₦airaland Forum

Onegai:

Alright coward? 👍
Or is it old hag with a mug so ugly she's like a bulldog chewing a wasp too scared to show that face that looks like a slapped ass on a video call and be proven wrong you deluded CuNT

Banned for a grand total of 3 hours 🤣🤣

Fenrir:
No thanks, dont drink grape juice, mead and German beer are better 😉

German beer is it then! Send the 6 or 12 packs in

armyofone:
German beer is it then! Send the 6 or 12 packs in

6 or 12? Mate im European we buy by the crate and thats 24

Fenrir:
6 or 12? Mate im European we buy by the crate and thats 24

24 crates then...actually make it 48

armyofone:
24 crates then...actually make it 48

From my experience you guys cant handle alcohol but id love to see you try and keep up, you'd be one and done on first night of oktoberfest

I miss a good skål, all are welcome take a chair there is plenty ale to share
Skål
Skål
SKÅL

Fenrir:
Why? When my white uncircumcised, fully tattooed and pierced gbola fills her perfectly

Werey 🤣🤣

Fenrir:
I love Nigeria the culture, food (not the cow skin its fucking dog treat) the music, the dancing, the beautiful areas, the fun and dynamic people and all Muslims in the world Nigerian ones dont Bleep with me because they understand the difference between me a wolf and your men fucking spaniels

The 2 things i hate about your country is the religious ABUSE because you do value religion over education its ridiculous you pray and worship in school your not secular your pretend secular

The selfish and greedy wedding process, what right do your fathers and uncles have to try and demand we get on our stomachs and beg to marry its mentally deranged 1 tribe of 50 million people in a world of nearly 9 billion believe they should be thanked for raising their fucking child, a child is result of your choices and your actions you owe the child everything and the child owes you nothing

A home
Food
Clothing
Medical
Education
Entertainment
Holidays

If you cannot provide that the bare minimum without expecting thanks or making that child feel guilty you dont deserve to breed and your balls should be removed

And dont get me started on kneeling for the blessings for all other tribes its just fucking bigoted

It is cultural. Every ethnic group and race have their own sets of cultures and we have to respect them, no matter how strange they may seem to us as individuals

Fenrir:
From my experience you guys cant handle alcohol but id love to see you try and keep up, you'd be one and done on first night of oktoberfest

Don't let Tiv people read this. Those folks are walking brewries

Ishilove:
It is cultural. Every ethnic group and race have their own sets of cultures and we have to respect them, no matter how strange they may seem to us as individuals

Not true asshole when you come to marry European women we dont demand you do anything because your not us

Real respect is understanding interracial means intercultural and when we come to Nigeria only 6% actually do your bullshit

Introduction yes, bride price yes, but thats it you see marriage and life after are more important then the childlike egos of your fathers and uncles

Fenrir:
Not true asshole when you come to marry European women we dont demand you do anything because your not us

Real respect is understanding interracial means intercultural and when we come to Nigeria only 6% actually do your bullshit

Introduction yes, bride price yes, but thats it you see marriage and life after are more important then the childlike egos of your fathers and uncles

You are very ill mannered. Since you lack the capacity to engage in civil discourse on social media like your neanderthal ancestors, I must insist you fvck off forever.

Ishilove:
You are very ill mannered. Since you lack the capacity to engage in civil discourse on social media like your neanderthal ancestors, I must insist you fvck off forever.

You should know by now that there are trolls that are on Nairaland to advance certain interests.

Wahala o.


Called someone a fool, called another an asshole. All unprovoked.


Because he has thrown a bunch of high-falutin "social marker and status" word salad around now, everyone assumed the girl in question is with him because of that and he's a catch.


When he's clearly a walking, flashing neon sign. At 39 at that. A God-hating single father. I CANNOT imagine what someone in proximity to him will be experiencing seeing how repulsed I am by his vibes only based off of his comments on here.

Osino made her feel safe and secured. Naso.

OLRBRK lmao (just incase you quote me to insult me as well).

Alright coward? 👍
Or is it old hag with a mug so ugly she's like a bulldog chewing a wasp too scared to show that face that looks like a slapped ass on a video call and be proven wrong you deluded CuNT

Oh. I did not even see this.


This is certainly a Yabaleft case atp.

O de le lowo G-boy ninu sha.

naptu2:
You should know by now that there are trolls that are on Nairaland to advance certain interests.

It is pretty obvious

Fenrir:
Not true asshole when you come to marry European women we dont demand you do anything because your not us

Real respect is understanding interracial means intercultural and when we come to Nigeria only 6% actually do your bullshit

Introduction yes, bride price yes, but thats it you see marriage and life after are more important then the childlike egos of your fathers and uncles

calm down bro not all tribes in nigeria ask for arms and legs before you can marry their daughter....

Don’t let me slap you

What’s this?

Fenrir:
You see how pathetic the people on here are? I used 1 common Nigerian word and you all scream scammer because you are surrounded by them open your small minds you petty people and grow the Bleep up

cococandy:
Don’t let me slap you

What’s this?

