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My Mates.................. by abba190b(op): 6:09pm On Jan 03, 2025
what the FCK is happening? Am I a failure or what? I just logged into facebook 3 of my childhood friends are getting married this weekend. Talk less of the ones that did so, long time ago, while all I do is struggle for my daily bread.
Who do I offend in this life abeg? Why am I the poorest among my friends? Why all the people that I grow up with are getting it better than me? Some will say I should thank God that I am alive, my mates are lying down in mortuary, some in their graves, yes I thank God for life, but I think I will be better off dead than this kind of life I am facing. It has reached a level where my parents have now leveled me as failure and stop taking me serious. paying attention to my younger ones.





Life is a bitchchchchhc
Re: My Mates.................. by abba190b(op): 6:11pm On Jan 03, 2025
I think I will get off all social media apps
Re: My Mates.................. by abba190b(op): 6:12pm On Jan 03, 2025
I understand why people commit suicide but I will never do it
Re: My Mates.................. by immortalcrown(m): 6:15pm On Jan 03, 2025
Since you believe that it is better you are dead, why not do that which you consider better?
Re: My Mates.................. by Everyday247:
RealityKings1:
The problem is you care too much about what people feel about you. The same folks you feel are successful and posting on fb have their own challenges too...
Look for every possible way to try a new thing. Way fit open for that side wink
You don turn motivational speaker? grin
Re: My Mates.................. by RealityKings1: 6:37pm On Jan 03, 2025
The problem is you care too much about what people feel about you. The same folks you feel are successful and posting on fb have their own challenges too...
Look for every possible way to try a new thing. Way fit open for that side wink
Re: My Mates.................. by Samueltemi337(m): 6:45pm On Jan 03, 2025
RealityKings1:
The problem is you care too much about what people feel about you. The same folks you feel are successful and posting on fb have their own challenges too...
Look for every possible way to try a new thing. Way fit open for that side wink
💯
Re: My Mates.................. by Samantha125(f): 6:58pm On Jan 03, 2025
My best friend got married when she was about twenty years old, her husband would shower her with gifts, got her a good job to a point that she didn't need to use her nursing diploma to look for work, and he would also buy her different cars... But I was never bothered because I knew that it wasn't my time... My only prayer was for our friendship to remain intact because that's all that mattered to me.

Today I'm also married to the most wonderful man ever and I've got a well paying job... So don't lose hope, it's just not your time yet.
Re: My Mates.................. by Nobody: 7:08pm On Jan 03, 2025
RealityKings1:
The problem is you care too much about what people feel about you. The same folks you feel are successful and posting on fb have their own challenges too...
Look for every possible way to try a new thing. Way fit open for that side wink
And his big mouth too blocking potential helpers.
Re: My Mates.................. by RealityKings1: 7:20pm On Jan 03, 2025
Peterzoom20:
And his big mouth too blocking potential helpers.
That's another problem he has
Re: My Mates.................. by abba190b(op): 7:59pm On Jan 03, 2025
RealityKings1:
The problem is you care too much about what people feel about you. The same folks you feel are successful and posting on fb have their own challenges too...
Look for every possible way to try a new thing. Way fit open for that side wink
that is,why I must leave social media Facebook & whatsapp
Re: My Mates.................. by SmallDick99(m): 8:05pm On Jan 03, 2025
Samantha125:
My best friend got married when she was about twenty years old, her husband would shower her with gifts, got her a good job to a point that she didn't need to use her nursing diploma to look for work, and he would also buy her different cars... But I was never bothered because I knew that it wasn't my time... My only prayer was for our friendship to remain intact because that's all that mattered to me.

Today I'm also married to the most wonderful man ever and I've got a well paying job... So don't lose hope, it's just not your time yet.
Oh Samantha! I there was a time you ran away. What brought you back to Nairaland? Anyways welcome back
Re: My Mates.................. by Samantha125(f): 8:19pm On Jan 03, 2025
I ran away? I don't remember ever running away.

But some of your people also didn't want me here anyways.
SmallDick99:
Oh Samantha! I there was a time you ran away. What brought you back to Nairaland? Anyways welcome back
Re: My Mates.................. by ogolemati: 8:34pm On Jan 03, 2025
abba190b:
what the FCK is happening? Am I a failure or what? I just logged into facebook 3 of my childhood friends are getting married this weekend. Talk less of the ones that did so, long time ago, while all I do is struggle for my daily bread.
Who do I offend in this life abeg? Why am I the poorest among my friends? Why all the people that I grow up with are getting it better than me? Some will say I should thank God that I am alive, my mates are lying down in mortuary, some in their graves, yes I thank God for life, but I think I will be better off dead than this kind of life I am facing. It has reached a level where my parents have now leveled me as failure and stop taking me serious. paying attention to my younger ones.





