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| How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by essentialone1(op): 12:07am On Dec 21, 2024 |
Your extended family members may include some or all of the following: Parental Side 1. Grandparents: paternal grandfather, paternal grandmother, maternal grandfather, maternal grandmother 2. Great-grandparents: paternal great-grandfather, paternal great-grandmother, maternal great-grandfather, maternal great-grandmother 3. Great-great-grandparents: paternal great-great-grandfather, paternal great-great-grandmother, maternal great-great-grandfather, maternal great-great-grandmother 4. Aunts: paternal aunts, maternal aunts 5. Uncles: paternal uncles, maternal uncles 6. Cousins: first cousins, second cousins, third cousins, etc. Spousal Side (In-laws) 1. Parents-in-law: mother-in-law, father-in-law 2. Siblings-in-law: brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law 3. Nieces and nephews-in-law: nieces-in-law, nephews-in-law 4. Cousins-in-law: first cousins-in-law, second cousins-in-law, etc. Descendants 1. Nieces: sisters' daughters, brothers' daughters 2. Nephews: sisters' sons, brothers' sons 3. Great-nieces: nieces' daughters 4. Great-nephews: nieces' sons, nephews' sons 5. Grandnieces: great-nieces' daughters 6. Grandnephews: great-nieces' sons, great-nephews' sons Other Relatives 1. Step-parents: stepmother, stepfather 2. Step-siblings: stepbrothers, stepsisters 3. Half-siblings: half-brothers, half-sisters 4. Adopted relatives: adopted children, adopted siblings, adopted parents A lot is changing or has changed in Nigeria. It seems a lot of extended family is there now only as formality. Most people tend to focus only on themselves or on their nuclear or immediate families. The reasons for this individualistic lifestyle that most of us have adopted, varies from person to person, and is at variance with the communalistic lifestyle that most of our parents and grandparents, enjoyed while they were growing up. But you, how often do you communicate with, or visit your extended family members?
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| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by essentialone1(op): 12:08am On Dec 21, 2024 |
Nlfpmod |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by illicit(m): 12:36am On Dec 21, 2024 |
Once in a blue moon... |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Larryfest(m): 12:50am On Dec 21, 2024 |
Everybody dey for street right now so time for never really dey for that kind see me I see you level... |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by essentialone1(op): 12:54am On Dec 21, 2024 |
Larryfest:No time for familiar familiarity, abi? lol |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by essentialone1(op): 12:55am On Dec 21, 2024 |
illicit:Na you ignore them abi na them ignore you? lol ![]() |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by RealityKings1: 1:25am On Dec 21, 2024 |
Distance is actually a thing |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 1:29am On Dec 21, 2024 |
I ran away ni o 👀 |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by illicit(m): 6:14am On Dec 21, 2024 |
essentialone1:😂 |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Sonnobax15(m): 6:37am On Dec 21, 2024 |
![]() Been a while now,let's say two weeks ago ![]() But I think I'll check up on my old man today... |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by temitope27(m): 8:46am On Dec 21, 2024 |
I've never done that, and I will never do it As Dem no dey ask of me, me too no get anybody time ![]() |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Meerahbel: 8:47am On Dec 21, 2024 |
The extended family system in Nigeria has faced significant challenges in recent times, leading to its decline in some areas. Here are some factors that have contributed to the erosion of the extended family system in Nigeria: |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by jubrilELsudan: 8:47am On Dec 21, 2024 |
AS E BE SO NA WHEN BURIAL OR WEDDING DEY NA HIM SOME OF US DEY COMMUNICATE SO OOOOO
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| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Mindlog: 8:47am On Dec 21, 2024 |
Regularly. |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Kobicove(m): 8:48am On Dec 21, 2024 |
Most of my immediate extended family members are here with me in Lagos so we see regularly during birthdays and such family occasions |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by AntiChristian: 8:48am On Dec 21, 2024 |
Hmmm! Nollywood village people! |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Christ4ever: 8:48am On Dec 21, 2024*. Modified: 9:47am On Dec 21, 2024 |
My parents and grannies are late. So it's just me, my younger siblings and Aunt. We all are still in touch. Thanks to WhatsApp ![]() I ensure we talk at least once in a month. |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Ifexibe(m): 8:48am On Dec 21, 2024 |
