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If a lady suspects her guy is cheating, who is she meant to confront: her boyfriend or the lady?

I met with one of my exes, and we only had a casual conversation. His girlfriend assumed we were dating and called to threaten me. I simply told her that we were not dating and hung up the phone.

She knows what her gender is capable of ..
So she decided to attack the issue from both sides....... She be like.... "Make nobody can snatch man wey I dey manage"

advanceDNA:
She knows what her gender is capable of ..
So she decided to attack the issue from both sides....... She be like.... "Make nobody can snatch man wey I dey manage"

Some women are just funny, how will someone snatch a grown man.

I think she should approach her guy.

As long as they are not married, he is still in the market and u have every right to make him urs.

Merry100:
➜If a lady suspects her guy is cheating, who is she meant to confront: her boyfriend or the lady?
I met with one of my exes, and we only had a casual conversation. His girlfriend assumed we were dating and called to threaten me. I simply told her that we were not dating and hung up the phone.

Do not hesitate to report her arse to the police if she were to try to stalk you or harass you again. 🙄🙄🙄

richmond500:
I think she should approach her guy.

As long as they are not married, he is still in the market and u have every right to make him urs.

Before, I used to be timid. I don't think any of my exes have issues with me, but personally, there are some of them I cannot consider dating again.

Let her keep him to herself. He is kind of toxic; even his mom knows I tried. Even though I broke up with him, she still considers me her daughter. She was the one I went to greet when I met him.

She should obviously confront the guy... Because there's no use going around chasing every lady she sees him with, he'll only get another one after she's done chasing the others.

Merry100:
Some women are just funny, how will someone snatch a grown man.

U are just pretending not to get her....
Advertising sometimes makes u to buy what u never wanted, needed or thought of buying..

As far as she's concerned u are advertising so she decided to send u vawulence before her man starts subscribing to what he doesn't need and already has

advanceDNA:
U are just pretending not to get her....
Advertising sometimes makes u to buy what u never wanted, needed or thought of buying..

As far as she's concerned u are advertising so she decided to send u vawulence before her man starts subscribing to what he doesn't need and already has

It is not a wise move. If I still had some interest in the guy, I could have decided to date him just to spite her.

Merry100:
It is not a wise move. If I still had some interest in the guy, I could have decided to date him just to spite her.

Be like u seff get vawulence for blood....
As in ..... u will throw urself at a guy just to spite ur fellow woman........??

I now get the reason revenge sex makes sense to you women ...sigh!!

advanceDNA:
Be like u seff get vawulence for blood....
As in ..... u will throw urself at a guy just to spite another ur fellow woman........??

I now get the reason revenge sex makes sense to you women ...sigh!!

Her own is too much. She couldn't even speak sensibly; she really got me angry, but I just decided to stay calm.

Merry100:
Her own is too much. She couldn't even speak sensibly; she really got me angry, but I just decided to stay calm.

he's just an ex u dont want anymore, so why u angry someone is being extra over something u done give a flying fvck about ?? You should be laughing at her instead of being angry....Abi a part of low key still wants the guy??

Oya confess....I won't judge you...

Merry100:
It is not a wise move. If I still had some interest in the guy, I could have decided to date him just to spite her.

Bad gyal

advanceDNA:
Be like u seff get vawulence for blood....
As in ..... u will throw urself at a guy just to spite ur fellow woman........??

I now get the reason revenge sex makes sense to you women ...sigh!!

😂😂

Merry100:
Her own is too much. She couldn't even speak sensibly; she really got me angry, but I just decided to stay calm.

Me and you suppose see offline. You’ve got an intriguing personality

advanceDNA:
he's just an ex u dont want anymore, so why u angry someone is being extra over something u done give a flying fvck about ?? You should be laughing at her instead of being angry....Abi a part of low key still wants the guy??

Oya confess....I won't judge you...

Why will you talk to your ex, foolish lady.

Mumu topic. Mtcheww

The lady, the boyfriend and the ex are same birds of the same plumage

Old firewood not dey quench. Why should they bump into each other in the first place? What the heck have they not discussed before? Mtcheew...

