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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Passionate1(m): 9:11pm On Nov 30, 2024

Nazgul:
No lady is single. You either collect her from someone or someone would collect her from you.

The rule of the thumb is never to ask a girl if she's in a relationship. Just keep vibing with her. If she's into you, she'll start giving whoever she's with attitude until she's breaks up with him and becomes fully committed to you.

Can u trust d bitch u snatched from another guy?

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by ukaface(f): 9:32pm On Nov 30, 2024

Rearealki:
I have been single for a while.

Most ladies I approach are either in a relationship or they are married. I end up getting disappointed.
I have observed that most ladies 20 or above are in a relationship.

I dont even see single ladies

The only single lady I found was so rude and disrespectful. I had to abort any relationship because it the thing I can never tolerate.

Single ladies plenty
Maybe they don’t like you

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by zumbigbo(m): 9:36pm On Nov 30, 2024

Get yourself to the US, plenty puna there.

Most of those Yankee brodas are in jail or gay.

Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Babaalajo(m): 9:38pm On Nov 30, 2024

The girls and woman are around you but the one you like no like you that's the issue,you will see the ones that admire you but maybe she's not that beautiful you'll just look away... relationship nowadays is like a game and not based on true love anymore,if you want to date a beautiful girl now you have to check your pocket first...if you truly need a wife just commot your mind for beautiful girls because na highest bidder dem dey follow...

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by flokii: 9:42pm On Nov 30, 2024

How good is your communication skill?.. there are ways you'd approach people and instantly they'd like you.
Giving compliments to looks, dress, beauty etc. will win you admiration. Don't let me give you OT for free.

Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by flokii: 9:47pm On Nov 30, 2024

osazsky:
The right question should be ..why can't I get a virgin girl friend to date..if she is not a virgin why are u wasting ur time on a hole...pls pls if u can't find a virgin to date stop disturbing us..all non virgin Nigeria girls are useless especially the Yoruba dirty ones

Are there still virgin girls above 18 yrs in Nigeria?. I doubt
If you go with the mentality of 'I must find virgin'.. you go old before you see wife marry

Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Mariangeles(f): 9:54pm On Nov 30, 2024*

Nazgul:
No lady is single. You either collect her from someone or someone would collect her from you.

The rule of the thumb is never to ask a girl if she's in a relationship. Just keep vibing with her. If she's into you, she'll start giving whoever she's with attitude until she's breaks up with him and becomes fully committed to you.

That is risky.
You could be setting yourself up to get played.

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Goldplucker(m): 9:59pm On Nov 30, 2024

Most times, I ponder if these things really happens or it’s just another written context for comments.

They’re a 1000 and one lady on the earth, single searching and looking for someone who can call their own.

My question is what kind of a lady are you looking for?
When you said all the ones you’re meeting are married or in a relationship I laughed at that cos I believe you sit at a spot and think or feel like I should ask this one I see out?!

Well, I suggest you go out to parks, eatery or an outdoor space; bar or hotel. Talk to a random stranger and pick up a friendship with them

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by OfeAchi: 9:59pm On Nov 30, 2024

ukaface:
Single ladies plenty
Maybe they don’t like you

And he is probably an ugly, unkempt fellow with uncouth odor

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Joshchi19(m): 10:08pm On Nov 30, 2024

Nazgul:
No lady is single. You either collect her from someone or someone would collect her from you.

The rule of the thumb is never to ask a girl if she's in a relationship. Just keep vibing with her. If she's into you, she'll start giving whoever she's with attitude until she's breaks up with him and becomes fully committed to you.

Risky! Unless you don't want to settle down with her

Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by folake4u: 10:13pm On Nov 30, 2024

Nazgul:
Bro. Unless you're dating a girl within the age bracket of 16-23. Those are the ones that can waste your time and resources.

But any girl you meet who's above 25 in today's Nigeria, she visits you, sees your place, knows you have a sustainable job...etc.. My brother, you won't spend a dime on her, she's the one who would start planning to build a future with you.

Girls aren't stupid o.

Seriously Naz?

This reasoning of yours is flawed.

Firstly, why would you add the age of 16? Pray tell, what are you doing with a child at that age? The legal status of an adult in Nigeria remains 18 and above, 21 in some other jurisdictions.

In addition, just because a guy has a job and nice place, a lady starts making future plans with him? What planet are you from? Pluto, I suppose.

Why wouldn't "he" want to spend a dime on the lady? God abeg oh.

