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Samantha125:
Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

PeterObi4Presid:
Listen to me Aunty....It's not about you making an enemy
It's about you having a record of trying your best to warn her.
If she loses her man and support, I'm very sure in future u may have to render financial support to those children plus the one she may bear for this new man...a burden that may not be convenient by then......most women will self destruct before having sense....u can still help ur sister....I don't even know why I wished I knew her and could talk to her as a man.
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After doing what I told you, you don't have to make her ur enemy, continue to behave same way u have always being, the worst thing that will happen is she will stop telling u about her plots and man.
But by then ur mind is clear as u have done ur best. Pls do it, for the sake of future cos she's starting a marriage on a very wrong path, the end is quite predictable cos that behavior isn't sustainable. Men are not foooools. A man who over look ur two ex husband and children is not a fooool. Those thought of doubt will always surface and occasionally torment him, the best way to make the man believe he made the best choice is for her to be plain, honest and sweet to her man, otherwise she might wake the demon in that man and lose his favors and love ..

Let me tell u my story. On two different occasions, I almost married about two different single moms in my late 20s and early 30s,,,,but unfortunately, they bungled it with their attitude of pride and overconfidence which end up making me come back to my senses to question my sanity and decision to even consider them in the first places in spite of their baggages.......Today, I will never get serious with any single moms...cos it's not worth it...based on experience. They are too manipulative and dishonest and mostly never heal of their past demon....and that's exactly wot ur sister is doing....and she will lose the man of she continue....I bet it.

PeterObi4Presid:
It's same thing I
Anyone u have child for is indirectly like husband o...please help ur sister...speak to ur father about this situation, she needs to be counselled really hard...... having two children from two different men who can wake up tomorrow to complicate ur marriage isn't an easy decision for men to marrying such women. Such men will forever keep questioning their choice, worth and decision unless the woman consistently behave well to calm that mental torture and imagery that his woman was once available to dicks that frequently watered her pot with their sperm enough to plant their seed first before his own seed...........she shouldn't take that man for granted, cos most men will even see that man as a foool for marrying such woman......
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Don't keep silent if u truly love ur sister..Tell ur father and mom to counsel her before she loses that man and turns to a woman who bore children for 3 men.....by then I'm not sure her gimmick or charm will work to tie down a man into marriage

Lordbinsmar:
Keep making excuses for your wicked self and sister. Nemesis would soon catch up with both of you.

Your own husband also with the help of his brother or sister will marry another woman outside make a family with her and your husband family go keep it from you because they have to protect their child.

At the end he will defraud you to get money to take care of this children outside and his brothers and sisters will help him with this because he his their lovely brother and they love his sons no matter what.

Then you will know how it feels to be an accomplice of evil. And you will feel the pain of betrayer.

This I have seen and nothing you can do to change it.

Wicked family ganging up to scam a SIMPle stupid man how cannot find something better out of more than 3 billion fresh pussies in the world. But a wicked and manipulative even newspaper mother of 2 separate children with 2 different father.

But some men are just plain dumb and stupid. Why did he think the 2 guys who impregnated her dumped her? It was simply because she is only good enough to be used and dumped.

Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings account from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the account just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same account, so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the account was registered in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.

luminouz:
Shût dafuq UP!!!!

Lordbinsmar:
E no go better for una

SIMPle fool.

luminouz:
Me, a simp? 😂😂😂😂

I be confirmed redpiller oh but your cho cho cho attitude dey irritate me

Lordbinsmar:
Rubbish red piller or red simper

I tell the theif girl the truth naa. Make dem dey pity SIMPSON like you

Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings account from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the account just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same account, so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the account was registered in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.

Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings account from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the account just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same account, so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the account was registered in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.

Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings account from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the account just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same account, so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the account was registered in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.

Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings account from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the account just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same account, so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the account was registered in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.

luminouz:
Now you are staring to irritate me with your cho cho cho attitude.

Will you shût dafuq UP!!!!
no one wants your sanctimonious bullshit.

Harddiskng:
God forbid!


Almighty creator, any future Son of mine, (in whatever generation) that wants to disgrace and embarrass his family like this; let him never be born

Op no offense to you but with all the beautiful women in the world, why would a single man go and pick trash (like your sister) from the gutter .

Why would a single man see a woman with two children from two different men, whose fathers are alive and think yes this wife-material? this I guess that’s why your sister is treating the man like mumu, cuz no single mother herself talking less of one with multiple children from multiple man believe they deserve such a man.

