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| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by bentenny(m): 10:46pm On Dec 21, 2024*. Modified: 1:37am On Dec 22, 2024 |
So u think marriage turned his financial life around😆😆 Dey play! |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by BrotherJapa: 10:47pm On Dec 21, 2024*. Modified: 9:46pm On Dec 22, 2024 |
LordIsaac:These kind of stories are why Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world. It is straight from the books of Lamba, Chapter 10, verse 5! |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by udemzyudex(m): 10:48pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
Lol.. Nice script, na to expand am turn am to movie remain. |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sweetvie: 10:49pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
Don't give up |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by LordIsaac(m): 10:50pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
BrotherJapa:I understand your bias; marriage should not be entered into carelessly! |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Emmabyte: 10:50pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
Sleep just sleep yes keep sleeping |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Afolue(m): 10:54pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
Struggling at 40! Omo..! That one serious oh..! Even wheelbarrow pusher for don make am by some level @40 |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by BrotherJapa: 10:55pm On Dec 21, 2024*. Modified: 5:12am On Dec 24, 2024 |
LordIsaac:In life, you plan according to the rules that apply to the most people and not the exceptions or what we call "outliers". Over 80% who married in abject poverty will die in poverty, that is the statistics for the majority. If you marry as a broke man, you will understand the suffering that Job passed through in the Bible. |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by LordIsaac(m): 10:58pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
BrotherJapa:I agree with you totally, without ignoring the outliers. |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by youngrichnigga: 10:59pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
Tell your guy to cut soap for you or give you his Baba's contact. Hussle o before you marry make you not regret ![]() |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by dododawa1: 10:59pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
The worst part is that this guy was my guy back then but as soon as he made money. He shun all of us. Matured minds,will understand better. |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Kobojunkie: 10:59pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
BrotherJapa:... without the relief that Job, an Israelite, eventually enjoyed. ![]() |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Kobojunkie: 11:01pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
LordIsaac:Those described by the OP are the outliers! They are not even considered a minority since there is no link between the success that came to them after marriage and marriage itself. ![]() |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by LordIsaac(m): 11:03pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
Kobojunkie:There may be links not captured by the article. I am not implying causation here; and I must add that there may be confounding variables that strengthen the association/connection between marriage and economic success. Take for instance, in developmental literature looking at major turning point indicators over the life course for individuals, Samson & Laub (1996) argue that marriage can be a good predictor of desistance. So, it won't be out of place to associate it with improved socio-economic status. |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Ouchbabe(f): 11:06pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
PlanetZero:Is not that easy oo. My friend travelled to Canada this January and I know the whooping millions she spent. No be everybody get that kain moni |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Kobojunkie: 11:08pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
LordIsaac:Stop dribbling your self! ![]() |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by BrotherJapa: 11:13pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
Kobojunkie:These people nor understand wetin outliers mean reason their pastors continue to cash out with Lamba stories. |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Omalicious1: 11:16pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
Sirchiboy:If he shunned you immediately he started making millions, well, he just showed you that he was never your guy in the first place. No matter what, don't compare your life to his, there might be certain deep things about him that if u know, you will be more happier than him. Don't get carried away by his lifestyle. Focus on your hustle, your time will come. |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by omooba969(m): 11:17pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
Sirchiboy:Something is definitely wrong with you, you need a psychiatric evaluation ASAPU! |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by BrotherJapa: 11:17pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
To stay away from dating and procreating in order not to spread the sapavirus. |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by MamaOghenero(f): 11:22pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
LordIsaac:If data subscription was costlier, it would have saved us from seeing comments like this. |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by LordIsaac(m): 11:23pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
MamaOghenero:Avoid the fallacy of generalization. You don't know all the story! |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by LordIsaac(m): 11:25pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
Kobojunkie:You don't know all the story! |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by AfonjaPriest: 11:26pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Pickmycall: 11:28pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
Sirchiboy:How him take blew?Abi na Nollywood movie you dey tell us? |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Kobojunkie: 11:29pm On Dec 21, 2024*. Modified: 8:55pm On Dec 22, 2024 |
LordIsaac:I don't need to know all stories. I simply need to know that there is no physical evidence between being married and having success in business or a career. The billions of successful people around the world who found success long before even imagining marriage are more than enough proof of this simple fact. ![]() Even a child in primary 2 should be able to explain this one to you easily. If a single individual can be successful in business and/or career then what that means is that marriage has nothing to do with success in business and career. |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by dauntless15(m): 11:32pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
If you're forty and single and yet struggling and this didn't motivate you to make it adding someone else's daughter to your miserable life won't motivate you to make it either, this explains why you're forty and struggling because you're dumb to some extent, someone who should be at a drawing board figuring out what went wrong or how he spent his youth chasing nonsense which led him to be a fool at forty is here concocting stupid superstitious stories of suddenly becoming successful just because you got married, marry naw, you go chop sand tire a bottle will become your best friend that is if you can even afford a drink after that wife of yours who's supposed to be your lucky charm sleeps around with multiple men to make ends meet simply because you couldn't. |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by LordIsaac(m): 11:32pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
Kobojunkie:I beg to differ. Even the richest woman in Nigeria made that association clear. I shall reiterate for emphasis sake, you are entitled to your opinion, but do not assume it holds in all circumstances. |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Kobojunkie: 11:37pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
LordIsaac:Your response does not make sense of any kind. ![]() |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Lanretoye(m): 11:37pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
Melagros:i don't know why no Hausa or yoruba thinks this way. |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Emeka511(m): 11:50pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
Don't give up!! |
| Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by HisXLNC1: 11:51pm On Dec 21, 2024 |
By age 40, one should be a critical thinker. At this age, one would have had enough experiences in life that can make one wise. If you have existed for 40 years and still have not lived, and don't have a viable means of livelihood, I suggest you 'stoop'. Let go of pride. Acquire a skill (whether you are a graduate or not). Ignore what people will say (idlers will always find something to talk about). What goes on in the head of other people should not affect your resolve, your focus and determination. Soon enough, you too will become a celebrated employer. |
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