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Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by bestman09(m): 11:03am On Dec 27, 2024
huh
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by mrkings84(m): 11:04am On Dec 27, 2024
To some Life is so beautiful that it looks like they should have it forever, while to others they wished life never existed....


Inside Life......
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by sslcrypt: 11:05am On Dec 27, 2024
I know a girl my guy was trying to marry then, the girl really made nonsense of him till he got fed up and moved on. Lo and behold I ran into her in a shopping mall and she was still asking after my guy. Just simply told her he's happily married now with kids and me I was with my 2 girls taking them shopping. She felt so disappointed, I could see it in her eyes 😂😂.

when I told my guy I ran into her he laughed and said she's a single mum and at a point she was begging him to come back.
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by Omoluyi(m): 11:07am On Dec 27, 2024
Starz825:
Life...

Anyway... we came in here with nothing...we leaving with nothing... married or unmarried

Life is just a vacation centre...we will all go back home.

Just enjoy your vacation.
deep
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by Dogalmighty17: 11:07am On Dec 27, 2024
Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings account from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the account just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same account, so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the account was registered in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.
You see this? Life gave your sister a second chance but she wants to throw it all away again.
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by CloudResident(m): 11:07am On Dec 27, 2024
🎶Why do good girls like bad guys🎵🎼.. in DMX voice..
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by Ibkay32(m): 11:08am On Dec 27, 2024
Samantha125:
I just hope she'll change, because I really feel bad for the guy.
You have to do the guy good, if you really feel bad for the guy by telling him, just safe a soul today Samantha 🙏
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by easzypeaszy(m): 11:09am On Dec 27, 2024
Its worst wt Black women...after all dey want u to marry dem as single mothers...Mk any of my son try dat nonesense wt me see
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by Iweakbro: 11:10am On Dec 27, 2024
ednut1:
What of men that ignored good girls for yansh and breast/ baddie
What's your definition of good girls? Why can't a good girl have nyash and breasts? Weak male!
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by schegun(m): 11:10am On Dec 27, 2024
ednut1:
What of men that ignored good girls for yansh and breast/ baddie
Hmmm no bi small thing ooo
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by chiozor: 11:11am On Dec 27, 2024
She needs psychologicalcounselling..she is feeling insecure and still have mark from the past...she is not bad just need confirmed assurances
Samantha125:
I just hope she'll change, because I really feel bad for the guy.
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by Idaytesj29(m): 11:12am On Dec 27, 2024
ednut1:
What of men that ignored good girls for yansh and breast/ baddie
We don't wife them. We faaaack and go. When it's time for committed relationship, that when you will know that men are scarce, difficult and not cheap.
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by tiswell(m): 11:13am On Dec 27, 2024
Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings account from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the account just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same account, so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the account was registered in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.
that's why people run from single mothers.
I'm sorry your friend maybe good before single motherhood happened to her.

The man just fell into a dangerous trap and might be deeply hurt and broken before he realizes.
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by maestroferddi: 11:13am On Dec 27, 2024
Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings account from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the account just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same account, so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the account was registered in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.
If your account is real...pray for your sister to mend her ways because a disaster may be afoot...

Taking good people for granted is something I dont pray for anyone to attempt...It might take long but the consequences are never palatable...
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by micflo28(m): 11:14am On Dec 27, 2024
Ladies no matter what, still don't marry a dove as a husband. Doves hardly struggle to keep up or possess their rights. Doves hardly protects you physically. Doves lack friends to navigate life's troubles or for some added back ups in confrontations. In all, Marry a Lion who roars outside to protect you but meek inside not to hurt you. Single mothers came about because they did not get pregnant at the right time which is after wedding. Meanwhile, I need a wife, a working class lady.
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by Samantha125(f): 11:16am On Dec 27, 2024
I can't, my hands are tied... At the end of the day, she is still my sister and I love her.

She told me everything in confidence and even trusted me to be in charge of her finances... It's not every sibling that would make you in charge of his or her savings account to a point that they'd even willing to register it in your name.

If the truth is meant to come out, then the truth will one day come out... But it's not gonna be me doing it.
Ibkay32:
You have to do the guy good, if you really feel bad for the guy by telling him, just safe a soul today Samantha 🙏
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by mekuso89(m): 11:17am On Dec 27, 2024
CosmicJames:
There is a pattern I have observed in nature. And it seems that is what is playing out in the case of your sister. She will not change. Infact, she will even get worse with time.
If they eventually marry, then the guy in question must have signed up to a lifetime of misery.

