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diamond68:
I really don't think it's possible. You have to be an extraordinary guy to be loved by a Nigerian woman over the age of 30. I mean what is there to love ? She is not moved by your looks or swag because at that age she has seen it all. She is jAded by life and getting slightly angry and easily irritated and hot tempered. Nothing you are or have will make her love you because at that age she is more than likely incapable of loving you. You are just an essentiAl irritant to her. She is only interested in her own comfort meaning a man with money just for comfort not genuine love. At that age she is incApable of loving you. You are just two people in an invisible business contract of convenience. Truthfully men are a source of irritant for most women over 30. They put up with you because of peer pressure and societal pressure. And so in conclusion ? I don't think a woman over 30 if still single can ever love any guy anymore.

Nlfpmod.
Mynd44

Ishilove:
I can't believe this is coming from you.

Quite disappointing.

Mryacks:
Exactly....anyone at any age is capable of being in love. Btw, How's 30 old for God sakes...

Temitunz:
my thoughts exactly.. 30 years for a woman is not old

Acidosis:
I understand that at some point in our lives, we become so critical of others that it is almost impossible to love unconditionally, but trauma and life experiences, not ageing, are the main factors to consider...

Curtis03360:
coming from a woman
If you notice how women quickly aged face and body wise after 27yrs, you won’t be saying this…….the average girls who didn’t use themselves roughly only aged face wise but those who have amount enough body count or use themselves roughly in their hoephrase which half of girls are guilty of, you will see it in their body and face. Skin like melt nylon bags and breast almost reaching their navels which would have lost its firmness and be soft like Amala wey wan turn to water after leaving it uncovered. And a woman 30 above is bad investment for child bearing because of complications so you don’t unburden yourself with loads not yours. All in all Aunty 30 is VERY old for a woman. You can’t even call a 30yrs LADY because they are now WOMEN

Helpout12345:
Young man. Know this today. The only man a woman can love without money and material things is her biological son. It is not a matter of age.

Relationship is business to all women all over the world.

They all settle for their best bidder in relationship and marriage.

Acidosis:
I understand that at some point in our lives, we become so critical of others that it is almost impossible to love unconditionally, but trauma and life experiences, not ageing, are the main factors to consider...

diamond68:
trauma and life experiences increase with aging

So you are making no points here though lol

Acidosis:
False.

diamond68:
the older you get the more life experiences you get, is false ? Awon werey 😁

Acidosis:
You can't compare the experiences of an 18 year old orphan who has been victim of sexual and physical abuse in the hands of relatives, strangers, etc. with a 30 year old lady raised in a nuclear, happy, and loving family.

Same logic applies to why you would see many 21 year old professional p rost itu tes while some 30 year old have barely had two relationships.

diamond68:
you bring in one EXCEPTIONAL story to debunk the normal trend ? Oh ok bro

Acidosis:
Two actually.

diamond68:
that's a lie those high school and first year university romance back in the day were very real oooo. Love wantintin

Helpout12345:
And what percentage of high school or first year university romance in which both parties are in same class or grade resulted into marriages?

In most of these, the women are eventually taken by a more richer or older man from the younger lover. .
You dey mind am,apart from that as at one where the whole world isoney conscious,go to the universities and see how guys of young age (with full level of testosterone)are all alone, depressed,but they'll never say it out..
It's all a phase though🤔
The guy is a simp and vvomnen pleaser, that's why he was explaining himself to ish.love..

Reality over ignorance,I like your comments..
You called a spade, a spade.👍

Why do you think the women went with the older and richer man eventually?

diamond68:
I really don't think it's possible. You have to be an extraordinary guy to be loved by a Nigerian woman over the age of 30. I mean what is there to love ? She is not moved by your looks or swag because at that age she has seen it all. She is jAded by life and getting slightly angry and easily irritated and hot tempered. Nothing you are or have will make her love you because at that age she is more than likely incapable of loving you. You are just an essentiAl irritant to her. She is only interested in her own comfort meaning a man with money just for comfort not genuine love. At that age she is incApable of loving you. You are just two people in an invisible business contract of convenience. Truthfully men are a source of irritant for most women over 30. They put up with you because of peer pressure and societal pressure. And so in conclusion ? I don't think a woman over 30 if still single can ever love any guy anymore.

Nlfpmod.
Mynd44

Curtis03360:
coming from a woman
If you notice how women quickly aged face and body wise after 27yrs, you won’t be saying this…….the average girls who didn’t use themselves roughly only aged face wise but those who have amount enough body count or use themselves roughly in their hoephrase which half of girls are guilty of, you will see it in their body and face. Skin like melt nylon bags and breast almost reaching their navels which would have lost its firmness and be soft like Amala wey wan turn to water after leaving it uncovered. And a woman 30 above is bad investment for child bearing because of complications so you don’t unburden yourself with loads not yours. All in all Aunty 30 is VERY old for a woman. You can’t even call a 30yrs LADY because they are now WOMEN

Clevagal:
Everytime, “woman this…woman that…”
Don’t you guys ever get tired? Don’t you have a job that keeps you busy from writing rubbish?

purples25:
Sex is often insisted upon, it becomes the only important thing in the relationship to the man while the woman tries to show her worth but unfortunately the men don't care for that, probably the women are not even their type. After being satisfied the man goes on to end the fake relationship and therefore the woman feels used. Women are rated by their purity while men are not, so they feel at a loss when broken up with.

If a woman breaks up with a man, mostly that man might have shown her he doesn't want her and he doesn't even care if she leaves. Hence not feeling it's of any loss to him if she leaves. Definitely there are times when the man has given his all and yet the woman is still self centered and doesn't understand his pains, but I feel that situation is less.

I don't think break ups are initiated more by women as they are more emotional, and stand more to lose with the dominance of premarital sex, plus the heavy judgement of society. Men on the other hand live a sexual adventure, life is their adventure ground as nobody will blame them for having multiple relationships for fun so they care less and may be entering relationships and coming out as they wish. Even in old age a man can be on the dating scene to the max as long as he has money but once a woman is old, even her money doesn't give her the same freedom. So men initiate break ups more, it's more comfortable for them, in my opinion.