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Starz825:
Life...

Anyway... we came in here with nothing...we leaving with nothing... married or unmarried

Life is just a vacation centre...we will all go back home.

Just be good and enjoy your vacation.

You believe in Jesus Christ, you go back to a blissful home called Heaven. If you don't believe in Him, make no mistake about it. There ain't any home anywhere. It's Hell actually.

Whilst we are in this life, we should make surrender our lives to Jesus Christ. Thus we can enjoy a blissful home when we go.

CosmicJames:
There is a pattern I have observed in nature. And it seems that is what is playing out in the case of your sister. She will not change. Infact, she will even get worse with time.
If they eventually marry, then the guy in question must have signed up to a lifetime of misery.

There is a high possibility that the guy in question have previously hurt, maltreat or disappointed a good girl that truly loved him.
And your sister is his punishment for rejecting an angel.

Rubbish

Samantha125:
It's ex boyfriends and not ex husbands... She's never been married before.

It's same thing I
Anyone u have child for is indirectly like husband o...please help ur sister...speak to ur father about this situation, she needs to be counselled really hard...... having two children from two different men who can wake up tomorrow to complicate ur marriage isn't an easy decision for men to marrying such women. Such men will forever keep questioning their choice, worth and decision unless the woman consistently behave well to calm that mental torture and imagery that his woman was once available to dicks that frequently watered her pot with their sperm enough to plant their seed first before his own seed...........she shouldn't take that man for granted, cos most men will even see that man as a foool for marrying such woman......
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Don't keep silent if u truly love ur sister..Tell ur father and mom to counsel her before she loses that man and turns to a woman who bore children for 3 men.....by then I'm not sure her gimmick or charm will work to tie down a man into marriage

NoChill:
When her story casts, please don't forget to also come and inform us here

It likely won't cast. The guy seems to be a typical simp.

The girl may be the one to abandon him self.

When her story casts, please don't forget to also come and inform us here.
you are right.

sorry for ur self

Life is a cumulation of choices. Choose carefully.

ebubeson:
When God sends the husband you have been praying to him about, he may appear as a good guy. But you may prefer a bad guy and you may end up damaged. Just be careful and wise so you don't regret it.
Saw this picture online. Ladies may learn lessons from it.

You don't want boring guys yet you want the clubbing guy to wife you. You can't eat your cake and still have it

So, what's the difference between baby mama and wifey?

Is there anything in particular that one is enjoying that the other ain't?

Women don't like submissive men and it's just nature. When a man is too caring he'd lose his girl to a nonchalant guy whom she desired his attention.

ednut1:
majority of men are not fine. Maybe 20% . I am talking about the average man

Just saw the attached lindaikeji's blog now and so far this week, I have seen such news like 4 times, all coming out of SA.

Not saying we (Nigerians) don't have our issues, we have ours but I responded based on what came to my mind the moment I read about your sister's situation. Like I wrote earlier, pls talk and continue to talk to your sister until she acts right..

Samantha125:
Please, don't involve SA men into this... Because some Nigerian men are also not innocent in killing their women... GBV is a global problem and not just an SA problem.

Some men also get abused on a daily basis, but are forced to keep quiet because no one takes them seriously when they speak up... They get emasculated by the public.

Samantha125:
I've decided to mind my business... The last thing I want is making an enemy out of my own sister... Chances are she might even prevent me from seeing her children and I love those handsome boys of hers.

Keep making excuses for your wicked self and sister. Nemesis would soon catch up with both of you.

Your own husband also with the help of his brother or sister will marry another woman outside make a family with her and your husband family go keep it from you because they have to protect their child.

At the end he will defraud you to get money to take care of this children outside and his brothers and sisters will help him with this because he his their lovely brother and they love his sons no matter what.

Then you will know how it feels to be an accomplice of evil. And you will feel the pain of betrayer.

This I have seen and nothing you can do to change it.

Wicked family ganging up to scam a SIMPle stupid man how cannot find something better out of more than 3 billion fresh pussies in the world. But a wicked and manipulative even newspaper mother of 2 separate children with 2 different father.

But some men are just plain dumb and stupid. Why did he think the 2 guys who impregnated her dumped her? It was simply because she is only good enough to be used and dumped.

Benniemannz:
Wow. You have a very terrible sister who will learn life the very hard way. She has before her the greatest opportunity to start afresh and enjoy this guy but she's still plotting and manipulating him and taking him for granted. She might never have this opportunity again if she blows this. You better sit her down or call a family meeting on her. She's lost and to imagine with her previous experiences she ought to be wiser but then reverse is the case

You no know say this story na lie? You never still grab women pattern?

Even wetin the Twitter woman talk na set up. Una really no know say women just dey play una.

All dis,talk and story na because una don change the game small for dem, so now dem dey find how dem go take play una.

So what? Just because you saw the news from SA four times this week, it doesn't mean women don't get killed by their men on a daily basis globally, including your country.

SA is so far the only African country speaking out against it and our media is also very transparent about it.

I will try my best with my sister.

pipnator00:
Just saw the attached lindaikeji's blog now and so far this week, I have seen such news like 4 times, all coming out of SA.

Not saying we (Nigerians) don't have our issues, we have ours but I responded based on what came to my mind the moment I read about your sister's situation. Like I wrote earlier, pls talk and continue to talk to your sister until she acts right..

ednut1:
What of men that ignored good girls for yansh and breast/ baddie

Most times na the yansh and breast bitch na im set d foolish. guy up to fallI so dat him and the girl good relationship go scatter.

