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Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by Bookhub(op): 7:12pm On Dec 15, 2024
If you have a young single mother as a girlfriend and she gives you huge sums of money to support your failing business at a time when you needed it most will you succumb because of her love.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by immortalcrown(m):
First of all, we need to understand your intention towards her.

Did you start the relationship for marriage, for money or for what else?

You have responded to some comments that were dropped after my own comment but you haven't responded to my own comment. Your actions suggest that you are a male gold digger.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by mymadam(m): 7:18pm On Dec 15, 2024
Bookhub:
If you have a young single mother as a girlfriend and she gives you huge sums of money to support your failing business at a time when you needed it most will you succumb because of her love.
Not necessarily 🥺
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by adeoyekay(m): 7:19pm On Dec 15, 2024
Bookhub:
If you have a young single mother as a girlfriend and she gives you huge sums of money to support your failing business at a time when you needed it most will you succumb because of her love.
I can marry single mother if I have affection for her aside from money self
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by Bookhub(op): 7:21pm On Dec 15, 2024
adeoyekay:
I can marry single mother if I have affection for her aside from money self
What about the child?
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by illicit(m): 7:36pm On Dec 15, 2024
Having a kid is not a disease...
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by Baronthecelebri(m): 7:53pm On Dec 15, 2024
If she has a female child, I'll gladly marry because when the female reaches 20 years old, I'll Bleep the child.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by advanceDNA: 7:55pm On Dec 15, 2024
Bookhub:
If you have a young single mother as a girlfriend and she gives you huge sums of money to support your failing business at a time when you needed it most will you succumb because of her love.
Return her money ooooo ...don't say we did not tell you....
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by adeoyekay(m): 8:20pm On Dec 15, 2024
Bookhub:
What about the child?
Nothing wrong with it
I will accept him/her has my own child if I truly love their mother
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by Nicepoker(m): 8:23pm On Dec 15, 2024
Baronthecelebri:
If she has a female child, I'll gladly marry because when the female reaches 20 years old, I'll Bleep the child.
WT hell grin
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by Nicepoker(m): 8:24pm On Dec 15, 2024
Abort mission is a trap. I repeat abort mission
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by Bellotelli: 9:29pm On Dec 15, 2024
Baronthecelebri:
If she has a female child, I'll gladly marry because when the female reaches 20 years old, I'll Bleep the child.
Na waoo. See creatures we share this planet with huh
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by wiseone28: 11:40pm On Dec 15, 2024
Since i am not a single father i hate anything single mother even if you are single by accident it is my turn off..i can't marry you.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by Desusi: 3:01am On Dec 16, 2024
Money shouldn't be a priority for marrying a single woman for love,the money she gave you for help may be a trap.If after she gave you the money and decided to Marry her,later you discovered her real self,you may regret the relationship. You may spend the money given to on your business and nothing works, would ypuask her to go away? You have been trapped. An attempt to do that will be callousness. In all,watch pray if the greatest matchmakers papa God give you the go ahead,her daughter or son become a bonifde member of your house hold.Love and love me, and love my dog, they say.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by SisterAnn(f): 3:50am On Dec 16, 2024
Baronthecelebri:
If she has a female child, I'll gladly marry because when the female reaches 20 years old, I'll Bleep the child.
WAYRAY
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by Sp1ritHusband(m): 4:41am On Dec 16, 2024
Bookhub:
If you have a young single mother as a girlfriend and she gives you huge sums of money to support your failing business at a time when you needed it most will you succumb because of her love.
Her love or her money? You gat choose one!
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by Baronthecelebri(m): 5:09am On Dec 16, 2024
SisterAnn:
WAYRAY
but na true
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by idahme(m): 5:26am On Dec 16, 2024
adeoyekay:
Nothing wrong with it
I will accept him/her has my own child if I truly love their mother
The way most of you talk about single mother's kids is like when someone becomes a single mother the dad of the parents is dead. The kids are not yours and can never be yours, you can only accept them as a guardian not as your kids

That a man didn't marry a woman who he has kids with the doesn't mean he has lost fatherhood of the children. It's only a late that has. Most of you who have this view will later be fighting the fathers for custody of their children when you have no basis for it.

Remember a single mother can never be in a monogamous relationship, anyone who thinks
otherwise is delusional. Wether you like it or not she is is tied to the father of her kids through birthing for him and then delusional men who think otherwise will claim to accept the kids by trying to cut that link she has with the father of her kids. This is why most single mum's try their best to alleniate the fathers of the kids thinking they have found a New father for their kids because the new dudes try to give them that mentality.


Do your thing and allow others do their things it's no longer a monogamous relationship as long as it concerns a single mother.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by Fiscus105(m): 5:28am On Dec 16, 2024
Bookhub:
If you have a young single mother as a girlfriend and she gives you huge sums of money to support your failing business at a time when you needed it most will you succumb because of her love.
Which means, you married her, purely because of financial benefits from her and not love. In this type of marriage, the marriage would soon crumble, because wen your financial struggles over, your eyes will now clear, you would start misbehaving.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by Fiscus105(m):
idahme:
The way most of you talk about single mother's kids is like when someone becomes a single mother the dad of the parents is dead. The kids are not yours and can never be yours, you can only accept them as a guardian not as your kids

That a man didn't marry a woman who he has kids with the doesn't mean he has lost fatherhood of the children. It's only a late that has. Most of you who have this view will later be fighting the fathers for custody of their children when you have no basis for it.

