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Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by Livecamp09(m): 10:17pm On Jul 11
Please I have this serious issue and it making me feel uncomfortable. Each time I approach a lady who I really like, I feel happy about that but when the lady start giving me her attention and love, I do feel disgusted and irritated and instantly my feeling towards her diminish and fades away. Please what could be the cause of this, I don't know what to do help me.

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by Junkie1: 10:19pm On Jul 11
YOU'RE A PLAYER EMBRACE IT

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by Livecamp09(m): 10:22pm On Jul 11
Junkie1:
YOU'RE A PLAYER EMBRACE IT

I don't think so..

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by noblealuu: 10:36pm On Jul 11
RiyadhGoddess:
Your Spirit wife is the reason undecided Read my SIGnature

Hmm

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by vingeophysicist(m): 10:50pm On Jul 11
pray about it. All I can say is not normal.

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by JudasNaCarrot: 10:54pm On Jul 11
SNIPPER Loading......

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by clive2u(m): 10:55pm On Jul 11
u jst hav standards wen it comes to girls, wen u find d one to ur standard u wont b tiredd. i hav same issue somtym.
just get laid

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by internationalman(m): 11:32pm On Jul 11
I used to be that way when I was in teenage and early twenties..

It's like that because your mind is set to explore different variety of girls of which most of them aren't really your type of girl..

That your exploration mind will go to rest and let your head handle the kind of girl you will be drawn to when you are close to thirty or early thirties..

So chill it's just your subconscious mind telling you you aren't ready yet for a relationship..

It's not always like that for everyone though..

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by Livecamp09(m): 12:00am On Jul 12
JudasNaCarrot:
SNIPPER Loading......


I pray for your soul

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by obowunmi(m): 1:16am On Jul 12
Livecamp09:
Please I have this serious issue and it making me feel uncomfortable. Each time I approach a lady who I really like, I feel happy about that but when the lady start giving me her attention and love, I do feel disgusted and irritated and instantly my feeling towards her diminish and fades away. Please what could be the cause of this, I don't know what to do help me.

You're still young. You are immature and dont know how to manage your feelings.

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by obowunmi(m): 1:16am On Jul 12
Livecamp09:
Please I have this serious issue and it making me feel uncomfortable. Each time I approach a lady who I really like, I feel happy about that but when the lady start giving me her attention and love, I do feel disgusted and irritated and instantly my feeling towards her diminish and fades away. Please what could be the cause of this, I don't know what to do help me.

You're still young. You are immature and dont know how to manage your feelings.

I used to be like this.

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by anthonyuncle(m): 3:54am On Jul 12
u need to sit down and draft out what u really want in a lady
Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by Samyj247: 4:23am On Jul 12
clive2u:
u jst hav standards wen it comes to girls, wen u find d one to ur standard u wont b tiredd. i hav same issue somtym.
just get laid
truth..listen OP
Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by Livecamp09(m): 6:10am On Jul 12
obowunmi:


You're still young. You are immature and dont know how to manage your feelings.

I used to be like this.

Is that your own way of giving an advise?.. We have seen who is more immature here.. Thanks anyway

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by Livecamp09(m): 6:11am On Jul 12
Samyj247:
truth..listen OP

I'm feeling the nigga
Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by femi4: 7:06am On Jul 12
Livecamp09:
Please I have this serious issue and it making me feel uncomfortable. Each time I approach a lady who I really like, I feel happy about that but when the lady start giving me her attention and love, I do feel disgusted and irritated and instantly my feeling towards her diminish and fades away. Please what could be the cause of this, I don't know what to do help me.
The word is COMMITMENT ....you are not emotionally ready

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by Sholah96(m): 7:36am On Jul 12
That's almost normal grin grin
Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by ladiesreject(m): 7:41am On Jul 12
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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by abdulazeez1002(m): 7:47am On Jul 12
I also use to experience it those days. It's either, you just have standard when it's comes to girls or you are not emotionally ready
Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by Raydos(m): 7:52am On Jul 12
This shít happened to me too!!

There was this beautiful girl boluwatife whom i really love then, I use to think about her all day, I tried to get her attention but i couldn't, but one day she was with her friends singing,, i was a very playful guy back then, so i just ran into their midst and sang along with them


I don't know what happened, she was so surprised, immediately she started talking to me, i asked her why she was surprised, she said she never believe i have a very unique and beautiful voice

Maybe that got her attracted to me, since then she start coming to see me everyday, telling me to sing for her and giving me her whole attention


But BOoom!! i don't know what happened to me, i just began to dislike her the moment she starts to give me her attention!!