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by folake4u: 10:17pm On Nov 30, 2024

Nazgul:
No lady is single. You either collect her from someone or someone would collect her from you.

The rule of the thumb is never to ask a girl if she's in a relationship. Just keep vibing with her. If she's into you, she'll start giving whoever she's with attitude until she's breaks up with him and becomes fully committed to you.

Lol. You could get played and this is very risky.

I find this disrespectful too.

If you indeed date a woman who dumped her relationship for you, would you trust her enough not to leave you too?

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Nefort: 10:19pm On Nov 30, 2024

Zonefree:
I want to believe your last line is a joke, right?

Planning to build a future with someone because he has a nice house and sustainable job is the highest form of stupidity.

Oga shut up. He listed those things and then added ETC. Which means he only listed part of the things that matters.

Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by spiceadole(f): 10:34pm On Nov 30, 2024

Rearealki:
I have been single for a while.

Most ladies I approach are either in a relationship or they are married. I end up getting disappointed.
I have observed that most ladies 20 or above are in a relationship.

I dont even see single ladies

The only single lady I found was so rude and disrespectful. I had to abort any relationship because it the thing I can never tolerate.

Unbelievable that a man can sound this concerned,even passing off as being worried because of inability to be in a relationship with a Nigerian woman.

Same women you men detest and classify as devils, labelling unprintable names especially on social media..this platform,inclusive.

Wonderful something

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Nnamdipapa(m): 10:38pm On Nov 30, 2024

Go to church and share a testimony of how you got a contract of N30m. You will come thank me later. On a serious note, I have never asked a lady out all my life. We just gravitate towards each other as I am a shy person who hates to be rejected so I never asked. I have had about three different ladies who asked me out and who was I to say no.

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Nazgul: 10:55pm On Nov 30, 2024

folake4u:
Lol. You could get played and this is very risky.

I find this disrespectful too.

If you indeed date a woman who dumped her relationship for you, would you trust her enough not to leave you too?

Let me be real with you...

Unless a guy meets a girl as a virgin, she's definitely leaving someone for him.

Besides, every girl has someone she talks to, she might not be sleeping with him, but it's impossible to see any female who doesn't have a male in her life.

How far the relationship would go would depend on her loyalty and commitment towards the new guy.

Expecting to meet a girl who has no man in her life and talks to no one isn't real.

This is how most males on this forum think.

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Cree: 10:56pm On Nov 30, 2024

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Omalicious1: 11:28pm On Nov 30, 2024

Rearealki:
I have been single for a while.

Most ladies I approach are either in a relationship or they are married. I end up getting disappointed.
I have observed that most ladies 20 or above are in a relationship.

I dont even see single ladies

The only single lady I found was so rude and disrespectful. I had to abort any relationship because it the thing I can never tolerate.

I would rather suggest that you focus on self development, na them go even dey approach you and swear that they're single.

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Afolue(m): 11:32pm On Nov 30, 2024

Dey attend weekly services for most of these Pentecostal churches that doesn’t instill dress code on their members. You see them Wella…

Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Afolue(m): 11:40pm On Nov 30, 2024

folake4u:
Seriously Naz?

This reasoning of yours is flawed.

Firstly, why would you add the age of 16? Pray tell, what are you doing with a child at that age? The legal status of an adult in Nigeria remains 18 and above, 21 in some other jurisdictions.

In addition, just because a guy has a job and nice place, a lady starts making future plans with him? What planet are you from? Pluto, I suppose.

Why wouldn't "he" want to spend a dime on the lady? God abeg oh.

But some of our great grand parents and grandparents were at the age of 16 when they had their 1st child. If not that this generation eye don too open, everybody wan go school. Am not saying it’s bad going to school but everyone should have the right to make their choices. 16 to me is so cute for marriage. Na govt approve 18. Biologically she isn’t immature or underaged. If I have my way I will opt for that age!

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by folake4u: 11:41pm On Nov 30, 2024

Nazgul:
Let me be real with you...

Unless a guy meets a girl as a virgin, she's definitely leaving someone for him.

Besides, every girl has someone she talks to, she might not be sleeping with him, but it's impossible to see any female who doesn't have a male in her life.

How far the relationship would go would depend on her loyalty and commitment towards the new guy.

Expecting to meet a girl who has no man in her life and talks to no one isn't real.

This is how most males on this forum think.

And what makes it impossible to see any female who don't have a male in their life?? There are lots of people just existing and doing things they love, excluding their love life.

Lol. Loyalty and commitment towards the new guy? Okay. But didn't she give it also to the previous guy?

