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Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by ikorodureporta: 4:54am On Sep 23, 2019
*MARRY YOUR MATE* By Apostle Joshua Selman.

6 MATES YOU MUST MARRY

One of the ways your marriage will not add to the rate of divorce in our world today is for you to marry your mate and if you are married already, make your spouse your mate! You see that statement of ‘ Am I your mate?’ does not apply in marriage. You must marry your mate. I will like to talk on seven dimensions you and the person you want to marry or you have married must be mate.

1. MARRY_YOUR_SPEAKING_MATE

Marry someone you can speak together and understand each other. Communication is very crucial in marriage. Don’t marry someone that, when you are saying ‘A’ he or she will be saying ‘ Z’ Once there is dichotomy in your speaking and understanding level, you can’t enjoy that marriage. So many men go to bar to hang out with friends and gist till 11pm because they know their wives can’t engage in any meaningful intellectual discussion. So many women too prefer to hang out with their friends, because they know their husbands mentality when it comes to vital issues and discussions is very low. Marry your speaking Mate.

2. MARRY_YOUR_SCHOOL_MATE By this I mean, marry someone you can learn together and improve together. Don’t marry ‘ Mr Know all’ or ‘Miss Know all’. Don’t marry someone who is rigid and not open to new ideas, new ways of doing things, or new innovations. Marriage is a great institution. From day one till death do you part, you will keep learning. Marry your ‘school’ mate; someone who is ready to learn with you.

3. MARRY_YOUR_SPIRITUAL_MATE

Marriage is not just a social union. It is also a spiritual union. Marry someone who knows the same God you know. Don’t marry someone who’s believe of God is different from yours. Two can’t work together except they be agreed ( Amos 3:3, Joshua 23: 11-15, 2 Corinthians 6:14-18). The spiritual controls the physical, even in marriage. Check for spiritual compatibility in that person you want to marry.

4. MARRY_YOUR_SPENDING_MATE

Don’t marry someone who is stingy. There are so many expenses to cater for in marriage. A stingy guy in courtship won’t suddenly become a generous husband in marriage. Don’t marry a lady that has the financial philosophy of ‘ My husband’s money is our money, but my money is my money’. Marry someone who believes in dignity of labour , who is ready to work, not a lazy fellow who just want to be a consumer and not a contributor. Marry someone who is ready to spend and be spent for the growth and success of the family.

5. MARRY_YOUR_SEX_MATE

Marry someone you have sexual feelings for. Sexual feeling is not a sin. It is an instinct God put in every person. Sex plays a major role in the success of any marriage. Any man you don’t have emotional feelings for, don’t marry the person. If you don’t have emotional feelings for that lady, leave her alone. A spiritual being is also a sexual being. No matter how spiritual you both may be in your marriage, you won’t be praying for 24 hours in a day. You won’t be reading the Bible or worshiping God 24/7. You will have sex! You will romance! You will flirt with each other! You will make babies. So, marry someone you can connect with sexually. It will help you to enjoy your marriage so much!

6. MARRY_YOUR_SOCIAL_MATE

Don’t marry someone you won’t be proud to go out with. Don’t marry someone you will be feeling shy to introduce to people with boldness. Marry someone you are comfortable to hang out with. Marry someone you are socially compatible with. Don’t marry an anti- social person. You might be wondering if you can find all the ‘mates’ in one person. Yes! The answer is YES! You don’t need to marry 6 guys/ladies to have all these mates. One person can be all that for you. If you also work on yourself and build your life, you can be all that for the guy/lady that will marry you. The promise of God for you is this : ‘Seek and read from the book of the LORD: Not one of these shall be missing; none shall be without her mate. For the mouth of the LORD has commanded, and his Spirit has gathered them.’ (Isaiah 34:16). Say it loud and clear ‘ I shall not lack a mate!’ I hope this blessed someone reading?

Source: http://www.ministryexploit.com/marry-your-mate-by-apostle-joshua-selman/

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Mozibee007(m): 6:19am On Sep 23, 2019
This is absolutely correct

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by luvyaself95(m): 6:36am On Sep 23, 2019
Correct One Guy. In a nutshell marry someone you two have same ( A,B,C) Attitude, Behavior and Character.

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by vastolord4(m): 6:36am On Sep 23, 2019
Marriage is sweet and aswell bitter. It is not by all these writeups. It's by maturity, understanding, don't be really strict, be patient always, learn to think before you talk, 1st of all my brother pray, pray, pray and pray. Everything I have in my wife.. God continue to bless our marriages.. wink

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by femi4: 7:51am On Sep 23, 2019
Apostle know so much about no 5

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Skmoda360(m): 7:55am On Sep 23, 2019
Mozibee007:
This is absolutely correct

Naso.....he nailed it

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by cooooooks(m): 9:47am On Sep 23, 2019
This is a good message.

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Righteousness89(m): 11:31am On Sep 23, 2019
3 & 4 verrrrrrry Important

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Upworkwriter007: 11:34am On Sep 23, 2019
femi4:
Apostle know so much about no 5
Of course, baba no dey knack his wife.
Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Nobody: 11:48am On Sep 23, 2019
Don't marry your spending mate!

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by vivypretty(f): 2:43pm On Sep 23, 2019
true but can you find all six in one person?

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Nobody: 2:49pm On Sep 23, 2019
I concur .I wonder why the moniker above me finds it hard to understand write up. He simply means you should find the one that operate on the same wavelength in all the enumerated criteria.

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by neweraomo: 4:16pm On Sep 23, 2019
Wetin concern me

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Nobody: 4:16pm On Sep 23, 2019
©WARNING! WARNING!! WARNING!!!

People should be very careful oo, because there are things that are happening now, more especially those living around Onitsha, Aba, Enugu, Owerri , PH and Lagos. All this keke(tricycle) riders are into Something else this days oo.

