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Martinez39s:
People will do well to their due diligence on what the red pill is all about and acquaint themselves with this space and the terms used here if they have made up their minds to pitch their tents here. Lack of due diligence leads to facetious statements and points, and it painfully causes painful repetitions of basic stuffs by redpillers to correct ignorant and off point talk. Due diligence would have eliminated this and it's an eyesore when this happens.

People who take time (as they wisely scheduled) to painstakingly read this thread from the first page instead of succumbing to the urge to comment and spread their wings don't have two heads. GOSH!

Will Smith is a king in his field. He has maximised his potential and amassed a fortune, yet he is a beta and simp as far the red pill is concerned. What does that tell one about who the alpha is as far as the red pill is concerned? (Remember, this thread is "strictly redpill" What does that tell one about the bearing wealth and success have on determining who is beta or alpha? There are other men, even famous ones, who are successful and are kings in their fields, but are betas and simps as far as the red pill is concerned.

Wealth and success don't stop one from being simp and beta, and they alone don't make one an alpha as far as the red pill is concerned.

The word "alpha" is indeed a contextual term generally. The man who is an alpha in the business world or academic world is not necessarily an alpha in other areas, even as far as the red pill is concerned. People must understand that this is a red pill thread and they must understand what terms (eg beta, alpha, simp) mean in light of the red pill. What the word "alpha" means in the business world is different from what it means in the red pill. In the chess world, the alpha males are the top grandmasters, and the alpha among them is the world champion. The world champion can be a beta and simp as far as the red pill is concerned.

Being a red pill alpha doesn't mean you shouldn't be an alpha in other areas; no redpiller said one shouldn't. Telling people what the red pill alpha is doesn't mean that is all one must be. We even champion the idea that one should put himself first and make money. People should let the red pill be the red pill. People should stop acting like the red pill is an all-encompassing manual that teaches you how to be the ideal man in all aspects of life and it dictates your behaviour in all these aspects. As one is learning the red pill, one must also try to learn other things because the red pill doesn't teach everything or concerns itself with every thing. Red pill doesn't cover all aspects of life. Red pill spaces are not where you try to sound worthy and feel good about yourself. Learn!

Even you Ubunja and others have explained this several times (I brought two links out of many and one picture below). People should let the red pill be the red pill.

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1248#110516968

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1242#110474155

Martinez39s:
Like, I don't know why people keep confusing how a female goes about her lust with how she goes about her survival and committed relationships. The rules are different.

When it comes to lust, a female will choose the guy that turns her on and gets her in the mood regardless of his social class. That's why a rich woman will fùck a hot gym rat that turns her on even though he is barely struggling to pay his rent and isn't fit to tie the shoe lace of her beta husband financially. Lust is a short term thing and what matters at that moment is the satisfaction of that lust, not your ability to pay the bills and give her expensive gifts. Such a guy can be above or below her in social status, rich or poor.

When it comes to committed relationships, particularly courtship and marriage, a woman will choose the best financial option available to her. It doesn't matter if he is a beta, alpha, redpillers or simp. All that matters is financial stability, her comfort and survival, which all boils down to your resources. You ability to satisfy her lust doesn't count as it cannot buy bread. If you are a redpiller with a great sexual appeal and a masculine frame made of adamatium or vibranium, the woman you are discussing marriage with will overlook you and pick the man that has more resources than you even if he the most pathetic simp and he is so unattractive and disgusting. She will pick him even if she has to share him with other women. Women don't marry based on lust and your ability to satisfy them in bed, they consider your resources and what you can provide, and they will keep swinging, at any time, to the better financial option available to them. This is hypergamy. Hypergamy is innate, it only cares about now and it doesn't sleep.

