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Re: My 69 Year Old Mum Is Visiting Me In Canada For The First Time. Please Advise.. by Gerrard59(m): 5:08pm On Dec 13, 2024
Kenn55:
My brother, I don't joke with insurance oooo.

My first encounter with insurance that made me embrace the value happened in my first apartment I rented when I was new in canada.

When renting that apartment, the landlord advised we should get a tenant insurance. It wasn't compulsory but advised. I called some of our naija guys who have been in the country to know if I should get it, some didn't even know there was something like that, some said I shouldn't be wasting money on those nonsense, they have been living without it. However, when I checked the amount $24 a month, I felt since the cost isn't big, let me get it. So I started paying $24 per month for the tenant insurance.

Fast forward 11 months later, one morning around 4am, I heard someone knocking on our apartment door, I peeped through the door hole and saw a cop knocking grin. Haba! Cop knocking my door at 4am? Wetin I do? grin. I opened the door, the cop asked if our apartment is flooded, I said no. He said 2 apartments in the building is flooded during the midnight rain as a result of a partial roof collapse. Even though it affected only 2 apartments, the whole building has been declared unsafe and unfit for living and must be evacuated immediately. He said we should take our clothes and important items and leave the building.

He asked if we had where we can stay, I said no. He said we should call red cross and make arrangement on a temporary accommodation with them. Me, Red Cross? Na so we turn refugee? grin.

I had another option and that's to go to my brother's house who lives 8 minutes drive away but that would be inconveniencing to me and him cos it's my whole family and I hate inconveniencing people. But instead of Red Cross, I called him and he was okay about it.

So as we were moving out, I heard someone making a call and called tenant insurance. Immediately I heard that word, I remembered I was paying $24 every month on that. I Immediately looked for their number and called them. They made their verifications to confirm our claim and then checked us into one sweet hotel.

They paid for all our expenses in the hotel including food. In fact, because my children school from the hotel became far, they calculated the extra cost of taking them to school and paid me. We were in the hotel for one week but we were not enjoying it cos our food was limited to hotel food which is not interesting as naija people wey we be grin.
Someone suggested we tell them to get us Airbnb, we did and they put us in an Airbnb where we now had the opportunity to cook. We were in Airbnb for another 4 weeks before they told us to move back to our apartment as the building has been repaired.


So we spent a total of 5 weeks away from our apartment and we didn't spend 1 kobo of our own money and we didn't inconvenience anyone with our wahala.
Since then, I embraced insurance fully. I and my family are insured all round. I rather have insurance than having savings. Savings becomes useless when your problem is bigger than your savings
grin
Again, thanks for breaking down everything about insurance. It is very important. I have seen its application in medical and drug rates. Here, the government pays 70% with the resident paying the rest. When my health insurance card expired, a certain test cost more than 70% of the standard entry level salary, but it was drastically reduced with insurance. I realised the system worked when I was allowed to
home and renew my health insurance, then return to pay the subsidised rate. Also, that was when I knew the meaning of "high trust societies". I got to the city hall to renew the health insurance, got the card and went to pay the subsidised rate. It was a major saver!
Re: My 69 Year Old Mum Is Visiting Me In Canada For The First Time. Please Advise.. by Justiceleague1: 11:29am On Dec 14, 2024
ndidibabe:
Anyone in Lagos that can supply this + winter jacket?
I can try if you are serious about it
Re: My 69 Year Old Mum Is Visiting Me In Canada For The First Time. Please Advise.. by chinchum(m): 12:53am On Dec 16, 2024
ndidibabe:
My mum will be visiting me in Canada for the first time by January and she is 69 years old. She will also be going to UK to see my younger ones.

I need advice on the basic necessities that will make her stay worthwhile. I do not want to a miss thing paticularly as regards keeping her healthy.

Any suggestions on where to get her suitable clothing in Nigeria for that age travelling to a cold region for the first time? Guys, I need your kind suggestions.
let her get aspirin except if she is not advised to take one for the long trip. I expect she is taking about 20 hrs trip and blood clot embolism is common for her age, she can take that aspirin mid flight. She should bring blood pressure monitor possibly and get her vitamin D and ensure she uses the vitamin D everyday. Advised she holds the rail all the time she may have to climb the stairs in the house or outside.

Make sure she takes occasional strolls to receive sunlight possibly at least once a week. It may be snowing when she comes, prepare the warm jacket and keep the house warm and well heated. She should bring Nigerias panadol and treat Malaria once she arrives with malaria tablet.

