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She has been doing it , she’ll insult me , she’ll point fingers at my face, push my face etc , I just Dey warn her say u go cry ooo

But today I got pissed when we went to visit my aunt ,after discussing with aunt , I woke her up let’s go home , then aunt was like let me escort u guys hope u Dey teach Afam more Igbo o , try Dey speak for am , hope she Dey speak for u , I say this one na so so English o , she don begin vex , I put my cap for her head immediately she knack the cap fall, I picked the cap without aunt noticing, then we got to the junction where we’ll board tricycle to the house she begin walker leave me , I told her to wait by holding her hand , then she was like “u Dey craze” , immediately I hear u Dey craze , my head light 💡, none of my exes don tell me say I Dey craze before then I slapped her then told her not to ever insult me again , before I talk one she don talk 5, she begin tell me say “u nor get sense” , I nor touch her again I just calm , for that “you nor get sense” she suppose chop another clap but I swallow,
We got home she went to the kitchen to warm stew , she left the moi moi , left the soup , na once I enter kitchen go warm moimoi and the soup o , before she traveled and came over this time , Naso she Dey leave food to spoil anyhow for kitchen


Na bad thing I do 🥹

Hmmm...

Does this mean the slap was a resetter or what?

Well, it's best you exit rather than lay your hands... From one slap... You can develop to a woman beater.

Next time you should break her spinal cord, all these stupid girls think they can just go on hitting people anyhow

Ogoromakosa0:
She has been doing it , she’ll insult me , she’ll point fingers at my face, push my face etc , I just Dey warn her say u go cry ooo

But today I got pissed when we went to visit my aunt ,after discussing with aunt , I woke her up let’s go home , then aunt was like let me escort u guys hope u Dey teach Afam more Igbo o , try Dey speak for am , hope she Dey speak for u , I say this one na so so English o , she don begin vex , I put my cap for her head immediately she knack the cap fall, I picked the cap without aunt noticing, then we got to the junction where we’ll board tricycle to the house she begin walker leave me , I told her to wait by holding her hand , then she was like “u Dey craze” , immediately I hear u Dey craze , my head light 💡, none of my exes don tell me say I Dey craze before then I slapped her then told her not to ever insult me again , before I talk one she don talk 5, she begin tell me say “u nor get sense” , I nor touch her again I just calm , for that “you nor get sense” she suppose chop another clap but I swallow,
We got home she went to the kitchen to warm stew , she left the moi moi , left the soup , na once I enter kitchen go warm moimoi and the soup o , before she traveled and came over this time , Naso she Dey leave food to spoil anyhow for kitchen


Na bad thing I do 🥹

Next time... Just walk away in peace, get home and end the relationship in peace as well.
I hope you both are not planning to get married cos you guys won't deny seeing the red flags.

Na so e dey start. No go kill pesin pikin one day o!
You better set each other free since you guys are not compatible.

Ogoromakosa0:
She has been doing it , she’ll insult me , she’ll point fingers at my face, push my face etc , I just Dey warn her say u go cry ooo

But today I got pissed when we went to visit my aunt ,after discussing with aunt , I woke her up let’s go home , then aunt was like let me escort u guys hope u Dey teach Afam more Igbo o , try Dey speak for am , hope she Dey speak for u , I say this one na so so English o , she don begin vex , I put my cap for her head immediately she knack the cap fall, I picked the cap without aunt noticing, then we got to the junction where we’ll board tricycle to the house she begin walker leave me , I told her to wait by holding her hand , then she was like “u Dey craze” , immediately I hear u Dey craze , my head light 💡, none of my exes don tell me say I Dey craze before then I slapped her then told her not to ever insult me again , before I talk one she don talk 5, she begin tell me say “u nor get sense” , I nor touch her again I just calm , for that “you nor get sense” she suppose chop another clap but I swallow,
We got home she went to the kitchen to warm stew , she left the moi moi , left the soup , na once I enter kitchen go warm moimoi and the soup o , before she traveled and came over this time , Naso she Dey leave food to spoil anyhow for kitchen


Na bad thing I do 🥹

where Una dey take see rubbish wey Una dey date sef? Which kain relationship be that? U no try at all, cos u nor appear to me like a guy wey get self respect.. that na why your GF dey fit throw insults at you as she like.. the damage has been done, the slap na just waste of time and talent.

