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LoneSoldier:
Dear Esteemed men, please share your experience of how you became a bachelor, and also share the benefits and challenges that comes with it...
I will start with mine, years ago when I was little I thought marriage was a thing of blessing and doesn't require a man to suffer, but little did I know that marriage is a bondage, so fast forward to when I was a teenager (Am a grown ass man now, that was then!) I started seeing things more clearly, let's take Nigeria for instance.... 90% of married men across Nigeria as a whole are suffering and smiling, why because marriage wasn't what they thought it was, some where even forced to marry by family members, some just wanted to try marriage out thinking is a thing of joy ride not knowing it is an everlasting torture.....

A country where everything is left for the man to do, and to worsen it more, economy is not smiling and men are dropping dead everyday due to high BP of so many budgets in a man's mind, a wife you think is a blessing is just a load of suffering, a liability that leaves the man to cater for everything, even though she also brings little by little it doesn't change the fact that she is a burden of suffering on the man's shoulders....


Well let me conclude here, there are more to write but let me conclude with the benefits and challenges I faced as a bachelor.....

BENEFITS AS A BACHELOR:

I always have time for myself, I do whatever I want whenever I want to do it.... No liability as a wife to dictate how my life should go, I eat whatever I want to eat, no kidding am a good cook... So I don't need a woman for that, when am Hørny.... I masturbate myself to stupor, I have a decent job (Remotely) so I have time for myself indoors, the only time I go out, is when I want to get food items......

CHALLENGES AS A BACHELOR:
Not so much tho, but it came to some point I got pressured by my stupid family (father and mother excluded) to get a wife, I boldly told them NO!

Planning on disowning them very soon, but that is a topic for another day...!

So esteemed men, this is my experience.... Share yours!

Help yourself and stop that masturbation, you're doing more harm than good to your health if you keep engaging in such act.

LoneSoldier:
Dear Esteemed men, please share your experience of how you became a bachelor, and also share the benefits and challenges that comes with it...
I will start with mine, years ago when I was little I thought marriage was a thing of blessing and doesn't require a man to suffer, but little did I know that marriage is a bondage, so fast forward to when I was a teenager (Am a grown ass man now, that was then!) I started seeing things more clearly, let's take Nigeria for instance.... 90% of married men across Nigeria as a whole are suffering and smiling, why because marriage wasn't what they thought it was, some where even forced to marry by family members, some just wanted to try marriage out thinking is a thing of joy ride not knowing it is an everlasting torture.....

A country where everything is left for the man to do, and to worsen it more, economy is not smiling and men are dropping dead everyday due to high BP of so many budgets in a man's mind, a wife you think is a blessing is just a load of suffering, a liability that leaves the man to cater for everything, even though she also brings little by little it doesn't change the fact that she is a burden of suffering on the man's shoulders....


Well let me conclude here, there are more to write but let me conclude with the benefits and challenges I faced as a bachelor.....

BENEFITS AS A BACHELOR:

I always have time for myself, I do whatever I want whenever I want to do it.... No liability as a wife to dictate how my life should go, I eat whatever I want to eat, no kidding am a good cook... So I don't need a woman for that, when am Hørny.... I masturbate myself to stupor, I have a decent job (Remotely) so I have time for myself indoors, the only time I go out, is when I want to get food items......

CHALLENGES AS A BACHELOR:
Not so much tho, but it came to some point I got pressured by my stupid family (father and mother excluded) to get a wife, I boldly told them NO!

Planning on disowning them very soon, but that is a topic for another day...!

So esteemed men, this is my experience.... Share yours!

NIce one.. and enjoyable to read...but you dont have to call family stupid...because of they wants you to get married..abeg dey calm down...hahahah

Princesslee:
You still need a woman in your life. Wake up from your delusional mindset. A woman completes a man and gives him sense of responsibility.

stupid writeup

ChilliPepper:
Why you no talk all these ones the time wey my sister Ebele dey spend all her pocket money on top ya head the time wey una dey Unizik before una come marry.

I warn am make she no marry you but she no gree hear advise

I don't even know who or what you are talking about.... You probably got it mixed up.

ChilliPepper:
Nor mind am, person wey never commot Nigeria before dey pretend say he dey obodo oyibo

who be this bad belle feminist bikonu?

fyneboi79:
I don't even know who or what you are talking about.... You probably got it mixed up.

I sabi you well well, na you marry my sister Ebele.

If you no stop this your lie lie I go just post the photo wey I follow una take for una traditional wedding for Ojoto.

When you say chop my sister money you no know

ChilliPepper:
I sabi you well well, na you marry my sister Ebele.

If you no stop this your lie lie I go just post the photo wey I follow una take for una traditional wedding for Ojoto.

