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REGINALD001:
ONYE ERIRI ERI......... SO I SHOULDN'T TAKE CARE OF MY MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL NEEDS BECAUSE I WANT TO IMPACT ON HUMANITY. I KNOW THE REASON FOR YOUR BAD BELLE, BUT MAKE E DEY HEAVY YOU. UCHU.

Alliswell248:
Lazy bone...
Use your brain and get busy with your life.

Don't expect the government to get you a job

APOPTOSIS:
Such is normal in Diaspora and not only the UK.
MEN no longer rush to cleave to ladies in Holy Matrimony owing to awful experiences they learnt and watched other men suffer. We all saw it coming. It's can only get worse.
My female cousins birthed in the U.S. had to relocate to Naija for a year in order to secure their husbands and it worked for them.

Diaspora Guys have learned it the hard way. Most men I have encountered in the U.S sound bruised. It's gonna take a lot to get healed. Let's all brace up. It's very unfortunate.
I see a lot of successful Bachelors around me but I perceive fear in them each time we communicate. It shouldn't be so at all. We all deserve happiness and peace of mind.
IF ordinary lower animals can phuck at will, humans should enjoy better.

Bendeco02:
But here in Nigeria, they see themselves as oracle

YourMaleCrush:
A lot of things are cheap in this country, Nigeria! While this may not be a very good example, it's the reality! I'd rather stay in Nigeria in peace and enjoy cheap life! Just imagine cost of Education! I paid N19,000 as tuition fee for 5 years! Crazy!

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Brandosky:
Over 85% of people who paid 19,000 as tuition fee in nigeria have no job today

Calitoscassius:
I tell you! Nothing wrong with been a bit fat, but many of them are really fat with horrible odours, filty nails and badly worn wigs.


Here in London E17 they are ramapant with screw faces and bad atitudes.

AyakaDunukofia:

Yeah, they show you attitude; dirty look at the slightest pretext, unprovoked. One would think their new environment would impact on vital indicators, but, No. Anyway, changing times.

Nigerian ladies in the UK are crying out, saying knacking is too expensive in the country.

Looking4Trouble:
No mind that Nigga, no hunger Dey worry am. You need to try Indians, their girls are magical in bed. However if you haven’t fuccked Wales and Scottish girls, then you haven’t gotten to the promised pusssy, sorry, I mean promised land

jaxxy:
because these Nigerian women are waiting for a man to toast them but that's not how it works in the UK. u must toast the man u like.

mmsen:
Why do you think they need so many immigrants to begin with? It's because the people there realize how costly it is to raise a child and thus tend to have fewer.

They also know how costly and stressful it is to deal with the break up of a relationship and divorce. Many a man has killed himself after divorce in the west.

It's only you who have come from abroad who don't know and find out the hard way.

JaskanFactor:
Time for you ladies to get real , throw away your oyinbo wigs and bleaching cream, cause the blackmail is in great danger as such has no time or resources for woman aspiring to be oyinbo.

In case you have not noticed there is a very racist New Normal Loading , if your woman dont know, she will get you in trouble.
If your children dont know , they will get you in trouble.

The shit is getting real for us, choose your partner wisely.

Tendd:
Sex or companionship seem to be a complex or huge deal overseas.Everyone is playing hard to get or rather keeping to themselves.Men that naturally were hunters are also keeping to themselves for fear of rejection or labelled a freek or disrespectful towards women.The Feminist movement too is misleading women.Some think everything must be on their own terms which in turn complicates the issue of finding a right soul mate.Nigerian is bad in many ways but l prefer somethings here to the ways of the west.

luminouz:
I'm glad you are ashamed for yourself. That's a good start. The dude dey UK ..he has no baby mama...he is not into drugs...he has a sexmate which is no crime yet a Nigerian woman like you with your plenty baggage has the guts to try to shame him? Are you not ashamed of yourself? The narrative was relationship not job or prize awards and you expect him to tell you he won a medal from the Queen?
See how aggressive you are online and you wonder why Naija men stay away from y'all in the UK?

Are you normal you this girl?