Sorry, I couldn't resist 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Acidosis:
Sorry, I couldn't resist 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

He just insulted the whole country.

rapheal5:
calm down bro not all tribes in nigeria ask for arms and legs before you can marry their daughter....

Thats the point mate, its not up to the tribe, its not up to the family, its up to the bride and groom only
If a couple decide to do none of it all

Are the coppers called?
Does anyone go to prison?
Does anyone die?
Is there an earthquake?
Does the world end?
Can anyone actually stop a wedding?

Im choosing to the small introduction and a modern bride price because my country vales honour and duty not
Fake religion like you
Not fake respect like you
Not dark age and meaningless bullshit traditions like you

The mrs already told her family if its choice between them and me she will always choose me as they have never done anything for her

cococandy:
He just insulted the whole country.

I know he must have said something awful.

Fenrir:
Thats the point mate, its not up to the tribe, its not up to the family, its up to the bride and groom only
If a couple decide to do none of it all

Are the coppers called?
Does anyone go to prison?
Does anyone die?
Is there an earthquake?
Does the world end?
Can anyone actually stop a wedding?

Im choosing to the small introduction and a modern bride price because my country vales honour and duty not
Fake religion like you
Not fake respect like you
Not dark age and meaningless bullshit traditions like you

The mrs already told her family if its choice between them and me she will always choose me as they have never done anything for her

You sounded like you love nigeria but you dislike everything in it, the fact that you're unlucky to meet people you share the same ideal of life with doesn't mean you should cancel everything about nigeria...
In your world where you came from there are fake people too and alot of psychopath..
No where and no one is perfect....

rapheal5:
You sounded like you love nigeria but you dislike everything in it, the fact that you're unlucky to meet people you share the same ideal of life with doesn't mean you should cancel everything about nigeria...
In your world where you came from there are fake people too and alot of psychopath..
No where and no one is perfect....

Go back and read what i actually said

I love everything about your country excepct 3 things

1) the religious abuse as it doesn't if i dont believe in your god or not as it doesnt impact any life but mine, am i a militant atheist? Am i forcing it on you?

2) the lies from the much older generations saying crap about wedding traditions being mandatory, no country on earth outside north Korea and strictly muslim countries have ever made culture or tradition mandatory, its only mandatory for you if you want multiple wives but then you cant have civil or white weddings only traditional allows you have multiple,but im white so nowhere on earth am i allow multiple wives or i go to prison so traditional doesn't fucking matter

3) cow skin is food here to me thats nasty but i eat pigs skin in the form of crackling and fried pigs blood for black pudding so each to their own i guess

Ishilove:
You are very ill mannered. Since you lack the capacity to engage in civil discourse on social media like your neanderthal ancestors, I must insist you fvck off forever.

You admit neanderthals existed?
Interesting as that proves your religion wrong as evidence 9 other species of humans existing has been discovered, and most Europeans do have 2-4% neanderthal dna as our species interbred with them at around the last ice ages and yes its 4% in me

cococandy:
Don’t let me slap you

What’s this?

Oh yes please ma'am,

Your welcome to slap me you kinky little minx

rapheal5:
You sounded like you love nigeria but you dislike everything in it, the fact that you're unlucky to meet people you share the same ideal of life with doesn't mean you should cancel everything about nigeria...
In your world where you came from there are fake people too and alot of psychopath..
No where and no one is perfect....

Maybe it's his terrible wording, I do agree with him on religion over education in Nigeria, the selfish and greedy wedding process in Nigeria is absolutely bizarre. Wedding processes in Nigeria from Families especially from Imo State & those South West Yoruba alaga ceremonies are just a way to grab every little penny they can get, more like selling their daughters to slave trade.

The whole marriage tradition in Nigeria should be absolutely abolished.

tosinhtml:
Maybe it's his terrible wording, I do agree with him on religion over education in Nigeria, the selfish and greedy wedding process in Nigeria is absolutely bizarre. Wedding processes in Nigeria from Families especially from Imo State & those South West Yoruba alaga ceremonies are just a way to grab every little penny they can get, more like selling their daughters to slave trade.

The whole marriage tradition in Nigeria should be absolutely abolished.

It's not going anywhere, neither will culture be abolished because they are the best rock of every society. Can they be modified to reflect modern realities? Yes. Can they be abused? Like every man made system, yes they can. Does culture evolve? Yes. Is culture dynamic? Some aspects are. If you try to erase what makes a people unique, what forms their identity and belief system, then you will have a very big problem on your hands. VERY BIG

Ishilove:
It's not going anywhere, neither will culture be abolished because they are the best rock of every society. Can they be modified to reflect modern realities? Yes. Can they be abused? Like every man made system, yes they can. Does culture evolve? Yes. Is culture dynamic? Some aspects are. If you try to erase what makes a people unique, what forms their identity and belief system, then you will have a very big problem on your hands. VERY BIG

What you described is not a culture, the culture is meeting up with families & introducing yourself which is what is needed. Every other thing such as bride's uncles & aunties extorting bride groom's family is completely unnecessary & should be abolished totally.

Besides we are quick to abolish other forms of culture that we don't like, but what it is comes to the greedy one that allows extortion, we hang on it like our lives depend on it.

