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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by TossTos(m): 10:29am On Dec 22, 2024
Who knows ..
But no look another person time take work o .

Wetin work for one person may not work for others ..

You see one thing about this life that I understand is , we are the author of our lives [/b]and impossible is the thing of the mind , if you work impossible out , it turned possible...

Well , whatsoever you think goes with you , try it and do it better ..

Even though you marry as you've claimed you will maybe things will be fine, there is a say that " [b]everything rises and fall on leadership
"

You will first lead that house for sometime before things will fall in place , it is not magical .. well you may say luck but me I do convert that phrase LUCK to OPPORTUNITY[b][/b] .. and opportunities comes through what you do while you keep doing it ..


Please , be smart.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by ibechris(m): 10:31am On Dec 22, 2024
4KNGOAT:
U're so rightly wrong
Quote me correctly and don't half quote me and say what I didn't say.

Please.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Hassanmaye(m): 10:37am On Dec 22, 2024
ibechris:
Don't be scared...rather be scared of the economy and those who have ruined it.

Just don't go into it if u are not mentally and financially prepared.

Good luck my brother.
Thanks 🙏
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sharpsharp00123: 10:51am On Dec 22, 2024
Malroux:
Cc factcheck001, sharpsharp00123. You see where joblessness has landed helinues? Someone that I've been advising for over a decade on this forum, to get a job and stop idling away on nairaland everyday. If you can learn from him now and get a job and be useful, the better for you.
the same helinues that can feed u right?
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by tpain121: 11:07am On Dec 22, 2024
Callosobruchus:
I had this girl, the only who borrowed me money without pressure. She's cool and all of that, my family was waiting for me to confirm her as my wife; even reach sister in-laws too O!But truth be told I couldn't fall in love with her cause she was not my type in a way. I respected her though, still do.Beautiful and decent like die!But my brother,there are so many brothers out there who should've been perfect husbands to their wives but unfortunately they're nothing but cheating mvrdefuckers, not because they want to be, but because they married wrong wives out of societal pressures.Be you, just "push" until you realize yourself, your priorities; the right partner who you wouldn't cheat on would come when you get your head straight.
abeg, how does this relate to the subject of this thread? You smoke this morning? 😄
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Malroux: 11:19am On Dec 22, 2024
Sharpsharp00123:
the same helinues that can feed u right?
You mean you and your generation? Don't worry. You'll soon open thread seeking for help very soon. Helinues has done his own.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by GindoX(m): 12:08pm On Dec 22, 2024
Sirchiboy:
Well I think if you are in this shoes.
I will tell you a story of a guy that blew up in just two years after getting married.
This guy had been struggling in ph.
He worked in Mr sweet as a cook.
Worked in differen places for years but nothing.
All of us used to play betting in rumuola.
But as soon as he got married this guy blew up..
Now this guy control millions.
Bought house in different places and cars.
The business he is doing is just interior decorations and furniture.
The worst part is that this guy was my guy back then but as soon as he made money.
He shun all of us.
Me next year I don go marry ooo.
I know believe that some women carry grace and anointing that really open doors for men ooo .
Bro forget, him don waka add for him matter. grin
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sirchiboy(op): 12:15pm On Dec 22, 2024
GindoX:
Bro forget, him don waka add for him matter. grin
How I fit waka my own.
I wan make this money.
40 years old not be pikin again
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by saintruky(m): 12:18pm On Dec 22, 2024
Please can you be more explicit on that bad omen cleansing part


sofeo:
Work and Pray.

Don't Give up.

Cleanse yourself of any bad omen (That may continue to neutralize your efforts and
struggle) if necessary and if there's any.

Explore opportunities and connect with the right people.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by femi4: 12:34pm On Dec 22, 2024
Sirchiboy:
Well I think if you are in this shoes.
I will tell you a story of a guy that blew up in just two years after getting married.
This guy had been struggling in ph.
He worked in Mr sweet as a cook.
Worked in differen places for years but nothing.
All of us used to play betting in rumuola.
But as soon as he got married this guy blew up..
Now this guy control millions.
Bought house in different places and cars.
The business he is doing is just interior decorations and furniture.
The worst part is that this guy was my guy back then but as soon as he made money.
He shun all of us.
Me next year I don go marry ooo.
I know believe that some women carry grace and anointing that really open doors for men ooo .
Age is just a number, some still make it in their 50s
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Hussein035: 2:21pm On Dec 22, 2024
ibechris:
It is not marriage that helped ur guy.

He dated a woman who showed him way...not those urgent 2k with 2million naira phone yet not brain and no future.

Marriage can kill u before ur time...I am a married man with 9yrs experience.

