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No Love Too Much Make You No Regret by Auxtan(op):
I met this girl 6 months ago and we have rolled together until this January.

After the 1st month of knowing her, I asked her about her relationship status, she said complicated, that she has a boyfriend that now seldomly talks to her for close to 10 months before I met her. I just told her to be sure of her relationship with the said boyfriend and address it if we are ever going to have any serious thing going forward.

She showed me the chats with the said boyfriend and all, that he just doesn't seem into her anymore, that this guy was the guy that deflowered her like 4 years ago when they started it all, that how he all of a sudden decided to be cold towards her is something she can't explain.

After few weeks, she came back to me and told me if I am serious about her that we can start a relationship, that as for her she doesn't think anything serious exists anymore with her boyfriend.

I told her I give her till this January to know the way forward with her. Omo we got to this January, this girl got a news that the guy lost one of his parents, that he's been battling with the treatment of the parent that's why he's really not given her attention for (now upto a year). The girl said she felt so much guilt for thinking the guy was just ghosting her and now she is back telling me she's going back with this her guy lol.

She started telling me that, even if her relationship didn't work out with the guy, that it was already clear to her she cannot be with a man like me for a husband. That she noticed that my anger gets the better of me that even if she was to marry me, I would be far from understanding her due to my anger or strictness.

I was just amazed as how all these suddenly became an excuse, just because she was trying to justify how we are ending our friendship or pre relationship, just because she connected back to her boyfriend.

Omo, imagine I had fallen so in love with this girl naso I for dey hurt now lol grin

Don't love too much my brothers and sisters.
Re: No Love Too Much Make You No Regret by DarkLover: 9:45am On Jan 16, 2025
You already made yourself a second choice, luckily for you the girl isn't a player or wasn't ready to play with you.

How could you even propose a relationship with someone you know hasn't gotten over her boyfriend?

You was just some emotional support while sorting out issues with her main man😒
Re: No Love Too Much Make You No Regret by Auxtan(op): 10:33am On Jan 16, 2025
DarkLover:
You already made yourself a second choice, luckily for you the girl isn't a player or wasn't ready to play with you.

How could you even propose a relationship with someone you know hasn't gotten over her boyfriend?

You was just some emotional support while sorting out issues with her main man😒
Is crazy init lol
Re: No Love Too Much Make You No Regret by Auxtan(op): 10:45am On Jan 16, 2025
DarkLover:
You already made yourself a second choice, luckily for you the girl isn't a player or wasn't ready to play with you.

How could you even propose a relationship with someone you know hasn't gotten over her boyfriend?

You was just some emotional support while sorting out issues with her main man😒
You're correct. My mistake was even giving her time. Because I didn't expect she will come back with so much justification explanation that will make me understand why she took the option of continuing with her boyfriend. While I have told her I'd be fine with whatever she come up with. Why is she guilt tripping me grin
Re: No Love Too Much Make You No Regret by Exceed15: 11:27am On Jan 16, 2025
She made you spare part .
Re: No Love Too Much Make You No Regret by bigpicture001: 11:34am On Jan 16, 2025
Auxtan:
You're correct. My mistake was even giving her time. Because I didn't expect she will come back with so much justification explanation that will make me understand why she took the option of continuing with her boyfriend. While I have told her I'd be fine with whatever she come up with. Why is she guilt tripping me grin
Sh will check up on u in 3months.... This time devour her cuz sh doesn't really know what sh wants.... Who switches off from their patner because u have worries... And one year for that matter... Sh is just a big mumu who the guy needs for sex satisfaction after which the guy will fall back to default settings of ignoring her again... Then sh will remember u....

Girls too mumu
Re: No Love Too Much Make You No Regret by Baronthecelebri(m): 11:35am On Jan 16, 2025
Thank God for you
Re: No Love Too Much Make You No Regret by Auxtan(op): 12:17pm On Jan 16, 2025
Baronthecelebri:
Thank God for you
grin
Re: No Love Too Much Make You No Regret by Auxtan(op): 12:32pm On Jan 16, 2025
bigpicture001:
Sh will check up on u in 3months.... This time devour her cuz sh doesn't really know what sh wants.... Who switches off from their patner because u have worries... And one year for that matter... Sh is just a big mumu who the guy needs for sex satisfaction after which the guy will fall back to default settings of ignoring her again... Then sh will remember u....

Girls too mumu
I'm also wondering what on earth could make a guy give his so called girlfriend cold treatment for over 1 year. Well, we never can tell.
Re: No Love Too Much Make You No Regret by kingslj: 1:08pm On Jan 16, 2025
Auxtan:
I met this girl 6 months ago and we have rolled together until this January.

After the 1st month of knowing her, I asked her about her relationship status, she said complicated, that she has a boyfriend that now seldomly talks to her for close to 10 months before I met her. I just told her to be sure of her relationship with the said boyfriend and address it if we are ever going to have any serious thing going forward.

She showed me the chats with the said boyfriend and all, that he just doesn't seem into her anymore, that this guy was the guy that deflowered her like 4 years ago when they started it all, that how he all of a sudden decided to be cold towards her is something she can't explain.

After few weeks, she came back to me and told me if I am serious about her that we can start a relationship, that as for her she doesn't think anything serious exists anymore with her boyfriend.

I told her I give her till this January to know the way forward with her. Omo we got to this January, this girl got a news that the guy lost one of his parents, that he's been battling with the treatment of the parent that's why he's really not given her attention for (now upto a year). The girl said she felt so much guilt for thinking the guy was just ghosting her and now she is back telling me she's going back with this her guy lol.

She started telling me that, even if her relationship didn't work out with the guy, that it was already clear to her she cannot be with a man like me for a husband. That she noticed that my anger gets the better of me that even if she was to marry me, I would be far from understanding her due to my anger or strictness.

I was just amazed as how all these suddenly became an excuse, just because she was trying to justify how we are ending our friendship or pre relationship, just because she connected back to her boyfriend.

Omo, imagine I had fallen so in love with this girl naso I for dey hurt now lol grin

Bro ..Men fall in love with their Heads in Nigeria not their[b] hearts .[/b]
Beware..

Don't love too much my brothers and sisters.
Re: No Love Too Much Make You No Regret by 2cribz: 1:46pm On Jan 16, 2025
Students always fall in love once they see one dumb gal,a snitch and a thief. Imagine this ode thinking he has a gf so they can be nackin raw,
Re: No Love Too Much Make You No Regret by Auxtan(op): 2:10pm On Jan 16, 2025
2cribz:
Students always fall in love once they see one dumb gal,a snitch and a thief. Imagine this ode thinking he has a gf so they can be nackin raw,
Lol. You sound so dumb fr cheesy
Re: No Love Too Much Make You No Regret by Auxtan(op): 6:43pm On Jan 16, 2025
Exceed15:
She made you spare part .
Her loss.
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