TheFinesseKid:
Mumu topic. Mtcheww

Cry harder

Peakdesign23:
Old firewood not dey quench. Why should they bump into each other in the first place? What the heck have they not discussed before? Mtcheew...

I am still in contact with his mum. She said I should come and greet her, so I went. I wasn't expecting to meet him at his mum's house because he doesn't live there.

One of your exes....... hmmmm

Merry100:
Some women are just funny, how will someone snatch a grown man.

Fake female, gerrarahia man.

advanceDNA:
he's just an ex u dont want anymore, so why u angry someone is being extra over something u done give a flying fvck about ?? You should be laughing at her instead of being angry....Abi a part of low key still wants the guy??

Oya confess....I won't judge you...

I have no interest in the guy. The lady is not yet his wife, but she is already quite possessive and feels she can threaten anyone. She seems like a very toxic and aggressive person; I could have shown her that I am not intimidated by threats.

I have visited an ex to say hi to his wife; she was aware that I am his ex and still treated me nicely. She had just had a baby girl. I carried her baby and even took pictures with her. This particular guy is very nice to me. He is a Muslim, and after my visit to his wife, he was still proposing marriage to me.

Merry100:
I have no interest in the guy. She is not yet his wife, but she is already quite possessive

so u are saying until she's his wife she has no right to feel like owner?? Wait are u for real ?? So by this logic ..u don't expect faithful oo until marriage??

Merry100:
. She seems like a very toxic and aggressive person; I could have shown her that I am not intimidated by threats.

i think toxic is an exaggerated word here...she only called u to back off, which might be an over kill but necessary if she feels u are threat.......because its norm for pple to start seeing the ex they are no longer with as an option when they meet again.......

Merry100:
I have visited an ex to say hi to his wife; she was aware that I am his ex and still treated me nicely.

everyone isn't the same...

Merry100:
He is a Muslim, and after my visit to his wife, he was still proposing marriage to me.

Thats very reason this current one called you to warn...mayb u have olosho vibes or u are finer than her and she feels her husband might start to feel the need to enter the place again.....

advanceDNA:
so u are saying until she's his wife she has no right to feel like owner?? Wait are u for real ?? So by this logic ..u don't expect faithful oo until marriage??

i think toxic is an exaggerated word here...she only called u to back off, which might be an over kill but necessary if she feels u are threat.......because its norm for pple to start seeing the ex they are no longer with as an option when they meet again.......
everyone isn't the same...


Thats very reason this current one called you to warn...mayb u have olosho vibes or u are finer than her and she feels her husband might start to feel the need to enter the place again.....

So it is logical for her to be possessive to the extent of threatening my life.

No be only olosho vibes. Nothing concern me with her guy.

Merry100:
So it is logical for her to be possessive to the extent of threatening my life.

u are just exaggerating joor

Merry100:
. Nothing concern me with her guy.

then u shouldn't be this upset over a guy u dont want....

advanceDNA:
u are just exaggerating joor

then u shouldn't be this upset over a guy u dont want....

What is bad is bad; being hot-tempered is harmful, it can lead to hurting someone or even worse murder.

I can also be possessive, but not to the extent of threatening or killing someone. If a relationship isn't working, I would choose to end it.

Not every threat is a mere threat. Don't you think it is possible for her to act on her threat if I were actually dating her guy?

I remember a case where a woman was kidnapped because another woman assumed she was dating her boyfriend. Fortunately, the police were able to locate her in time; who knows what would have happened if they hadn't.

Merry100:
Cry harder

pain am.

advanceDNA:
he's just an ex u dont want anymore, so why u angry someone is being extra over something u done give a flying fvck about ?? You should be laughing at her instead of being angry....Abi a part of low key still wants the guy??

Oya confess....I won't judge you...

And she suddenly woke up and decided to go greet his mother. As daughter in law or as what? Trust this gender at your peril. He was toxic but she went to greet his mother and ran into him by "accident" and probably hanged out with him forever on that day. Women witches know each other and the other witch wouldn't have acted aggressively the way she did if she didn't feel the vibe of what was coming to play.