Check it out, it is always in good relationships that this happens.

purples25:
Thanks for making this equal.

E no equal. 90% of the time it is your evil sisters who sets up the simp to fall but you never told him because, you yourselves also do the same to another girl's man.

CorperKola:
Women are not stupid, if i am a damaged woman and i know and a guy chooses to marry me, i would tgink he is either stupid or he has no other option and i will treat him accordingly. Just being rational here. Thats y i pity the so called good guys

Honestly some guys are just plain stupid. Persin get 2 children with 2 fathers and you still go marry am.

If e no be confirm juju then no doctor or herbalist fit cure that man foolishness and stupidity. The damaged woman no get single fault.

Iweakbro:
What's your definition of good girls? Why can't a good girl have nyash and breasts? Weak male!

Thank you! Very weak male, that guy.

CosmicJames:
There is a pattern I have observed in nature. And it seems that is what is playing out in the case of your sister. She will not change. Infact, she will even get worse with time.
If they eventually marry, then the guy in question must have signed up to a lifetime of misery.

There is a high possibility that the guy in question have previously hurt, maltreat or disappointed a good girl that truly loved him.
And your sister is his punishment for rejecting an angel.

And then a demon comes to the sister's life to deal with her for rejecting the bad man turned good

Dtruthspeaker:
E no equal. 90% of the time it is evil sisters who sets up the simp to fall but you never told him because, you yourselves also do the same to another girl's man.

Nobody dey set una up o. I was the unattractive one so I know first hand. I know how guys despise us and go for fair big breast and nyash as if they have thrown away their brain. Breast and nyash go finish una, but it is those good girls that will see shege.

Samantha125:
So what? Just because you saw the news from SA four times this week, it doesn't mean women don't get killed by their men on a daily basis globally, including your country.

SA is so far the only African country speaking out against it and our media is also very transparent about it.

I will try my best with my sister.

Okay o

I think you got my message as shown in your last sentence to my comment. Good luck with your sister and merry Christmas to you and family.

Samantha125:
So what? Just because you saw the news from SA four times this week, it doesn't mean women don't get killed by their men on a daily basis globally, including your country.

SA is so far the only African country speaking out against it and our media is also very transparent about it.

I will try my best with my sister.

Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings account from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the account just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same account, so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the account was registered in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.

When dealing with women. You have to be ruthless. If you lower your standards, you will get crushed.

brain54:
I feel it's not only girls though...

Generally, people take good people for granted!

True.

That's why in addition to goodness/kindness, one must have a great deal of self-esteem and self-respect to mitigate disrespect.

Lovit:
I think the statement that women loves bad boys is wrong... let me explain

presentation is key for every product, you may be a good boy but if the way you present yourself is not Ok, ladies will reject you. In the dating cycle, first impressions matters a lot.

bad boys tends to do well in presenting themselves attractive on the face value, whether they lie about it or not doesn't really matter to women. if you are a good guy, garnish your goodness with a good presentation. Speak boldly and socialize moderately then ladies will come.

No one likes their potential partner to come crude and rough, no matter what value they hold on the inside.

@bold: well said

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Baronthecelebri:
Wahala

Starz825:
Life...

Anyway... we came in here with nothing...we leaving with nothing... married or unmarried

Life is just a vacation centre...we will all go back home.

Just be good and enjoy your vacation.

how about people with tribal market, are they not be going with it?

Bookhub:
Women will make you doubt the bible the are more of a curse than blessing unlike what bible said about them,if not for that hormone testosterone nothing will bring men close to those hideous vaginal creatures.

bro what kind of bitterness are you spewing, I must be gay for sounding so harsh on the female gender, learn to be rational in expressing your disaffections

purples25:
Nobody dey set una up o. I was the unattractive one so I know first hand. I know how guys despise us and go for fair big breast and nyash as if they have thrown away their brain. Breast and nyash go finish una, but it is those good girls that will see shege.

If you were unattractive, then you deceived yourself into thinking that a guy who was cordial and respectful of you was your boyfriend.

Naturally, men are not attracted to not attractive girls, and you already know it, so if you were not deceiving yourself, then you would have known that he was only coming to you for sex.

And knowing women, you already know that sex hooks a guy, so you give it, and now you hook claim him as your man.

But, you knew he never wanted you and even though you have claimed him, his spirit iis not fully claimed, so he must look for his preference breast and yansh to reclaim him thereby spoiling your claim and her claim and damaging his soul.

But the bottomline is that you knew what you were getting into but it did not fully work out as you desired it to.

In the end all of you are punished together in different ways.

Nonetheless, people will continue being foolish and keep listening to devils who encourage them to fornicate and they wonder why they all fell into the same shits there ancestors fell into.

Anyway their woes make a very good read!

purples25:
Yes, thanks for evening things out !

Go and sit down
New year don almost reached and you still dey behave like small geh...have some shame na

Samantha125:
The guy's mother loves her so much that she even secured a piece of land as their wedding gift, but my sister says she doesn't want it because she doesn't want to live far away from our family house.

Already she has issues with the guy's family and honestly, we her family have seen nothing but love from the guy's family.

Well, this is where the redpill is key. Who but a simp would even look at a single mom of two kids, let alone consider wifing such? That his family even allows her presence shows they don't love their son. Your sister knows this and that's why she is punishing the dude. She knows she doesn't deserve any kind of special treatment(her exes already showed her she ain't shiit) but the new guy is forming Prince Charming and women always rewards such kindness with extreme punishment.

I have seen this scenario multiple times