In oyigbo now you will stop a keke rider and tell him to take you to a particular place, he will charge you maybe #100, you enter and when you reach your destination. Maybe you gave him #1000 he will open that small cabin that they always put money and gave you #900 change and zoom off. And that your #1000 will remain there until the day he will go to do account for the owner of the keke. He will bring out all the money in that cabin including that your #1000 and he will summit it to the owner as an account and tomorrow the owner of that keke will take all that money to the bank, just listen ooo.

He will deposit it there including that your #1000 and bank will load some into the ATM machine, during weekend another person will use his ATM card to withdraw money from the ATM machine including that your #1000 he will go to Bar or Joint and order for Beers, Nkwobi, point and kill fish, and ugba some will take their girlfriends to hotel to eat your money. I just want to tell you that all these keke riders are eating and drinking beers with your money.

This is what is happening in Oyigbo right now please everybody should be very careful but if you think my warnings are not useful you will be a victim one day, I like to inform people about the dangers Ahead.

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by seven7clien(m): 4:17pm On Sep 23, 2019
ladies and gentlemen, get in here

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by slawomir: 4:17pm On Sep 23, 2019
Okay
Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by ednut1(m): 4:17pm On Sep 23, 2019
Person no go see woman marry be that. The ones with all these values and sense no dey fine cheesy

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Johnny1013(m): 4:18pm On Sep 23, 2019
well said sir

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Nobody: 4:18pm On Sep 23, 2019
smiley
Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Meti99(m): 4:19pm On Sep 23, 2019
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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Johnny1013(m): 4:19pm On Sep 23, 2019
LillyVal:
©WARNING! WARNING!! WARNING!!!

People should be very careful oo, because there are things that are happening now, more especially those living around Onitsha, Aba, Enugu, Owerri , PH and Lagos. All this keke(tricycle) riders are into Something else this days oo.

In oyigbo now you will stop a keke rider and tell him to take you to a particular place, he will charge you maybe #100, you enter and when you reach your destination. Maybe you gave him #1000 he will open that small cabin that they always put money and gave you #900 change and zoom off. And that your #1000 will remain there until the day he will go to do account for the owner of the keke. He will bring out all the money in that cabin including that your #1000 and he will summit it to the owner as an account and tomorrow the owner of that keke will take all that money to the bank, just listen ooo.

He will deposit it there including that your #1000 and bank will load some into the ATM machine, during weekend another person will use his ATM card to withdraw money from the ATM machine including that your #1000 he will go to Bar or Joint and order for Beers, Nkwobi, point and kill fish, and ugba some will take their girlfriends to hotel to eat your money. I just want to tell you that all these keke riders are eating and drinking beers with your money.

This is what is happening in Oyigbo right now please everybody should be very careful but if you think my warnings are not useful you will be a victim one day, I like to inform people about the dangers Ahead.
I even think say na better thing you day yarn sef.. Mtchew

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Clean2016: 4:19pm On Sep 23, 2019
vivypretty:
true but can you find all six in one person?

Very impossible to get. Hence you remain a single forever looking for invincible mates. Spending mate in a woman..lol

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by henrixx(m): 4:19pm On Sep 23, 2019
Number one is my current problem. Cant hold a reasonable discussion. She must deviate to something trivial.

God help us in finding the right woman

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Nobody: 4:19pm On Sep 23, 2019
seven7clien:
ladies and gentlemen, get in here

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Ekakamba: 4:20pm On Sep 23, 2019
LillyVal:
©WARNING! WARNING!! WARNING!!!

People should be very careful oo, because there are things that are happening now, more especially those living around Onitsha, Aba, Enugu, Owerri , PH and Lagos. All this keke(tricycle) riders are into Something else this days oo.

In oyigbo now you will stop a keke rider and tell him to take you to a particular place, he will charge you maybe #100, you enter and when you reach your destination. Maybe you gave him #1000 he will open that small cabin that they always put money and gave you #900 change and zoom off. And that your #1000 will remain there until the day he will go to do account for the owner of the keke. He will bring out all the money in that cabin including that your #1000 and he will summit it to the owner as an account and tomorrow the owner of that keke will take all that money to the bank, just listen ooo.

He will deposit it there including that your #1000 and bank will load some into the ATM machine, during weekend another person will use his ATM card to withdraw money from the ATM machine including that your #1000 he will go to Bar or Joint and order for Beers, Nkwobi, point and kill fish, and ugba some will take their girlfriends to hotel to eat your money. I just want to tell you that all these keke riders are eating and drinking beers with your money.

This is what is happening in Oyigbo right now please everybody should be very careful but if you think my warnings are not useful you will be a victim one day, I like to inform people about the dangers Ahead.
Madness! grin tongue

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Nobody: 4:20pm On Sep 23, 2019
The advice on social and spending mate is both totally curious and wrong.

God designed the differences in partners for a positive reason - so that one complements the other, for the strong to support the weak. To produce synergy.

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Dpharisee: 4:20pm On Sep 23, 2019
Makes a lot of sense, that is with hope that the partners who got this qualities will remain committed to it
Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by Bigflamie(m): 4:21pm On Sep 23, 2019
Trash.
This man of God is not living in reality.
How can you be able to find all these in one person, so if you meet one and start dating, boom you discover one of these aren't there, you then give up on the relationship and start another one with the hope of getting it perfect and the circle continues.
Trash again

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Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by spencekat(m): 4:22pm On Sep 23, 2019
ednut1:
Person no go see woman marry be that. The ones with all these values and sense no dey fine cheesy
True talk
Re: Marry Your Mate By Apostle Joshua Selman (6 Mates You Should Marry) by AJSfan: 4:22pm On Sep 23, 2019
So true

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