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tctrills:
Sex on its own is supposed to be enjoyed. Meaningful sex or not, our brains and nerve endings were built to love and appreciate sex. Our hormones enhance sexual pleasure.

Disliking or hating sex can stem from a variety of psychological, physical, and social factors. Here are some common reasons:

Past Trauma:
Sexual Abuse or Assault: Survivors of sexual trauma might associate sex with negative experiences, pain, or fear, leading to a strong aversion.


Psychological Issues:
Anxiety, Depression, or Stress: Mental health conditions can significantly impact one's libido or enjoyment of sex, turning what should be pleasurable into a source of distress or disinterest.

Low Self-Esteem or Body Image Issues: Feeling unattractive or uncomfortable with one's body can make sexual encounters unappealing or anxiety-inducing.
Physical Health or Pain:
Pain During Sex: Conditions like vaginismus, endometriosis, or other sources of pain during intercourse can make sex an unpleasant experience.

Hormonal Imbalances: Hormonal changes, for instance, during menopause or due to medical conditions, can affect libido.

Medication Side Effects:
Antidepressants and Other Drugs: Certain medications, particularly SSRIs, are known to decrease sexual desire or function.

Lack of Attraction or Connection:
Emotional Disconnect: If there's a lack of emotional intimacy or attraction, sex can feel mechanical or unfulfilling.

Cultural or Religious Beliefs:
Guilt or Shame: Some individuals might have been raised with beliefs that view sex negatively or outside marriage, leading to feelings of guilt or shame about sexual activities.

Asexuality:
Lack of Sexual Attraction: Some people identify as asexual, meaning they do not experience sexual attraction, which can manifest as disinterest in sex.

Relationship Dynamics:
Unresolved Conflicts or Poor Communication: Ongoing relationship issues can sour one's desire for intimacy, turning sex into a duty rather than a pleasurable experience.

Overstimulation or Sensory Issues:
Sensory Overload: For some, sex might be overwhelming due to sensory sensitivities, leading to discomfort or aversion.

Societal Pressures:
Expectation vs. Reality: The pressure to perform or enjoy sex due to societal norms can lead to disappointment or negative feelings towards it if one's personal experience doesn't match these expectations.

Understanding the root of one's dislike for sex often requires introspection or, in some cases, professional help to address underlying issues, whether they are psychological, physical, or relational. Therapy, including sex therapy, can be particularly beneficial in these scenarios.

I never said hate sex. But if you see the extent and expense some guys go to to have sex with a girl you'd think there's more to it!
My point is to understand it doesn't make you any better or give you part of the girl or anything. It is just sex, and in itself it is not much - it can easily be substituted for without loss of enjoyment except psychological (ie what YOU tell yourself)

tctrills:
Wow. It is not natural?

i think the last time i have sex was 2022 i swear to God

Peakdesign23:
Honestly nothing dey inside sex.

Find a girl with very big and soft butt to give u doggy u once

Pay her if you have to

Come back to this comment

Sex was never meant for you
From the beginning the creator meant sex for married couples.
SHIKENAH

Bendeco02:
You type never even had sex outside your tribe
Una go just dey open mouth online

ignored

ucheagu:
When I was still young sex was all I could think of, I wanted it so badly, American movie contributed to this.. I've had sex a few times now but all of them have led to this feeling am having towards it now, the fear of getting a girl pregnant, infection and no emotion in it just sucks the fun out of my imagination... All this meaningless Bleep to me is just waste of time and money..

Some prayers are working over you, my guess, your mom's prayers.
Premarital sex is a sin. Unfortunately we live in a generation where it has been normalized, no thanks to TVs and movies that have contributed to moral decadence in our society.

God loves you. Sex is one of the major weapons Satan uses to destroy the destinies of the youths. So for God to have delivered you from love of immoral sex is a blessing. What you need now is to truly be devoted to God in order to fulfill your purpose. Choose to dedicate your life to Jesus Christ and to know Him more from this year going forward. God grant you mercy.

Helloworld123:
What about herpes, hepatitis and many others? How often do you recommend taking pep after every exposure? Have you even used it before?

I think it's just irresponsible to parade one's self as a strong adult to justify putting one's self at all these risks for a pressure of 10 mins max.

How will you advise your sons blindly? You need to sail in these waters if not, you will have kids that will do and undo, but pretend to your face. I stated clearly, to run a test with any girl you intend to go down with; this will eliminate the risk of herpes or stubborn bacterial infections.

