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Mahn! Why!, why!!, why!!!
Why do most people not see that you are a busy person,and that for the fact, you call them on phone, or make out time to spend with them, doesn't mean you are always free, but rather a conscious decision on you side, to make it happen😞.
You may not understand what am trying to say untill you feel what Iam feeling.
Cause you can only feel it to understand it.
It's painful to me because I have always been the kind of person who sees good in people and tried to always give people the benefit of doubt. That they could really be different unno. But time without numbers I have been let down .
The same people who crawled through a crack you let them have access to, Will start taking your sincere concern for them for granted the moment they sense genuine concern from you. "bloody it"
I

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Which begs the question ,
Why did you gave up on relationship and friendships?
(What was the straw that broke the camel's back)

Especially when , you are the kind of person that likes to "dey him dey",
Some slowpoke go just carry em friendship come dey disturb you.
The moment you try to reciprocate, they start acting like they mean everything to you. Damn!
It's so disheartening mahn.

I know some folks may think that the op is going through some kind of breakfast lol.
But that's not the case,
Just fed up of giving people part of my self.

Sorry eh.
You go dey alright.

People most times tend to take those who are good to them for granted, thereby turning some to monsters.

ItisWell22:
Sorry eh.
You go dey alright.

People most times tend to take those who are good to them for granted, thereby turning some to monsters.

we are the monsters you made.

Am already a lone wolf mahn ,
Don't wanna add "cold hearted" to mix.
It's gonna be a really crazy combo.
But this people out here keep pushing me damn!

Orhevus:
we are the monsters you made.

mahn!, Dey say the longer you live in life the better you start to understand the vallians in movies. damn it mahn it's really true

Women are not meant to be too good to. Just know that

They are attracted to their feelings not by how kind or attention you gave to them.

For your mind you're giving her time but she may be seeing some of your behaviour as a simp character.

If girls are gotten by being a nice man, then someone like me don't supposed have any business with them. They said am not a good guy, i disrespect them yet still come when i need them.

Don't just take them serious till you are married to one.

Those who don't love themselves don't have any business with friendship or relationship. You can't give what you don't posses

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helinues:


Those who don't love themselves don't have any business with friendship or relationship. You can't give what you don't posses

mahn this has nothing to do with with loving yourself mahn.
If you know me in this space, you would have known I am the kind of person who like to live in the shadows and enjoy my own company.
I do my business and enjoy my money peacefully.
My post isn't gender specific unno.

codedgalaxy:
mahn this has nothing to do with with loving yourself mahn.
If you know me in this space, you would have known I am the kind of person who like to live in the shadows and enjoy my own company.
I do my business and enjoy my money peacefully.
My post isn't gender specific unno.

Bro, if you love yourself, then you will take your time before getting to know whoever whether for friendship or relationship.

There are so many manipulators out there . Family, friends, colleagues, partners

On a norms only few can say they know my real name in life and they aren't up to four people besides my family members.
That should tell you how far I preserve my energy.
Am always about the paper chase.
And seeking for knowledge.

codedgalaxy:
On a norms only few can say they know my real name in life and they aren't up to four people besides my family members.
That should tell you how far I preserve my energy.
Am always about the paper chase.
And seeking for knowledge.

Your type of person matters too

Is like you're too serious type

Bendeco02:
Your type of person matters too

Is like you're too serious type

lol…it’s not really about personality type. I’m more reserved and also serious when work is to be done but I also play hard and relax well. I know how to balance that. He is talking about fair weather friends who may try and see what they can get from you or just try and form familiarity with them.

@codedgalaxy I understand your point but these kind of people don’t deserve your time push them aside. You just focus on the authentic people in your life.

You're right bro