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LUCASC:
Some negative things were-

Being weak all the time, and always feeling sleepy.

Lack of sexual pleasure, you don't always enjoy real sex, erectile dysfunction.

At some point my confidence level starts degrading.

The way I look at women then, and the way I look at women now is different.

Loosing the ability to concentrate on things.

Those were few things I was battling with then.

Thank you for sharing. Since you withdrew from it, have you experienced significant changes in those areas I emboldened?

@Afolue.

cutecommend:
It is one of the strongest addictions in the world.
If you are tied to mammy water, you may become an addict of masturbation.
To be free from masturbation, repent and pray midnight from 12:00 am to 2am, for 5 days, telling Jesus Christ to take away the spirit of masturbation and Jesus will help you. Jesus Christ sets free.

Porn and masturbation is one of the worst addiction just like smoking etc, it has no spiritual no business with any spirit, you can easily deal with it when you have a woman.

[quote author= post=133552505]I hope the youths listen to this and adhere to the information.

#WeDidOurPart.[/quote]It is the spirit that gives life ,the flesh profits nothing .

Bmaster:
but on a serious note,Nature ain't fair to many people.

How would you want a cripple,blind and the deaf and dumb to cope sexually,knowing quite very well that the new breeds of girls otherwise known as Gen-z's don't look their way.?

Yesterday, after having some fun at the Artican Beach and Resort see some nice asses and boobs, I decided to get a callgal for the night.
Gals I got were charging 50k upwards, las las na self service settled the matter, I used the 50k buy PMS for my Honda.

sprints1:
VDM is gradually losing it. I just feel for the hopeless Nigerian youths I was outside today on a general outing just to go fix something and observe the environment. The level of desensitization is becoming alarming I see a lot of young men 20-39 years discussing things of no value. Women, sports, politics, and many more holding their phones pressing it. We are losing our energy to the elites and wrecking us as human beings. I thought VDM was realistic earlier till he started discussing about things of no economic value. Masturbation has it benefits in fact is their anything that doesn't have side effects but using Masturbation to allievate sexual fantasy is wrong and could be detrimental to people without self control and low self esteem. The practice of masturbation has been in existence for a long time even before you was born. My problem with this world is the attention we seek through social media.

Bro everything is not about attention . If you know the millions of people fighting with this addiction , you won’t have issue with anyone that chooses to address it . That topic is important and can help many know they are not alone and try harder to quit or discourage ones still starting. secondly, benefits or whatever might be for people doing that once a while and his message is directed to the ones addicted to it and do that couple of times a day which destroys the person and has no single benefits, it is not everyone that has the courage to open up to such and encourage people trying to quit . This topic is never a distraction Sir . Peace ✌🏾

DestinedForGrea:
Thank you for sharing. Since you withdrew from it, have you experienced significant changes in those areas I emboldened?

@Afolue.

Yea,
I feel strong and energetic.

I gained more muscle mass.

My focus level has increased drastically, I now have the energy to venture in so many businesses at the same time.

My sexual potency is over the roof,
I can now enjoy sex as a man should.

I used to have several night meres,
Now I sleep good.

My confidence level is restored now,
I used to stutter very badly,
Now it has reduced by 80%.

And my vibration is on another level.

LUCASC:
Yea,
I feel strong and energetic.

I gained more muscle mass.

My focus level has increased drastically, I now have the energy to venture in so many businesses at the same time.

My sexual potency is over the roof,
I can now enjoy sex as a man should.

I used to have several night meres,
Now I sleep good.

My confidence level is restored now,
I used to stutter very badly,
Now it has reduced by 80%.

And my vibration is on another level.

you speaking for your self. Keep it up. Are these doctors prescriptions or God’s instructions to mankind? So who you epp!

ClitRaider:
Yesterday, after having some fun at the Artican Beach and Resort see some nice asses and boobs, I decided to get a callgal for the night.
Gals I got were charging 50k upwards, las las na self service settled the matter, I used the 50k buy PMS for my Honda.

Please what's this year's slogan?
Any clue ?

DestinedForGrea:
Thank you for sharing. Since you withdrew from it, have you experienced significant changes in those areas I emboldened?

@Afolue.

it is called self service isn’t. Everything with an advantage has disadvantages. The disadvantages comes on excessive grounds. If a doctor give you drugs, do you take all it contents at once?

Talking on aspect of women on how your performance has to do on them, who that one epp? wetin woman dey do for man?. Na talk be that… acts on women is as bad as digging one’s own grave! I will advise you stay away if you can. What is self esteem? That’s a psychological problem the person needs to figure out!

Deal with your problem and leave others to deal with theirs. I am a realist!

