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Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by matoota: 11:08pm On Dec 27, 2024
All these mummy' schildren
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Factcheck0001: 11:11pm On Dec 27, 2024
DLifeless1:
Do you know you are an idiot?
You are asking him of he is a saint?
No wonder you support someone such as tinubu and defend his directionless policies with impunity.
Why am I suprised, are you not a Yoruba man that has bastardised the sanctity of marriage with infidelity and promiscuity just cos you lack self control.
let him go n tell him mama now n the man will shock them by marrying a second wife

The worst they will do is shout n the man will shock them more by selling the house they are in n go n buy another one him n d new wife will live n he will write his will without including any of them

U Igbos n your nzogbu nzogbu, taking actions before u think

No wonder the other guy that told his father to keep shut while driving is also Igbo, by d time Igbo parents realize they are training arrogant n senseless kids it will b too late to reverse cos by then their children won't see beating them as big deal

It's d strong head n nzogbu of not listening to elders that destroyed d south east n made nnamdi kanu n ekpa get locked up

When the children say their fathers are stupid n they can do things themselves, that's what happens n u can see how messed up d south east is
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Oshin56(m): 11:12pm On Dec 27, 2024
MrOreo:
Op, instead of you to settle down and pick up one or two things from people's advice, you're busy capping carelessly. Go and tell your mother let everything kuku scatter.
if care is not taking maybe that's what will scatter the house. Did he think telling his mom will solve the issue or causing problem and if op is opportune to see what many children see concerning there parent and keep mute for peace to rain he will know his own is a child play compare to them...
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by coleon(m): 11:13pm On Dec 27, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??
To think that it's a man that posted this is so nauseating.What happened to the bro code? I remembered the famous saying my dad always quote before his demise when my mum turned all her sons against him because he had side chicks, he will always say " e nu eh le wa ye" in Yoruba. Today I'm a man with kids and family and I realised my dad did nothing wrong but just being a man. Why is cos I'm doing much worse than what my dad did, it's just African in men to have side gigs and not anything new. It's unfortunate we have men these days that don't even have anything going but being effeminate.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by raphy(m): 11:16pm On Dec 27, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
my mother was the first that went to village to clean and get our village house ready.

Meanwhile my dad excuse for not joining her was that he has some workers his trying to settle their salary before going to village for christmas

Meaning he arrived village 24th night while my mum had been in village since 21st december.

Clearly my p man use that excuse to knack...SMH angry
Only God will judge that man!!

Now i just arrive the house in town and this man had the audacity to not even dispose the condoms angry angry
3 Beer bottles litrerd on the floor
Asin i just dey regret entering his room. I no fit look that man the same again
Oga go warm Eba
Let your dad enjoy his life body no be fire. Wood I think there was peace in the house since.

Go scatter the house then
Tell. Him. To do you well he go do
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by zedman1(m):
ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??
I was like you when I was younger, but I never had the guts to approach my Pops or Mom about such matters. I eventually opened up to two of my uncles on separate occasions then, but the only thing each said was that I was a small boy, that I wouldn't understand.
Growing up, I dated and never cheated on the few girlfriends I had during my Single days. I was a good boy until marriage and the kids happened. There are certain things you never imagine you could indulge in until time passes. They say change is constant. Now I look back at what my uncles told me and realize I was truly a small boy then. Life happens, sh*t happens. I'm not trying to justify the times I 4ked up, but for some reason, you might find yourself in the future doing the same sh*t your dad's doing today. It's not a prayer and it's definitely not my wish for you, but sh*t happens when you grow older, son.

And a foot note....Girls cheat a whole lot before marriage, guys do the opposite... It's like karma. I'ts not a rule but it's true.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by kevotek1000(m): 11:19pm On Dec 27, 2024
If it was to be my father he has nothing to worry about ... so far he dey deliver for house, I dey craze wey I go tell my mum abi woman. Let your father enjoy himself the only problem here is to tell him to be more secretive in his sexual dealings so that your mom wouldn't find out some day. Only a bastard son will report his father, when you grow up you will understand better.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Oakenshield: 11:19pm On Dec 27, 2024
VeryWickedBro:
Your daddy is gay
gay father hope u know be Chelsea fan
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Sucre6: 11:23pm On Dec 27, 2024
Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously cool speaking

My brother no talk much your parle na confirm gee, when I was much younger my parle dey pack babes left right center and I Sabi all of them but never did I tell my mum even when my marle dey suspect I go still keep mute cuz you know the funny thing it's non of my business, if you use your mouth take scatter the fam e no go only end for your mama and papa matters but other issues go come board and trust me that family will never remain the same, it's better if that guy parle is caught by his mum rather than him doing the reporting.
Apt
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Princewell2012(m): 11:25pm On Dec 27, 2024
Factcheck0001:
at your age u should b matured enough to handle situations like this

Call him n discuss at length with him after d holiday

What if your mom have been denying him sex?
Do u expect him to report to u?

