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Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Ekele22(op): 1:36pm On Jan 16, 2025
Hello nairalanders,
Pls I will need your input on this.
I will be very brief.

Ok,I work in an office alongside my boss daughter.this lady is what the Bible called a damsel,so pretty and fair to look upon like a white lady with her point nose.

Our interaction is only good morning,good morning.

Now,the issues is that ,I notice she is always unease when am around.

She gets tense up when am close to her in terms of doing things close to her .

Am not trying to seek her attention because I will be roasted by my boss but I find it worrisome with such altitude.
We greets with smile sometimes but not always and she is a very nice and humble lady of 26years.

Pls,nairalanders I think am been gossiped at house by her family members, of what do you think?
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Lordbinsmar: 1:36pm On Jan 16, 2025
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Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by advanceDNA: 1:40pm On Jan 16, 2025
U dey watch too much pórn and don't get plenty action.....so it's causing you to notice whats not important around a girl that's just doing her thing ...

Try dey fast like 3 times a week....it will help you detox ur mind and rechannel ur attention else where
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Skooltynz: 1:41pm On Jan 16, 2025
She can read your intentions and doesn't want you
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Ekele22(op): 1:44pm On Jan 16, 2025
advanceDNA:
U dey watch too much pórn and don't get plenty action.....so it's causing you to notice whats not important around a girl that's just doing her thing ...

Try dey fast like 3 times a week....it will help you detox ur mind and rechannel ur attention else where
what concern porn with someone who is always unease with someone,you nitwit .

Did I mention porn here,dullard.
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Ekele22(op): 1:46pm On Jan 16, 2025
Skooltynz:
She can read your intentions and doesn't want you
my worry is if she sees me like a bad boy

No intension of seeking her attention just as I posted
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Skooltynz: 1:54pm On Jan 16, 2025
Ekele22:
my worry is if she sees me like a bad boy

No intension of seeking her attention just as I posted
Nothing like seeing you as a bad boy,abi na bad boy them even like pass,she just doesn't want you around.
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Ekele22(op): 1:57pm On Jan 16, 2025
Skooltynz:
Nothing like seeing you as a bad boy,abi na bad boy them even like pass,she just doesn't want you around.
Ok
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by DestinedForGrea: 1:59pm On Jan 16, 2025
Ekele22:
what concern porn with someone who is always unease with someone,you nitwit .

Did I mention porn here,dullard.
This goes without saying what he said is right, but you're being unnecessarily defensive. I'm not sure he meant to rile you up.

On the main issue; since you've claimed not to want her attention, I don't think this should bother you, unless you're not being completely honest with yourself.

If it bothers you so much, you can strike up a friendly conversation with her and express your concern. Be sure you don't overstep boundaries, just do your job properly.
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Ekele22(op): 1:59pm On Jan 16, 2025
[quote author=Ekele22 post=133743000][/quote]but her other siblings doesn't do like that.
She is very nice.
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Ekele22(op): 2:01pm On Jan 16, 2025
DestinedForGrea:
This goes without saying what he said is right, but you're being unnecessarily defensive. I'm not sure he meant to rile you up.

On the main issue; since you've claimed not to want her attention, I don't think this should bother you, unless you're not being completely honest with yourself.

If it bothers you so much, you can strike up a friendly conversation with her and express your concern. Be sure you don't overstep boundaries, just do your job properly.
thank you.
What I want is just do my job and maintain my boundaries.she always feel shy when am around and felt she is too big to be in the office or what.
It above all she is very nice and him le though
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by DestinedForGrea: 2:06pm On Jan 16, 2025
Ekele22:
thank you.
What I want is just do my job and maintain my boundaries.she always feel shy when am around and felt she is too big to be in the office or what.
It above all she is very nice and him le though
You can't always tell, assumptions can be misleading. Just approach her in a friendly manner, to clear the air.
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Chukwuisgreat(m): 3:07pm On Jan 16, 2025
Ekele22:
Hello nairalanders,
Pls I will need your input on this.
I will be very brief.

