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Sonnobax15:

It'd be an unwise decision to quit your relationship simply because your fiancee's ex has refused to move on.....You should be more concerned on how she's handling the whole situation.....Is she giving him the room to have a conversation with her? Cuz we all know how vulnerable bannies could be...With their little tiny brains like that of a fish . How they can be easily be manipulated............

But then again,now I just realized that a man shouldn't be wasting his precious time on a banny .

Vikto17:
My dear Nairalanders ,, a girl l want to marry next year is consistently been stalk by her ex...

The guy called her last three months and l warn her sternly about her having anything to do with her ex... she should either choose the guy or me... in which she called the guy in my present and warn him to stay off ... she block his number too...
Just yesterday, she told me that the guy called her again with a different number.....

l told her that the last thing l will take is cheating and she should know how to handle this guy since she claim to choose me....

Honestly,, l am thinking of ending the relationship,, don't want to drag this issue into my marriage..... please anyone with experience ..how do u handle this...

Ijaya123:
Women don't love men.

Vikto17:
My dear Nairalanders ,, a girl l want to marry next year is consistently been stalk by her ex...

The guy called her last three months and l warn her sternly about her having anything to do with her ex... she should either choose the guy or me... in which she called the guy in my present and warn him to stay off ... she block his number too...
Just yesterday, she told me that the guy called her again with a different number.....

l told her that the last thing l will take is cheating and she should know how to handle this guy since she claim to choose me....

Honestly,, l am thinking of ending the relationship,, don't want to drag this issue into my marriage..... please anyone with experience ..how do u handle this...

Baronthecelebri:
God punish you, leave that useless girl

yemmit90:
This is inevitable, she would use vex want to see the guy face to face in order to give him last warning, and when she get there, the guy, (having fuvk her many times before) will always has it easier to convince her again to get nack. And when they finish, they will agree that he should stop calling her except , so so so ways. The woman will promise him that she would always come and see him when she had chance but only if he can promise he won't be disturbing her again. It is likely they continue that way even after settling down with you.

Allow this girl to finish her mission with her ex before you take her serious, otherwise, you may father another man's children wuthiout knowing.

Geonigga:
Try to get audio recorder place it in a hidden place in your house and then leave for work while leaving your girl friend at home, then later if you are back secretly play the record audio. Do it for one week then you will know the kind of person your girl friend is.

drstranged:

You acting like married women with even 7 children don't cheat on their husbands or don't have wayward men who still chase them? Doesn't matter if she's married. Marriage doesn't change anyone. If she and that guy can do stuffs before marriage and child birth, they can do even more after she gets married.

frank417:
Yea, but the story didn't say she has cheated, and op asked her to choose between him or the ex. Not about cheating.
This is an ex that is chasing(most likely wants her back), and she is open enough to discuss it with the op. Sometimes marriage solve this issue as it becomes clear to the ex who her choice is.

Faber:
Bro since it is getting out of head... simply tell her to get a new sim card or you call it quits... that guy will knack her one day

I am speaking from experience. Your girl have not even moved on from the guy. Also bear in mind that in a relationship, you don't fear new toasters of your babe...but you see her ex, if he mean business to get her back...you don't stand any chance. He knows the button to press.

You have said it all bro. 👍
Bro, you be legend

Sonnobax15:

It'd be an unwise decision to quit your relationship simply because your fiancee's ex has refused to move on.....You should be more concerned on how she's handling the whole situation.....Is she giving him the room to have a conversation with her? Cuz we all know how vulnerable bannies could be...With their little tiny brains like that of a fish . How they can be easily be manipulated............

But then again,now I just realized that a man shouldn't be wasting his precious time on a banny .

Zulu11zulu:
Change her numbers then if it continues ask her how he got her numbers if she didn't give you good answers then quiet because she may be the one calling the guy.

etrange:
At the first sign of trouble, you’re already considering turning your back on her? lol… ndi relationship

qtx:
RED FLAG bro!. Only your girl can stop the guy if she truly wants to. anytime she sees his call from any number she can quickly block him if indeed she doesnt want to have anything to do with him any further. Look, guys only keep pressing when they see signs there is hope. Maybe your girl still gives him some hope. Honestly, in my opinion, your girl is somehow giving him the green light intentionally or unknowingly; the reason he is not backing off . Secondly, the fastest and easiest way is for her to change her line to cut all forms of communication with the guy if that won't affect her personal communication much.

Nicepoker:
Play along then abscond on the wedding day

Vikto17:
so what do u advice l do?

Vikto17:
My dear Nairalanders ,, a girl l want to marry next year is consistently been stalk by her ex...

The guy called her last three months and l warn her sternly about her having anything to do with her ex... she should either choose the guy or me... in which she called the guy in my present and warn him to stay off ... she block his number too...
Just yesterday, she told me that the guy called her again with a different number.....

l told her that the last thing l will take is cheating and she should know how to handle this guy since she claim to choose me....

Honestly,, l am thinking of ending the relationship,, don't want to drag this issue into my marriage..... please anyone with experience ..how do u handle this...

Vikto17:
My dear Nairalanders ,, a girl l want to marry next year is consistently been stalk by her ex...

The guy called her last three months and l warn her sternly about her having anything to do with her ex... she should either choose the guy or me... in which she called the guy in my present and warn him to stay off ... she block his number too...
Just yesterday, she told me that the guy called her again with a different number.....

l told her that the last thing l will take is cheating and she should know how to handle this guy since she claim to choose me....

Honestly,, l am thinking of ending the relationship,, don't want to drag this issue into my marriage..... please anyone with experience ..how do u handle this...

Vikto17:
✓ My dear Nairalanders ,, a girl l want to marry next year is consistently been stalk by her ex...
The guy called her last three months and l warn her sternly about her having anything to do with her ex... she should either choose the guy or me... in which she called the guy in my present and warn him to stay off ... she block his number too...
Just yesterday, she told me that the guy called her again with a different number.....
l told her that the last thing l will take is cheating and she should know how to handle this guy since she claim to choose me....
Honestly,, l am thinking of ending the relationship,, don't want to drag this issue into my marriage..... please anyone with experience ..how do u handle this...

Eniitankorede:
✓ Don’t you know the next thing to do? Change your girl’s sim card and number. Move to another town completely. Do your marriage asap and if possible move her abroad.,

olabrad:
✓ Do personal investigation. Tap her phone and check her Whatsapp without her knowledge Is her phone on airplane mode or silence when she is with you? Is she picking any calls in your presence or behind you? Does she set her Whatsapp to clear messages? These can give insight if she is cheating or not.