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Fibonacci88:
There is no size fit all for defining a right woman. Just find someone that compliments u, respects u and gives u peace of mind. U can see all this traits during dating. I dated my wife for 4 years before we got married. All through the 4 years I was on the lookout for any red flags. This doesn't guarantee a perfect marriage as no marriage is perfect. Success in marriage boils down to both parties overlooking each other's weaknesses.

Hope you know women are very annoying

A woman is the last born in the family.
Husband is first and children second.
Her opinions are weightless. This is in the long run though.

Princesslee:
Dey play.
You camcome this life come play ba?quote author=Love800 post=133865393]False!

A child is what complete a man.

A wife is always a stranger!

LoneSoldier:
Dear Esteemed men, please share your experience of how you became a bachelor, and also share the benefits and challenges that comes with it...
I will start with mine, years ago when I was little I thought marriage was a thing of blessing and doesn't require a man to suffer, but little did I know that marriage is a bondage, so fast forward to when I was a teenager (Am a grown ass man now, that was then!) I started seeing things more clearly, let's take Nigeria for instance.... 90% of married men across Nigeria as a whole are suffering and smiling, why because marriage wasn't what they thought it was, some where even forced to marry by family members, some just wanted to try marriage out thinking is a thing of joy ride not knowing it is an everlasting torture.....

A country where everything is left for the man to do, and to worsen it more, economy is not smiling and men are dropping dead everyday due to high BP of so many budgets in a man's mind, a wife you think is a blessing is just a load of suffering, a liability that leaves the man to cater for everything, even though she also brings little by little it doesn't change the fact that she is a burden of suffering on the man's shoulders....


Well let me conclude here, there are more to write but let me conclude with the benefits and challenges I faced as a bachelor.....

BENEFITS AS A BACHELOR:

I always have time for myself, I do whatever I want whenever I want to do it.... No liability as a wife to dictate how my life should go, I eat whatever I want to eat, no kidding am a good cook... So I don't need a woman for that, when am Hørny.... I masturbate myself to stupor, I have a decent job (Remotely) so I have time for myself indoors, the only time I go out, is when I want to get food items......

CHALLENGES AS A BACHELOR:
Not so much tho, but it came to some point I got pressured by my stupid family (father and mother excluded) to get a wife, I boldly told them NO!

Planning on disowning them very soon, but that is a topic for another day...!

So esteemed men, this is my experience.... Share yours!

You sound like one of them dried up feminists

That you're having this discussion is a hidden thought in your subconscious of your innate need for a partner.

This is possibly a type of defense mechanism called Reaction Formation.

Introspect and you'll see you're secretly yearning for a woman- a good woman perhaps.

Ogar go and get married and stop all this paparazzi

Love800:
A woman is the last born in the family.
Husband is first and children second.
Her opinions are weightless. This is in the long run though.

Pls contribute something meaningful and stop talking like a primary 1 pupil. You that is married, cant you make comprehensive questions or quote that i can think about and reply back! Empty interrogations cant help this topic.
I appreciate your response.
Later.

Princesslee:
Ogar go and get married and stop all this paparazzi

Which comprehensive quote are you waiting for again?
Are your parents not together?
Is your Dad not married to your Mum?
Marriage favors both parties in all ramifications and that Is why its called partnership and companionship. Can your children become your companion at the long run?quote author=Love800 post=133868975]Pls contribute something meaningful and stop talking like a primary 1 pupil. You that is married, cant you make comprehensive questions or quote that i can think about and reply back! Empty interrogations cant help this topic.
I appreciate your response.
Later.[/quote]

LoneSoldier:
Dear Esteemed men, please share your experience of how you became a bachelor, and also share the benefits and challenges that comes with it...
I will start with mine, years ago when I was little I thought marriage was a thing of blessing and doesn't require a man to suffer, but little did I know that marriage is a bondage, so fast forward to when I was a teenager (Am a grown ass man now, that was then!) I started seeing things more clearly, let's take Nigeria for instance.... 90% of married men across Nigeria as a whole are suffering and smiling, why because marriage wasn't what they thought it was, some where even forced to marry by family members, some just wanted to try marriage out thinking is a thing of joy ride not knowing it is an everlasting torture.....

A country where everything is left for the man to do, and to worsen it more, economy is not smiling and men are dropping dead everyday due to high BP of so many budgets in a man's mind, a wife you think is a blessing is just a load of suffering, a liability that leaves the man to cater for everything, even though she also brings little by little it doesn't change the fact that she is a burden of suffering on the man's shoulders....