I see my in-law almost everyday. We spend quality time. Not close with relatives from fathers side, just a few, prefer it that way, to avoid see finish. I do see them at village meetings, once in a while. I check up with relatives from mothers side anytime i go back home. I call my real friends every weekend. The older I get, the more i realize it's the simple things that matter. So I'm trying to maximize and value family time. Life is short. |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by MadamExcellency: 8:48am On Dec 21, 2024 |
No life without them as often as possible you can call. What's the essence of living without being in close contact with your blood relatives? You can only be survived by them, no mention of the wealth you left behind. |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Kenobsky(m): 8:49am On Dec 21, 2024 |
With this current hardship who get time for who? Even phone call them go think say Na begging you want beg. Even inside bus close friends are keeping mute when they met until they drop at times before they recognise themselves talkles of extended family? |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Edoreborn: 8:50am On Dec 21, 2024 |
Na money ooo |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Sonofgod1990(m): 8:50am On Dec 21, 2024 |
Although I Base in Washington DC. But I communicate with them regularly. Sometimes I call them on video call. |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Olichoke: 8:51am On Dec 21, 2024*. Modified: 3:34pm On Dec 22, 2024 |
I simply stopped because of my cousins. I used to be the type that cared for extended family members. I discovered that the more I asked after them, the more they billed me and tell me of their financial problems. They thought I had enough, that's why I was calling them. Me that is managing my life . |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Obierika(m): 8:51am On Dec 21, 2024 |
May the devil with seven heads baptise Nnamdi Kanu and his co-travellers for messing up the tranquillity and peace of Igboland and turning the place to den of armed marauders and kidnap-for-ransom criminals. it is because of them I have not been travelling home to see extended family members as frequently as I would have loved to! ![]() |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Eriokanmi: 8:52am On Dec 21, 2024 |
This used to be part of our culture which is fast fading away due to the encroachment of western culture and civilisation. It will shock us one day when we see these westerners coming to learn of our culture. The rate at which black Americans now throng africa for true love despise being duped by some useless guys is a proof. Amazingly, the whites are now joining them. Once they find one, they don't want to go back to America again, they stay put. My white friend and I visited Abuja last year. He asked me to take him to an african restaurant and I took him to jevinik at wuse too. I ordered pounded yam and he said he'd like to order same. I washed my hands cos I loved eating swallow with my hands and he did the same. He said he's never tasted such a good meal with a slightly spicey vegetable soap. because of our copy-copy nature, we tend to lose our cultural values which are supposed to be our heritage. |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by zebszebs: 8:53am On Dec 21, 2024*. Modified: 9:28am On Dec 22, 2024 |
"The enemies of a man are the members of his household." - Matthew 10:3 Fvck relatives. |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by SurveyR: 8:53am On Dec 21, 2024 |
Does the western world do it? Let's leave Nigeria out of this first. ![]() |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Christ4ever: 8:53am On Dec 21, 2024*. Modified: 9:13am On Dec 21, 2024 |
Kenobsky:Even me, I sometimes don't pick unknown numbers to prevent billing. Everybody dey manage now That's the problem we have these days. Suffering induced by the government has made many people a snub. The fabric of brotherliness amongst Nigerians have been torn by Tinubu's administration. Can't really blame people. |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Gbadebo19(m): 8:55am On Dec 21, 2024 |
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| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by Thryphosa(m): 8:55am On Dec 21, 2024 |
This is actually a nice topic to discuss. Most People tend to remember and care for only their immediate family these days, me inclusive. As for me, I communicate once in a while with my extended family. |
| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by whytediamond(m): 8:56am On Dec 21, 2024 |
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| Re: How Often Do You Communicate With, Or Visit Your Extended Family Members? by fineboynl(m): 8:57am On Dec 21, 2024 |
.humans evolve every day. Visit family is fast fading away in the last decade. |
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