How all that you have mentioned take help your next door nabor or colleagues in the office. Can anyone see you one the streets and figure out if you masturbate or no?

Afolue:
it is called self service isn’t. Everything with an advantage has disadvantages. The disadvantages comes on excessive grounds. If a doctor give you drugs, do you take all it contents at once?

Talking on aspect of women on how your performance has to do on them, who that one epp? wetin woman dey do for man?. Na talk be that… acts on women is as bad as digging one’s own grave! I will advise you stay away if you can. What is self esteem? That’s a psychological problem the person needs to figure out!

Deal with your problem and leave others to deal with theirs. I am a realist!

How all that you have mentioned take help your next door nabor or colleagues in the office. Can anyone see you one the streets and figure out if you masturbate or no?

You obviously don't get the point dude.

Have a nice day.

DestinedForGrea:
Thank God for the sound scriptural knowledge that I have and the liberty to attend a local church with sound doctrine. If not, I'd have been deceived by folks like you.

Firstly, the fact that a word or a concept wasn't explicitly used or stated in the Bible does not necessarily mean that God approves of it or doesn't. The words "masturbation" and "pornography" were not used in the Bible, but that doesn't make them practices that God approves. The point is, they are against God's design for man. God designed man to please himself sexually with his spouse alone, not himself or anyone else. Anything besides that is a sin. Sex in itself is not a sin, but doing it the wrong way is.

Let's focus a bit on masturbation. Why is it that, to masturbate, a person needs to come in contact with sexual content (either by fantasizing or consuming illicit sexual information in the form of pornography)? That in itself is a perversion of God's original intention for man's sexual needs and satisfaction.

Anything that you do that inflicts harm on you or someone else is a sin. God did not plant those things in the earth you created, then why would you think it's okay to do them? A man drinks himself to stupor, sleeps and wakes up in a gutter, a person fornicates and ends up contracting diseases or conceiving a child inadvertently, and you say those things are not sins? I don't know if you go to church or not, but either way, you're under strong deception. Masturbation, fornication, pornography, drunkenness, as well as a host of others have a general effect -- to destroy their victims (in one way or another).

Back to masturbation, I'll reiterate, it has ZERO benefit and a ton of disadvantages; a few of which I mentioned in my previous comment. I'll charge you to ask at least ten people who are struggling with masturbation and want to get out, what it has done to them. I bet you, you'd get the same response I shared here. In fact, VDM who shared this video said the same thing. If you think there's nothing wrong with masturbation and other addictions, then serious questions need to be asked concerning your supposed faith in God and His word.

I'm a child of God, but I've struggled with masturbation even before I became His. I can tell you that He's helping me deal with that nonsense and restoring me to the person I ought to be -- His child. You won't understand, unless you renew your mind. I pray you do.

Peace!

child of God, be there speaking God’s mind, God has already spoken his mind already in all scriptures so stop talking for him. He approved of more than one wife, do you agree?. All the other vices you are mentioning is outside the main point. Do you know there is health consequences for not having to ejaculate frequently as a man? So what is the solution to that aside masturbating if no woman or one can’t afford to be married?. Whatever the women feel, is their business. Young man, masturbating is a phenomenon.! Stop reading the scriptures from behind and in assumptions. God has spoken all that he wants man to adhere to. that all! Masturbating no dey inside, if you destroy yourself na you cup of tea.

When your parent buys a toys for you and you decide to destroy it, will they punish you? It yours, mess yourself up as you want. But if you destroy the toys of you other siblings na problem! This is enough to make myself clear about how God acts as well…! He made us in his image

AllenSpencer:
No. I don’t gamble.

don't let anyone deceive to sports betting.

Afolue:
child of God, be there speaking God’s mind, God has already spoken his mind already in all scriptures so stop talking for him. He approved of more than one wife, do you agree?. All the other vices you are mentioning is outside the main point. Do you know there is health consequences for not having to ejaculate frequently as a man? So what is the solution to that aside masturbating if no woman or one can’t afford to be married?. Whatever the women feel, is their business. Young man, masturbating is a phenomenon.! Stop reading the scriptures from behind and in assumptions. God has spoken all that he wants man to adhere to. that all! Masturbating no dey inside, if you destroy yourself na you cup of tea.

When your parent buys a toys for you and you decide to destroy it, will they punish you? It yours, mess yourself up as you want. But if you destroy the toys of you other siblings na problem! This is enough to make myself clear about how God acts as well…! He made us in his image

Wow! You have a lot to learn, "old man".

I pity the people who listen to you.

Have a nice day, bros.