JESHAL007:
@emmaodet, good evening sir, hope you had a good day, I want to clarify something, are married men receiving sex like mad since they monopolized the pussy in the institution or are they sex starved like majority of single guys out there who are average and struggling since they are bottom 80%, worse they patronise prostitutes who give them the worst of the worst forms of transactional sex, are married men sex starved that they too might opt for prostitutes, are married women weaponizing and hoarding pussy

ubunja:
Miseducations awaiting to be uploaded:

Season Of The Thug
The Prostitute And Her Pìmp
Badboy - a study of a diamond in the rough
The Player
A Player Is Nothing But A Woman With A Dick
Mother-Nature's Tender Love For The Player
The Power Of Narcissism
Sex With Strangers
The Under-Utilized GF
The Way You Start With A Woman Is How You End With Her
Lessons From A Bitch
Think Like A Hoe, Act Like A Man
Guys Are Like That, Girls Are Like This
That Lil' Break-Up She Initiated For No Reason
Cheaters And Losers
Don't Respond To Emotional Punches With Physical Punches
The Strings Women Pull To Control You Like A Puppet
The Secret Language Of Girls
Decoder - What Girls Says VS What They Really Mean
What makes you a good fucker makes you a bad father (and vice versa)
Get Your Bad Boy On
The Coward's Guide To Getting A GF.

JESHAL007:
During our father's generation, women in the 50th percentile of income settled down with men in the 50th percentile of income easily but now, they want to enjoy life, they don't want to suffer when they know statistically majority of them would struggle a lifetime, it's crazy, they do not want average and poor men like their female ancestors who settled down with peasant class

JESHAL007:
In fact, the "POST-NUT CLARITY (Men returning to their "senses" after ejaculation) side of masturbation makes you realize that the "pedestalization" of women in porn and outside of it, is the nonsense made up in your head that has nothing to do with reality.

emmaodet:
Even those female ancestors, many regretted marrying poor men or men within their class. It was just that hypergamy was put in check during their time with religion and tradition. Now, those institutions are failing.
In one hot argument with my dad, my mum vowed never to allow her daughter marry a teacher or civil servant due to what she passed through suffering with my dad.
My mother-in-law also once said if she was as clever and wiser then like now, she wouldn't have married my father-in-law because then, better men with good jobs and career wanted her but she was naive and followed LOVE.
Have had 2 or 3 women say something similar too.

emmaodet:
Even those female ancestors, many regretted marrying poor men or men within their class. It was just that hypergamy was put in check during their time with religion and tradition. Now, those institutions are failing.
In one hot argument with my dad, my mum vowed never to allow her daughter marry a teacher or civil servant due to what she passed through suffering with my dad.
My mother-in-law also once said if she was as clever and wiser then like now, she wouldn't have married my father-in-law because then, better men with good jobs and career wanted her but she was naive and followed LOVE.
Have had 2 or 3 women say something similar too.

emmaodet:
Even those female ancestors, many regretted marrying poor men or men within their class. It was just that hypergamy was put in check during their time with religion and tradition. Now, those institutions are failing.
In one hot argument with my dad, my mum vowed never to allow her daughter marry a teacher or civil servant due to what she passed through suffering with my dad.
My mother-in-law also once said if she was as clever and wiser then like now, she wouldn't have married my father-in-law because then, better men with good jobs and career wanted her but she was naive and followed LOVE.
Have had 2 or 3 women say something similar too.

Pukkalolo:
A loser is the who seek a woman as a comfort for his pain.

A loser thinks: “If she becomes my girlfriend, I will be happy.”

Pukkalolo:
@bolded. That's the problem with most guys. They treat the pussy like it's a big deal.

Men fail with women because they see pussy as a trophy instead of seeing it as a tool. Let me explain…

Back in school I was gisting with this young lecturer, and along the line, I told him, “I wish I could graduate with first class.”

He laughed and said, “Boy, stop chasing lower ground goals…. Go for the higher ground goal.”

He explained quickly and shallowly… and changed the topic immediately. I didn't seem to grasp it. But I later got what he was trying to say; but I had to learn it the hard way.


Lower ground goals are the normal goal we desire, and you can possibly achieve them if we try harder and work harder.

While Higher ground goals are goals that are almost impossible to achieve: and to achieve the higher goal, having the lower ground goal is almost a prerequisite.

For example, aiming for the moon is a lower ground goal, while aiming for the star is a higher goal.

Using that young lecturer as example. He graduated out of that university with first class. But according to him, he never aim to get first class. He believes First-class was a lower ground goal. Instead he aimed for a higher ground goal: being a Lecturer in the university.

The lower ground goal is only a prerequisite or by-product of going for higher ground goal.
When you are going for a lower ground goal, you simply do the regular activities to achieve it. But when you're going for a higher-ground goal, you are naturally forced to bring out the best behavior in you


For example, if he was aiming to get first class, then for the most part, all he needed to do was to study harder. But since he was aiming for a higher ground goal (being a lecturer in the school), studying harder was just a prerequisite, he also need to be pressing some other buttons and making some other moves. He's forced to behave differently.