Well let me conclude here, there are more to write but let me conclude with the benefits and challenges I faced as a bachelor.....

BENEFITS AS A BACHELOR:

I always have time for myself, I do whatever I want whenever I want to do it.... No liability as a wife to dictate how my life should go, I eat whatever I want to eat, no kidding am a good cook... So I don't need a woman for that, when am Hørny.... I masturbate myself to stupor, I have a decent job (Remotely) so I have time for myself indoors, the only time I go out, is when I want to get food items......

CHALLENGES AS A BACHELOR:
Not so much tho, but it came to some point I got pressured by my stupid family (father and mother excluded) to get a wife, I boldly told them NO!

Planning on disowning them very soon, but that is a topic for another day...!

So esteemed men, this is my experience.... Share yours!

Marriage is really a scam with Nigerian women but women are not entirely bad. I divorced my Nigerian wife and got me a foreign wife...she's an asset!

Partnership. Partners make decisions together but the weight of each partners affairs in creating of conclusions at the end of any matter or authority in having the final say differs. One has the upper hand!

Companionship(husband and wife). Are we companions or stakeholders? Marriage is an institution. We(father and mother) are administrators in it. Companionship na friendship stuff which does not hold any water!

Whether my children will be my companion in long-term or long-run, well i can't really say. But if you are looking with percentage or statistics, atleast 70-percent will be there with their father till death!

Princesslee:
Which comprehensive quote are you waiting for again?
Are your parents not together?
Is your Dad not married to your Mum?
Marriage favors both parties in all ramifications and that Is why its called partnership and companionship. Can your children become your companion at the long run?quote author=Love800 post=133868975]Pls contribute something meaningful and stop talking like a primary 1 pupil. You that is married, cant you make comprehensive questions or quote that i can think about and reply back! Empty interrogations cant help this topic.
I appreciate your response.
Later.

Sleeknigga:
Dey console yourself, if you don clock 40 your a sucker
You mates don marry born pikin for sec schl you Dey hear Dey do finebobo single boy

Don't mind that guy when he is turning 45 he will understand better .

Nnamdipapa:
My biggest regret was never living the bachelors life. I never lived alone all my life. Lol

I crave the bachelors life more than anything else.

nothing is there, trust me. But I understand that you don't know what you have because it is always looking rosy on the other side.

Kennitrust:
following your responses is so meant of you with your bachelor's insights.

I don laugh tire

You really mean to remain a bachelor... Lol

I'm 40 with no wife but planning seriously to get one this year. I just need the companion

God bless you.

I am 40+ before I venture into when loneliness won finish me in disguise 🥸

Like seriously marriage can be a scam but sometimes too we will need a companion 😔

Am now a father of 1 and am happy about it .

But the secret is make more money even while married so u can still have fun outside .

But being struggling with finance might be tragic either that's what we failed to understand on time 😕

OK
I am done arguing.
I wish you the best

Love800:
Partnership. Partners make decisions together but the weight of each partners affairs in creating of conclusions at the end of any matter or authority in having the final say differs. One has the upper hand!

Companionship(husband and wife). Are we companions or stakeholders? Marriage is an institution. We(father and mother) are administrators in it. Companionship na friendship stuff which does not hold any water!

Whether my children will be my companion in long-term or long-run, well i can't really say. But if you are looking with percentage or statistics, atleast 70-percent will be there with their father till death!

Have a great day ahead!

Princesslee:
OK
I am done arguing.
I wish you the best

Lmao @ when I'm hor ny , I masturbate myself to stupor [right][/right]

I like you man. I retired in 2017. I'm into mutual funds. So I spend most of my time in my 3 bedroom flat alone playing video games, listening to music and watching movies. I warn my babes that I'm not interested in marriage. They have reduced to 2. They are matured and just want knacking. My neighbors rarely see me except by mistake. I go night shopping so I won't have to relate with my neighbors. I have disowned my relatives that try to pressure me to marry. I can't imagine leaving this soft life to take care of a woman, listen to her and have her little friends disturb my peace

LoneSoldier:
Dear Esteemed men, please share your experience of how you became a bachelor, and also share the benefits and challenges that comes with it...
I will start with mine, years ago when I was little I thought marriage was a thing of blessing and doesn't require a man to suffer, but little did I know that marriage is a bondage, so fast forward to when I was a teenager (Am a grown ass man now, that was then!) I started seeing things more clearly, let's take Nigeria for instance.... 90% of married men across Nigeria as a whole are suffering and smiling, why because marriage wasn't what they thought it was, some where even forced to marry by family members, some just wanted to try marriage out thinking is a thing of joy ride not knowing it is an everlasting torture.....

