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How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by essentialone1(op):
Not every guy is comfortable with dating or marrying a single mother.

But since 90% of ladies are extremely secretive, how will you know if a lady is a single mother, without asking her?

Follow up from: https://www.nairaland.com/6477303/how-leave-single-mother-without

Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by imagrg(m): 2:00am On Dec 30, 2024
Check her breast.
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by Lalami3232(m): 2:19am On Dec 30, 2024
cheesy
You may not know atall atall oooo but there are some signs sha.
1. They become more caring and understanding
2. They act very desperate than usual
3. During sex, you are likely to know
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by Gbadugbakun(m): 3:02am On Dec 30, 2024
Visit her. Any child below 6 years in her parents house is hers.
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by Pat081: 3:47am On Dec 30, 2024
imagrg:
Check her breast.
Dey play not Nigeria of today
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by bdon123(m): 5:12am On Dec 30, 2024
Breast. ...bt u will hav to knack first
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by donbuchi1(m): 6:24am On Dec 30, 2024
Her stomach, look for stretch marks.
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by Oluromantic:
The little things that should matter in a relationship means nothing to them and they lack respect...like oga abeg leave me, talk better, do make you go, na you sabi, oga I no dey for all those ones abeg...etc kind of attitude. Like I've been there, there's nothing special in it...blabla. They won't say it, but it'll reflect in their character. It's now left for you to be sensitive enough to know.

A woman catering for a child and a young lady who has never had a child do not have same romance instinct. The single mother with a child will only think of romance or respect when there's a lot of money she stands to gain. A breadwinner woman is not a romantic woman. That's why you'd notice their rudeness to customers in markets as sellers. A lot of them have mouths to feed and fees to pay without any husband's support and that's why they're selling and working so you can't price their stuff and expect customer care.

Like they suddenly enter into maturity by force when they give birth outside wedlock and realize there's no helper anywhere to carry their cross for them. Their eyes suddenly opens ffiaam! Na woman weh no get any dependant dey dey respectful and romantic for relationship.
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by RealityKings1: 8:06am On Dec 30, 2024
There is a line that goes upwards from the private pubic area up their abdomen. It's a line that signifies motherhood... I have forgotten the name the line is called.
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by koladata(m): 8:08am On Dec 30, 2024
If she had the child at a very very young age, you might never see any signs. They tend to even have more flat tommy and firm breast than those without a child.
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by G0Oodharddick:
Damn!

Check her pussy when knacking her.

If she tells you she has a little sister or brother staying with her mom, she's a single mother

Check her breast, it must have fallen or becomes slippery slope. Single mothers are highly Manipulative, once a girl starts with fake emotional cocktails Story she's a single mother! Once she wants u to be committed to her especially when meeting the first time for a good fvck, she's a single mother!

Observe her character!
1. If she's highly Manipulative, single mother pro max!
2. If she tells you what do you want from me, esp when you're about to knack her.. bro she's likely a single mother
3. If you hear the background of a child or baby crying during call, no need to ask, she's a single mother
4. If she keeps posting the pictures of any child while claiming it's her auntie's, uncle's, or brother's child. It's her child bro, She's a single mother!
5. If you noticed she keeps calling you wanting your commitment, she's a single mother looking for who will take care of her and her child. Run bro
6. Single mothers are rude. They use phrases like "I am not in for that" "oga talk wetin u want" "abeg leave me" "hmmm where you dey stay, wetin u go give me if I come" "na u know"
Etc. They're generally rude, arrogant and frustrated because reality has Dawn on them. They've suddenly realized there's no helper anywhere
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by descartes400: 8:33am On Dec 30, 2024
Omo, see professors of womanology!

I salute oh grin
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by Talkisneeded(m): 9:03am On Dec 30, 2024
They are highly manipulative, they see everything from their own point of advantage....



I sell herbs tho
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by Zendinho(m): 9:05am On Dec 30, 2024
[quote author=Oluromantic post=133500247]The little things that should matter in a relationship means nothing to them and they lack respect...like oga abeg leave me, talk better, do make you go, na you sabi, oga I no dey for all those ones abeg...etc kind of attitude. Like I've been there, there's nothing special in it...blabla. They won't say it, but it'll reflect in their character. It's now left for you to be sensitive enough to know.

A woman catering for a child and a young lady who has never had a child do not have same romance instinct. The single mother with a child will only think of romance or respect when there's a lot of money she stands to gain. A breadwinner woman is not a romantic woman. That's why you'd notice their rudeness to customers in markets as sellers. A lot of them have mouths to feed and fees to pay without any husband's support and that's why they're selling and working so you can't price their stuff and expect customer care.

Like they suddenly enter into maturity by force when they give birth outside wedlock and realize there's no helper anywhere to carry their cross for them. Their eyes suddenly opens ffiaam! Na woman weh no get any dependant dey dey respectful and romantic for relationship.