God is not mocked, sometimes he gives second chances to people just to prove that if you are good, you would be good and not pray for a second chance. She would dongle it, even if it is jazz she used and this man would come to his sense and ditch her despicable ass.

She would the regret it for the rest of her life, cuz she would begin her suffering just as she ought to.

Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings account from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the account just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same account, so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the account was registered in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.

Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings account from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the account just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same account, so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the account was registered in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.

luminouz:
Well, this is where the redpill is key. Who but a simp would even look at a single mom of two kids, let alone consider wifing such? That his family even allows her presence shows they don't love their son. Your sister knows this and that's why she is punishing the dude. She knows she doesn't deserve any kind of special treatment(her exes already showed her she ain't shiit) but the new guy is forming Prince Charming and women always rewards such kindness with extreme punishment.

I have seen this scenario multiple times

Samantha125:
Well, the guy also has a child with his previous fiancee.

Samantha125:
So what? Just because you saw the news from SA four times this week, it doesn't mean women don't get killed by their men on a daily basis globally, including your country.

SA is so far the only African country speaking out against it and our media is also very transparent about it.

I will try my best with my sister.

otipoju:
Sit your sister down and tell her the cold hard truth and tell her you will tell the husband if she does not stop.

Stop aiding bad behaviour. If that man finds out that you are complicit in your sister's schemings...he will loathe you for it.

pipnator00:
Sorry for bringing this up but another one just happened!
Yesterday your women had placards with this, "stop killing us" written on it, protesting the incessant killing.
To be honest, how SA men handle domestic issues isn't always the best.
How we (Nigeria) handle such isn't the best either but it greatly lowers the risk of fatalities.
In Nigeria, such issues would be handled by your family, kinsmen.. umunna if you are Igbo.

Samantha125:
I don't want to be the reason for someone's broken relationship or marriage... I have my own marriage to worry about.

purples25:
Do you see that even when you support these men they turn on you?

This nairaland, you'll think you're being good to them, honest, well behaved and understanding their view, they will still return to you with the same insults they are giving other female nairalanders.

That's how it often ends here.

ebubeson:
When God sends the husband you have been praying to him about, he may appear as a good guy. But you may prefer a bad guy and you may end up damaged. Just be careful and wise so you don't regret it.
Saw this picture online. Ladies may learn lessons from it.

Samantha125:
The post is very true... Sometimes some of us ladies would be labelling men trash because we'd be in denial of the fact that we have a trashy taste in men.

I have this one sister who hasn't been lucky in relationships to a point that the family started looking down on her and regarded her as the black sheep of the family for being in multiple failed relationships... Because two of us are married to our high school boyfriends while one is married to her varsity boyfriend.

She's the only one with multiple failed relationships together with two kids from two different baby daddies... All her exes treated her like trash and her baby daddies don't even care about the kids... I once even confronted one of them for abandoning his own child, but the guy didn't seem to care... My sister was still willing to do anything to continue being with these guys until they finally ghosted her.

Now she's engaged to this wonderful man who was willing to overlook her flaws and adopt her children as his own, the guy's family also love her, but this sister of mine has all of a sudden started growing some wings and taking the guy's goodness for granted... Sometimes she'd be acting as if she's doing him a favour by being with him and I don't like it one bit, but there's nothing I can do.

She lied to the guy about her monthly salary and immediately they got engaged, she asked me to open a second savings account from another bank so that every month she could deposit a certain amount from her monthly salary into the account just so the guy can continue giving her that monthly allowance... If it happens that she wants something and the guy is short of cash, she'd then ask me to sent her a certain amount from that same account, so it can seem as if I'm the one who borrowed her the money because the account was registered in my personal details... I tried talking her out of it, but she wouldn't take a no for an answer.

When the guy asks her where she got the money, she'd lie by telling him that she borrowed it from me knowing very well that the guy would start feeling bad and looking for a way to repay me, but the truth is that, that money never gets to me... She'll spent it on herself... Now the guy recently bought a new car and my sister is already planning on manipulating him into giving her the car.

ebubeson:
When God sends the husband you have been praying to him about, he may appear as a good guy. But you may prefer a bad guy and you may end up damaged. Just be careful and wise so you don't regret it.
Saw this picture online. Ladies may learn lessons from it.

Glory018:
Maybe the guy is impotent,But there must be something definitely wrong with that guy for your sister to be manipulating him like that

ednut1:
What of men that ignored good girls for yansh and breast/ baddie

Samantha125:
He has a child with his ex fiancee.

Glory018:
True True that your sister wicked

Samantha125:
As a woman yourself, what would you do if your sister did the same thing? I'm just curious.