A country where everything is left for the man to do, and to worsen it more, economy is not smiling and men are dropping dead everyday due to high BP of so many budgets in a man's mind, a wife you think is a blessing is just a load of suffering, a liability that leaves the man to cater for everything, even though she also brings little by little it doesn't change the fact that she is a burden of suffering on the man's shoulders....


Well let me conclude here, there are more to write but let me conclude with the benefits and challenges I faced as a bachelor.....

BENEFITS AS A BACHELOR:

I always have time for myself, I do whatever I want whenever I want to do it.... No liability as a wife to dictate how my life should go, I eat whatever I want to eat, no kidding am a good cook... So I don't need a woman for that, when am Hørny.... I masturbate myself to stupor, I have a decent job (Remotely) so I have time for myself indoors, the only time I go out, is when I want to get food items......

CHALLENGES AS A BACHELOR:
Not so much tho, but it came to some point I got pressured by my stupid family (father and mother excluded) to get a wife, I boldly told them NO!

Planning on disowning them very soon, but that is a topic for another day...!

So esteemed men, this is my experience.... Share yours!

Tayorshd87:
God bless you.

I am 40+ before I venture into when loneliness won finish me in disguise 🥸

Like seriously marriage can be a scam but sometimes too we will need a companion 😔

Am now a father of 1 and am happy about it .

But the secret is make more money even while married so u can still have fun outside .

But being struggling with finance might be tragic either that's what we failed to understand on time 😕

I pray money will not stop our dream of settling down with a reasonable partner 🙏

[Tquote author=LoneSoldier post=133861990]

These bullshit word of a woman completes a man and give him sense of responsibility, which responsibility actually are you talking about....

See let me tell you something, there is nothing the female gender offers a man rather than suffering, you guys where created to put burden on the men, you aren't here to help rather you are here to suffer we men.....

Am not a delusional person, I speak facts.....[/quote]The way we program marriage in Nigeria had become death zone for men, is men that will carry all responsibility for family both in-laws is only men that wise will realize that this thing call marriage was created to reduce men life span in Nigeria, women of this generation are not help again for better to stay for worse to run,

DonroxyII:
Something that has tired me.

You don't know what you have until you lose it. Being a bachelor now will be like winning a lottery for me. Freedom!

Tayorshd87:
Don't mind that guy when he is turning 45 he will understand better .

What will he understand when turning 45? You may even suffer all your life and the kids will grow and abandon you.

fyneboi79:
Marriage is really a scam with Nigerian women but women are not entirely bad. I divorced my Nigerian wife and got me a foreign wife...she's an asset!

The two pictures are different people.

Nnamdipapa:
The two pictures are different people.

Sure they are different people. First picture was taken while she was going about her chores and I asked her to tie a scarf like an African to pose with the cardboard I made.
Second picture was taken in her new design 3D office space and she has makeup on..two different people!!

Bro you said my mind word for word i wish badly God knows, but i'm not mentally strong, financially strong gan gan be my pro. I lacked gan, and know what it feels like wouldnt want that for my kid or make dem go be nuisance cos i wouldn't train dem..

Yemike:
I'm a bachelor but nah because I never make am. I don't have the mental strength to be seeing someone suffering or unhappy not to talk of the person being someone I love and care about.

There was a time a news was trending about a man whose skeleton was found on the bed with his hand trying to reach his phone after two years. It was when the people of the community see that the bushes in the compound poses a community hazard was when they thought of cutting the bushes not knowing the man didn't travel but was actually inside the house.

There are advantages and likewise disadvantages of being a bachelor but the greatest disadvantage comes at the latter end of a man's life.

Batman2412:
I like you man. I retired in 2017. I'm into mutual funds. So I spend most of my time in my 3 bedroom flat alone playing video games, listening to music and watching movies. I warn my babes that I'm not interested in marriage. They have reduced to 2. They are matured and just want knacking. My neighbors rarely see me except by mistake. I go night shopping so I won't have to relate with my neighbors. I have disowned my relatives that try to pressure me to marry. I can't imagine leaving this soft life to take care of a woman, listen to her and have her little friends disturb my peace

Wow

Nnamdipapa:
You don't know what you have until you lose it. Being a bachelor now will be like winning a lottery for me. Freedom!

