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What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sirchiboy(op): 7:45pm On Dec 21, 2024
Well I think if you are in this shoes.
I will tell you a story of a guy that blew up in just two years after getting married.
This guy had been struggling in ph.
He worked in Mr sweet as a cook.
Worked in differen places for years but nothing.
All of us used to play betting in rumuola.
But as soon as he got married this guy blew up..
Now this guy control millions.
Bought house in different places and cars.
The business he is doing is just interior decorations and furniture.
The worst part is that this guy was my guy back then but as soon as he made money.
He shun all of us.
Me next year I don go marry ooo.
I know believe that some women carry grace and anointing that really open doors for men ooo .

Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Habbeyy(m): 7:50pm On Dec 21, 2024
SMH grin
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by durentboi: 7:51pm On Dec 21, 2024
You already advised yourself and you know what to do. What advise do u need from us again?
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sirchiboy(op): 7:56pm On Dec 21, 2024
durentboi:
You already advised yourself and you know what to do. What advise do u need from us again?
Chinedu but why
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sirchiboy(op):
durentboi:
You already advised yourself and you know what to do. What advise do u need from us again?
Lakaka
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by ibechris(m):
It is not marriage that helped ur guy.

He dated a woman who showed him way...not those urgent 2k with 2million naira phone yet not brain and no future.

Marriage can kill u before ur time...I am a married man with 9yrs experience.

Don't rush ooh...u will rush out the way Russians ran away when Putin was trying to conscript them into the army.

Marriage,hmm...if u no get money pls, don't go closer I beg u in the name of God.

Except u are lucky to marry from a well to do family.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Reverseng:
Know thy self

But what Is self?

Self is that part of you that remains when everything that can be taken away from you is taken away from you because it eventually will - Dr Orion Taraban, Psyhacks YouTube

You're not your gadgets or your fancy house or your fancy lifestyle.
You are your courage, determination, zeal to do what's right, ability to seek Truth and simplicity and so on


Most of what you're chasing is not important. That might hurt but that's it.

Everything you were taught in about school, religion, food, marriage, history... they're distorted.
Make your research and you'll find you were chasing shadows all these while
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by techbro1: 10:09pm On Dec 21, 2024
No use SportyBet play. Iyanu fit shele anytime grin
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Melagros(m): 10:09pm On Dec 21, 2024
COMRADES, my advice to everyone out there is that, either, 30, 40, or 50, don't marry unprepared under the tenure of this dullard prresident called Tinubu because you'll suffer untold hardship
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by MT: 10:09pm On Dec 21, 2024
He should know success is not a function of age.

He should stop self pity, dust himself up and learn sellable skill to build capacity.

He should look around him and provide solution to what people are struggling with in his neighbourhood. People only pay problem solvers.

If he has a degree, he shouldn’t allow that degree to be a blocker by stopping him from doing certain jobs. Most degrees earned these days can’t even solve current human problems. Such a waste.

Age can never stop you, you can only stop yourself.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by bobby007(m): 10:09pm On Dec 21, 2024
They should keep struggling, age got nothing to do with it
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Dcaliphate(m): 10:11pm On Dec 21, 2024
He should keep trying.
No one can really dictate your timing in destiny.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Goodman247: 10:11pm On Dec 21, 2024
Nigerians will.never mind thier business, too much troublesome people
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by condralbedez: 10:12pm On Dec 21, 2024
shocked
Some are destined to become a millionire from 40 years and above
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by AllenSpencer: 10:12pm On Dec 21, 2024
Take bigger risks. At 40, you have nothing to lose.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by jmoore(m): 10:12pm On Dec 21, 2024
Ignorance!
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Risingblue008(m): 10:12pm On Dec 21, 2024
Rituals
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by wiseone28: 10:13pm On Dec 21, 2024
Sirchiboy:
Well I think if you are in this shoes.
I will tell you a story of a guy that blew up in just two years after getting married.
This guy had been struggling in ph.
He worked in Mr sweet as a cook.
Worked in differen places for years but nothing.
All of us used to play betting in rumuola.
But as soon as he got married this guy blew up..
Now this guy control millions.
Bought house in different places and cars.
The business he is doing is just interior decorations and furniture.
The worst part is that this guy was my guy back then but as soon as he made money.
He shun all of us.
Me next year I don go marry ooo.
I know believe that some women carry grace and anointing that really open doors for men ooo .
hIs case may be different hmm
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by NaijaCover(m): 10:13pm On Dec 21, 2024
Start Blogging Business And Thank Me Later
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by TheSPEAKER(m): 10:13pm On Dec 21, 2024
All the advice wey you don dey receive before 40, use them!
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by sofeo(m): 10:13pm On Dec 21, 2024
Work and Pray.

Don't Give up.

Cleanse yourself of any bad omen (That may continue to neutralize your efforts and
struggle) if necessary and if there's any.

Explore opportunities and connect with the right people.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Softmirror: 10:14pm On Dec 21, 2024
SUPERSTITION!!!
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by PARADIZEPRIEST: 10:14pm On Dec 21, 2024
JOIN politics whether directly or indirectly because the best business in this nation today is politics angry
Alternatively if you have patience go and do hydroponic farming in ya home fatherland undecided
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Risingblue008(m): 10:14pm On Dec 21, 2024
Ritual
grin grin
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Klington: 10:14pm On Dec 21, 2024
tongue
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Iweakbro: 10:15pm On Dec 21, 2024
End it, bro. It's not worth it. You've tried. It's time to go home. Greet my grandma for me.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Bar1941(m): 10:15pm On Dec 21, 2024
Never lose hope!
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Dollarboss93: 10:16pm On Dec 21, 2024
Sirchiboy:
Well I think if you are in this shoes.
I will tell you a story of a guy that blew up in just two years after getting married.
This guy had been struggling in ph.
He worked in Mr sweet as a cook.
Worked in differen places for years but nothing.
All of us used to play betting in rumuola.
But as soon as he got married this guy blew up..
Now this guy control millions.
Bought house in different places and cars.
The business he is doing is just interior decorations and furniture.
The worst part is that this guy was my guy back then but as soon as he made money.
He shun all of us.
Me next year I don go marry ooo.
I know believe that some women carry grace and anointing that really open doors for men ooo .
Juju



Juju


Juju
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by slaypapa: 10:16pm On Dec 21, 2024
It's not easy being 40 and struggling cry last last Oluwa got my back
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Triplerg: 10:16pm On Dec 21, 2024
They should not lose hope
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by ufotty2001: 10:17pm On Dec 21, 2024
Go and marry, have child after that continue huzzling
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by osuofia2(m): 10:17pm On Dec 21, 2024
Find money Run comot.
Without money in Nigerian you are .0.2 loosing because the system is so fuckedd up. I no de deceive de deceive you
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