As for hepatitis and HIV, vaccines and PreP will help you. If you stay in Delta, I will link you to an NGO that will run these tests free, and give you free PreP, lubricants, and condoms for free. You must keep taking the drugs for at least 7 days after your last unprotected exposure.

PreP is taken before exposure. It is different from PeP which is taken after exposure. You must take 1 tablet 5 to 7 hours before intercourse or two tablets, two hours before intercourse.

I've been on PreP, I only had a running stomach for a week and that was the only side effect I experienced.

That's your business, I can't stay a day without sex.

If I nor fvck now when I young na when I don old I wan fvck?

Tegabadguy:
i think the last time i have sex was 2022 i swear to God

Oga, I think you have a real problem

brain54:
I believe sex is more phychological than physical...

Apart from the biology of it... Procreation etc I am one person that has always believed sex is overrated!

I 100% agree

tctrills:
Oga, I think you have a real problem

yes i have a problem

Iweakbro:
How will you advise your sons blindly? You need to sail in these waters if not, you will have kids that will do and undo, but pretend to your face. I stated clearly, to run a test with any girl you intend to go down with; this will eliminate the risk of herpes or stubborn bacterial infections.

As for hepatitis and HIV, vaccines and PreP will help you. If you stay in Delta, I will link you to an NGO that will run these tests free, and give you free PreP, lubricants, and condoms for free. You must keep taking the drugs for at least 7 days after your last unprotected exposure.

PreP is taken before exposure. It is different from PeP which is taken after exposure. You must take 1 tablet 5 to 7 hours before intercourse or two tablets, two hours before intercourse.

I've been on PreP, I only had a running stomach for a week and that was the only side effect I experienced.

It's fine if it works for you.

ucheagu:
When I was still young sex was all I could think of, I wanted it so badly, American movie contributed to this.. I've had sex a few times now but all of them have led to this feeling am having towards it now, the fear of getting a girl pregnant, infection and no emotion in it just sucks the fun out of my imagination... All this meaningless Bleep to me is just waste of time and money..

see, all these girls here are wise now. All those cheap skills you are using to catch them will not work on them. Which one is I hate sex? Na you love sex pass... We know your type

Tegabadguy:
yes i have a problem

Have you spoken to your doctor?

tctrills:
Have you spoken to your doctor?

Forget doctor....since the day i lost my job...na from that day i hate sex

tctrills:
Oga, sex was made to be loved and enjoyed. Any man who hates sex needs help.

Disliking or hating sex can stem from a variety of psychological, physical, and social factors. Here are some common reasons:

Past Trauma:
Sexual Abuse or Assault: Survivors of sexual trauma might associate sex with negative experiences, pain, or fear, leading to a strong aversion.


Psychological Issues:
Anxiety, Depression, or Stress: Mental health conditions can significantly impact one's libido or enjoyment of sex, turning what should be pleasurable into a source of distress or disinterest.

Low Self-Esteem or Body Image Issues: Feeling unattractive or uncomfortable with one's body can make sexual encounters unappealing or anxiety-inducing.
Physical Health or Pain:
Pain During Sex: Conditions like vaginismus, endometriosis, or other sources of pain during intercourse can make sex an unpleasant experience.

Hormonal Imbalances: Hormonal changes, for instance, during menopause or due to medical conditions, can affect libido.

Medication Side Effects:
Antidepressants and Other Drugs: Certain medications, particularly SSRIs, are known to decrease sexual desire or function.

Lack of Attraction or Connection:
Emotional Disconnect: If there's a lack of emotional intimacy or attraction, sex can feel mechanical or unfulfilling.

Cultural or Religious Beliefs:
Guilt or Shame: Some individuals might have been raised with beliefs that view sex negatively or outside marriage, leading to feelings of guilt or shame about sexual activities.

Asexuality:
Lack of Sexual Attraction: Some people identify as asexual, meaning they do not experience sexual attraction, which can manifest as disinterest in sex.

Relationship Dynamics:
Unresolved Conflicts or Poor Communication: Ongoing relationship issues can sour one's desire for intimacy, turning sex into a duty rather than a pleasurable experience.

Overstimulation or Sensory Issues:
Sensory Overload: For some, sex might be overwhelming due to sensory sensitivities, leading to discomfort or aversion.

Societal Pressures:
Expectation vs. Reality: The pressure to perform or enjoy sex due to societal norms can lead to disappointment or negative feelings towards it if one's personal experience doesn't match these expectations.