Human Brain Wants what it Wants When It Wants It But Sooner Or Later, The Law of Diminishing Marginal Utility Pops & You Get Bored Of It All & Desires Lesser & Lesser Till You Unlocked New Adventures & The Intricacies That Comes with It !

Welcome to Manhood

Kennitrust:
I pray money will not stop our dream of settling down with a reasonable partner 🙏

Amen o

fyneboi79:
Marriage is really a scam with Nigerian women but women are not entirely bad. I divorced my Nigerian wife and got me a foreign wife...she's an asset!

Why you no talk all these ones the time wey my sister Ebele dey spend all her pocket money on top ya head the time wey una dey Unizik before una come marry.

I warn am make she no marry you but she no gree hear advise

Nnamdipapa:
The two pictures are different people.

Nor mind am, person wey never commot Nigeria before dey pretend say he dey obodo oyibo

Nnamdipapa:
What will he understand when turning 45? You may even suffer all your life and the kids will grow and abandon you.

Yes u are correct too but for now you just need a companion and someone that can probably inherit your mansion you built for vanity.

Lonlines too can be tragic and kill faster than AIDS.

Yet being married too night not stop lonlines but the importance of getting married still have more advantage than not doing 1 or rather giving birth at all.

If you can't marry but try and have a child that's the point and direction here.

Enjoy your life bro

Kennitrust:
I pray money will not stop our dream of settling down with a reasonable partner 🙏

.amen my brother.

Don't stop trying new things because u might not know which of them will make you successful

Nyascobar1414:
Naturally, vvomen have inherent hatred for men,so I wonder why a man will give up his friends,money and freedom for his subconscious enemy😹..

Una go learn naa,happy wife,happy life😹..

My experience is that I'm aware of the manipulative techniques of the gynocentric society and vvomen..
So I keep to myself,do my things for myself...


Emily Cioran said"For an orgasm that last not more than 9secs,man is born to suffer for 70yrs..

Religion played a major role in this marriage of a thing that doesn't benefit man..

Again,live for yourself..
If man has not,no one will be with him..
So why have something and be with people..
If you fall,you fall alone,so therefore rise and rise alone🚶
Peace ✌️

Rubbish manipulative post, J wonder why some of you make a generalization of your past or present situation on a topic, worst still people like you will be simping for yansh but come online and type trash. Dear Bachelors, approach women with nuances, most importantly look before you leap.

LoneSoldier:
Dear Esteemed men, please share your experience of how you became a bachelor, and also share the benefits and challenges that comes with it...
I will start with mine, years ago when I was little I thought marriage was a thing of blessing and doesn't require a man to suffer, but little did I know that marriage is a bondage, so fast forward to when I was a teenager (Am a grown ass man now, that was then!) I started seeing things more clearly, let's take Nigeria for instance.... 90% of married men across Nigeria as a whole are suffering and smiling, why because marriage wasn't what they thought it was, some where even forced to marry by family members, some just wanted to try marriage out thinking is a thing of joy ride not knowing it is an everlasting torture.....

A country where everything is left for the man to do, and to worsen it more, economy is not smiling and men are dropping dead everyday due to high BP of so many budgets in a man's mind, a wife you think is a blessing is just a load of suffering, a liability that leaves the man to cater for everything, even though she also brings little by little it doesn't change the fact that she is a burden of suffering on the man's shoulders....


Well let me conclude here, there are more to write but let me conclude with the benefits and challenges I faced as a bachelor.....

BENEFITS AS A BACHELOR:

I always have time for myself, I do whatever I want whenever I want to do it.... No liability as a wife to dictate how my life should go, I eat whatever I want to eat, no kidding am a good cook... So I don't need a woman for that, when am Hørny.... I masturbate myself to stupor, I have a decent job (Remotely) so I have time for myself indoors, the only time I go out, is when I want to get food items......

CHALLENGES AS A BACHELOR:
Not so much tho, but it came to some point I got pressured by my stupid family (father and mother excluded) to get a wife, I boldly told them NO!

Planning on disowning them very soon, but that is a topic for another day...!

So esteemed men, this is my experience.... Share yours!

if your family are stupid, what are you?