Don't rush ooh...u will rush out the way Russians ran away when Putin was trying to conscript them into the army.

Marriage,hmm...if u no get money pls, don't go closer I beg u in the name of God.

Except u are lucky to marry from a well to do family.
At age 40 as a man and you are not married it means that you've been roaming with people who never think about what their life should look like at the age of 60 when you will become weak

At 40 just get any apartment, find a serious woman that has a job and also ready to pay the price of raising a family then God will crown your efforts.

For those who will criticize continue
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Osanoghodua1: 2:24pm On Dec 22, 2024
Can you help me with skills and training. I would like to learn
to be honest with you, I won't be chance to lectures.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Drfernandez(m): 4:13pm On Dec 22, 2024
ibechris:
It is not marriage that helped ur guy.

He dated a woman who showed him way...not those urgent 2k with 2million naira phone yet not brain and no future.

Marriage can kill u before ur time...I am a married man with 9yrs experience.

Don't rush ooh...u will rush out the way Russians ran away when Putin was trying to conscript them into the army.

Marriage,hmm...if u no get money pls, don't go closer I beg u in the name of God.

Except u are lucky to marry from a well to do family.
Your hypocrisy is stinking. According to you "Marriage,hmm...if u no get money pls, don't go closer I beg u in the name of God."

The same you that was as wretched as wretchedness itself when you met your wife; the same you whose wife helped got job in the Ministry of Land; the same you whose wife has been carrying financially and otherwise from the beginning to now.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by ibechris(m): 4:53pm On Dec 22, 2024
Drfernandez:
Your hypocrisy is stinking. According to you "Marriage,hmm...if u no get money pls, don't go closer I beg u in the name of God."

The same you that was as wretched as wretchedness itself when you met your wife; the same you whose wife helped got job in the Ministry of Land; the same you whose wife has been carrying financially and otherwise from the beginning to now.
I want to say u are first of all an idiot.
A certified one at that.

Show me the place my wife got me a job and secondly show me where I mentioned she got me a job at the ministry?
In addition to that,u are only angry because u are neither here nor there.( poor soul). Hate filled soul.
I was a banker and good one at that. I was a professional mortgage banker of repute and my
records are there till date.
Before I met my wife, I was already earning close to a million in my side income...I got my wife and my younger brother federal jobs.

Now, I still stand by what I said, anyone who wants to marry and not he is not financially prepared in this economy should pls wait until he is capable. Don't allow idiots like this to deceive u.

Marriage gets tougher by the day especially if u have one income stream.

For u, may u not come out of useless frustration.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sharpsharp00123: 5:16pm On Dec 22, 2024
Sharingiscaring:
Reading your comments here, I can tell that you're one of these people who think they are too wise but are actually empty. Why do you think everyone but you is stupid and you don't care about how they'd feel in telling them?

Meanwhile, there's no wisdom in reducing the font of your quotes because that makes them difficult to read. Doing that only makes you feel like a wannabe tech expert which you are not - though you want us to believe you are.

Try to be more emotionally intelligent.
the kobojunkie is not ok upstairs

If u know u won't argue with that fuul
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Drfernandez(m): 5:17pm On Dec 22, 2024
ibechris:
I want to say u are first of all an idiot.
A certified one at that.

Show me the place my wife got me a job and secondly show me where I mentioned she got me a job at the ministry?
In addition to that,u are only angry because u are neither here nor there.( poor soul). Hate filled soul.
I was a banker and good one at that. I was a professional mortgage banker of repute and my
records are there till date.
Before I met my wife, I was already earning close to a million in my side income...I got my wife and my younger brother federal jobs.

Now, I still stand by what I said, anyone who wants to marry and not he is not financially prepared in this economy should pls wait until he is capable. Don't allow idiots like this to deceive u.

Marriage gets tougher by the day especially if u have one income stream.

For u, may u not come out of useless frustration.
A typical foolish and hypocritical wretched girlish man. Continue deceiving yourself.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sharpsharp00123: 5:21pm On Dec 22, 2024
Malroux:
You mean you and your generation? Don't worry. You'll soon open thread seeking for help very soon. Helinues has done his own.
u that can die of stampede anything from now or gunmen kill u n your relatives in d east
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sharpsharp00123: 5:23pm On Dec 22, 2024
ibechris:
I want to say u are first of all an idiot.
A certified one at that.

Show me the place my wife got me a job and secondly show me where I mentioned she got me a job at the ministry?
In addition to that,u are only angry because u are neither here nor there.( poor soul). Hate filled soul.
I was a banker and good one at that. I was a professional mortgage banker of repute and my
records are there till date.
Before I met my wife, I was already earning close to a million in my side income...I got my wife and my younger brother federal jobs.