I started giving her attitude, after few days she noticed that I'm acting weird, and she stopped talking to me, but the moment she stops talking to me, i immediately start liking her back

But it was too late already, she's now so beautiful now!!
Every time I see her picture on facebook , i just curse myself

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by FreshGuy2(m): 7:56am On Jul 12
Bro you're not alone on this,, I'm currently experiencing this shiii

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by Enosa1(m): 7:57am On Jul 12
You seems to have created a high expectation of ladies, but as you get closer to them, you realize they don't meet that expectation. Guys with low self esteem usually experience that.

Having 24/7 power supply can greatly improve your self esteem, contact SolarDuke today wink

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by FreshGuy2(m): 8:14am On Jul 12
Enosa1:
You seems to have created a high expectation of ladies, but as you get closer to them, you realize they don't meet that expectation. Guys with low self esteem usually experience that.

Having 24/7 power supply can greatly improve your self esteem, contact SolarDuke today wink
Oga it ha nothing to do with low self esteem
Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by Enosa1(m): 8:35am On Jul 12
FreshGuy2:
Oga it ha nothing to do with low self esteem
Op case may not be that of low self esteem, but guys with low self esteem experience that alot. They idolize ladies in their mind and feel so unworthy of her. When they finally sum up courage to woo her and she accept and get attracted to them, it just dawn on them that she aren't really worth all the stress they went through to get her (i.e she's not really the ANGEL they've created in their head).

This knowledge make them to start losing interest in the lady. That's why I advice ladies to run from guys that's willing to worship the ground they step on.

Anyway, everyone deserve to have an experience of constant power supply, contact SolarDuke today cheesy

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by fweshboi1: 8:47am On Jul 12
same here..I need help please cry
Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by Phenomenal16(f): 11:39am On Jul 12
Livecamp09:
Please I have this serious issue and it making me feel uncomfortable. Each time I approach a lady who I really like, I feel happy about that but when the ladylossrt giving me her attention and love, I do feel disgusted and irritated and instantly my feeling towards her diminish and fades away. Please what could be the cause of this, I don't know what to do help me.
... If u continue like this u won't marry or better still lose ur life partner
Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by osemoses69: 1:35pm On Jul 12
You dey reason the money you go start spending
Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by frozen70(f): 2:13pm On Jul 12
Livecamp09:
Please I have this serious issue and it making me feel uncomfortable. Each time I approach a lady who I really like, I feel happy about that but when the lady start giving me her attention and love, I do feel disgusted and irritated and instantly my feeling towards her diminish and fades away. Please what could be the cause of this, I don't know what to do help me.

If at this stage you don't want to appreciate the nature way of allowing a woman to care and show love to you,

You might end up being a gay

No one can care or love you like a woman, so if you don't want it get a man
Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by kneehighbootz: 1:14pm On Jul 18
Enosa1:
Op case may not be that of low self esteem, but guys with low self esteem experience that alot. They idolize ladies in their mind and feel so unworthy of her. When they finally sum up courage to woo her and she accept and get attracted to them, it just dawn on them that she aren't really worth all the stress they went through to get her (i.e she's not really the ANGEL they've created in their head).

This knowledge make them to start losing interest in the lady. That's why I advice ladies to run from guys that's willing to worship the ground they step on.

Anyway, everyone deserve to have an experience of constant power supply, contact SolarDuke today cheesy

you actually make a solid point

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Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by iClef: 1:31pm On Jul 18
osemoses69:
You dey reason the money you go start spending
#Funny.
Re: Please I Have This Serious Issue And It Making Me Feel Uncomfortable by pesinfada(m): 6:26pm On Jul 18
Enosa1:
Op case may not be that of low self esteem, but guys with low self esteem experience that alot. They idolize ladies in their mind and feel so unworthy of her. When they finally sum up courage to woo her and she accept and get attracted to them, it just dawn on them that she aren't really worth all the stress they went through to get her (i.e she's not really the ANGEL they've created in their head).

This knowledge make them to start losing interest in the lady. That's why I advice ladies to run from guys that's willing to worship the ground they step on.

Anyway, everyone deserve to have an experience of constant power supply, contact SolarDuke today cheesy
u mean superiority complex

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