Ok,I work in an office alongside my boss daughter.this lady is what the Bible called a damsel,so pretty and fair to look upon like a white lady with her point nose.

Our interaction is only good morning,good morning.

Now,the issues is that ,I notice she is always unease when am around.

She gets tense up when am close to her in terms of doing things close to her .

Am not trying to seek her attention because I will be roasted by my boss but I find it worrisome with such altitude.
We greets with smile sometimes but not always and she is a very nice and humble lady of 26years.

Pls,nairalanders I think am been gossiped at house by her family members, of what do you think?
https://youtube.com/shorts/b0AwH4lY2nU?si=9lL0fuhAoxQE-nIk
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Silentgroper(m): 3:29pm On Jan 16, 2025
Do not go close to her in the office try it outside the office .. she probably is not comfortable with office pda's
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by zed7: 4:02pm On Jan 16, 2025
Most men usually don't even notice when a woman is giving them green light.

The attention you think you're getting is most likely in your head.

My advice for young men is to focus on women who make it obvious they want you. Stay where you're celebrated and stop assuming.
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Babamide(m): 5:53pm On Jan 16, 2025
Instead make you face your daily bread, you dey find who dey comfortable and uncomfortable around you.
Are you the HR? Is it a team bonding exercise?

Better confess that you want to toast her make nairalanders give you courage. It might be your gateway to marrying her and running her father's company
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Shifi1: 6:03pm On Jan 16, 2025
Babamide:
Instead make you face your daily bread, you dey find who dey comfortable and uncomfortable around you.
Are you the HR? Is it a team bonding exercise?

Better confess that you want to toast her make nairalanders give you courage. It might be your gateway to marrying her and running her father's company
Blunt..mad response
..bad guy wan shop the girl...
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Badmashiii: 6:04pm On Jan 16, 2025
advanceDNA:
U dey watch too much pórn and don't get plenty action.....so it's causing you to notice whats not important around a girl that's just doing her thing ...

Try dey fast like 3 times a week....it will help you detox ur mind and rechannel ur attention else where
Bro how you take know say fasting dey effective in curbing the mind from unnecessary sexual thought? Are you by any chance a muslim?

Because i think it's mostly Muslims that are aware of this knowledge due to our prophet Muhammad saw advising us to do so if single and dealing with unmet sexual desires.
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by LiveData: 6:54pm On Jan 16, 2025
Ekele22:
Hello nairalanders,
Pls I will need your input on this.
I will be very brief.

Ok,I work in an office alongside my boss daughter.this lady is what the Bible called a damsel,so pretty and fair to look upon like a white lady with her point nose.

Our interaction is only good morning,good morning.

Now,the issues is that ,I notice she is always unease when am around.

She gets tense up when am close to her in terms of doing things close to her .

Am not trying to seek her attention because I will be roasted by my boss but I find it worrisome with such altitude.
We greets with smile sometimes but not always and she is a very nice and humble lady of 26years.

Pls,nairalanders I think am been gossiped at house by her family members, of what do you think?
Oga OP,

WHATEVER YOU DO IN THAT OFFICE, NEVER CATCH FEELINGS IN THAT OFFICE!

FOCUS ON YOUR JOB, LEAVE WOMAN, GREETINGS ARE OK ATLEAST SHE DEY REPLY YOUR GREETING... LEAVE YOUR BOSS DAUGHTER ALONE

YOU SHOULD LISTEN TO "THE GUY" BY MI ABAGA
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by helinues: 7:10pm On Jan 16, 2025
You no sabi give attitude?

Treat her as if she did not exist
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by advanceDNA: 7:14pm On Jan 16, 2025
Badmashiii:
Bro how you take know say fasting dey effective in curbing the mind from unnecessary sexual thought? Are you by any chance a muslim?