You follow someone to a wedding ceremony in South West, the alagas want to use the opportunity to extort all the guests, both married & unmarried. What sort of culture is that?!

Fenrir:
Go back and read what i actually said

I love everything about your country excepct 3 things

1) the religious abuse as it doesn't if i dont believe in your god or not as it doesnt impact any life but mine, am i a militant atheist? Am i forcing it on you?

2) the lies from the much older generations saying crap about wedding traditions being mandatory, no country on earth outside north Korea and strictly muslim countries have ever made culture or tradition mandatory, its only mandatory for you if you want multiple wives but then you cant have civil or white weddings only traditional allows you have multiple,but im white so nowhere on earth am i allow multiple wives or i go to prison so traditional doesn't fucking matter

3) cow skin is food here to me thats nasty but i eat pigs skin in the form of crackling and fried pigs blood for black pudding so each to their own i guess

Well i think the religion and wedding tradition is all about our personality...
My dad was a muslim he's dead now, my mom is a christian, i only remember following him to mosque once, i prefer going with my mom to church till i was old enough to make a choice...

My father never discriminate he sees life in a different way entirely compare to other muslim men, he never force any of us to learn quran, before his death my brothers never go to church or mosque...
He was a retired soldier and before any muslim condemn my father as a non true muslim he was born and brought up by top islamic scholar in Islamic way an indigene of a state muslim claimed is closer to paradize in nigeria....
My mom a devoted christian never force any of her children to go to church, it's by choice and lastly my sister got married till today we never ask her husband to come pay for her dowry or call him for anything....
Eastern ppl with long brides list can't be compare with southwest alaga, the alaga primary job in traditional wedding is too make the wedding fun more like a MC, it's by choice, most yoruba brides list will contain a medium size basket, and it's mostly fruits, 7 or 21 yam max, 1 red wine and 1 bottle of local gin, they won't ask you to provide what the whole family can't afford or lack...

tosinhtml:
What you described is not a culture, the culture is meeting up with families & introducing yourself which is what is needed. Every other thing such as bride's uncles & aunties extorting bride groom's family is completely unnecessary & should be abolished totally.

Besides we are quick to abolish other forms of culture that we don't like, but what it is comes to the greedy one that allows extortion, we hang on it like our lives depend on it.

You follow someone to a wedding ceremony in South West, the alagas want to use the opportunity to extort all the guests, both married & unmarried. What sort of culture is that?!

You're still not getting my point. You write that the whole marriage tradition should be abolished, and I countered that it cannot and will not be abolished because every society has their culture and traditions. In my post, I also mentioned that those practices can be abused, just like any man made system. The extortion from family members is one of the forms of abuses that happen in the course of carrying out our cultural practices. You can only call the abusers to order, not abolish centuries old identity pillars of a people.

rapheal5:
Well i think the religion and wedding tradition is all about our personality...
My dad was a muslim he's dead now, my mom is a christian, i only remember following him to mosque once, i prefer going with my mom to church till i was old enough to make a choice...

My father never discriminate he sees life in a different way entirely compare to other muslim men, he never force any of us to learn quran, before his death my brothers never go to church or mosque...
He was a retired soldier and before any muslim condemn my father as a non true muslim he was born and brought up by top islamic scholar in Islamic way an indigene of a state muslim claimed is closer to paradize in nigeria....
My mom a devoted christian never force any of her children to go to church, it's by choice and lastly my sister got married till today we never ask her husband to come pay for her dowry or call him for anything....
Eastern ppl with long brides list can't be compare with southwest alaga, the alaga primary job in traditional wedding is too make the wedding fun more like a MC, it's by choice, most yoruba brides list will contain a medium size basket, and it's mostly fruits, 7 or 21 yam max, 1 red wine and 1 bottle of local gin, they won't ask you to provide what the whole family can't afford or lack...

I have no problem a bride price, i think its bloody wonderful and i believe it should be legally mandatory worldwide as it would save a lot of women marrying deadbeats, if a man wants a wife and family he should prove he is capable of providing for them

The things i have a problem with are you only want to celebrate YOUR traditions

Interracial marriage means intercultural wedding so the best of brides traditions and the best of the grooms so 50/50 and not cultural domination from 1 side

If a groom is not Nigerian you let him marry you proudly as himself
If something is forbidden in his culture like prostration then you dont demand or expect him to do at all especially with all his people watching insulting his family to stroke the ego of yours

And i mean by greedy and selfish is the introduction process and who you expect to attend

Mother
Father
Siblings
Aunts
Uncles
Cousins
Friends
Religious leaders
Mentors
And bosses

Bleep that!! If not raised to do it, how do you expect a man to cope with it?

The groom and his people travel to the brides people with gifts and money and hosts its your duty to make sure the guests are comfortable with situation so it is just sheer greed and selfishness to expect the gifts and money then also demand who attends as it should only be who the groom wants to meet that day

Only mother, father and siblings are important

Kinsmen are only needed for a traditional bride price if a traditional wedding is happening, if not the immediate family can just give a list of whats truly important to them and the groom gets that

As nothing about a bride price is legally mandatory or set
Its only socially considered mandatory not legally, huge difference