Life is a bitchchchchhc
cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool use this time you are still alive to amend your ways so as to spend your eternal life with God
Re: My Mates.................. by koldrun: 9:03pm On Jan 03, 2025
abba190b:
what the FCK is happening? Am I a failure or what? I just logged into facebook 3 of my childhood friends are getting married this weekend. Talk less of the ones that did so, long time ago, while all I do is struggle for my daily bread.
Who do I offend in this life abeg? Why am I the poorest among my friends? Why all the people that I grow up with are getting it better than me? Some will say I should thank God that I am alive, my mates are lying down in mortuary, some in their graves, yes I thank God for life, but I think I will be better off dead than this kind of life I am facing. It has reached a level where my parents have now leveled me as failure and stop taking me serious. paying attention to my younger ones.





Life is a bitchchchchhc
Why won't your life be like this? Ungrateful f**l...
Re: My Mates.................. by Ibkay32(m): 11:52pm On Jan 03, 2025
SmallDick99:
Oh Samantha! I there was a time you ran away. What brought you back to Nairaland? Anyways welcome back
Why wouldn’t she run away when you’re here scaring us with your moniker ‘Smalldick’ and broadcasting your insecurities? Bro, you’re literally handing her the running shoes 😂. Maybe try a little self-respect and confidence instead of turning your username into a walking red flag.
Re: My Mates.................. by Skooltynz: 11:58pm On Jan 03, 2025
Las las all of us dey go six feet success or failure
Re: My Mates.................. by Nnamdipapa(m):
Op, solution to your problems is very simple.

You will need to change your friends and stop moving with your "mates".

Start moving with very-poor friends so you guys can swap sob stories of miseries together and, that way, you are never threatened.

Try this and you will thank me later.
Re: My Mates.................. by Kobojunkie: 12:41am On Jan 04, 2025
abba190b:
➜what the FCK is happening? Am I a failure or what? I just logged into facebook 3 of my childhood friends are getting married this weekend. Talk less of the ones that did so, long time ago, while all I do is struggle for my daily bread.
➜Who do I offend in this life abeg? Why am I the poorest among my friends? Why all the people that I grow up with are getting it better than me? Some will say I should thank God that I am alive, my mates are lying down in mortuary, some in their graves, yes I thank God for life, but I think I will be better off dead than this kind of life I am facing.
➜ It has reached a level where my parents have now leveled me as failure and stop taking me serious. paying attention to my younger ones. Life is a bitchchchchhc
In 2025, you believe that marriage is a sign of success? 🙄

2. If you truly do believe you are better off dead, you know what to do. Just be sure you have plans for the after-cleanup. 🙄🙄

3. Well, if they feel that way, why dem no born wife for you put? I would not in good conscience send you out there to go shackle any woman's daughter all so you can have your ignorant parents consider you in a better light. 🙄🙄🙄
Re: My Mates.................. by Nnamdipapa(m): 1:12am On Jan 04, 2025
Kobojunkie:
In 2025, you believe that marriage is a sign of success? 🙄

2. If you truly do believe you are better off dead, you know what to do. Just be sure you have plans for the after-cleanup. 🙄🙄

3. Well, if they feel that way, why dem no born wife for you put? I would not in good conscience send you out there to go shackle any woman's daughter all so you can have your ignorant parents consider you in a better light. 🙄🙄🙄
Dude is gone!

He has a phone and data to constantly post online to lament but will never learn a new online skill.
Re: My Mates.................. by Yima13(m): 1:41am On Jan 04, 2025
My brother, it's not easy. Don't Live your life to impress other. Work on yourself. Focus on yourself, dude.
Re: My Mates.................. by trium: 2:27am On Jan 04, 2025
Let's look at it this way.

Before you logged into Facebook, did you feel this way? No.

There is your answer.
Re: My Mates.................. by Smilleydr(m): 2:36am On Jan 04, 2025
Samantha125:
My best friend got married when she was about twenty years old, her husband would shower her with gifts, got her a good job to a point that she didn't need to use her nursing diploma to look for work, and he would also buy her different cars... But I was never bothered because I knew that it wasn't my time... My only prayer was for our friendship to remain intact because that's all that mattered to me.

Today I'm also married to the most wonderful man ever and I've got a well paying job... So don't lose hope, it's just not your time yet.
the thing s that s always painful when you see most of your mate that you grow up together makin it and you are just in one place but we forget that God time s always the best,

The problem s that we don't know when it will happen, we don't know when our own glory we start to be shining,

May God bless your marriage, you will never know sorrow I wish you best of luck in your marriage,

Abeg Incase if space dey for your office me self dey look for paying job ooooo.
Re: My Mates.................. by papyjaypaul: 3:12am On Jan 04, 2025
abba190b:
what the FCK is happening? Am I a failure or what? I just logged into facebook 3 of my childhood friends are getting married this weekend. Talk less of the ones that did so, long time ago, while all I do is struggle for my daily bread.
Who do I offend in this life abeg? Why am I the poorest among my friends? Why all the people that I grow up with are getting it better than me? Some will say I should thank God that I am alive, my mates are lying down in mortuary, some in their graves, yes I thank God for life, but I think I will be better off dead than this kind of life I am facing. It has reached a level where my parents have now leveled me as failure and stop taking me serious. paying attention to my younger ones.





Life is a bitchchchchhc

Re: My Mates.................. by SmallDick99(m): 4:32am On Jan 04, 2025
Samantha125:
I ran away? I don't remember ever running away.