Understanding the root of one's dislike for sex often requires introspection or, in some cases, professional help to address underlying issues, whether they are psychological, physical, or relational. Therapy, including sex therapy, can be particularly beneficial in these scenarios.

So, you had to go CHAT GPT on me to explain yourself?

Iweakbro:
I've been on PreP, I only had a running stomach for a week and that was the only side effect I experienced.

Helloworld123 don't listen to him. These things are not as simple as he makes them sound. Side effects include up to low sperm count and impotence and who knows what other long term effects. Also you're advised to use condom as they may not always work!

DaddyCoool:
Helloworld123 don't listen to him. These things are not as simple as he makes them sound. Side effects include up to low sperm count and impotence and who knows what other long term effects. Also you're advised to use condom as they may not always work!

Thank you, DaddyCoool. He sees life in black and white. He certainly cannot be convinced too.

Helloworld123:
Thank you, DaddyCoool. He sees life in black and white. He certainly cannot be convinced too.

No mind am. See below

DaddyCoool:
No mind am. See below

I think he writes those things because he has not experienced the evil of reckless sexual behaviour.

Okay. Go and sin no more.

Something is definitely wrong with you. Sex is by far the sweetest thing i know

ucheagu:
When I was still young sex was all I could think of, I wanted it so badly, American movie contributed to this.. I've had sex a few times now but all of them have led to this feeling am having towards it now, the fear of getting a girl pregnant, infection and no emotion in it just sucks the fun out of my imagination... All this meaningless Bleep to me is just waste of time and money..

Sex gives the greatest pleasure

DaddyCoool:
Wow, you so quickly discovered what people discover only after wasting a lot of time and energy on sex - that sex itself is a big fat nothing. It is things that surround it that are meaningful. Avoid sex just for sex

DMerciful:
Something is definitely wrong with you. Sex is by far the sweetest thing i know

DMerciful:
Sex gives the greatest pleasure

Sex is about the pole and the hole, right? So how come an ugly person with same exact rod or hole won't give you same pleasure?? Therefore sex is psychological - totally a result of what's going on in YOUR head. Thus pleasure of sex has Little to do with sex itself but with your head!

Sex is mostly physical for men. Convince yourself all you want. Ugly person is ugly because of their physical appearance. If the face is ugly but the boobs and ass is solid, the pleasure is guaranteed

DaddyCoool:
Sex is about the pole and the hole, right? So how come an ugly person with same exact rod or hole won't give you same pleasure?? Therefore sex is psychological - totally a result of what's going on in YOUR head. Thus pleasure of sex has Little to do with sex itself but with your head!

DMerciful:
Sex is mostly physical for men. Convince yourself all you want. Ugly person is ugly because of their physical appearance. If the face is ugly but the boobs and ass is solid, the pleasure is guaranteed

Thus it can be easily replaced with simulation or a robot with ABSOLUTELY no loss in pleasure. That's why sex in itseif is NOT worth anything near the hype!

ednut1:
That you have to tell us means you are lying

or he could not get laid. He is so fugly that ladies are avoiding him. The case a hungry man who claims to love fasting.

ucheagu:
When I was still young sex was all I could think of, I wanted it so badly, American movie contributed to this.. I've had sex a few times now but all of them have led to this feeling am having towards it now, the fear of getting a girl pregnant, infection and no emotion in it just sucks the fun out of my imagination... All this meaningless Bleep to me is just waste of time and money..

It's a good thing that you hate it.

Iweakbro:
Little kid. From all the bullshit you typed, you're scared of responsibilities and consequences for your ACTIONS.

As for money, we will all spend money on something we like, clothes, accessories, cars, drinks, smoke, women, supplements, hairs, phones, etc. The excuse of wasting money and time is a dumb one too.

Only a food will make statements without research. Sex has lots of benefits for your body. As for infection, you could get a consistent sexual partner and run periodic tests and treatment if necessary.

For viruses, all you need do is get vaccinated for HPV and the like. For HIV, get your PreP and take it as directed.

If your reason wasn't based on fear, I wouldn't quote you, but I hate to see a weak male who chickens out at the slightest discomfort.

Bro say chicken out

doncartel:
My own fear is to die on top woman. I feel the hottest part of hell is reserved for men who died on top of woman.

That’s where you meet people like Abacha, King Solomon, Baltazar, Tpain and others. They also receive 24 strokes daily there.

sex is more than penetration


you have to tickle that cunt for it to pur

Nnamdipapa:
So, you had to go CHAT GPT on me to explain yourself?

You have anything against getting knowledge and growing in wisdom? If you do then I apologize.