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Keep deceiving people to marry

Never say never....keep pushing

Just travel out

Hmm

Keep fighting....... No retreat

Iweakbro:
End it, bro. It's not worth it. You've tried. It's time to go home. Greet my grandma for me.

Child of doom

Guy, ensure you are capable before you go into marriage otherwise,body go tell you.

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Find the right association.
Seek mentors and coaches.
Take some calculated risks!

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Júst await death.

There is nothing like marriage brings grace. Most brings more poverty and the men end up running away. Dey play

techbro1:
No use SportyBet play. Iyanu fit shele anytime

. I dey tell you.

Stop discouraging people from marriage, the story can't all be thesame

ibechris:
It is not marriage that helped ur guy.

He dated a woman who showed him way...not those urgent 2k with 2million naira phone yet not brain and no future.

Marriage can kill u before ur time...I am a married man with 9yrs experience.

Don't rush ooh...u will rush out the way Russians ran way when Putin was trying to conscript them into the army.

Marriage,hmm...if u no get money pls, don't go closer I beg u in the name of God.

Except u are lucky to marry from a well to do family.

Don’t give up

Marriage works for some people at the same time destroys others. I remember a guy years ago who failed in almost everything in life until he met a girl in church who sponsored him to the US.

True talk.... Take a deep breath... Very deep one ,at the point where one inhale ends before the exhale begins .. that's what u are .. awareness, observer. It takes a level of unbotheredness to return to this refined state. At this state.. what ifs don't matter only what is does.

Reverseng:
Know thy self

But what Is self?

Self is that part of you that remains when everything that can be taken away from you is taken away from you because it eventually will - Dr Orion Taraban, Psyhacks YouTube

You're not your gadgets or your fancy house or your fancy lifestyle.
You are your courage, determination, zeal to do what's right, ability to seek Truth and simplicity and so on


Most of what you're chasing is not important. That might hurt but that's it.

Everything you were taught in about school, religion, food, marriage, history... they're distorted.
Make your research and you'll find you were chasing shadows all these while

Sirchiboy:
Well I think if you are in this shoes.
I will tell you a story of a guy that blew up in just two years after getting married.
This guy had been struggling in ph.
He worked in Mr sweet as a cook.
Worked in differen places for years but nothing.
All of us used to play betting in rumuola.
But as soon as he got married this guy blew up..
Now this guy control millions.
Bought house in different places and cars.
The business he is doing is just interior decorations and furniture.
The worst part is that this guy was my guy back then but as soon as he made money.
He shun all of us.
Me next year I don go marry ooo.
I know believe that some women carry grace and anointing that really open doors for men ooo .

My brother, there are so many things that are hidden under the sun that we don't even notice or know.

It might not even be his wife, the marriage, or the business that lifted him up. There are so many Nigerians with no legitimate jobs or businesses but doing great.

Just assume that you don't know the source of his income.

In the past, we have seen numerous Nigerians who claimed to have this or that as their source of income, but in actuality, they were lying, as we discovered after they were caught that they were engaged in some sort of dubious activity.

For instance, Evans, the king of kidnappers, claimed to his people and friends that he was a businessman. Hushpuppy claimed he was into the real estate business.

This is Naija. My brother, don't trust anyone.

Keep struggling one day you go succeed

The grace mr A has is different from the grace of Mr B.


If you like no plan well before you marry, you go enter am

How old are you?
Under Obj, we complained, Yar'adua, we complained and scared people with marriage, GEJ, PMB thesame thing and now Tinubu.

Do you think it'll ever get better the way you want it that you'll get married? That's a joke.

The earlier you get married now the better because things will continue to hard. It's not a curse, it's a nature. It's not affecting Nigeria alone, it's the whole World

Melagros:
COMRADES, my advice to everyone out there is that, either, 30, 40, or 50, don't marry unprepared under the tenure of this dullard prresident called Tinubu because you'll suffer untold hardship

Women brings grace and prosperity. Yet, they are still hustling for urgent 2k here and there. Hookup culture and oloshoism is on an exponential rise at every dawn.