Using money as an example:

Loser chase money because they treat money like a trophy. So they slave for it.

Winner view money as a tool, not trophy. To the winner, money is a tool, a prerequisite or by-product, not the goal. He only need money for the higher purpose.


Men fail with women because they see pussy as trophy instead of seeing as a tool.

Most times, when wooing a new girl, I'm not necessary aiming for her pussy. I'm aiming for her soul. (Not her soul literally. That's just a metaphor). Infant, In my mind, I'm very confident that I will Bleep her, so I'm not concerned about that.

Sometimes I tell ladies, “it's already a forgone conclusion that we are gonna Bleep later, so let's just focus on something else”

The ladies would give different reactions. Some would say, “in your dreams.” or “dey play.” Or other attitude response… But what will be will be.

You remember the crazy dramatic conversation I had with this light skinned beautiful nurse in this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/7835777/crazy-experience-two-beautiful-nurses

I told her, it's a forgone conclusion we are gonna date. That was because dating her wasn't my aim. But dating her was just prerequisite. We ended up dating tho.


When you focus on higher ground goal, achieving lower ground goal is something that naturally (has to) happen.


For example,

The typical guy is trying to get pussy from the girl. That's lower ground goal.

But the P!mp is trying to make money off the girl’s pussy. That's a higher ground goal.

For the typical guy, he might Bleep the pussy or he might not.

For the p!mp, fucking the pussy is only a by-product or a prerequisite to his higher aim.


Here's the trick about this whole thing.

As a Man, Aiming at lower ground goal demand only little from you. This why the typical guy can freely act like a weak simp while trying to get the pussy.

But aiming at higher ground goal literally demand A LOT from you. It will force you to be an ALPHA whether you like it or not.

To the p!mp, seducing a girl and fucking her is easy. But what's really hard is: Seducing a girl—NOT to Bleep you—but to Bleep another Man—and collecting over 80% of the money she makes.

That's not an easy one. This is why most veterans Pimps have to have a very TIGHT ALPHA GAME. It's not an option: it's a MUST.

The typical guy can show weakness and may still get the pussy.

But the P!mp must show no weakness, or else he will lose the higher ground goal. The P!mp get massive shit test from women, because she want to make sure he's really the Boss. The woman must look up to him like her lord, so that he can get what he wants from her.


I laugh when guys complain about onlyFans girls. But what you guys don't realize is that over 70% of onlyFans or webcam accounts are being controlled by Men(p!mps). The girls just show in the video, but the P!mps are in the background doing the chatting and other ‘manager’ stuffs.


Infact if an onlyFan girl is struggling to get fans(simps), then its because she haven't yet higher a manager(Pimps) to help her out.


Note: I am in no way encouraging p!mping…. I am only using it as an example.


Anyways, in summary. Stop chasing lower ground goals. Instead focus on higher ground goals, because they force out the best in you.


Stay blessed brothers.

JESHAL007:
Good morning sir @emmaodet,
Happy weekend
Please sir what is your economic advice for a young man starting family in this economy, advice for men whose wives are going to be career oriented, how would it affect the tempo of the relationship, does it come with compromise, does it breed disrespect, what are it's pro and cons

emmaodet:
Even those female ancestors, many regretted marrying poor men or men within their class. It was just that hypergamy was put in check during their time with religion and tradition. Now, those institutions are failing.
In one hot argument with my dad, my mum vowed never to allow her daughter marry a teacher or civil servant due to what she passed through suffering with my dad.
My mother-in-law also once said if she was as clever and wiser then like now, she wouldn't have married my father-in-law because then, better men with good jobs and career wanted her but she was naive and followed LOVE.
Have had 2 or 3 women say something similar too.