DestinedForGrea:
Wow! You have a lot to learn, "old man".

I pity the people who listen to you.

Have a nice day, bros.

yea, we both two (2) different worlds…

DestinedForGrea:
You obviously don't get the point dude.

Have a nice day.

what point is it to get here. Those who condemn the act are jobless. Misplaced priorities…Wasting time on what is not their business. You have yours I have mine, as I take use am how e concern you.!

Some persons will preach to you that he wants you to make heaven mean while there are lots of poor on the streets he or she has never fed, how you tak make your own self make heaven! na to preach about how to stop masturbating because you dey see me do wetin?

Abeg e..!

Kinzo0917:
Where is he?

Has he left Nigeria?

I really don't know. We don't see him here anymore.

Don't mind him....fear diseases

Afolue:
you speaking for your self. Keep it up. Are these doctors prescriptions or God’s instructions to mankind? So who you epp!

Stop whacking your d!ck brother 😁

I'm sure you've heard of epididymal hypertension; when you accumulate spasm for long you suffer from this version of hypertension; though it disappears after a while, but quite painful while it lasts. I see nothing wrong with masturbation. Good question, females who self-service, what happens to them? If your mind tells you avoid it, I suggest you most probably should. On its own, it's harmless. My humble opinion - like it or loathe it!

dinachi:
How come masturbation only affects men but not women? Millions of Nigerian girls use dildos and vibrators to masturbate. How come they are not affected? Somebody explain to me why and how?

DestinedForGrea:
✓ Thank God for the sound scriptural knowledge that I have and the liberty to attend a local church with sound doctrine. If not, I'd have been deceived by folks like you.
Firstly, the fact that a word or a concept wasn't explicitly used or stated in the Bible does not necessarily mean that God approves of it or doesn't. The words "masturbation" and "pornography" were not used in the Bible, but that doesn't make them practices that God approves. The point is, they are against God's design for man. God designed man to please himself sexually with his spouse alone, not himself or anyone else. Anything besides that is a sin. Sex in itself is not a sin, but doing it the wrong way is.

Let's focus a bit on masturbation. Why is it that, to masturbate, a person needs to come in contact with sexual content (either by fantasizing or consuming illicit sexual information in the form of pornography)? That in itself is a perversion of God's original intention for man's sexual needs and satisfaction.

Anything that you do that inflicts harm on you or someone else is a sin. God did not plant those things in the earth you created, then why would you think it's okay to do them? A man drinks himself to stupor, sleeps and wakes up in a gutter, a person fornicates and ends up contracting diseases or conceiving a child inadvertently, and you say those things are not sins? I don't know if you go to church or not, but either way, you're under strong deception. Masturbation, fornication, pornography, drunkenness, as well as a host of others have a general effect -- to destroy their victims (in one way or another).

Back to masturbation, I'll reiterate, it has ZERO benefit and a ton of disadvantages; a few of which I mentioned in my previous comment. I'll charge you to ask at least ten people who are struggling with masturbation and want to get out, what it has done to them. I bet you, you'd get the same response I shared here. In fact, VDM who shared this video said the same thing. If you think there's nothing wrong with masturbation and other addictions, then serious questions need to be asked concerning your supposed faith in God and His word.

I'm a child of God, but I've struggled with masturbation even before I became His. I can tell you that He's helping me deal with that nonsense and restoring me to the person I ought to be -- His child. You won't understand, unless you renew your mind. I pray you do.
Peace!

Stop with all of these meaningless lies already! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

LUCASC:
Stop whacking your d!ck brother 😁

it can’t be me you speaking to. You telling out what you do particularly to yourself. I am realist. From what you just said, you can see it’s a known fact home and abroad. Even the whites do.

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Kobojunkie:
Stop with all of these meaningless lies already! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Meaningless to you, because you refuse to think. I won't bother to engage you, you're impossible to reason with.

Afolue:
what point is it to get here. Those who condemn the act are jobless. Misplaced priorities…Wasting time on what is not their business. You have yours I have mine, as I take use am how e concern you.!

Some persons will preach to you that he wants you to make heaven mean while there are lots of poor on the streets he or she has never fed, how you tak make your own self make heaven! na to preach about how to stop masturbating because you dey see me do wetin?

Abeg e..!

What exactly are you saying, baba?

You're just dilly-dallying around. You're being unnecessarily offensive. No one is condemning you for doing what you shouldn't do. Oga if you want to continue masturbating, no wahala. It's your life.

As for me, based on my ordeal with that nonsense, in addition to the testimonies of others, I will never stop speaking against it.

DestinedForGrea:
➜Meaningless to you, because you refuse to think. I won't bother to engage you, you're impossible to reason with.