Waoo, and the girl is still with you.. God forbid. Just girlfriend you dey slap her. If she come bcome ur wife nko..na blow you go dey give her.. Eyahh i pity some girls wey no get sense o

If you are with a toxic person, leave. It's simple.

The see finish started when you allowed her to start living with you like a wife when she isn't a wife!

I don't support hitting a woman but if she is physically violent, I no fit advise you. You know what to do.

IfyAwazie:
Waoo, and the girl is still with you.. God forbid. Just girlfriend you dey slap her. If she come bcome ur wife nko..ma blow you go dey give her.. Eyahh i pity some girls wey no get sense o

You left everything else he said she does and clung to the slap only. So because dem say make dem no beat woman, woman go come dey beat man?

Nothing sweet pass Bleep and go… all this waste of mb for what now?

Dump her ass. Unless you're a simp.

Why is she living with you? Na your wife?

IfyAwazie:
Waoo, and the girl is still with you.. God forbid. Just girlfriend you dey slap her. If she come bcome ur wife nko..ma blow you go dey give her.. Eyahh i pity some girls wey no get sense o

no dey side rubbish, if na true op dey talk, the way the girl dey behave no worth am atall now, person dey play with you say na so so English you dey speak ooo you don take am personal, haba you self reason am now, make it partner dey tell you say you dey craze you no get sense, Omo the thing no go well now

Una dey cohabit and no Dey expect see finish mumu man she don travel collect better IJGB Amu and you Dey here

Ogoromakosa0:
She has been doing it , she’ll insult me , she’ll point fingers at my face, push my face etc , I just Dey warn her say u go cry ooo

But today I got pissed when we went to visit my aunt ,after discussing with aunt , I woke her up let’s go home , then aunt was like let me escort u guys hope u Dey teach Afam more Igbo o , try Dey speak for am , hope she Dey speak for u , I say this one na so so English o , she don begin vex , I put my cap for her head immediately she knack the cap fall, I picked the cap without aunt noticing, then we got to the junction where we’ll board tricycle to the house she begin walker leave me , I told her to wait by holding her hand , then she was like “u Dey craze” , immediately I hear u Dey craze , my head light 💡, none of my exes don tell me say I Dey craze before then I slapped her then told her not to ever insult me again , before I talk one she don talk 5, she begin tell me say “u nor get sense” , I nor touch her again I just calm , for that “you nor get sense” she suppose chop another clap but I swallow,
We got home she went to the kitchen to warm stew , she left the moi moi , left the soup , na once I enter kitchen go warm moimoi and the soup o , before she traveled and came over this time , Naso she Dey leave food to spoil anyhow for kitchen




Na bad thing I do 🥹

Better leave that girl before it’s too late, she has anger issues and will never respect you.

You shouldn't have hit her since she didn't hit you first. Also you need to learn to over look things, most especially insult from ladies you share a bed with. The reason is because you'll always feel bad and guilty if you insult them back or get physical after you act.

When she insulted you, you could have just let it slide and make other decisions that aren't physical.

There is no rule that says you can't live a girlfriend that wants to put you through emotional abuse.

Smilleydr:
no dey side rubbish, if na true op dey talk, the way the girl dey behave no worth am atall now, person dey play with you say na so so English you dey speak ooo you don take am personal, haba you self reason am now, make it partner dey tell you say you dey craze you no get sense, Omo the thing no go well now

... So na to beat her make sense to you. Na mouth she use, you too go use mouth answer her nah

chatinent:
You left everything else he said she does and clung to the slap only. So because dem say make dem no beat woman, woman go come dey beat man?

.. Where you see for the post where the girl beat the man.. No be mouth she use talk? Why can't the man too use mouth to reply instead of beating. Na bully dey do like that abeg

IfyAwazie:
... So na to beat her make sense to you. Na mouth she use, you too go use mouth answer her nah

me self no dey support the beating, but you know no be all men fit control them self, and you know this girls they can make you do want you don't want to do.

