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Samantha125:
It's possible she's being pressured by her peers to give up her v-card to you, but she's afraid.

Some of us have been there, it took me a year to finally give it up to my man... But still, nothing prepared me for that day, I nearly ran out of the house naked... We were told scary stories from the experienced ones about how it was painful.

Thankfully, he was a gentle man.

Samantha125:
It's possible she's being pressured by her peers to give up her v-card to you, but she's afraid.

Some of us have been there, it took me a year to finally give it up to my man... But still, nothing prepared me for that day, I nearly ran out of the house naked... We were told scary stories from the experienced ones about how it was painful.



Thanks I appreciate your input but what I'm thinking is not accepting her back if she comes.
Humm I understand your point. Thanks for your input. But what I'm thinking is not taking her back anymore, she's not decisive.

Thankfully, he was a gentle man.

EmperorCaesar:


She dey drag you enter her confused small pikin decision making, you sef con dey consider am

Be a man and cut off completely.

You no even dey shame as she dey use una two dey play ping pong

Super33999:
Remember if you don't do it, another boy will do it
Women want sex as much as you do

Samantha125:
It's possible she's being pressured by her peers to give up her v-card to you, but she's afraid.

Some of us have been there, it took me a year to finally give it up to my man... But still, nothing prepared me for that day, I nearly ran out of the house naked... We were told scary stories from the experienced ones about how it was painful.

Thankfully, he was a gentle man.

drstranged:
You guys are a bunch of kids without any direction or purpose in life. You as a man should especially give LEADERSHIP! Once a woman sees that leadership in you, she follows. But when she sees that she can toss you around, that respect for you becomes gradually eroded. She is naturally confused but it's your responsibility as a man to take a stand

Benniemannz:
Lol 😂

Maigidaane:
So I should reach out to her to resolve it or what do you mean?

drstranged:
Reach out to her. You guys should have a physical talk, not phone talk. Let her make up her mind. Lay the cards on the table like a man And let her know that you won't change your mind after that. You can give her a day or two to contemplate her decision. And stick to your words, don't go back on it. The truth is that, if you don't take your stand, in the end you'd discover that you wasted your precious years and time and energy chasing an unserious girl who was just tossing you around. And you can't get back those lost years and energy and precious time which you lost. And funny enough, it might now be another guy enjoying that same girl whom you gave the best part of your life to. And additionally, you'd have lost other potentially wonderful ladies who would have come into your life if not for her.
So that's why as a man you mustn't waste your time around a girl who doesn't firmly know what she wants because you'd definitely waste your precious months and years. Do you know how much you'd have made if you had invested those years into good ideas that'd make money for you? Soa please be a man. Stop all the back and forth cycles with her and take a stand. Meet her physically and take a decision, give her at most 24hrs to think about it so that whatever response she's giving you, you know she'd have thought carefully about it. And if she decides to stay with you, then set the rules as a man. Let her know that the moment she repeats that her behavior, you'd end it straight.
And please most importantly, never invest in her until she's your wife, because if you do you'd regret it. She looks unstable as a lady. Only give her what you know you can comfortably lose to an enemy without feeling bad even if that enemy insults you tomorrow.

Lanmonfishery:
Give her silent treatment, tell her when she’s sure and ready for something really serious she CB an come back,
Give her ultimatum that if she breaks up again for any reason make she no show back
Be a nigga man na, u just soft like today bread

Samantha125:
I'm just being honest...🤣🤣🤣... You have no idea what is like seeing an aroused man for the very first time...🤣🤣🤣

Benniemannz:
Lol I thought ladies are supposed to be turned on by that?

Samantha125:
It's possible she's being pressured by her peers to give up her v-card to you, but she's afraid.

Some of us have been there, it took me a year to finally give it up to my man... But still, nothing prepared me for that day, I nearly ran out of the house naked... We were told scary stories from the experienced ones about how it was painful.


Nostalgic I suppose!
Thankfully, he was a gentle man.

Samantha125:
When it's your first time, it's not that simple... Maybe with other ladies it is simple, but it wasn't the case with me...🤦🤦🤦

Benniemannz:
I understand but what were you really running from, the rod? The pain? Or the thought of losing it finally?

Samantha125:
All three...😂😂😂