There is a high possibility that the guy in question have previously hurt, maltreat or disappointed a good girl that truly loved him.
And your sister is his punishment for rejecting an angel.
Well if that is so, then I think the duo are in a serious spiritual problem. Most especially the lady in question she might have something to settle with her water spirits if not she may still become single again
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by folake4u: 11:17am On Dec 27, 2024
ednut1:
What of men that ignored good girls for yansh and breast/ baddie
Don't mind the Op.
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by BlessingIsraelM(f): 11:18am On Dec 27, 2024
Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings account from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the account just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same account, so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the account was registered in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.
Sis, this is unnecessary. She trusted you to keep her secrets. Please edit
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by brain54(m): 11:19am On Dec 27, 2024
I feel it's not only girls though...

Generally, people take good people for granted!
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by Okpollo: 11:20am On Dec 27, 2024
Samantha125:
I just hope she'll change, because I really feel bad for the guy.
No pity for a simp he will learn the hard way .
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by stasius: 11:25am On Dec 27, 2024
ednut1:
What of men that ignored good girls for yansh and breast/ baddie
They still get what they bargained for.
It is a two way thing.
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by JayVicky: 11:26am On Dec 27, 2024
Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings account from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the account just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same account, so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the account was registered in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.
It's really sad to see the way the world treats nice guys. They are pushed, tested, and manipulated until they have no choice but to show their dark side.
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by meobizy(m): 11:28am On Dec 27, 2024
Nairaland ending the year on a low note. Rubbish topics have dominated the front page since late November. Someone is finding out that creating an engaging platform is harder than pasting any report of politicians’ idiocy.
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by justtee42k: 11:29am On Dec 27, 2024
Any woman that makes you doubt your bible is not even good for you.
Change your thrashing way of looking for a lady.
Some guys are just thieves at times, always looking for what is higher than them.

Look for a wife and not a lady.

A lady is someone who is independent and wants to live the way she likes.

A wife is a person who is ready to be submissive and listen to your orders .

The bible says, who finds a good wife not who finds a good lady.

So a lady should be a wife before you agree to marry her.

Bookhub:
Women will make you doubt the bible the are more of a curse than blessing unlike what bible said about them,if not for that hormone testosterone nothing will bring men close to those hideous vaginal creatures.
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by Ibkay32(m): 11:30am On Dec 27, 2024
They’ve finally got him! 😂 On one hand, this guy’s friends might have been asking him for financial help and getting turned down, yet here he is, turning himself into love slave “maga” for a graduate of round two. The irony is almost too much! What some men do for love sometimes can be downright scary—it makes people act in ways they never imagined, often leaving others shaking their heads in disbelief.

Samantha125:
I can't, my hands are tied... At the end of the day, she is still my sister and I love her.

She told me everything in confidence and even trusted me to be in charge of her finances... It's not every sibling that would make you in charge of his or her savings account to a point that they'd even willing to register it in your name.

If the truth is meant to come out, then the truth will one day come out... But it's not gonna be me doing it.
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by AishaDant(f): 11:31am On Dec 27, 2024
Funny. smiley
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by Omalicious1: 11:34am On Dec 27, 2024
ebubeson:
When God sends the husband you have been praying to him about, he may appear as a good guy. But you may prefer a bad guy and you may end up damaged. Just be careful and wise so you don't regret it.
Saw this picture online. Ladies may learn lessons from it.
...making a bad decision with the hope that she can turn it to a good one
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by karkel(m): 11:34am On Dec 27, 2024
NoChill:
When her story casts, please don't forget to also come and inform us here
Golddigger
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by Dtruthspeaker: 11:34am On Dec 27, 2024
Too late.

And neither would you let your daughters do what you never did,

And neither are men worthy of any virgin girl since they believe they have a right to cheat and to have extra wives, so your apology is nulliity.

The guy whom you destroyed is now one of the baddest people on earth and he can never be repaired so, leave am as e be as you people have said, it is a "do me i do you, God no go vex". world
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by donprinyo(m): 11:35am On Dec 27, 2024
Responsibility is not for everyone.
Re: Ladies Who Love Bad Guys May End Up Like This. by Triplerg:
Samantha125:
I can't, my hands are tied... At the end of the day, she is still my sister and I love her.

She told me everything in confidence and even trusted me to be in charge of her finances... It's not every sibling that would make you in charge of his or her savings account to a point that they'd even willing to register it in your name.

If the truth is meant to come out, then the truth will one day come out... But it's not gonna be me doing it.
Just know that you are an enabler in this game your sister is playing. If you can't tell the guy the truth, then I think you should desist from assisting your sister any further. There are consequences for any wrong done
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