He will definitely find a way, u have to even appreciate him that he respects your mom

What if he brings a woman into the house he used his sweat to build?

What will u do?

U don't know anything

I bet u are a teenager
Am sure he is expecting people to support him in that nonsense move but he was disappointed.
He has ran away.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Nnamdipapa(m): 11:26pm On Dec 27, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i report him to my mum??
Your father is a learner. KY gel is outdated. I have three types of gey, oil-based, water-based, and pure oil that can be used in the shower. Abeg, free the man let him enjoy his life.

Remind him to be careful to use condoms.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by pafun(m): 11:26pm On Dec 27, 2024
[quote author=ChizzyBuna post=133464200]So my parents are in village for christmas.
Coming from lagos to visit for xmas
I decided to visit our house in town where our family lives. Before going to meet them in village

What i found in my fathers room shocked me


Condom packets that were not prpperly thrown away.

Ky gel found open on the table
For those that don't know Ky gel is lubricant for sex.

This is enough proof this man is cheating.
Should i repirt him to my mum??[/quote


If you don't report him you are a basta
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Factcheck0001: 11:28pm On Dec 27, 2024
ibinaboonline:
Is it just me or did someone else wonder why the man didn't even bother to clean after himself before traveling to join the wife at the village. Who does that without worrying about the family returning to town to see the house in that condition?. Does he not share the room with the wife? I suggest OP takes caution before proceeding o.
e fit b say na him mama him papa use am for self
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Chetas81(m): 11:28pm On Dec 27, 2024
DON'T DESTROYED YOUR FAMILY
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Nobody: 11:30pm On Dec 27, 2024
You wan break your family ni?
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by DeGLORIOUS: 11:31pm On Dec 27, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
my mother was the first that went to village to clean and get our village house ready.

Meanwhile my dad excuse for not joining her was that he has some workers his trying to settle their salary before going to village for christmas

Meaning he arrived village 24th night while my mum had been in village since 21st december.

Clearly my p man use that excuse to knack...SMH angry
Only God will judge that man!!

Now i just arrive the house in town and this man had the audacity to not even dispose the condoms angry angry
3 Beer bottles litrerd on the floor
Asin i just dey regret entering his room. I no fit look that man the same again
If you never knack up to two girls since you were born then you can blame your father. Remember you are a man. This act calls for wisdom on your path. Weight the consequences of your action before taking it. If they got divorced, will you be happy? If your mother got depressed, will you be able to handle it? If the family relationship becomes toxic, will you be happy? Speak to your dad in private instead if you have the balls
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Okortor: 11:32pm On Dec 27, 2024
Wetin concern u? Amebo! Your son too go catch you!
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Nnamdipapa(m): 11:32pm On Dec 27, 2024
Sucre6:
Me too oh, my dad nah very cool guy man 😂
You are lucky. Me I be the kind dad wey go even provide condoms to my sons and teach them safe sex.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 11:33pm On Dec 27, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
My mom was in village since 21st
And i 2000% doubt they use condoms.

Come on!!! Use your brain
He is using condom to prevent having kids that means na young girl he was knacking.
I know im a bit emotional but this is a no no for me!!!

If i didnt travel im sure he wouldnt try such a thing. In your matrimonail house!!!! Come on!! Np dey cap rubbish bro. If he did it outside with evidence it woukd have been 10 times better i dont find out.. omo no be everybody for this country fit see truth talk am.
See how you all are busy defending him
Even one mugu said i will loze my respect if i report him. Can you imagine the kind nonesense people are defending.
When it comes to morals
Forget it, Nigerians dont have single moral value!!.

No wonder politicans treat us like animals. True true una desreve Tinubu i swaer.
Me you your mummy your daddy your siblings everyone single comments here,... All of gada deserve tinubu... Watch your emotions or just shut the Bleep up. Goodnight.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Factcheck0001: 11:33pm On Dec 27, 2024
PeterObi4Presid:
No wonder u have no sense and training to respect ur father...
.
See the rubbish u wrote here, disrespecting ur father cos of ordinary car dat can have accidents and spoil......because ur father talked to u..u had to insult him this way....u sound like a rotten bastard trained by a bad slutty woman....u need to sit with a man to treat u manners and stop behaving like a simpy goat..
What a foolish boy banning his father from his car.....
chai