Now, I still stand by what I said, anyone who wants to marry and not he is not financially prepared in this economy should pls wait until he is capable. Don't allow idiots like this to deceive u.

Marriage gets tougher by the day especially if u have one income stream.

For u, may u not come out of useless frustration.
wait till when?

What if he has been meeting people like u since d time of Jonathan that told him to wait?

If only u know there's no right time for marriage
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Callosobruchus(m): 11:11pm On Dec 22, 2024
tpain121:
abeg, how does this relate to the subject of this thread? You smoke this morning? 😄
Yeah, negative energy. I'm used to it.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Callosobruchus(m): 11:12pm On Dec 22, 2024
skywalker240:
But you de knack the aunty shall oo

Tok Truth grin grin
Yeah! Negative energy, I'm used to it.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by BrotherJapa: 11:46pm On Dec 22, 2024
ibechris:
I want to say u are first of all an idiot.
A certified one at that.

Show me the place my wife got me a job and secondly show me where I mentioned she got me a job at the ministry?
In addition to that,u are only angry because u are neither here nor there.( poor soul). Hate filled soul.
I was a banker and good one at that. I was a professional mortgage banker of repute and my
records are there till date.
Before I met my wife, I was already earning close to a million in my side income...I got my wife and my younger brother federal jobs.

Now, I still stand by what I said, anyone who wants to marry and not he is not financially prepared in this economy should pls wait until he is capable. Don't allow idiots like this to deceive u.

Marriage gets tougher by the day especially if u have one income stream.

For u, may u not come out of useless frustration.
Ibe, leave these people let them go into a poverty marriage.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Nobody: 12:21am On Dec 23, 2024
Blood money or ritual abeg.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by 4KNGOAT: 2:00am On Dec 23, 2024
ibechris:
Am so so stewpid.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Christian36: 8:56am On Dec 23, 2024
ibechris:
It is not marriage that helped ur guy.

He dated a woman who showed him way...not those urgent 2k with 2million naira phone yet not brain and no future.

Marriage can kill u before ur time...I am a married man with 9yrs experience.

Don't rush ooh...u will rush out the way Russians ran away when Putin was trying to conscript them into the army.

Marriage,hmm...if u no get money pls, don't go closer I beg u in the name of God.

Except u are lucky to marry from a well to do family.
My brother you nailed it, God bless you.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by iamL(f): 7:18pm On Dec 23, 2024
Callosobruchus:
I had this girl, the only who borrowed me money without pressure. She's cool and all of that, my family was waiting for me to confirm her as my wife; even reach sister in-laws too O!But truth be told I couldn't fall in love with her cause she was not my type in a way. I respected her though, still do.Beautiful and decent like die!But my brother,there are so many brothers out there who should've been perfect husbands to their wives but unfortunately they're nothing but cheating mvrdefuckers, not because they want to be, but because they married wrong wives out of societal pressures.Be you, just "push" until you realize yourself, your priorities; the right partner who you wouldn't cheat on would come when you get your head straight.
So all the womanizers and cheating men out there including those with multiple wives married the wrong women abi?

Broke man advise, Wetin you smoke?
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by omojeesu(m): 9:46pm On Dec 23, 2024
Drella:
How can one do the emboldened?
One can’t just go meet people and start rolling with them. How do you find the right association and how do you identify with them?
I suggest one:
Topupandgetreward
Google it.
Get back to me!
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Callosobruchus(m): 11:44am On Dec 24, 2024
iamL:
So all the womanizers and cheating men out there including those with multiple wives married the wrong women abi?

Broke man advise, Wetin you smoke?
Read and understand...
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by iamL(f): 11:56am On Dec 24, 2024
Callosobruchus:
Read and understand...
You need it not me.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Drella: 2:17pm On Dec 24, 2024
omojeesu:
I suggest one:
Topupandgetreward
Google it.
Get back to me!
Your own marketing strategy is based on deceit. This means you will be deceiving your customers and possibly scam them.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by omojeesu(m): 3:34pm On Dec 24, 2024
Drella:
Your own marketing strategy is based on deceit. This means you will be deceiving your customers and possibly scam them.
Which is my marketing strategy?
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by virginboy1(m): 6:10pm On Dec 29, 2024
ednut1:
There is nothing like marriage brings grace. Most brings more poverty and the men end up running away. Dey play
Make them dey deceived themselves dey go grin
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by kingimmade: 11:28am On Dec 30, 2024
Osanoghodua1:
hello Osanoghodua1.
kindly reply m dm
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