I initially approached her during my 300 level first semester last year, though I was not straight forward letting my intentions known to her. Then as we entered second semester same session I shot my shot and she accepted my proposal. Throughout the three months we spent during the session, we only had wonderful romantic moments no sex though which I never demanded from her because I did not want everything to happen too fast despite realizing she keeps numerous guys around.

Fast forward, we entered another session our final year. And my birthday happened to be on the 26th of April, she got excited to celebrate with me and came for the first time to my new lodge. As a nice lover, I served her her favorite food which we ate together then proceeded with our normal romantic gestures till I got to her panties and her mood changed all of a sudden, I still never mind and tried all I could to relax her mind for the act and she resisted and begged me to stop for my good sake.

I got angry and enquired why I should not have my way into her and her response still got me confused till now. She told me that am one of a rare nice guy she has met in her life, that she doesn't deserve me because she is not good in health and would not want to see me suffer like most bad guys she had come across, also that it will be more better for me to just enjoy friendship with her with no sex attached.
Ever since then, my mind has been pondering why she made those statements. Why she considers me nice and not deserving? Or is she giving me those excuses to deny me sex?

Please fellow Nairalanders advise me concerning the situation. Should I quit the relationship with her and move on?

Guy dont be dumb.....maybe she has STD...

Quit immediately..

First to comment, I dedicate this achievement to my country Nigeria, I know you guys are proud of me...

Now to the main issue bruhs quit quit quit ooo

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She has an STI .

Thank your STARS. Obviously, she still has some milk of human kindness flowing in her veins. Trust me, that BABE is an "STD/STI" time bomb waiting to explode. Maybe, if you wasn't nice to HER, she for just allow you "KNACK" your way into a "LIFE FULL OF REGRET". Abstinence is KEY, if e get as KONJI dey do you, having a regular "PHUCK MATE" would suffice or u just get MARRIED and start Acting ya own MOJO with ur woman.

Read between the lines bro...

DanDeeBoss:
Lol... Mr, tread carefully

what she said is straight-forward, just understand

Very straight-forward ooo.

Now you know why she keeps guys company mostly, she's pure evil

masternoble:
because I did not want everything to happen too fast despite realizing she keeps numerous guys around.

Goodluck bro...

She likes you...that's why she opened up.
She might be down with a serious ailment (Std, Aids, Heart failure or the likes)
If you love her talk to her, but if its just flirting just keep off

leditexy:
She likes you...that's why she opened up.
She might be down with a serious ailment (Std, Aids, Heart failure or the likes)
If you love her talk to her, but if its just flirting just keep off

I have thought about all these. But how should i end the relationship peacefully without hurting her emotionally, because she was emotionally down before we started dating and I was the one that brightened her mood. Even all my attempts to call it quit so far, she still don't want to give up on me.

Possibly HIV.

SeverusSnape:
She has an STI .

It should be that she has HIV,

She is HIV positive.

Nairaland doctors have killed me ooooo... See as all of them diagnose HIV.

OP, she already said you're a nice guy and nice guys finish last. So no pus*y for you.. Or wait, were you trying to penetrate her without a condom??

Next time she brings up that excuse, tell her you have a condom, then you'd know if her excuse was genuine or not. But my mind dey tell me sey the girl just wan play you, she gives you small romance, you drop cash, while the so-called bad guys are hitting her honeypot on a steady.

ceeroh:
Nairaland doctors have killed me ooooo... See as all of them diagnose HIV.

OP, she already said you're a nice guy and nice guys finish last. So no pus*y for you.. Or wait, were you trying to penetrate her without a condom??

Next time she brings up that excuse, tell her you have a condom, then you'd know if her excuse was genuine or not. But my mind dey tell me sey the girl just wan play you, she gives you small romance, you drop cash, while the so-called bad guys are hitting her honeypot on a steady.

I got no cash bro, you're totally wrong. She is self made and owns a shoe shop before joining school and has been the one spending on me while I help her with her academics.

masternoble:

I got no cash bro, you're totally wrong. She is self made and owns a shoe shop before joining school and has been the one spending on me while I help her with her academics.

I think the question ceeroh asked hasn't been answered,he said were u trying to penetrate her raw? better wise up and start sticking to ur condoms,a cruel gurl wouldn't have told u that.

You just a lucky man. And you better thank her very well I mean very well. People are saying re u diving in raw, but from the look of things it seems u want her to be a constant sex mate. And one day u will feel relax and dive in raw..
The only thing I think will make u run from her should be Hiv, if not the rest have Vaccine which u can take and still continue the relationship. Ask her about what the ailment is all about

dnt be fooled, dive in with a thick condom.. even if na hiv, double condom and make sure ur down there is nt shaved, leave it bushy to avoid skin to skin contact.

masternoble:

I have thought about all these. But how should i end the relationship peacefully without hurting her emotionally, because she was emotionally down before we started dating and I was the one that brightened her mood. Even all my attempts to call it quit so far, she still don't want to give up on me.

