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Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by mamagee3(f): 8:17pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
Hi all, why would anyone not want to be close to their cousins or their aunts but are close to their immediate family ? And is it strange for there not to be a cordial relationship between cousins? 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Amotolongbo(f): 8:22pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
mamagee3:A Cousinphobe and Immediate-familyphile So this woman will finally hit the homepage with all her childish questions 29 Likes |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by melodynk01(f): 8:25pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
mamagee3: An anti cousinist. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Kobicove(m): 8:59pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
mamagee3: Cousin-phrenic 7 Likes |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Tony142: 11:03pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
mamagee3: billing 72 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by mamagee3(f): 11:09pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
Tony142:What do you mean? |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Tony142: 11:17pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
mamagee3: if he or she is rich, they might be afraid that u will disturb them to give you money 48 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Vision101(m): 3:10am On Apr 25, 2021 |
@mamagee3 Hi all, why would anyone not want to be close to their cousins or their aunts but are close to their immediate family ? And is it strange for there not to be a cordial relationship between cousins? Nobody wants to expand his responsibility. The economy is not friendly. 84 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Paramount01(m): 7:13am On Apr 25, 2021 |
It depend on how the parents train them 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by mamagee3(f): 12:06pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Paramount01:Are you saying it’s a bad thing? 1 Like |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by saphiere(f): 12:27pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
mamagee3:Most of us don't just like wahala from extended family. The smaller your circle the less your worries. 98 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by merits(m): 12:27pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
am here to read to liers comment.finger crossed
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Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Esanboy111(m): 12:27pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
it’s either your cousins or extended families are poor or you’re poor... nobody want to associate with poverty... happy Sunday 54 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by eedimo(m): 12:28pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
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Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by oluwaseyi0: 12:28pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Some are not necessarily social, they keep to their close circle Some are trying to avoid unnecessary billing and see finish Some are trying to avoid extended family drama and it's accompanying fight Some have been religiously brainwashed that their extended family can/will hurt them. Some already know the type of extended family they come from (remember they probably grew up with those extended members), and they know the best thing is to avoid them, if they've got a better family they will have mix freely Some feels they have nothing tangible to gain by mixing with extended family 81 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Kentuforchrist(m): 12:28pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
to avoid "so u make it before my son,we shall see" 41 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Bedrooomsecret: 12:28pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Envy, Jealousy is very common among far relations. They do not want you to progress. One's enemy is a member of his household. 46 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 12:29pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Cousin hater? E get as your cousin go be, you go kuku disown am sef. |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by adioolayi(m): 12:29pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
One of the most cherished African culture that is slipping away from our hands... Well, if you see your lineage as evil, wicked and what have you...Good luck to you..I will say, you should check yourself. If you see your extended family as a support, as one big family... especially as closely knitted when you are growing up..don't spoil the tradition ..strive to keep the oneness ..It's a good thing 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Nonso92(m): 12:29pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
E get some family members wey dey ment. I dey avoid dem like plague 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by 9jayes: 12:29pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
One thing I noticed is that cousins always very close, play together when they’re kids but they start giving themselves space as they’re growing older. 75 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by mamaafrik(m): 12:29pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Fear of owo omoonile billings,that dependence on your wealth can sink person if wisdom isn't applied 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Onliie(m): 12:30pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom. For the son dishonoureth the father, the daughter riseth up against her mother, the daughter in law against her mother in law; a man's enemies are the men of his own house. Micah 7:5-6 KJV 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by obembet(f): 12:31pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
I don't like it either..... Infact I love me and my husband 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Trendy247: 12:31pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
I don't know |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by janedonez(m): 12:31pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Ok |
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Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by LoudLord(m): 12:31pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
mamagee3: Don't you Bill me cuz I get family am feeding... Billing lopa AFUNIMAWOBE |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by humberjade: 12:32pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
While it might not be the case in many families, if one finds himself where there are not so many progressives, the level of jealousy tends to be high. Even when the well-to-dos try their best to be good, the evil ones find means to cut them down. And since the mind of man is generally deep, nah to avoid all like plague. To me, my parents, siblings, their kids and my son are the only family I have got...for anyone to break into this cycle, he/she needs to prove that he/she is worth it. Note: even a trustworthy friend is family to me. I can't allow my openness and caring attitude expose me or my boy to danger...everybody sabi as him family dey structured physically and spiritually. Experience is the best teacher. 40 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by humilitypays(m): 12:32pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
saphiere:as if you have 1 kobo to give to anybody The only truly successful Nigerian lady that have enough to give out through her personal hardwork is Linda Ikeji. The rest of you are selfish, wicked, brokeass forming classy wannabes feeding off men 4 Likes |
Re: Why Would Someone Not Want To Be Close To Their Extended Family? by Nobody: 12:32pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
If they are not supporting my ambition, I can cut them off including my siblings. 7 Likes |
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