When you say chop my sister money you no know

if you don't post picture you will die like a chicken before long.

fyneboi79:
who be this bad belle feminist bikonu?

You go Unizik abi you no go Unizik?

Make you answer yes or no

You study Philosophy abi you no study Philosophy?

Make you answer yes or no

ChilliPepper:
You go Unizik abi you no go Unizik?

Make you answer yes or no

You study Philosophy abi you no study Philosophy?

Make you answer yes or no

you are just a roaming lunatic.. I don't know you abeg free me I am not interested in your plan. If you are one of the ladies I dumped!! Good radiance!!

ChilliPepper:
I sabi you well well, na you marry my sister Ebele.

If you no stop this your lie lie I go just post the photo wey I follow una take for una traditional wedding for Ojoto.

When you say chop my sister money you no know

I use and dump..I don't stay ok?? so fem up and stop crying foul..hate the game not the player. Because only an ex slut of mine can have the details you claim to possess.

fyneboi79:
Sure they are different people. First picture was taken while she was going about her chores and I asked her to tie a scarf like an African to pose with the cardboard I made.
Second picture was taken in her new design 3D office space and she has makeup on..two different people!!

Nairalanders make una come see person wey never commot for Nigeria before dey claim say he get foreign wife

All these men wey dey lie lie anyhow.

Make una tell am make he post photo with him obodo oyibo wife

LoneSoldier
Nyascobar1414
Tinubuismad
Sleeknigga
Marlow1962
Silentgroper
Flokii
Barontheceleb
Nnamdipapa
FunnyDude
Yemike
Duduade
Princesslee
Donroxyll
Fahvvy
Tjra
Deepspirituals
Parkervero
Oxygenlove
Love800
Jmoore
Fibonacci88
DropsMic
Solseal007
AfahaAbia
MrCork
HelipsTech

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SonofGod231
Mathewrichard99
Kennitrust
Osgilliat
Torqque7
Ask4bigneyo
Streetdreamx
Kay29000
AbuAeesha
Ohraykon
Paramount01
Lereinter
Delpee
JoaxhinPedro
Eepeepook
Maj196
Bluefilm
Ollyboy009
Daeveed
Iamblessed85
Lansike
Solseal007
CorrectionFluid
Lebete3000
Prosessore

Tayorshd87:
Yes u are correct too but for now you just need a companion and someone that can probably inherit your mansion you built for vanity.

Lonlines too can be tragic and kill faster than AIDS.

Yet being married too night not stop lonlines but the importance of getting married still have more advantage than not doing 1 or rather giving birth at all.

If you can't marry but try and have a child that's the point and direction here.

Enjoy your life bro

The big mistake you are making is assuming you know what a stranger on the internet needs.
This is 2025 and companionship may not necessarily mean a woman or marriage. It might mean things like : dog, cat, sex dolls, video games.

I have seen lots of married folks who are still lonely and miserable in marriage.

At this stage in my life, I prefer to be alone as I plan to live in different places all over the world.

DonroxyII:
Human Brain Wants what it Wants When It Wants It But Sooner Or Later, The Law of Diminishing Marginal Utility Pops & You Get Bored Of It All & Desires Lesser & Lesser Till You Unlocked New Adventures & The Intricacies That Comes with It !

Welcome to Manhood

I got into marriage at 21, my daughter is getting into the University of Toronto ending of this year.

ChilliPepper:
Nairalanders make una come see person wey never commot for Nigeria before dey claim say he get foreign wife

All these men wey dey lie lie anyhow.

Make una tell am make he post photo with him obodo oyibo wife

LoneSoldier
Nyascobar1414
Tinubuismad
Sleeknigga
Marlow1962
Silentgroper
Flokii
Barontheceleb
Nnamdipapa
FunnyDude
Yemike
Duduade
Princesslee
Donroxyll
Fahvvy
Tjra
Deepspirituals
Parkervero
Oxygenlove
Love800
Jmoore
Fibonacci88
DropsMic
Solseal007
AfahaAbia
MrCork
HelipsTech

Treasurenat
SonofGod231
Mathewrichard99
Kennitrust
Osgilliat
Torqque7
Ask4bigneyo
Streetdreamx
Kay29000
AbuAeesha
Ohraykon
Paramount01
Lereinter
Delpee
JoaxhinPedro
Eepeepook
Maj196
Bluefilm
Ollyboy009
Daeveed
Iamblessed85
Lansike
Solseal007
CorrectionFluid
Lebete3000
Prosessore

Who are you and what concerns me with your fellow mongrel's statements?