TimeManager:
Why are you being judgemental?, do you know how stable he is?. Are you celibate?.
A lady addresses her concern in a video, a commenter replied on his coping mechanism and here you jumped on it like a moral police. Why must you be ashamed as a Nigerian, do other nationalities not have sex abroad?. Think am well.


-Kiss the truth!

Gerrard59:
What's the age range of these ladies? I'm surprised such is rampant in the SW as well, if true.

haybhi1:
Regards from here sire. Quite a while. Speaking of the age range, I think most marriageable ladies from even early 20s, particularly those with conservative characteristics (worse for this categories). 22, 23, 24, 25 and so on. It's particularly high in Lagos, while weddings occur regularly on Saturday, people are hardly marrying actually. In fact, people are a lot divorce in a rather astronomical rate.

In our case though, as Nigerians–particularly in the SW, I'll say the economy is playing a huge role as source in the informal community, while the harsh realities and individual experiences are the root in the formal or enlightened community. I see some females and males around me unwilling to divorce singleness, as far as they remain very comfortable. Whereas the informal community, being so hard hit economically, are staying single. The one-eye-man-among-the-blind men outliers are getting too much females attention and hardly avoidable relationships.

Meanwhile, this whole demographic position is a product of my observation. While I try to shun biasing as much as possible and take a vast majority of the people into consideration, it may not exactly represent the fact.

Bendeco02:
But here in Nigeria, they see themselves as oracle

REGINALD001:
SCUNTHORPE, (ASHBY)

Nnacho1:
I dey ashby Road bro, opposite the pods.
Make we link up someday at Queensway or any pub of your choice if time permits.
Drink on me

ricson11:
Nigerian ladies in the UK are crying out, saying knacking is too expensive in the country


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XJilcjC_TcI?si=gjnbXsHihU-tnKCd

Ilekokonit:
True talk.

I normally don't pay them attention unless I've had a few shots of cognac in a club but on one Sunday, I went shopping somewhere in South London and I saw a Naija lady that caught my fancy and I approached her to say hello and maybe because she was wearing her Sunday best on her way from church and I was dressed down as I came out to do grocery shopping she gave me one look that said don't come near me and I was forced to tell her that that's not how her mates do it.

This epidemic of single unmarriageable women left to rot on the shelves in the UK has been brewing for a long time and the smart Naija women in the UK who sussed this out quick enough quickly did all they could to trap a man and have kids with him.

Ilekokonit:
I made the below post as far back as 2012 in response to the topic :- Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women?

Because men have learnt from Divorced and Seperated men that all your efforts on a so called good girl may be a waste of time, effort and money on the long run 5 years into marriage because most of our Westernised sisters are copying home breaking skills in the West all in the name of Feminism.

The current rise in "Independent woman syndrome" and "Delayed womens liberation" in our westernised sisters is making any rational man shun such women afterall, it is better to reside in a small corner of the roof than live with a brawling woman in a mansion

No man wants to marry a woman who behaves like a man. We all love feminine women and westernised women are not feminine in their ways

So when examples abound of ungrateful and poison tongued women, do you expect a sane man to put all his emotions and effort into pursuing someone who 5 years down the line may suddenly become cantankerous ?

https://www.nairaland.com/1139188/why-men-no-longer-pursuing

Ilekokonit:
On second thoughts, are these UK based Nigerian women saying that they can no longer afford to pay a male escort they hired online the £50 per hour he charges to come give them home service.

These UK Naija women should not pretend that we don't know that some of them hire male prostitute's to sleep with them in the UK. That secret has been out of the bag for at least 15 years in the UK to guys who are night crawlers.

And na woman like them tell me and my guys this secret to the extent that some of these sex starved UK single mothers have up to 12 male escort phone contacts that they can call at will to come and give them full home service for a fee.

ricson11:
Nigerian ladies in the UK are crying out, saying knacking is too expensive in the country


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XJilcjC_TcI?si=gjnbXsHihU-tnKCd

Afolue:
link us up for a barny na

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APOPTOSIS:
You can't be trusted, hence the reason.
The statistics for greed among Nigerians is almost 💯