Issokay.

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by LEXYLOV: 12:08am On Dec 01, 2024

MANY THANKS TO BRO NAZGUL AND BABAALAJO. BOTH OF THEM REALLY KNEW THE GAME WELLA.
quote author=Babaalajo post=133108736]The girls and woman are around you but the one you like no like you that's the issue,you will see the ones that admire you but maybe she's not that beautiful you'll just look away... relationship nowadays is like a game and not based on true love anymore,if you want to date a beautiful girl now you have to check your pocket first...if you truly need a wife just commot your mind for beautiful girls because na highest bidder dem dey follow...[/quote]

Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by pocohantas(f): 1:32am On Dec 01, 2024

spiceadole:
Unbelievable that a man can sound this concerned,even passing off as being worried because of inability to be in a relationship with a Nigerian woman.

Same women you men detest and classify as devils, labelling unprintable names especially on social media..this platform,inclusive.

Wonderful something

When things don't go their way, they start crying all over social media. But here they are advising a bro on how to snatch another person's babe for marriage. All this effort for an institution they claim doesn't benefit men.

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Stayingalive: 2:05am On Dec 01, 2024

Zonefree:
I want to believe your last line is a joke, right?

Planning to build a future with someone because he has a nice house and sustainable job is the highest form of stupidity.

Nd what exactly is a joke there?

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Autobot05: 3:27am On Dec 01, 2024

Nazgul:
No lady is single. You either collect her from someone or someone would collect her from you.

The rule of the thumb is never to ask a girl if she's in a relationship. Just keep vibing with her. If she's into you, she'll start giving whoever she's with attitude until she's breaks up with him and becomes fully committed to you.

Lmao so she wasn’t fully committed to the other guy 🤡

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Ynix(m): 3:38am On Dec 01, 2024

Rearealki:
I have been single for a while.

Most ladies I approach are either in a relationship or they are married. I end up getting disappointed.
I have observed that most ladies 20 or above are in a relationship.

I dont even see single ladies

The only single lady I found was so rude and disrespectful. I had to abort any relationship because it the thing I can never tolerate.

Even if you are getting old, forget girls, focus on yourself, you mindset, learn how to be strategic in every area of your life, develop good social skills. Girls are like fishes you don't catch them by hunting you catch them by being smart

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by nasbiafra(m): 3:41am On Dec 01, 2024

just go celibate and be a priest if the this relationship thing no favour you. grin

Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Mvena(f): 5:25am On Dec 01, 2024

You sound so desperate though, looking at all your posts.. Please make money, focus on yourself and the rest will sort itself out

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Juliearth(f): 5:28am On Dec 01, 2024

Rearealki:
I have been single for a while.

Most ladies I approach are either in a relationship or they are married. I end up getting disappointed.
I have observed that most ladies 20 or above are in a relationship.

I dont even see single ladies

The only single lady I found was so rude and disrespectful. I had to abort any relationship because it the thing I can never tolerate.

Don't be overtly anxious. There are more single women that those committed. It is only a matter of time before you touch base.

Also, don't be too hasty so you don't marry your nightmare. The next single person you date might not be the one and also the next... keep trying until you meet her.

All the best!

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Juliearth(f): 5:30am On Dec 01, 2024

Sonnobax15:

Don't be too desperate bro.....

For sure there are still good bannies out there... Just that it's very unfortunate and saddening that the wayward ones exceed the good ones...And that's just the sad reality about relationship of nowadays....

Na why I still dey manage my own be that,cuz leaving her,and thinking I'd find someone better than her is a riisk I don't wanna take....

I think you are in the same boat as the op. You can manage a flat tyre better than you can manage a dysfunctional relationship.

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by Juliearth(f): 5:31am On Dec 01, 2024

Mrwhite09:
80% probability that u broke or struggling guy. if you are financially okay 80% of Nigerian girls are single

It is easier for a broke dude to meet a legit partner than a rich dude.

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Re: Why Can't I Get A Good Girl To Date by tochez24(m): 5:38am On Dec 01, 2024

Nazgul:
No lady is single. You either collect her from someone or someone would collect her from you.

The rule of the thumb is never to ask a girl if she's in a relationship. Just keep vibing with her. If she's into you, she'll start giving whoever she's with attitude until she's breaks up with him and becomes fully committed to you.

Nigerian girls NEVER commit to a man... They keep juggling the vaginas to different guys until they become pregnant and look for the richest among them to hang the pregnancy on⚠️

.... Only to continue their whoredom in marriage🙄

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