She started the violence and you ended it well.

Nobody get monopoly over violence.

IfyAwazie:
Waoo, and the girl is still with you.. God forbid. Just girlfriend you dey slap her. If she come bcome ur wife nko..na blow you go dey give her.. Eyahh i pity some girls wey no get sense o

Later, one dundee go come here talk say make we no dey stereotype women again. She wetin you talk

Na why i no dey read women comment online be that. Na offpoint be all una thing


Op, girl get mind talk say you dey craze, You gat end that relationship o, cause she no fit respect you ever again, Stop the direct attack too

IfyAwazie:
.. Where you see for the post where the girl beat the man.. No be mouth she use talk? Why can't the man too use mouth to reply instead of beating. Na bully dey do like that abeg

I don't support the beating. But it's the same way I don't support a toxic relationship.

After 1 resetting slap, she warmed stew but not moimoi and soup....she needs 2 more abeg😒

Ogoromakosa0:
She has been doing it , she’ll insult me , she’ll point fingers at my face, push my face etc , I just Dey warn her say u go cry ooo

But today I got pissed when we went to visit my aunt ,after discussing with aunt , I woke her up let’s go home , then aunt was like let me escort u guys hope u Dey teach Afam more Igbo o , try Dey speak for am , hope she Dey speak for u , I say this one na so so English o , she don begin vex , I put my cap for her head immediately she knack the cap fall, I picked the cap without aunt noticing, then we got to the junction where we’ll board tricycle to the house she begin walker leave me , I told her to wait by holding her hand , then she was like “u Dey craze” , immediately I hear u Dey craze , my head light 💡, none of my exes don tell me say I Dey craze before then I slapped her then told her not to ever insult me again , before I talk one she don talk 5, she begin tell me say “u nor get sense” , I nor touch her again I just calm , for that “you nor get sense” she suppose chop another clap but I swallow,
We got home she went to the kitchen to warm stew , she left the moi moi , left the soup , na once I enter kitchen go warm moimoi and the soup o , before she traveled and came over this time , Naso she Dey leave food to spoil anyhow for kitchen


Na bad thing I do 🥹

Una never marry una dey don already run things pass married people.

Hmmmm

Op, disengage!!!!

The relationship nor worth the insults.

Women who hide being their emotions and hormones suddenly know how to behave with their bosses but dish crap to their men.

A woman who feels comfortable disrespecting you isn't worth your time.

Society will blame men for hitting women but never caution women to show respect.

Men are adviced to be real but where are the real women?

Men are adviced to suck it up because they are men. Men also have emotions and blood flowing in their veins.

I have seen men work so hard to make their families work but seen their women betray these men when it mattered.

You only get to disrespect me once.

It ain't going to happen twice

She was wrong to have insulted you, she doesn't respect you and it will only get worse over time

@OP, please leave a stubborn girl alone.... Don't date any of them... Only example will mk her calm down

bigpicture001:
@OP, please leave a stubborn girl alone.... Don't date any of them... Only example will mk her calm down

I don tell her say we nor Dey compatible, say i love her but make we break up

IfyAwazie:
... So na to beat her make sense to you. Na mouth she use, you too go use mouth answer her nah

This is lame.

If you hit me with a broom, I can decide to respond with 2/2 if I want to. You don’t get to dictate how people react to your actions. For people like you, abuse isn’t real until it’s physical but emotional abuse can be just as harmful. A man in Nsukka had an argument with his wife on New Year’s Day, walked out of the house as men are often advised to do, and was hit by a car. He died on the spot.

We’re always told that a “real man” should walk away, but no one asks, “Is a real woman supposed to drive her man out of his home?”

Men accept too much nonsense, and I blame them for it. Women often excuse bad behavior with hormones, moods, or periods, and men are expected to understand. Yet, these same women control their emotions at work or with their boss.

@OP, any woman who cooks your meals has the power to kill you, so treat her well. If she doesn’t respect you, leave her and move on.

My advise to you is to end that relationship now?

Ogoromakosa0:
I don tell her say we nor Dey compatible, say i love her but make we break up

You no get any right to slap am.

Make you just pursue am comot for your life