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LoneSoldier:
Dear Esteemed men, please share your experience of how you became a bachelor, and also share the benefits and challenges that comes with it...
I will start with mine, years ago when I was little I thought marriage was a thing of blessing and doesn't require a man to suffer, but little did I know that marriage is a bondage, so fast forward to when I was a teenager (Am a grown ass man now, that was then!) I started seeing things more clearly, let's take Nigeria for instance.... 90% of married men across Nigeria as a whole are suffering and smiling, why because marriage wasn't what they thought it was, some where even forced to marry by family members, some just wanted to try marriage out thinking is a thing of joy ride not knowing it is an everlasting torture.....

A country where everything is left for the man to do, and to worsen it more, economy is not smiling and men are dropping dead everyday due to high BP of so many budgets in a man's mind, a wife you think is a blessing is just a load of suffering, a liability that leaves the man to cater for everything, even though she also brings little by little it doesn't change the fact that she is a burden of suffering on the man's shoulders....


Well let me conclude here, there are more to write but let me conclude with the benefits and challenges I faced as a bachelor.....

BENEFITS AS A BACHELOR:

I always have time for myself, I do whatever I want whenever I want to do it.... No liability as a wife to dictate how my life should go, I eat whatever I want to eat, no kidding am a good cook... So I don't need a woman for that, when am Hørny.... I masturbate myself to stupor, I have a decent job (Remotely) so I have time for myself indoors, the only time I go out, is when I want to get food items......

CHALLENGES AS A BACHELOR:
Not so much tho, but it came to some point I got pressured by my stupid family (father and mother excluded) to get a wife, I boldly told them NO!

Planning on disowning them very soon, but that is a topic for another day...!

So esteemed men, this is my experience.... Share yours!

Brother...goood news is you will get has much puccccci & olosho has u want sir....at least 3 womens a day & no body can tell u $hits!!((THANK ME LATER))

LoneSoldier:
Baba I have all I need in life, fu-uck women....

Bachelor for life!!!

LoneSoldier:
These bullshit word of a woman completes a man and give him sense of responsibility, which responsibility actually are you talking about....

See let me tell you something, there is nothing the female gender offers a man rather than suffering, you guys where created to put burden on the men, you aren't here to help rather you are here to suffer we men.....

Am not a delusional person, I speak facts.....

Fibonacci88:
All this losers. Imagine u are a bachelor u wan use masturbation finish urself. When babes full everywhere. When I was a bachelor I was banging hot chicks left right center but now am married I know I hav left those so called enjoyment now it's me my wife and my kid. I enjoy my married life far more than my bachelor. I see my beautiful wife and son and I thank God I wasn't too carried away with bachelor life. Op better go check ur sperm count and stop hiding under pretence that marriage is stressful. Make money and marry the the right woman and stop hyping nonsense.

SonofGod231:
I'm 42...I have 2 boys from 2 lovely women.
I have the Job of my life,a house and 2 cars.
Still unmarried and I have no regrets whatsoever.

LoneSoldier:
Bachelor's life is the way to freedom...!

Mathewrichard99:
You are the great Odogwu, I hail you my brother. You are the one that knows what's up....Kudos to you and more prosperity.....

LoneSoldier:
Of course I will....

Kennitrust:
lol

Sir, I thought you a newspaper company.

It's totally I know that you are an independent individual creating content with your posts.

flokii:
You won't be a bachelor forever..
If you have the means to settle down, please do.. the merits of getting married are far more than the demerits.

LoneSoldier:
Dear Esteemed men, please share your experience of how you became a bachelor, and also share the benefits and challenges that comes with it...
I will start with mine, years ago when I was little I thought marriage was a thing of blessing and doesn't require a man to suffer, but little did I know that marriage is a bondage, so fast forward to when I was a teenager (Am a grown ass man now, that was then!) I started seeing things more clearly, let's take Nigeria for instance.... 90% of married men across Nigeria as a whole are suffering and smiling, why because marriage wasn't what they thought it was, some where even forced to marry by family members, some just wanted to try marriage out thinking is a thing of joy ride not knowing it is an everlasting torture.....

A country where everything is left for the man to do, and to worsen it more, economy is not smiling and men are dropping dead everyday due to high BP of so many budgets in a man's mind, a wife you think is a blessing is just a load of suffering, a liability that leaves the man to cater for everything, even though she also brings little by little it doesn't change the fact that she is a burden of suffering on the man's shoulders....


Well let me conclude here, there are more to write but let me conclude with the benefits and challenges I faced as a bachelor.....

BENEFITS AS A BACHELOR:

I always have time for myself, I do whatever I want whenever I want to do it.... No liability as a wife to dictate how my life should go, I eat whatever I want to eat, no kidding am a good cook... So I don't need a woman for that, when am Hørny.... I masturbate myself to stupor, I have a decent job (Remotely) so I have time for myself indoors, the only time I go out, is when I want to get food items......

CHALLENGES AS A BACHELOR:
Not so much tho, but it came to some point I got pressured by my stupid family (father and mother excluded) to get a wife, I boldly told them NO!

Planning on disowning them very soon, but that is a topic for another day...!

So esteemed men, this is my experience.... Share yours!

Solseal007:
Two things distinguished a bachelor from a married man

Freedom and responsibilities

Freedom is yours when you are single, freedom to choose, live, die , happy or be unhappy! Next freedom to choose to marry!

Once you choose to marry that freedom is taken away from you and you are now responsible for your life and the life of others you bring together through coitus and marriage.

It's neither a curse nor blessing, it is just life's journey! It doesn't make you a hero or a villain!

Understand the philosophy of life's journey and you will be fulfilled.

Kennitrust:
following your responses is so meant of you with your bachelor's insights.

I don laugh tire

You really mean to remain a bachelor... Lol

I'm 40 with no wife but planning seriously to get one this year. I just need the companion

duduade:
Continue to massturbaate to stupor

Silentgroper:
sense of responsibility ... You think a bachelor ain't got sense of responsibility??

If I may ask ask , sense of responsibility to what . 😕😕😕

Lanshile:
Na because say u u never meet an hardworking and humble woman

By the time u drop ur alpha male vibe and humble urself u will meet dat woman that will change ur life and thinking

AbuAeesha:
Sense of responsibility when you got someone looking up to you.

Sense of happiness when you see that someone (most cases child)putting smile on your face. deep inside you, you know that child is not just a soul but also a product of you.