Get Nigeria youtube movie subscriptions and music handy. If possible get her a small Tv just for her.
Re: My 69 Year Old Mum Is Visiting Me In Canada For The First Time. Please Advise.. by Cousin9999:
NiceLegs:
"People" and a "69yr old first time Canada visiting Nigerian woman" are not the same.
lol

chinchum:
let her get aspirin except if she is not advised to take one for the long trip. I expect she is taking about 20 hrs trip and blood clot embolism is common for her age, she can take that aspirin mid flight. She should bring blood pressure monitor possibly and get her vitamin D and ensure she uses the vitamin D everyday. Advised she holds the rail all the time she may have to climb the stairs in the house or outside.

Make sure she takes occasional strolls to receive sunlight possibly at least once a week. It may be snowing when she comes, prepare the warm jacket and keep the house warm and well heated. She should bring Nigerias panadol and treat Malaria once she arrives with malaria tablet.

Get Nigeria youtube movie subscriptions and music handy. If possible get her a small Tv just for her.
You're a good son, bro.
Re: My 69 Year Old Mum Is Visiting Me In Canada For The First Time. Please Advise.. by papyjaypaul: 5:15am On Dec 24, 2024
Things you should be worried about

1. Boredom
2. Health
3. Accidents

Everything else, don't worry about it. Someone who has lived over 60 is not new to life so leav all the fears about cold. Yes, she is old and you have to understand that it comes with frailty but people telling you to postpone it don't know about your personal life, which you may never tell us. Life can happen anytime and I like that someone told you how other old people have been there to do omugwo. Don't inherit someone else's fears. Nigerians tend to project and they think what happened to them will happen to everyone else. They then start to scare you with their own experiences.

What will she do? I think you said you have enough time. Share this experience with her and enjoy it. You never know when next you'll see her. Even if it was summer and you were going out, you'll spend money on trips and less with family. Use this time for bonding but let her experience the weather when it is safe. Don't lock her up and don't turn her to your PA. Yes, your mom won't say no but it's not right to start giving your parents work just because they are around. Take care of them and just put your mind into this period of taking care of another adult. Enjoy the moments. She can easily be bored if she has nothing to do or she just keeps watching T.V. Prepare events indoor and outdoor for her during this period. There are programs for elderly people, at their age, they make friends easily but you should expose her instead of keeping her at home. This woman has lived 6 decades in Nigeria, she will miss the problems of Nigeria even if she complains about them. Let her enjoy new experiences to prevent boredom. Keep her busy with activities.

Health is something everyone else has told you what to do but if she's fit enough, let her join fitness classes for old people. This is how they have fun and make new friends. I am sure you may be wondering if you can do this but let me tell you, old people love their retirement as long as there's no trouble. Staying at home too much or not doing anything can affect her health. I know I said you shouldn't give her chores to do. Find out what she loves to do that helps both her mental and phsyical health.

She needs to be safe. Depending on where you live, let her know the dos and donts. Let her know that not everyone she sees is normal, give her safety tips but don't scare her too much. This may sound weird but ask ChatGpt what she needs to do. I have been close to old guys and one of them did this for his 90 yo mom. Some oyinbo too take care of their aged parents and figure a way around it. Taking care of one's parents is a blessing and we don't know when next we meet. Make sure she enjoys the experience. Prepare a diary full of events, have backup and space them so that she remembers the experience. Before she knows it, she'll ne surprised how time went so fast.
Re: My 69 Year Old Mum Is Visiting Me In Canada For The First Time. Please Advise.. by meobizy(m): 5:31pm On Dec 24, 2024
Warm clothing. End of story. Canada is cold. It’s so cold that my friends who once lived in the UK complain.
Re: My 69 Year Old Mum Is Visiting Me In Canada For The First Time. Please Advise.. by Fujiyama: 6:24pm On Jan 20, 2025
Very useful thread.

Stumbled on it completely by accident and I am glad I did.
Re: My 69 Year Old Mum Is Visiting Me In Canada For The First Time. Please Advise.. by SamuraiXXX: 3:59pm On Feb 04, 2025
MMempire:
Madam, abeg after her visit, send me too invitation. Try get hot spicies down for her o. At her age, the change of weather go make her ask for more spicy foods from you. Also, visit stores where you fit get African foodstuffs and condiments cos she no go follow you dey chop your burger and the likes.
grin
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