Because i think it's mostly Muslims that are aware of this knowledge due to our prophet Muhammad saw advising us to do so if single and dealing with unmet sexual desires.
I am not a Muslim...Fasting like many other mysteries engaged by man to discipline his mind is an age-long practice before the bible or Quran time......God has been God before any religion
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Abaki5: 8:11pm On Jan 16, 2025
Make her comfortable with funny words
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Smilleydr(m): 9:29pm On Jan 16, 2025
Ekele22:
what concern porn with someone who is always unease with someone,you nitwit .

Did I mention porn here,dullard.
you get body odour?

Abi your teeth dey smell when ever I talk. wink smiley wink smiley

No be fight ooo just dey ask u randomly.
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Exceed15: 10:05pm On Jan 16, 2025
She's probably intimidated by your presence
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Mariangeles(f): 10:26pm On Jan 16, 2025
Ekele22:
my worry is if she sees me like a bad boy

No intension of seeking her attention just as I posted
Why do you care so much how she sees you, if you don't care for her attention like you stated?
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by NosyParrot: 10:52pm On Jan 16, 2025
Ekele22:
my worry is if she sees me like a bad boy

No intension of seeking her attention just as I posted
Maintain your lane.

If I'm your boss I will sack your once you overstep your boundaries with my daughter
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Fiscus105(m): 5:24am On Jan 17, 2025
Ekele22:
my worry is if she sees me like a bad boy

No intension of seeking her attention just as I posted
If indeed, no intention to seek her attentions, you wouldn't even aware, if she is uneasy at your sight.

The way you are looking at her, has been disturbing her stability, she is not toddler, every woman knows when man has interest in her, either by his actions or Inactions.
I pray you won't be roasted as you said earlier before February ends. When your oga finally pushes you to job market, you won't tell people how you neglected work they assigned to you and instead pursuing oga daughter.
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Kobicove(m): 6:19am On Jan 17, 2025
Oga face your work and leave woman matter! undecided
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Baronthecelebri(m): 7:48am On Jan 17, 2025
Guy focus on your work and leave your boss daughter alone.
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Dshocker(m): 10:43am On Jan 17, 2025
Ekele22:
Hello nairalanders,
Pls I will need your input on this.
I will be very brief.

Ok,I work in an office alongside my boss daughter.this lady is what the Bible called a damsel,so pretty and fair to look upon like a white lady with her point nose.

Our interaction is only good morning,good morning.

Now,the issues is that ,I notice she is always unease when am around.

She gets tense up when am close to her in terms of doing things close to her .

Am not trying to seek her attention because I will be roasted by my boss but I find it worrisome with such altitude.
We greets with smile sometimes but not always and she is a very nice and humble lady of 26years.

Pls,nairalanders I think am been gossiped at house by her family members, of what do you think?
All your post are about women, zukwanuike.
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Ki11YurSev: 12:47pm On Jan 17, 2025
Ekele22:
Hello nairalanders,
Pls I will need your input on this.
I will be very brief.

Ok,I work in an office alongside my boss daughter.this lady is what the Bible called a damsel,so pretty and fair to look upon like a white lady with her point nose.

Our interaction is only good morning,good morning.

Now,the issues is that ,I notice she is always unease when am around.

She gets tense up when am close to her in terms of doing things close to her .

Am not trying to seek her attention because I will be roasted by my boss but I find it worrisome with such altitude.
We greets with smile sometimes but not always and she is a very nice and humble lady of 26years.

Pls,nairalanders I think am been gossiped at house by her family members, of what do you think?
Lol for the innocent girl mind you fit be rapist or timilehin brother Lowkey

Do your work and go back to your abode Bossman
Re: Why Is She Uncomfortable With Me. by Badmashiii: 12:54pm On Jan 17, 2025
advanceDNA:
I am not a Muslim...Fasting like many other mysteries engaged by man to discipline his mind is an age-long practice before the bible or Quran time......God has been God before any religion
True that. And some people are arguing with the evidence of a God.
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