So this is the same guy that told his father to keep shut in d car

Nawah ooo

That's good, one day he will beat his father n that's when the father will realize he raised him badly
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by kevotek1000(m): 11:34pm On Dec 27, 2024
I swear ur mom go don see ur papa with another woman b4 she no die wetin u com dey cry for. Talking about morality, no one has it.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by BadEnglish(m): 11:35pm On Dec 27, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
This will be the last i will reply a kid like you.
Their is a proverb
" When the carry another person dead body. For your eyes it will look like they are carrying wood.
Until you carry dead body of your family member, you will see how painful it feels"

I wont go back and forth with a kid
Until it happens to you
Then you apply all that rubbish you just wrote
You are the kid here, your brain developed malfunction that's why u can't think to mind your fvcking business and let the old man be
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Ikpongiton: 11:36pm On Dec 27, 2024
Sucre6:
your dad is an adult and can decide to do whatever rocks his boat, Think about things that will better your 2025, don't be a snitch, reporting him is foolery, your dad can even decide to marry her officially and you can't do nothing about it,

When I was n the university like 10 years ago, ASUU was on strike and I parked my stuff and went back home, as I approached my street leading to our house, I saw my dad dropped off a girl before heading to the junction that led to our street, I flagged him, and he gave me a lift, the ride was a quite and awkward one until my dad stopped and started pressing his phone, after a few minutes he said to me, check your phone, I did and he had sent me money, he said remember that shoe u told me u like, go and get it for your self, and remember, you saw nothing I answered yes boss 🙌😂,

He's an adult, and I can't tell him what to do, me snitch on my dad ke, I dey mad ni 😂😂😂😂😂
I have been following you guys and your bunch of wisdom,I wish a son or brother like you for myself.but for the op,he is an idiot.
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by AirBere: 11:37pm On Dec 27, 2024
ChizzyBuna:
No wonder politicans treat us like animals. True true una desreve Tinubu i swaer.
grin grin grin grin

The chances that this story is for online engagement is very high. Let's assume it's actually real lol. Your dad is doing that and the marriage is fine and you want spoil am..

Meanwhile, adding Tinubu to the discussion is just childish lol. Adding him won't change the fact that you're acting and behaving like a literal kid. That's assuming the cock and bull story is real... 😂

Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Ikpongiton: 11:39pm On Dec 27, 2024
BadEnglish:
You are the kid here, your brain developed malfunction that's why u can't think to mind your fvcking business and let the old man be
he is not kid, but also an idiot.don't mind him
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Sucre6: 11:39pm On Dec 27, 2024
Nnamdipapa:
You are lucky. Me I be the kind dad wey go even provide condoms to my sons and teach them safe sex.
Same thing my dad always teach me when I got to adulthood especially when I got admission

Son, I use to see your kurukere movement with that girl, abeg try bring her home at least make I know her well, and if u both can't wait to get married, if u must have sex make sure u use a condom at least..

My dad use to say, if u don't teach your kids sex education, they will go out and learn it from the wrong people with wrong orientation
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 11:41pm On Dec 27, 2024
Okortor:
Wetin concern u? Amebo! Your son too go catch you!
Aje 😂😹😹
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Sucre6: 11:41pm On Dec 27, 2024
Ikpongiton:
I have been following you guys and your bunch of wisdom,I wish a son or brother like you for myself.but for the op,he is an idiot.
I greet you bossman 🙌☺️
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by Fruitbrett(m): 11:41pm On Dec 27, 2024
After going through the comment section and seeing your comments and responses, Nigga you are a SIMP!!!
There's so much to life as a MAN than tryna be a WOKISH little ass boy. In conclusion, it's either the aforementioned confirms your reality or you must really be more dumb than we thought
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 11:42pm On Dec 27, 2024
Sucre6:
Same thing my dad always teach me when I got to adulthood especially when I got admission

Son, I use to see your kurukere movement with that girl, abeg try bring her home at least make I know her well, and if u both can't wait to get married, if u must have sex make sure u use a condom at least..

My dad use to say, if u don't teach your kids sex education, they will go out and learn it from the wrong people with wrong orientation
🆒 father
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by YoungBTCxchange: 11:43pm On Dec 27, 2024
MondayOmoAdugbo:
He's older than you sit your ass and learn.... Don't be a girlie girl Bro
na small boy nah, this one nor no anything. Which matured guy go come nairaland dey talk this kind talk self
Re: I Caught My Father Cheating On My Mother by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 11:45pm On Dec 27, 2024
Fruitbrett:
After going through the comment section and seeing your comments and responses, Nigga you are a SIMP!!!
There's so much to life as a MAN than tryna be a WOKISH little ass boy. In conclusion, it's either the aforementioned confirms your reality or you must really be more dumb than we thought
I'm going to bed. .. imagine babe wey I meet for Christmas oblee,.. she call me now say tomorrow na her birthday I just press red ......I can't do this anymore
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