LoneSoldier:
[size=8pt]Dear Esteemed men, please share your experience of how you became a bachelor, and also share the benefits and challenges that comes with it...
I will start with mine, years ago when I was little I thought marriage was a thing of blessing and doesn't require a man to suffer, but little did I know that marriage is a bondage, so fast forward to when I was a teenager (Am a grown ass man now, that was then!) I started seeing things more clearly, let's take Nigeria for instance.... 90% of married men across Nigeria as a whole are suffering and smiling, why because marriage wasn't what they thought it was, some where even forced to marry by family members, some just wanted to try marriage out thinking is a thing of joy ride not knowing it is an everlasting torture.....

A country where everything is left for the man to do, and to worsen it more, economy is not smiling and men are dropping dead everyday due to high BP of so many budgets in a man's mind, a wife you think is a blessing is just a load of suffering, a liability that leaves the man to cater for everything, even though she also brings little by little it doesn't change the fact that she is a burden of suffering on the man's shoulders....


Well let me conclude here, there are more to write but let me conclude with the benefits and challenges I faced as a bachelor.....

BENEFITS AS A BACHELOR:

I always have time for myself, I do whatever I want whenever I want to do it.... No liability as a wife to dictate how my life should go, I eat whatever I want to eat, no kidding am a good cook... So I don't need a woman for that, when am Hørny.... I masturbate myself to stupor, I have a decent job (Remotely) so I have time for myself indoors, the only time I go out, is when I want to get food items......

CHALLENGES AS A BACHELOR:
Not so much tho, but it came to some point I got pressured by my stupid family (father and mother excluded) to get a wife, I boldly told them NO!

Planning on disowning them very soon, but that is a topic for another day...!

So esteemed men, this is my experience.... Share yours!

Oga, there's nothing to emulate in your life. You are so lonely and suffering.

Sir,
Marriage is not a scam. Without, you will not be born.

The problem these days is how we enter into marriages which plant wrong foundations and bitter experiences by both men and women.

Sir, Marriage has its own purpose and agenda in the creation and intention of the creator.
Marriage is to be enjoyed not endured.

Many people enter into marriages for wrong reasons, and are still entering till now.

Way out.
What is the purpose of marriage??
Marry within your circle and class. If are busy, marry someone that is busy.
Marry your friend.
Never marry because of sex o...I repeat Never. Else you will ever regret.
Never marry because of beauty....I repeat Never.
Marry someone you are fond of...
Never force yourself on someone. If person no like you, leave am o...
Never marry because of wealth o. Na one eye go remain for you o...and you deserve it.
If a woman no respect you, no marry am o...

If you are a village man, marry a village woman o...

You must not marry from your church o...
See Tinubu and Remi for eg.

Marriage is cultural!!! and not religious o...
In heaven marriage is not recognized o...it ends here on earth...

If you can't marry, leave am o...
Not everyone are meant for marriage o...

I rest my case...

Nnamdipapa:
I got into marriage at 21, my daughter is getting into the University of Toronto ending of this year.

No Wonder ... Your Youthfulness was Cheated ... Your Brain already Missed the Funs of Bachelorhood ..... .... You have to Make Up Though ... Rent a Chalet Somewhere & Take some Vacations from Home !

DonroxyII:
No Wonder ... Your Youthfulness was Cheated ... Your Brain already Missed the Funs of Bachelorhood ..... .... You have to Make Up Though ... Rent a Chalet Somewhere & Take some Vacations from Home !

It was, and I married my first gf, from living with my parents straight to marriage. Now, I travel on vacations alone just to have the feeling.

lereinter:
Hope you are celibate too?

Why? will not being celibate make him less of a bachelor?

Nnamdipapa:
The big mistake you are making is assuming you know what a stranger on the internet needs.
This is 2025 and companionship may not necessarily mean a woman or marriage. It might mean things like : dog, cat, sex dolls, video games.

I have seen lots of married folks who are still lonely and miserable in marriage.

At this stage in my life, I prefer to be alone as I plan to live in different places all over the world.

Let me assume when u turn 50+ a d u own a mansion and multiple cars but YOU LIVE ALONE 😔

Probably u will maintain and enjoy your life all alone at that stage of your life 🧬

Nnamdipapa:
It was, and I married my first gf, from living with my parents straight to marriage. Now, I travel on vacations alone just to have the feeling.

That one mean say you no even get opportunity fùck woman well well before you marry

ChilliPepper:
Nairalanders make una come see person wey never commot for Nigeria before dey claim say he get foreign wife

All these men wey dey lie lie anyhow.