emmaodet:
For middle-middle class upward, i will suggest the man to take 100% responsibilities of the house even if the wife is working.
For lower-middle class down to lower class, i will suggest the wives contribute to the family purse albeit 30% max because the men in these categories need to have disposable income to invest, hence need their wives support but it comes with a price or a cost - the man will lose part of his masculine power.
Men in these categories don't have the leverage in the upper class have.
You can't give out money to family or friends without your wife's consent since she is a co-contributor unlike the first group.
You don't have the room to be naughty - having affairs outside because it may lead to immediate divorce. The woman will say she is better off staying alone and feeding herself rather than with you and your excess baggage of cheating. It is not as if the money is enough for the family yet you are wasting it on useless affairs.
Why all women have tendency to cheat, a woman working and paying almost half the bills will be more bold and less worried about the repercussion of cheating - the worst that can happen is to chase her out and heaven will not fall, she will quietly rent a single room and continue her life easily. Nothing really changed much.
You should be ready to share the chores at home - while she is cooking, you are washing plates. You wash the clothes together etc
There are many more but i will stop here

CaveAdullam:
Women's pride lies in the number of attention they receive from men.

1. I have observed that women these days will not hesitate to give out their numbers to guys because they see these guys as potential recruits into their hordes of chasers. The only way to sit on top of their list is if from the beginning you already titillated her hypergamy, acted as some interesting movie about to happen, and show intentions of spoiling her with fun and excitement. On a general note, these women just feel like veterans of war because men do chase them.

2. The good side to these chasers is that they are not after defending or protecting her but to fvck her like other men and move on. But the downside is that these guys end up throwing their time, energy, attention, and resources down the drain to please her; some end up being friend-zoned, some manipulated and others jettisoned along the way.

3. If we should observe this photo clearly, there is a higher probability that the man feeding her with his cum/seeds is not on that list, the guys on that list are just chasers wanting their fill. Let's go a little bit deeper:

A. All women have that one specific man they love with all their heart, with all their might, with all their mind, and with all their life. The funniest thing is that this man can either be rich or poor, but take it that every woman has that particular man she wants to spend her life with.

B. Despite the aforementioned, she may still cheat on that man she claimed she loves so dearly. However, whomever she cheats with is her golden calf and not her god (take the Israelites of the Bible as an example).

That's why a woman will still stay congealed to her broke boyfriend while leeching on a 7+ figure earning dude. Alright, it is hypergamy.

However, a man should know that if her woman behaves like this, it is not love but a lustful passion - Job's wife. Because like Job in the Holy Bible, true love endures pains, agony, wilderness, stress, darkness, and despondency and in the end comes out refined. True love is Sarah, following Abraham through thick and thin. True love is Job staying faithful to his God. Or, the disciples of Christ staying faithful to the gospel even unto martyrdom.

4. This myriad of attention from men makes them feel a sense of worth, howbeit, one is based on nothing and no achievement save beauty and physique. Their ego and entitlement mentality increases along this line because they feel that if they truly have nothing to offer why are men queuing up in their numbers just to have them? This is what I call the attention deceit: thinking you are important because of the circle of attraction towards you which is way similar to the Dunning-Kruger effect.

5. It is this attention deceit that has kept women where they are and not any patriarchal oppression. Being associated with a king doesn't make you king, queens are not kings. These women think they are like men or even better than men because men chase them 24/7 unrelenting - testosterone doing nature's work to the detriment of men who can't simply place their hands on their libido.

6. There is no possible way this rabbit hole can't lead us to CHOSEN VS COLD APPROACH. We are here again. If she chose you she won't list you among the numbers of tasty men who want a drip of her pvssy juice. She will want to protect you and her interest. Notwithstanding, with a good game, cold approaching can segregate you from the hordes.

7. Summarily, any woman that act this way, telling the world of the number of men that chase her (it may even be that some of these men just want to help her/friendship) is truly deluded, and has a low sense of worth, and should not be taken seriously. She's but for sexual gratification.

On the other hand, guys should calm down and look out for girls that show genuine interest in them, even if it is just 1 girl in a year or two...forget beauty and class, I know you will be judged by the kind of woman you are with especially when it comes to beauty and class, but women are lurking around to have you. Use these women as samples to experiment and understand women and up your game/life from there. She may even up her game because she wants to secure you.

The time you will use in chasing women around should be saved in doing something more productive. It is only through genuine interest a man can understand how far a woman can go when she's crazy in love. Dealing with the wrong women or chasing women all-around has its potential lessons, however, it comes with painful stings and is not enjoyable.

Without further ado: DAY 164, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Genuine desire.

Cc. AIhabaze, food is ready. Yummy!