If she wouldn't open to you.
Please, dump her.
She's either playing you or it's actually true she has a very serious STI.
Either the case, do a little investigation, you might see some drugs relating to these STIs if you don't see anything and If she wouldn't open to you.
Please, dump her.

I have just three suspicions are regards this case.
1. It could be she sees you as a small boy and doesn't want to go down with you or
2 She has STI like many people said or
3. Her honey pot carries bad luck that whosoever enters shall perish and have everlasting suffering. Maybe she's possessed or has spiritual husband.

ceeroh:
Nairaland doctors have killed me ooooo... See as all of them diagnose HIV.

OP, she already said you're a nice guy and nice guys finish last. So no pus*y for you.. Or wait, were you trying to penetrate her without a condom??

Next time she brings up that excuse, tell her you have a condom, then you'd know if her excuse was genuine or not. But my mind dey tell me sey the girl just wan play you, she gives you small romance, you drop cash, while the so-called bad guys are hitting her honeypot on a steady.

I'm not trying to be a Quack Dr., lol! She could be playing him. But why should he waste time on someone IF she's just playing him? Unless she trying to get him to up his game. But why use failing health as an excuse?

Damn, I wish that I can have a spiritual husband! Lol! It's better than having no husband!!

greatme2good:
I have just three suspicions are regards this case.
1. It could be she sees you as a small boy and doesn't want to go down with you or
2 She has STI like many people said or
3. Her honey pot carries bad luck that whosoever enters shall perish and have everlasting suffering. Maybe she's possessed or has spiritual husband.

MarjieJ98354:
Damn, I wish that I can have a spiritual husband! Lol! It's better than having no husband!!

just tell me you are joking

AIDS VESSEL �����������

Ur girlfriend dont want u to kw her pussy smells like rutten fish "THE BITTER TRUTH"

If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son.

I got 99 problems but a b.i.t.c.h ain't one.

Run with your legs touching the back of your head. She's probably positive to HIV.

Who is raising the men of these days to be such whining pusssies?

No wonder women complain of unmarriageable men these days, and become feminists to fill up the space left by emasculated, pussified men.

Back to masternoble, there are many explanations to your experience.

1. The bîtch probably thinks you are of a low sexual value. The term, rare nice guy is a pointer that you will end up last as other nice guys when dealing with a lady at her sexual peak and seeking men who demonstrate higher sexual value than you have. A reason she has "other toasters". Even being richer than bill gates or dangote won't save your weak ass. She'll just use you to pay her bills and step up while giving you few moments of pity fûck for compensation.

2. She could have some form of sexually transmitted disease or infection and she is being discreetly honest in admitting it. I doubt this this, anyway.

3. Lastly, she may have an aversion to sex (finding it painful physically, female circumcision or as a psychological distress from rape) or suffering an emotional hangover from the break up of her last relationship.

Young man, I'll advise you to cut every form of emotional and sexual attraction to this lady who appears to be putting you in a Friend Zone , the most populated country in the world lol.

You need not explain to her. Just keep your quiet distance and seek other ladies.

Never forget though, that your education and your hustle preceeds any love or sexual attraction to woman. These are what defines you.

You weren't born to serve the purpose of women. Women would do comfortably well without you.

masternoble:
I initially approached her during my 300 level first semester last year, though I was not straight forward letting my intentions known to her. Then as we entered second semester same session I shot my shot and she accepted my proposal. Throughout the three months we spent during the session, we only had wonderful romantic moments no sex though which I never demanded from her because I did not want everything to happen too fast despite realizing she keeps numerous guys around.

Fast forward, we entered another session our final year. And my birthday happened to be on the 26th of April, she got excited to celebrate with me and came for the first time to my new lodge. As a nice lover, I served her her favorite food which we ate together then proceeded with our normal romantic gestures till I got to her panties and her mood changed all of a sudden, I still never mind and tried all I could to relax her mind for the act and she resisted and begged me to stop for my good sake.

I got angry and enquired why I should not have my way into her and her response still got me confused till now. She told me that am one of a rare nice guy she has met in her life, that she doesn't deserve me because she is not good in health and would not want to see me suffer like most bad guys she had come across, also that it will be more better for me to just enjoy friendship with her with no sex attached.
Ever since then, my mind has been pondering why she made those statements. Why she considers me nice and not deserving? Or is she giving me those excuses to deny me sex?

Please fellow Nairalanders advise me concerning the situation. Should I quit the relationship with her and move on?

You wan catch Aids........ Nah jeje hiv siddon, wey u wan go pull hin skirt.......

Make í pitch my tent here..