Remember a single mother can never be in a monogamous relationship anyone who thinks otherwise is delusional whether you like it or not she is tied to the father of her kids, through birthing for him and then delusional men who think otherwise will claim to accept the kids by trying to cut that link she has with the father of her kids. This is why most single mum's try their best to alleniate the fathers of the kids thinking they have found a New father for their kids because the new dudes try to give them that mentality.


Do your thing and allow others do their things it's no longer a monogamous relationship as long as it concerns a single mother.
At ur bolded, A VERY BITTER TRUTH, anybody that married single mother, in which the ex husband still much alive, just know, you are not into a monogamous marriage, but polyandry.

8/10 of former wives, still went behind to sex their ex husbands, even after remarried, take it or leave it, I have seen and witnessed countless of such cases.

If husband still struggling to separate ex-boyfriend with no kid from his wife, how much more, ex- husband with kids.

There is no way you can completely cut her off from ex-husband, either from calls, chats, sending money, or even visiting.

One astonishing, which is also frightful fact I studied from women is this, ....no matter how bad the ex boyfriend/husband treated them that, led to their separation, with passage of time. It would heal from their hearts, and if the ex knows his game properly and also ready to craw back to her life, irrespective of her "presence" status, woman would be struggling not to give him access.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by kevwemike: 5:31am On Dec 16, 2024
Baronthecelebri:
If she has a female child, I'll gladly marry because when the female reaches 20 years old, I'll Bleep the child.
u are a devil
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by Elzazzi: 5:37am On Dec 16, 2024
Baronthecelebri:
If she has a female child, I'll gladly marry because when the female reaches 20 years old, I'll Bleep the child.
What if you die before the child reaches 20 grin
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by idahme(m): 5:51am On Dec 16, 2024
Fiscus105:
At ur bold, A VERY BITTER TRUTH, anybody that married single mother, in which the ex husband still much alive, just know, you are not in a monogamous marriage, but polyandry.

8/10 of single mothers, still went ahead to sex their ex guys/men, take it or leave it, I have heard and witnessed countless of such.

If husband still struggling to separate ex-boyfriend with no kid, how much less, ex- husband with kids.

There is no way you can completely cut her off from ex-husband, either from calls, chats, sending money, even to visit.

One astonishing and frightful things I also noticed from women is that, no matter how bad the ex boyfriend/ husband treated them, with passage of time, it would heal from their hearts, and if the ex knows his game properly and also to craw back to her life, irrespective of her "now" status, woman would be struggling not to give him access.
Aptly stated
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by adeoyekay(m): 5:51am On Dec 16, 2024
idahme:
The way most of you talk about single mother's kids is like when someone becomes a single mother the dad of the parents is dead. The kids are not yours and can never be yours, you can only accept them as a guardian not as your kids

That a man didn't marry a woman who he has kids with the doesn't mean he has lost fatherhood of the children. It's only a late that has. Most of you who have this view will later be fighting the fathers for custody of their children when you have no basis for it.

Remember a single mother can never be in a monogamous relationship, anyone who thinks
otherwise is delusional. Wether you like it or not she is is tied to the father of her kids through birthing for him and then delusional men who think otherwise will claim to accept the kids by trying to cut that link she has with the father of her kids. This is why most single mum's try their best to alleniate the fathers of the kids thinking they have found a New father for their kids because the new dudes try to give them that mentality.


Do your thing and allow others do their things it's no longer a monogamous relationship as long as it concerns a single mother.
Of course am not the biological father of the child, understand my language I said I will "accept "

Some men today who does not marry single mother are they not training child/children who are not from them

Thanks for DNA

Have you not read about a man who married woman and all the four children birthing for him are bastard

For the case of single mother the society already knows, the man in questions know and the woman knows

The point here should be what make her a single mother initially

Is it the death of her husband for her not to be adulterous
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by AcadaWriter0: 6:12am On Dec 16, 2024
First of all, let's clarify the intention behind the question. Did you begin the relationship with the goal of marriage, financial reasons, or something else?
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by Fahvvy: 7:02am On Dec 16, 2024
There's nothing wrong with marrying a single mother undecided...

There's also nothing wrong in NOT marrying a single mother undecided...

I'll choose the former undecided...
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by Tallesty1(m): 7:19am On Dec 16, 2024
Bookhub:
If you have a young single mother as a girlfriend and she gives you huge sums of money to support your failing business at a time when you needed it most will you succumb because of her love.
I can't have single mother girlfriend so no, it won't happen
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by SocialJustice: 7:44am On Dec 16, 2024
Bookhub:
If you have a young single mother as a girlfriend and she gives you huge sums of money to support your failing business at a time when you needed it most will you succumb because of her love.
She's baiting you it's not love. Nigerians don't know the meaning of love, always transactional.
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by cr7lomo: 8:10am On Dec 16, 2024
illicit:
Having a kid is not a disease...
It's a mental disease for the man... she should go and marry her baby daddy .... if her baby daddy dint marry her and he's single , it means she's deadly
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by BigDawsNet: 8:20am On Dec 16, 2024
Bookhub:
If you have a young single mother as a girlfriend and she gives you huge sums of money to support your failing business at a time when you needed it most will you succumb because of her love.
If you love her, marry her…

If you don’t let her go…

She will be hurt and disappointed if she found out you are just after her money
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by 1Alex: 9:22am On Dec 16, 2024
I wonder when it became a taboo to marry single mothers
Re: Can You Marry A Single Mother If She Does This For You? by Exceed15: 9:41am On Dec 16, 2024
Also know that her child/children will be your responsibility
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