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You are happily married for four years with two kids. All of a sudden, you lost your job. In no time, you start noticing strange behaviour from your wife.

Lo and behold, you were opportuned to snoop on your Wife's phone and you find out that the money she has been using to Cater for your home's welfare was sent to her by her male lover who engages in sexual fantasies with her.

My question now is...can you forgive her...?

If I forgive her,make my keke engine knock

Yes

She tried for not kicking you out...

Sexual fantasies does not mean that they actually had sex, why then should you be angry

If i forgive her make my gbola no work again......... forgive fire

Happily Married..........

With two beautiful kids.......

DNA......DNA..........


Do not touch my phone......Pls respect my privacy na Scam

Stay away from your spouse phone........There is always something implicating in that phone.

illicit:
Yes

She tried for not kicking you out...

But the man had been taking good care of the home until hé lost his job.

Let's not forget that it's abormination for a married woman living under the roof of her husband, to commit such a Sin.

sam121:
But the man had been taking good care of the home until hé lost his job.

Yeah

She did what she had to do


Or else they will all die of ulcer and homeless

SamuraiXXX:
Sexual fantasies does not mean that they actually had sex, why then should you be angry

There were sexual encounters according to the evidence found in her chats with her lover.

It simply means

Even when there was money
She had been cheating

Sirmwill:
It simply means

Even when there was money
She had been cheating

Nice point you have there..

I want to guess she has no work. You and your kids are getting fed with what money?

Why do you guys get disturbed by sex!

Forgive her. You received help and you are sad!
I will tatoo her name in my heart. She is the best!

tommy589:
I want to guess she has no work. You and your kids are getting fed with what money?

She has a Business. That's why the husband didn't suspect her taking care of the home's welfare, until he saw her chats with her lover man.

Love800:
Why do you guys get disturbed by sex!

Forgive her. You received help and you are sad!
I will tatoo her name in my heart. She is the best!

So you will advise your wife to bed Men in exchange for money under your roof...?

Did i advice her to sex men for gaining money in return?
I send her out to go engage men?

sam121:
So you will advise your wife to bed Men in exchange for money under your roof...?

sam121:
She has a Business. That's why the husband didn't suspect her taking care of the home's welfare, until he saw her chats with her lover man.

If he has no supportive friends or family to lean on,he should be patient until he is back on his feet

I don't talk much, but that day is the day the thing we called union is going to end and her bags thrown out.

If I forgive her

Make I no see the next day

tommy589:
If he has no supportive friends or family to lean on,he should be patient until he is back on his feet

You have a point there, but you know there is this African belief that when an adultrous woman cooks food for her husband with the money she made through such ways, it reduces the man's life.

Why is it that when the going gets tough for most women, the first thing they do is to start mining clitocurrency? ...

Sheybi they have brains, why don't they work? ...

Listen to me men, the fact that the only thing a woman can do when things gets tough is to spread her legs like bama on bread is proof that she's not worth being with AT ALL! ...

This isn't just about the fact that she cheated, it's the mindset that sponsors such actions at that time ...

illicit:
Yeah

She did what she had to do


Or else they will all die of ulcer and homeless

Typical way to not hold adults responsible for their actions. People like you are the ones encouraging people never to be accountable for once. So for the husband who lost his job is justified to come to your house to rub with a gun because he lost his job just as the wife is justified by you for allegedly committing adultery with sex for money because she is jobless isn't it? The way old men dey think e dey weak me.

idahme:
Typical way to not hold adults responsible for their actions. People like you are the ones encouraging people never to be accountable for once. So for the husband who lost his job is justified to come to your house to rub with a gun because he lost his job just as the wife is justified by you for allegedly committing adultery with sex for money because she is jobless isn't it? The way old men dey think e dey weak me.

Haha

How is armed robbery and adultery the same crime


Nawa to u o

😳

Forgiveness is a sin

sam121:
But the man had been taking good care of the home until hé lost his job.

Let's not forget that it's abormination for a married woman living under the roof of her husband, to commit such a Sin.

many of u know nothing about life n I pray life doesn't happen to u

When u are in d lowest of low of life u will see things but lock up cos u don't have d power to fight it n even after u get up on your feet u will also think about d good days she sacrificed for u

There are something's called couples secret that only them know about but I guess it's easy to form hard man on d internet

tommy589:
If he has no supportive friends or family to lean on,he should be patient until he is back on his feet

God bless u

sam121:
You have a point there, but you know there is this African belief that when an adultrous woman cooks food for her husband with the money she made through such ways, it reduces the man's life.

when shit hits d fan u will forget African belief

African belief that can't help u out at your lowest low

illicit:
Haha

How is armed robbery and adultery the same crime


Nawa to u o

😳

Ask this question to your niece or nephew you go understand how dull you be.

A Man can not do prostitution or use adultery as a means to obtaining money from people but a woman can and a woman cannot use armed robbery to obtaining money from people but a man can

Only a wise man can correlate between the two and they have high linear correlation. They are all vices for obtaining money which are antithetical to societal development so what are you saying? As a dull dude that you are you will say oh women can also rub too and men can also do prostitution too , I'm not talking about exceptions but the generality of what happens in the society. The vice of prostitution to women is same as the vice of armed robbery to men this is why I see prostitutes or a woman who engaged in money for sex as filthy and not capable to stand in my presence same as others too.

idahme:
Ask this question to your niece or nephew you go understand how dull you be.

A Man can not do prostitution or use adultery as a means to obtaining money from people but a woman can and a woman cannot use armed robbery to obtaining money from people but a man can

Only a wise man can correlate between the two and they have high linear correlation. They are all vices for obtaining money which are antithetical to societal development so what are you saying? As a dull dude that you are you will say oh women can also rub too and men can also do prostitution too , I'm not talking about exceptions but the generality of what happens in the society. The vice of prostitution to women is same as the vice of armed robbery to men this is why I see prostitutes or a woman who engaged in money for sex as filthy and not capable to stand in my presence same as others too.

Ok I give up

Adultery and robbery is the same crime in your smart world...


Olodo


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idahme:
Ask this question to your niece or nephew you go understand how dull you be.

A Man can not do prostitution or use adultery as a means to obtaining money from people but a woman can and a woman cannot use armed robbery to obtaining money from people but a man can

Only a wise man can correlate between the two and they have high linear correlation. They are all vices for obtaining money which are antithetical to societal development so what are you saying? As a dull dude that you are you will say oh women can also rub too and men can also do prostitution too , I'm not talking about exceptions but the generality of what happens in the society. The vice of prostitution to women is same as the vice of armed robbery to men this is why I see prostitutes or a woman who engaged in money for sex as filthy and not capable to stand in my presence same as others too.

leave that guy e dey catch cruise

you are not making sense guy,i feel like throwing a punch to your face, ordinary shisha wey my gf smoke i don dey reconsider,you come dey talk of cheating

Goodnewsforlife:
many of u know nothing about life n I pray life doesn't happen to u

When u are in d lowest of low of life u will see things but lock up cos u don't have d power to fight it n even after u get up on your feet u will also think about d good days she sacrificed for u

There are something's called couples secret that only them know about but I guess it's easy to form hard man on d internet

Act as if you don't know