don't like guys touching my girl anyhow

Lol.

If you can not take the heat leave the kitchen.

No be force to date person wey get big yansh.

Besides, yansh or not every gal has many toasters.
Ugly or not.
Men want pussssy not face.
You know because you stay around.

If you stay far maybe u might not know.

Should u tell her??.....

Them dey tell girl wey dey Inlove hw to love??🫤🫤🫤🫤🫤

A girl dat love nd respect u wil automatically set boundaries in most stuffs she knows u won't be comfortable wit or wil get u upset

This op will definitely learn via the hard way,and that's just the bitter truth....

It's funny only you wanna personalize a 20 years old big nyash . Something wey boys suppose to dey pass around for hostel .

Guys been advising him not to take a 20 years undergraduate banny for a serious relationship, instead of him to listen and think about that with his head,but him preek no wan let am think far at all

Well,sorry to tell you this,but the truth is that no matter how you may want her to cut off your co-boyfriends,it won't work . Cuz she's currently in school, and she needs them for billing which only you can shoulder.........

God abeg oh

Skooltynz:
There is this girl I am dating recently she has a very big ass she is just 20 and I am 30,as expected many guys are chasing her because of her ass and many of them have become her friends,some are her coursemates,some are her neighbors and some are just random guys toasting her but according to her she is dating none of them.these guys have being her friend of before I even knew her,as we are just 2 weeks into the relationship my plan is to first knack her now that the chemistry is hot and then make rules on how the relationship will be run,and one of the rules is that she will cut off from those male friends because I know their intentions which is to knack her and clean mouth.
but since I am matured I want a lady to settle with in a few years from now so I am giving every girl that comes into my life a chance to see if things will work out between us and I intend giving this one the chance but first I the jealous type I don't like guys touching my girl anyhow

You want a 20 yrs gurl to cut off male attention at the period are existence validate on male attention

She is still in school and seriously expect her to dish all her male friend, for what ?? you that want to sharply knack her as e dey hot

From your submission, you have not even made up your mind she is the one you want to marry and you are already trying to dictate her life.

i have nothing to say to you, i just hope the gurl sees you for who you are

Skooltynz:
There is this girl I am dating recently she has a very big ass she is just 20 and I am 30,as expected many guys are chasing her because of her ass and many of them have become her friends,some are her coursemates,some are her neighbors and some are just random guys toasting her but according to her she is dating none of them.these guys have being her friend of before I even knew her,as we are just 2 weeks into the relationship my plan is to first knack her now that the chemistry is hot and then make rules on how the relationship will be run,and one of the rules is that she will cut off from those male friends because I know their intentions which is to knack her and clean mouth.
but since I am matured I want a lady to settle with in a few years from now so I am giving every girl that comes into my life a chance to see if things will work out between us and I intend giving this one the chance but first I the jealous type I don't like guys touching my girl anyhow

If u like use padlock lock the toto,,she go carry spare key willingly give one guy to unlock the toto ..

floss:
If you need a fling, stay with her… if you need something serious, leave her and go for someone between 24-27, these type know what they want weda working or undergraduate.

24-down just want to explore, they’re open to the highest bidder, the best knacker, the guy oda ladies gush about. You can’t use rule to keep a big nyash below the age of 24.

They’ll fvck and continue fvcking until they’re 24 and above, that’s when they start seeing the need to be serious in a relationship

so na 24-27 no Dey explore too? Una funny. Na those ones Dey do pass. They would date 5 men to see the one dat will marry them. See there is no manual to this thing. Just pray for a loyal one regardless of age

Well, to kick things off... From the way you're talking, you've already lost her.

You haven't knacked her and you're already "dating" WITHOUT any rules in place already. You're also clearly insecure... Talking about "I'm a jealous guy" A BIT of jealousy in a man is okay. But you sound like you're far into jealousy that you're insecure.


The first BIG mistake you made was dating her without knacking her. By now you should've knacked her more than 6 times before you even consider dating her. Also, relationship built mainly on chemical feelings barely last.

To add to that, it seems like you've already told her you don't like her having male friends. Because her saying "I knew them before you" shows you probably mentioned your displeasure with her having male friends.

Right now, that girl is probably getting dug out by her neighbour and/or coursemate. Once a woman realised you're not part of the secret inner circle she'll see you as someone she can manipulate. And you showed her you're not part or knowledgeable of that inner circle by dating her without knacking her consecutively.

Now, even if by chance I'm wrong and you've knacked her, you clearly do Not know her well enough and you certainly should have brought up such rules like this before "dating" her

Lastly, there's nothing wrong in her having male friends. What should happen once a girl starts dating you is that all male "friends" should and must be converted to acquaintances. It's delusional and irresponsible to think a girl should cut off her male friends because of you.

What should happen is that all male friends are now acquaintances. Meaning, she'll create boundaries. It doesn't mean she'll stop talking to them. But she (alongside you) must create boundaries and she must keep to it

If she's known you long enough,knows you don't joke with your boundaries, is deeply in love, devoted and invested you... it won't be an issue for her(because you're in charge of her mind & body)....

