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Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by Omoawoke(op): 6:25pm On Dec 03, 2024
Like wtf

I avoid anything female friends, either we are chopping ourself or please distant yourself.

Even the so called independent girls and working class, the moment they start laughing with you and start chatting you, next is to make demand one way or the other.
I have family and less privileged people to gift my hard earned money.
Worst of all, these girls dey work and collecting salary and some get boyfriends sef. Yet all they know is to find one way or the other to collect! Collect ! Collect collect !!

We aren’t dating, we aren’t smashing, what gives you the entitlement to think I owe you a cent?
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by Omoawoke(op): 6:27pm On Dec 03, 2024
We all go out as a group and you automatically assume I should cover your bills, and when I don’t you say I’m stingy.
As long as my gbola is not harvesting your kpekus and you aren’t my wife nor girlfriend. I don’t owe you shishi. You naija girls should get that to your skulls

You get your own job, I no ask you out, but suddenly you need me to buy you gifts

Girls? Why is it hard for you to remove money from your pocket and spend. What exactly are you girls using your money to do?
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by Sonnobax15(m):
lipsrsealed
In as much as we all know you're saying nothing but the truth but there's also one thing I'd like to clearify which is--"Not all Nigerian bannies are like that bro". Personally,I've got a lot of female friends whom I bill and they always turn up for me whenever I'm down.......

Well, just like you just said,op: Nigerian bannies can do better, than seeing any guy who just wanna be their friends as a point-and-kill maga angry
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by Omoawoke(op): 6:35pm On Dec 03, 2024
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
In as much as we all know you're saying nothing but the truth but there's also one thing I'd like to clearify which is--"Not all Nigerian bannies are like that bro". Personally,I've got a lot of female friends whom I bill and they always turn for me whenever I'm down.......

Well, just like you just said,op: Nigerian bannies can do better, than seeing any guy who just wanna be their friends as a point-and-kill maga angry
The percentage is soo low

I am not even talking of girls that don’t have money, I’m talking of girls earning well yet so entitled. Looking for free cash l, gifts, favor
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by Natbrowny: 6:36pm On Dec 03, 2024
MEN.

2 things to do with a female

F*ck ursefs
Be a business partner

Try n be friends with zero benefits and GET USED.
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by Sonnobax15(m): 6:37pm On Dec 03, 2024
Omoawoke:
The percentage is soo low

I am not even talking of girls that don’t have money, I’m talking of girls earning well yet so entitled. Looking for free cash l, gifts, favor
. Well, Nigerian bannies are naturally gifted with entitlement mentality....So you're damn right bro..
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by Omoawoke(op): 6:38pm On Dec 03, 2024
Sonnobax15:
. Well, Nigerian bannies are naturally gifted with entitlement mentality....So you're damn right bro..
And the most entitled ones are even the so called independent ladies, the working class.. entitled and fivking demanding. I am beginning to lock many of them off

Small chit chat, small sharing of meme and reels on instagram, next thing is December is here oo, my baiday is here oo… on my own birthday, na only message them send me but want a gift for theirs
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by thesicilian: 6:56pm On Dec 03, 2024
If we're just friends and you start asking me for money as if I'm your boyfriend, I too will start treating you like my girlfriend
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by Solofresh2: 8:14pm On Dec 03, 2024
Most of these ladies nowadays are looking for who to leech on either they are broke or not.They have now seen it as a normal thing.And once you give them, they will look for ways to finish you.Sleeping with them should not even be a form of compensations because you don't know what disease and virus they carry down there.Some of them will have it but it won't show on them but the moment you carry this virus as a man, only the grace of God can save you.
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by Ki11YurSev: 8:42pm On Dec 03, 2024
Na so your sisters(Nigeria
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by Loveenthed: 9:10pm On Dec 03, 2024
Omoawoke:
Like wtf

I avoid anything female friends, either we are chopping ourself or please distant yourself.

Even the so called independent girls and working class, the moment they start laughing with you and start chatting you, next is to make demand one way or the other.
I have family and less privileged people to gift my hard earned money.
Worst of all, these girls dey work and collecting salary and some get boyfriends sef. Yet all they know is to find one way or the other to collect! Collect ! Collect collect !!

We aren’t dating, we aren’t smashing, what gives you the entitlement to think I owe you a cent?
All these shouting you are shouting is nothing. It's just like pouring water into a basketgrin

Everything has a pattern and process.

Have you sat down and ask yourself this good question "How and why do Nigerian Ladies/Women exhibit such behavior"?

For every Act you see humans showcasing on earth, There are Enablers.

If i were you, I will channel the frustration towards majority of Nigerian men who can spend their last card on anything that has greasy hole even without them asking for the money in some casesgrin

An Average Nigerian man sees himself as NOTHING without Money and Material Things.
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by Omoawoke(op): 10:26pm On Dec 03, 2024
Loveenthed:
All these shouting you are shouting is nothing. It's just like pouring water into a basketgrin

Everything has a pattern and process.

Have you sat down and ask yourself this good question "How and why do Nigerian Ladies/Women exhibit such behavior"?

For every Act you see humans showcasing on earth, There are Enablers.

If i were you, I will channel the frustration towards majority of Nigerian men who can spend their last card on anything that has greasy hole even without them asking for the money in some casesgrin

An Average Nigerian man sees himself as NOTHING without Money and Material Things.
Some men believe the only way to win a woman is through money. Lack of self awareness, self dignity and self worth
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by MMempire(m): 6:53am On Dec 04, 2024
Leeches everywhere.
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by EmperorCaesar(m): 11:23am On Dec 04, 2024
cheesy
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by meobizy(m): 12:40pm On Sep 13, 2025
Change the women you roll with or stay alone. I’m doing the latter with zero regret.
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by Mariangeles(f): 1:37pm On Sep 13, 2025
meobizy:
Change the women you roll with or stay alone. I’m doing the latter with zero regret.
You got tired of identifying as a female? undecided

Ediko5 took over where you left off.
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by PerfectStranger(m):
If we not business or work partners I can never subscribe to that. Keep your curny friendship to yourself.
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by Nobody: 1:56pm On Sep 13, 2025
Mariangeles:
You got tired of identifying as a female? undecided

Ediko5 took over where you left off.
I changed my gender to female to show my solidarity with our women.

I love women that's why I'm always dishing out advice for their betterment.
Re: Nigerian Girls, You Can Be A Female Friend To A Guy Without Asking For Money by Nobody: 2:04pm On Sep 13, 2025
Reason why I rarely view, comment or react to girl's social media status or even say Hi.

You say Hi to a female friend you're not knac __ king, after exchange of pleasantries, the next word from her is for you to buy her breakfast, lunch or she's hungry, I mean most of this gender are very shameless.

You react to a birthday status with 'Happy Birthday's they reply with bank account details. What a disgrace
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