I swear bro your analogy is absolutely top notch, scientifically simple, naturally real, emotionally soaked and humanly true.
You're a genius in the coital process, a legend of no mean repute and a true son of your father.

You are a five star general in the game.
I salute you with a presidential award. 
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by MasterJayJay: 9:10am On Dec 30, 2024
A virgin is not a single mother.
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by Ellapthia(m): 9:19am On Dec 30, 2024
RealityKings1:
There is a line that goes upwards from the private pubic area up their abdomen. It's a line that signifies motherhood... I have forgotten the name the line is called.
I think it's called 999.99
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by ibechris(m): 9:20am On Dec 30, 2024
Stretch mark around her Tommy.


Don't joke with that sign.
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by RealityKings1: 9:21am On Dec 30, 2024
MasterJayJay:
A virgin is not a single mother.
Very simple and smart grin
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by advanceDNA:
essentialone1:
Not every guy is comfortable with dating or marrying a single mother.

But since 90% of ladies are extremely secretive, how will you know if a lady is a single mother, without asking her?
All u need to do is make her confess on her own....that uve dated two single mothers before and u still even help one of them pay the child's school fees even though you are not dating them again...that u love kids gaaann

It's the same way u make a hoe confess she's hoe...
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by Mirabass2015(m): 9:48am On Dec 30, 2024
Plz can u throw more light on this.ote author=Lalami3232 post=133499072] cheesy
You may not know atall atall oooo but there are some signs sha.
1. They become more caring and understanding
2. They act very desperate than usual
3. During sex, you are likely to know[/quote]
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by KingMack(m): 9:58am On Dec 30, 2024
Lalami3232:
cheesy
You may not know atall atall oooo but there are some signs sha.
1. They become more caring and understanding
2. They act very desperate than usual
3. During sex, you are likely to know
hmmm this baba go be OG!!

Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by Wealthoptulent(m): 10:11am On Dec 30, 2024
Lalami3232:
cheesy
You may not know atall atall oooo but there are some signs sha.
1. They become more caring and understanding
2. They act very desperate than usual
3. During sex, you are likely to know
u don PATROLNIZE tha route wella, bonified BREDDAH!
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by PulaPower:
Mere looking at her, you’ll know due to the biological and hormonal changes that would have occurred on her..

But then there’s nothing wrong in asking a lady if she has a kid. I dey everly ask:

Have you ever been married?
Do you have kids?

It’s not a crime to ask..
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by LeeSmart: 11:21am On Dec 30, 2024
Gbadugbakun:
Visit her. Any child below 6 years in her parents house is hers.
Kai
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by Uptheante(m): 11:23am On Dec 30, 2024
RealityKings1:
There is a line that goes upwards from the private pubic area up their abdomen. It's a line that signifies motherhood... I have forgotten the name the line is called.
Linea nigra
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by essentialone1(op): 11:50am On Dec 30, 2024
Nlfpmod
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by Kobicove(m): 11:55am On Dec 30, 2024
You people will drive single mothers to depression with these types of threads you keep creating undecided
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by essentialone1(op): 12:05pm On Dec 30, 2024
If she is no longer a Virgin.

Dazol.
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by Vulcanheph(m): 12:06pm On Dec 30, 2024
G0Oodharddick:
Damn!

Check her pussy when knacking her.

If she tells you she has a little sister or brother staying with her mom, she's a single mother

Check her breast, it must have fallen or becomes slippery slope. Single mothers are highly Manipulative, once a girl starts with fake emotional cocktails Story she's a single mother! Once she wants u to be committed to her especially when meeting the first time for a good fvck, she's a single mother!

Observe her character!
1. If she's highly Manipulative, single mother pro max!
2. If she tells you what do you want from me, esp when you're about to knack her.. bro she's likely a single mother
3. If you hear the background of a child or baby crying during call, no need to ask, she's a single mother
4. If she keeps posting the pictures of any child while claiming it's her auntie's, uncle's, or brother's child. It's her child bro, She's a single mother!
5. If you noticed she keeps calling you wanting your commitment, she's a single mother looking for who will take care of her and her child. Run bro
I agree with everything.
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by RaulteeSupremo: 12:57pm On Dec 30, 2024
i dey see check her breast, most girls at 16 now they breats don even fall finish so its hard to use breast to knw
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by Gadafii: 1:23pm On Dec 30, 2024
I know one single mother, if she didn't tell you, you wouldn't know.

She still sexy as Bleep, her stomach flatter than a wall, breast are still firm and full, her shape mad sick, some of them are that lucky.

That is if they have any iota of self awareness to take care of themselves
Re: How Will You Know If A Lady Is A Single Mother, Without Asking Her? by Maobichek: 1:45pm On Dec 30, 2024
Lalami3232:
cheesy
You may not know atall atall oooo but there are some signs sha.
1. They become more caring and understanding
2. They act very desperate than usual
3. During sex, you are likely to know
Flesh and blood did not reveal these points to you...

Their level of caring and understanding is out of this world.
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