If that should be the case, you wouldn't have been on Nairaland lamenting. Because your mother and maternal ancestors would have laid many treasure boxes for you under their spring beds.

Women are not the key to your prosperity and blessings.

Factors that influences prosperity are:
Geography.
Good government.
Good communication.
Services.
Skill.
Sales.
Implementation of good ideas.
Networking based on value exchange.

Ain't saying you shouldn't marry your prosperity woman when you find one. But please, make sure the prosperity is flowing before you start reproducing innocent kids.

We don't need more children who will be thinking like you in addition to the millions already scattered across the territorial landmass. Please.

Thanks.

40 years on earth and you believe marriage makes a man rich?

"You can't teach an old dog new tricks.'

Advice for sell you go buy

My 10cent advise is don't give up. 40 is just a number and besides many people that have impacted our world today had no direction in their age beyond 40.
KFC as for instance started above age 80.

Start something, no matter how small.

The abandon ur close friends after u make it syndrome.

Na mumu dey think say time don go. Bro, you can start/rearrange your life again at that age, nothing don spoil..

If you don't have a skill, learn one. If you have, how do you intend to expand it, should be your utmost priority..

A woman behind a man's success is the funniest joke of the century...

Sirchiboy:
Well I think if you are in this shoes.
I will tell you a story of a guy that blew up in just two years after getting married.
This guy had been struggling in ph.
He worked in Mr sweet as a cook.
Worked in differen places for years but nothing.
All of us used to play betting in rumuola.
But as soon as he got married this guy blew up..
Now this guy control millions.
Bought house in different places and cars.
The business he is doing is just interior decorations and furniture.
The worst part is that this guy was my guy back then but as soon as he made money.
He shun all of us.
Me next year I don go marry ooo.
I know believe that some women carry grace and anointing that really open doors for men ooo .

The wife might have carried him to some spiritual house, if you know you know.

osuofia2:
Find money Run comot.
Without money in Nigerian you are .0.2 loosing because the system is so fuckedd up. I no de deceive de deceive you

You just said my mind. Nigeria would make you look like you dont have a single idea what you doing. Parents would even start looking at you like "Is this guy stupid or something?" Even if you never get final destination, just leave nigeria first, see if you can work a bit, gather money and proceed to your final destination. Nigeria would make you get to 50, and you fit no know wetin you day do.

Ashirioluwa:
My brother, there are so many things that are hidden under the sun that we don't even notice or know.

It might not even be his wife, the marriage, or the business that lifted him up. There are so many Nigerians with no legitimate jobs or businesses but doing great.

Just assume that you don't know the source of his income.

Trust no one.

But of a truth, I know of someone who has suffered for like 36 years....on the 37th year he got married, and gbam....ĥe now travels around the world. The wife is just but a university undergraduate who appears very decent.

slaypapa:
It's not easy being 40 and struggling last last Oluwa got my back

Sorry sir. I can feel your pains. it is never easy. Most especially when no one to support you up from your family

Sirchiboy:
➜Well I think if you are in this shoes. I will tell you a story of a guy that blew up in just two years after getting married. This guy had been struggling in ph. He worked in Mr sweet as a cook. Worked in differen places for years but nothing. All of us used to play betting in rumuola. But as soon as he got married this guy blew up.. Now this guy control millions. Bought house in different places and cars. The business he is doing is just interior decorations and furniture.
The worst part is that this guy was my guy back then but as soon as he made money. He shun all of us. Me next year I don go marry ooo. I know believe that some women carry grace and anointing that really open doors for men ooo .

Now I know many of you are either intentionally daft or just plain wicked human beings. You would need to be to ignore the plight of the over 70 million married Nigerians out there who have been stuck living under poverty, many before getting married and will likely die in poverty too.