But some of your people also didn't want me here anyways.
Don't mind them. They are just pretending, I mean who wouldn't want Samantha here? Definitely not me wink
Re: My Mates.................. by Baronthecelebri(m): 6:43am On Jan 04, 2025
What can you do with your hands
Re: My Mates.................. by Bonjovi13: 8:44am On Jan 04, 2025
abba190b:
what the FCK is happening? Am I a failure or what? I just logged into facebook 3 of my childhood friends are getting married this weekend. Talk less of the ones that did so, long time ago, while all I do is struggle for my daily bread.
Who do I offend in this life abeg? Why am I the poorest among my friends? Why all the people that I grow up with are getting it better than me? Some will say I should thank God that I am alive, my mates are lying down in mortuary, some in their graves, yes I thank God for life, but I think I will be better off dead than this kind of life I am facing. It has reached a level where my parents have now leveled me as failure and stop taking me serious. paying attention to my younger ones.





Life is a bitchchchchhc
I hope you are a serious individual. I don't want you to waste my time.

You need to answer these questions:
1. What is your family background? Are you parents financially comfortable or are they poor? How about your uncles and aunties on both sides? Are they and their families doing well financially?
Reason for these questions? To interrogate your family's spiritual foundation? Generational curses are real. You have to deal with it first.

2. Now if you have no family spiritual limitations. Let's get personal. What kind of individual are you? What's your character like? Are you kind, generous, friendly? Are you intelligent? Are you hardworking? Do you read books? Do you love networking and meeting reasonable people?
Most importantly whats your relationship with God like? Are you spiritual or carnal? Do you patronise prostitutes, mastubate much? Porn?
Reason for these questions- Your character or lack of a quality character will limit you in real life. Forget social media, to make it in life, you have to be in other to become. Get it?

Thirdly who are you friends? Who and what are you influences? Who do you regularly hang out with.
Reason; Your associations determines your achievements. You influences have a direct bearing to how you think and the decisions and actions you take. Your influencers impact you internally and you must get it right internally ( mentally and spiritually) to succeed in life.
Answer these questions honestly and I will help diagnose you and point you in the right direction. Thank God this is a new year.
Re: My Mates.................. by Nnamdipapa(m): 5:18pm On Jan 04, 2025
Bonjovi13:
I hope you are a serious individual. I don't want you to waste my time.

You need to answer these questions:
1. What is your family background? Are you parents financially comfortable or are they poor? How about your uncles and aunties on both sides? Are they and their families doing well financially?
Reason for these questions? To interrogate your family's spiritual foundation? Generational curses are real. You have to deal with it first.

2. Now if you have no family spiritual limitations. Let's get personal. What kind of individual are you? What's your character like? Are you kind, generous, friendly? Are you intelligent? Are you hardworking? Do you read books? Do you love networking and meeting reasonable people?
Most importantly whats your relationship with God like? Are you spiritual or carnal? Do you patronise prostitutes, mastubate much? Porn?
Reason for these questions- Your character or lack of a quality character will limit you in real life. Forget social media, to make it in life, you have to be in other to become. Get it?

Thirdly who are you friends? Who and what are you influences? Who do you regularly hang out with.
Reason; Your associations determines your achievements. You influences have a direct bearing to how you think and the decisions and actions you take. Your influencers impact you internally and you must get it right internally ( mentally and spiritually) to succeed in life.
Answer these questions honestly and I will help diagnose you and point you in the right direction. Thank God this is a new year.
You are wasting your time. He needs money .
Re: My Mates.................. by Delightsome2023: 5:32pm On Jan 04, 2025
abba190b:
I think I will get off all social media apps
honestly the kind hatred I take hate you for this forum no get cure..
Ever since you scammed heykims of his hard earned money, denying other nairalanders opportunities..
Try hide yourself if I see you physical and I'm with a gun I go burst open your brains or If I'm with a dagger I'll stab you.
Useless fool at 30
Re: My Mates.................. by abba190b(op): 5:34pm On Jan 04, 2025
Delightsome2023:
honestly the kind hatred I take hate you for this forum no get cure..
Ever since you scammed heykims of his hard earned money, denying other nairalanders opportunities..
Try hide yourself if I see you physical and I'm with a gun I go burst open your brains or If I'm with a dagger I'll stab you.
Useless fool at 30
i didn't scam anyone u want kill me because of ordinary 5k u nd I must be the same oo going through abject poverty
Re: My Mates.................. by abba190b(op): 5:35pm On Jan 04, 2025
Nnamdipapa:
You are wasting your time. He needs money .
who doesn't?
Re: My Mates.................. by koldrun: 7:48pm On Jan 04, 2025
Delightsome2023:
honestly the kind hatred I take hate you for this forum no get cure..
Ever since you scammed heykims of his hard earned money, denying other nairalanders opportunities..
Try hide yourself if I see you physical and I'm with a gun I go burst open your brains or If I'm with a dagger I'll stab you.
Useless fool at 30
Naturally, abba190b na the biggest fool at 30. They no dey debate am
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