Make una tell am make he post photo with him obodo oyibo wife

LoneSoldier
Nyascobar1414
Tinubuismad
Sleeknigga
Marlow1962
Silentgroper
Flokii
Barontheceleb
Nnamdipapa
FunnyDude
Yemike
Duduade
Princesslee
Donroxyll
Fahvvy
Tjra
Deepspirituals
Parkervero
Oxygenlove
Love800
Jmoore
Fibonacci88
DropsMic
Solseal007
AfahaAbia
MrCork
HelipsTech
Naija-Cover
Treasurenat
SonofGod231
Mathewrichard99
Kennitrust
Osgilliat
Torqque7
Ask4bigneyo
Streetdreamx
Kay29000
AbuAeesha
Ohraykon
Paramount01
Lereinter
Delpee
JoaxhinPedro
Eepeepook
Maj196
Bluefilm
Ollyboy009
Daeveed
Iamblessed85
Lansike
Solseal007
CorrectionFluid
Lebete3000
Prosessore

Lol 😂

Princesslee:
You still need a woman in your life. Wake up from your delusional mindset. A woman completes a man and gives him sense of responsibility.

A lady asked me what my red flag is and i said an irresponsible lady and she started laughing, you know hwy she laughed? She is like you who think a man will become responsible when he takes up the bills of another adult who is supposed to be responsible for herself as an adult so hearing something against what's her head made her burst into laughter of irresponsibility.

To you a man isn't responsible when he is responsible for himself and those he deems fit like family until he includes you the woman?
This is why i loathe irresponsible woman because they are entitled to things that doesn't belong to them . I'm not responsible for any woman doesn't make me not responsible, we can be responsible for ourselves but never in my dictionary to be solely responsible for any lady without a commiserate symbiotic effort in the opposite direction.

This mindset is what unalive me because society makes them think they are useless if they can't carry the road of a woman

ChilliPepper:
Nairalanders make una come see person wey never commot for Nigeria before dey claim say he get foreign wife

All these men wey dey lie lie anyhow.

Make una tell am make he post photo with him obodo oyibo wife

LoneSoldier
Nyascobar1414
Tinubuismad
Sleeknigga
Marlow1962
Silentgroper
Flokii
Barontheceleb
Nnamdipapa
FunnyDude
Yemike
Duduade
Princesslee
Donroxyll
Fahvvy
Tjra
Deepspirituals
Parkervero
Oxygenlove
Love800
Jmoore
Fibonacci88
DropsMic
Solseal007
AfahaAbia
MrCork
HelipsTech

Treasurenat
SonofGod231
Mathewrichard99
Kennitrust
Osgilliat
Torqque7
Ask4bigneyo
Streetdreamx
Kay29000
AbuAeesha
Ohraykon
Paramount01
Lereinter
Delpee
JoaxhinPedro
Eepeepook
Maj196
Bluefilm
Ollyboy009
Daeveed
Iamblessed85
Lansike
Solseal007
CorrectionFluid
Lebete3000
Prosessore

Hahahaha nothing concern my oooo

delpee:
@OP
My prayer for you is that you meet a hardworking, humble, caring and trustworthy woman who genuinely wants to partner with you to build the home you'll love to have. Loneliness is a terrible thing in old age. It's good to have a family though I respect your choice if you've put everything in proper perspective.

There are good and bad men and women everywhere. Believing that you can't find a good person is to accept defeat without making efforts. One problem that I've seen with some men is that they want to marry their fantasy, which, more often than not, isn't the right choice. God will surely guide you.

That loneliness is still waiting for men in their old age.

Children will allow their mother to stay with them in their old age but not the father.

It doesn't really favour men but women.

Be logical, look at the facts.

Fibonacci88:
I sure u don't know the meaning of being a simp. See this poor idiot wey all the babes don turn down dey form alpha male on nairaland. Keep wanking till ur prick bend.

i will feed ya whole family drop your aza make i disgrace your papa

eepeepook:
Who are you and what concerns me with your fellow mongrel's statements?

i no understand wetin be dis

AfahaAbia:
Hahahaha nothing concern my oooo

i no understand wetin be dis

post=133908144:
Lol 😂

i no understand wetin be dis

Ogar I am talking about sense of responsible not financial responsibility. So rest

idahme:
A lady asked me what my red flag is and i said an irresponsible lady and she started laughing, you know hwy she laughed? She is like you who think a man will become responsible when he takes up the bills of another adult who is supposed to be responsible for herself as an adult so hearing something against what's her head made her burst into laughter of irresponsibility.

To you a man isn't responsible when he is responsible for himself and those he deems fit like family until he includes you the woman?
This is why i loathe irresponsible woman because they are entitled to things that doesn't belong to them . I'm not responsible for any woman doesn't make me not responsible, we can be responsible for ourselves but never in my dictionary to be solely responsible for any lady without a commiserate symbiotic effort in the opposite direction.

This mindset is what unalive me because society makes them think they are useless if they can't carry the road of a woman

fyneboi79:
I use and dump..I don't stay ok?? so fem up and stop crying foul..hate the game not the player. Because only an ex slut of mine can have the details you claim to possess.

Na nonsense you dey talk onye nzuzu

I just dey pity Ebele and Dumebi