She'll be happy to do it and cut off/ignore any guy that doesn't respect the boundaries of your relationship

Anything, short of that... and she loses her gf position.

In conclusion, go back to the drawing board and fix your mistakes... if you proceed this way... you'll end up losing her

A lot of men here come with redpill and act like they Know it all. Firstly there is no manual to a girl you would date and how she would act. I have met a 20 year old lady that graduated has a virgin and stayed till marriage has a virgin.

I have also seen a 26 year old that was still sleeping arround. Currently married women are sleeping arround causing a lot of DNA saga. Been promiscus has nothing to do with age. It is just the nature of the individual.

So firstly you need to talk to her about marriage, is she ready for an early marriage.

If she is, then she would consider setting boundaries for you.

If she is not ready for an early marriage please just knack and go.

No matter what you do, she would cheat on you because she is in her exploration stage of life.

So right now if you have an opportunity to knack her, please do. That gives you some leverage.

Women are emotionally attached to sex, except the prostitutes that sleep with random men.

Better be fast about knacking her. Since that your plan in the first place

You must be high on the premium Indian hemp trying to tame a 20 years old girl with big ass…

There are things you don't tell a woman you're dating to do for you, one of them is to cut of her male friends. She would do that on her own if she respects you, same with accepting gifts for certain males. Likewise men, when you are committed to someone, you let go of side attractions 😂 😂 😂 😂.

Skooltynz:
There is this girl I am dating recently she has a very big ass she is just 20 and I am 30,as expected many guys are chasing her because of her ass and many of them have become her friends,some are her coursemates,some are her neighbors and some are just random guys toasting her but according to her she is dating none of them.these guys have being her friend of before I even knew her,as we are just 2 weeks into the relationship my plan is to first knack her now that the chemistry is hot and then make rules on how the relationship will be run,and one of the rules is that she will cut off from those male friends because I know their intentions which is to knack her and clean mouth.
but since I am matured I want a lady to settle with in a few years from now so I am giving every girl that comes into my life a chance to see if things will work out between us and I intend giving this one the chance but first I the jealous type I don't like guys touching my girl anyhow

If ur story is not hallucination, the ass girl is general pipe borne water, for who is thirsty and know how to unlock it,......
no girl will tell you she is dating any of numerous guys swarming around her territory.

Tallesty1:
There are things you don't tell a woman you're dating to do for you, one of them is to cut of her male friends. She would do that on her own if she respects you, same with accepting gifts for certain males. Likewise men, when you are committed to someone, you let go of side attractions 😂 😂 😂 😂.

You think that? Some ladies! Infact, many ladies don't know that, 'specific rule' again, in relationships.

The rule has long been abandoned by women.

Fiscus105:
You think that? Some ladies, infact, many ladies, don't know that specific rule again in relationship.

The rule has long been abandoned by women.

Every woman knows that rule. Application of it is dependent on who they are dating or married to. People would test you, if you allow them, they carry on with the bullshii. The girl too doesn't rate OP, but he doesn't know it (yet).

Skooltynz:
There is this girl I am dating recently she has a very big ass she is just 20 and I am 30,as expected many guys are chasing her because of her ass and many of them have become her friends,some are her coursemates,some are her neighbors and some are just random guys toasting her but according to her she is dating none of them.these guys have being her friend of before I even knew her,as we are just 2 weeks into the relationship my plan is to first knack her now that the chemistry is hot and then make rules on how the relationship will be run,and one of the rules is that she will cut off from those male friends because I know their intentions which is to knack her and clean mouth.
but since I am matured I want a lady to settle with in a few years from now so I am giving every girl that comes into my life a chance to see if things will work out between us and I intend giving this one the chance but first I the jealous type I don't like guys touching my girl anyhow

Bro, it sounds like you're trying to mix military dictatorship with romantic chemistry. First "knack" her, then lay down the constitution? My guy, love is not FIFA Career Mode—you can't just set "Player Transfers: OFF" after you've signed her.

Also, jealousy is natural, but trying to outlaw her male friends like you're the President of Her Social Life will backfire. Focus on building trust, not drafting your version of "The Boyfriend Commandments." Plus, if you think all her male friends want to "knack and clean mouth," are you sure you trust her judgment in the first place?

Lastly, you're 30; she's 20. Let her breathe. You’ve got wisdom; use it. Don’t rush to "knack"; build vibes first. If the relationship is solid, no random toaster will stand a chance. But if you try to rule her world, she’ll hand you a resignation letter from your own relationship!

Unpopular opinion: he is just a friend dey collect doggy pass my boo for life 🤣🤣🤣

🤣🤣👋🤣👋

You are 30... Want to knack person wey fit be your sister....

You are shaaaammmeeelesssss

The mindset of a baby dating a fellow baby thinking they are adults.