That entire writeup of yours is devoid of reasoning; it is a pile of religious gobbledegook, so I wonder how you intend to above that in bold, to begin with.

DestinedForGrea:
What exactly are you saying, baba?

You're just dilly-dallying around. You're being unnecessarily offensive. No one is condemning you for doing what you shouldn't do. Oga if you want to continue masturbating, no wahala. It's your life.

As for me, based on my ordeal with that nonsense, in addition to the testimonies of others, I will never stop speaking against it.

I am not. We talking of a bitter truth people are ashamed to debate over! For me I am not. If one defends it, all fingers will point at one that one does it, and that will be childish. When God and the Doctors hasn’t proclaimed a thing on the negative. Whatever the observation on self after abstaining is good for that person. No point generalizations or speaking against it. That’s not a rational way of doing things. Equatorial Guinean guy’s actions has proven it all to the world to know the phenomenon of life.

Kobojunkie:
That entire writeup of yours is devoid of reasoning; it is a pile of religious gobbledegook, so I wonder how you intend to above that in bold, to begin with.

I understand that when something is too complex for a little mind to grasp, it's tagged unreasonable. What is the point having an intelligent conversation with someone whose brain is programmed to argue blindly, just to show that they're right?

Please stop mentioning me, seeing your name alone is disgusting and annoying. I really don't like people who love to argue for the sake of it.

Afolue:
I am not. We talking of a bitter truth people are ashamed to debate over! For me I am not. If one defends it, all fingers will point at one that one does it, and that will be childish. When God and the Doctors hasn’t proclaimed a thing on the negative. Whatever the observation on self after abstaining is good for that person. No point generalizations or speaking against it. That’s not a rational way of doing things. Equatorial Guinean guy’s actions has proven it all to the world to know the phenomenon of life.

Bros, masturbation is bad, terribly bad.

I don't understand what you're saying. Regardless, I can see how dogged you are in maintaining your standpoint. That's your problem, and it can never change the fact that masturbation is a dangerous activity.

Racism is never mentioned in the Bible, tribalism is never mentioned in the Bible. Think of any other vice that wasn't mentioned in the Bible. Now would you say that God approves of them because people who lived thousands of years ago did not explicitly use those words or describe the concepts in a book? Why are you thinking like this?

Is it a coincidence that almost everyone who has had to deal with masturbation and pornography complained about the same effects?

• low self-esteem (confidence)
• inability to concentrate for a long time
• frequent drowsiness
• poor mental performance
• lack of motivation
• inappropriate perception of the opposite gender
• lack of productivity

Is it a coincidence that these traits are common amongst people who are addicted to masturbation? Why do they all complain about the same thing? You say that doctors haven't said anything. The question is, have they done enough research to see how these traits corroborate with that activity?

It is not a coincidence, I reiterate. Let me tell you something; I don't know how far gone you've been into masturbation, but that shit will kill you slowly, and by the time you realize, it would be difficult to stop. You know the most traumatizing aspect of this? Even when you realize the damage it does to you, you'll keep doing it. It's exactly the way hard drugs work.

DestinedForGrea:
➜I understand that when something is too complex for a little mind to grasp, it's tagged unreasonable. What is the point having an intelligent conversation with someone whose brain is programmed to argue blindly, just to show that they're right?
Please stop mentioning me, seeing your name alone is disgusting and annoying. I really don't like people who love to argue for the sake of it.

That you believe that a writeup of yours can be qualified as complex serves as proof of the terrible damage religion inflicts on one's ability to think clearly.

Kobojunkie:
That you believe that a writeup of yours can be qualified as complex serves as proof of the terrible damage religion inflicts on one's ability to think clearly.

You've got nothing sensible to say.

You need to stop deceiving yourself, you are not intelligent. Big grammar can't help you.

Run along now, kid.

DestinedForGrea:
➜You've got nothing sensible to say. Run along now, kid.

This comes from someone who, in 2025, senselessly indicated that Masturbation has something to do with his religious ideas rather than admitting it as the behavioral illness that it is. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Kobojunkie:
This comes from someone who, in 2025, senselessly indicated that Masturbation has something to do with his religious ideas rather than admitting it as the behavioral illness that it is. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

And there you go again. You just can't stop proving how unreasonable you are.

You think throwing around the words "religion" and "religious" makes you smart? You think people who hold a supernatural worldview are dull?

By the way, "masturbation is bad" and "masturbation is a sin" are essentially two different statements. That is attacking the matter from two areas. Of course, you can't understand because you're too quick to play the "religion" card, which you think makes you smart.

Please go away.