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"How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by LUAN(op): 8:02am On Feb 09, 2025
All the girls keep saying they need a tall, dark man. It has become a serious matter. At first, I thought it was a joke, but now that I’m considering settling down, I realize that women are truly serious about their preference for a tall, dark man.
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by DelilahMakinde(f): 8:13am On Feb 09, 2025
There's no such thing as settling down.
Ask my married cousins...
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by LUAN(op): 1:39pm On Feb 09, 2025
DelilahMakinde:
There's no such thing as settling down.
Ask my married cousins...
okay
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by ThorOdinson: 2:36pm On Feb 09, 2025
I am 6.3 tall and yet
I am single and no woman wan settle down or asked me out yet.
I feel all this tall guy stuff is horeshit myth
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by LUAN(op): 3:51pm On Feb 09, 2025
ThorOdinson:
I am 6.3 tall and yet
I am single and no woman wan settle down or asked me out yet.
I feel all this tall guy stuff is horeshit myth
it real ooo, maybe you are not making any move, e that has started make don tell you ny observation, they will say it directly to your me what they need, some will even block me if it's on social media
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by InfernoNig: 3:51pm On Feb 09, 2025
They have to look up, cos they can't look down.
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by Everyday247:
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by ItisWell22(f): 4:03pm On Feb 09, 2025
ThorOdinson:
I am 6.3 tall and yet
I am single and no woman wan settle down or asked me out yet.
I feel all this tall guy stuff is horeshit myth
You’re probably not in the right environment.

Positioning is very important.

Good luck 👍
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by Merry100: 4:05pm On Feb 09, 2025
It's not that serious. If you are short, just looks for ladies that prefer short guys. Complexion isn't really an issue, but when it comes to height, women often prefer both average-height and tall men. Short men might be at a disadvantage but there are women that prefer short men also.
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by Exceed15: 4:58pm On Feb 09, 2025
Be successful. They will rush u. Women are after security.
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by 9182736455O1999(m): 5:30pm On Feb 09, 2025
Everyday247:
How do you expect to to carry your bride on your wedding day? 😏
Women like to be swept off their feet you know. And with a short guy that's not possible. No offense boss tongue
I thought he said he's 6+ feet? 🤷
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by Everyday247: 5:37pm On Feb 09, 2025
9182736455O1999:
I thought he said he's 6+ feet? 🤷
You're right, I thought that i saw 5 ft 3. smiley
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by Bendeco02:
LUAN:
All the girls keep saying they need a tall, dark man. It has become a serious matter. At first, I thought it was a joke, but now that I’m considering settling down, I realize that women are truly serious about their preference for a tall, dark man.
Be whining yourself

You dey listen to girls

Hope you saw the post that trend some weeks ago where one lady dumped a guy dark and tall to marry a fair shorter man?

All those yarning trend and ends online

Girls like dark guys bla bla bla yet Nigerian men still bleach.

Girls like to follow trends online. Once first three people say they prefer dark guys for personal reasons, others will follow trend also. But in reality we see who they fall for easily
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by BrosG007: 5:56pm On Feb 09, 2025
Please, can you share link to the trend. I wan check. Thanks

You dey listen to girls

Hope you saw the post that trend some weeks ago where one lady dumped a guy dark and tall to marryva fair shorter man?

All those yarning trend and ends online

Girls like dark guys bla bla bla yet Nigerian men still bleach[/quote]
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by Bendeco02: 5:58pm On Feb 09, 2025
ThorOdinson:
I am 6.3 tall and yet
I am single and no woman wan settle down or asked me out yet.
I feel all this tall guy stuff is horeshit myth
The guy never know women

Personality matters, your doings

Dwarfs, blind people have lovers
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by Bendeco02:
BrosG007:
Please, can you share link to the trend. I wan check. Thanks

You dey listen to girls

Hope you saw the post that trend some weeks ago where one lady dumped a guy dark and tall to marryva fair shorter man?

All those yarning trend and ends online

Girls like dark guys bla bla bla yet Nigerian men still bleach
This is the link;

https://www.nairaland.com/8322817/upon-all-shakara-see-later

Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by Bendeco02:
Enter above topic and read women comments. All said the fair guy is better and more handsome while we all knew they said that because the man is fair and you believe that gender.

@ Op the issue is either the girl choice or maybe she don't like you and just find excuse to dismiss you. Don't be suprise to see her finally settle down with another fair guy.

I have seen women dumb taller guy for shorter guy.

Tall guys without babes still plenty for Nigeria.

If you like tall and handsome, if you're a dull guy, women will still ignore you for ugly shorter guy with doings
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by MrCork: 6:47pm On Feb 09, 2025
LUAN:
All the girls keep saying they need a tall, dark man. It has become a serious matter. At first, I thought it was a joke, but now that I’m considering settling down, I realize that women are truly serious about their preference for a tall, dark man.
angry
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by MrCork: 6:48pm On Feb 09, 2025
LUAN:
All the girls keep saying they need a tall, dark man. It has become a serious matter. At first, I thought it was a joke, but now that I’m considering settling down, I realize that women are truly serious about their preference for a tall, dark man.
Juss were high hill shoes sir!!! angry
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by Bendeco02:
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Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by RealityKings1: 9:15pm On Feb 09, 2025
LUAN:
All the girls keep saying they need a tall, dark man. It has become a serious matter. At first, I thought it was a joke, but now that I’m considering settling down, I realize that women are truly serious about their preference for a tall, dark man.
You are lucky bruh... Just make sure you stay where people gather. You'll find a partner that like your stature wink
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by CSTRR:
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Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by PreshMarvin(f): 11:48pm On Feb 09, 2025
I followed short fair skinned guy and he left me saying he’s not enough for me

Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by AllBlack:
ThorOdinson:
I am 6.3 tall and yet
I am single and no woman wan settle down or asked me out yet.
I feel all this tall guy stuff is horeshit myth
maybe you are just tall, wack and boring with awkward vibes with zero confidence. Nobody wants that kind of combination.

it is all about the combination. Height is not enough.
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by Bendeco02:
AllBlack:
maybe you are just tall, wack and boring with awkward vibes with zero confidence. Nobody wants that kind of combination.

it is all about the combination.
That tall black trended in America base on white men are not that strong and blacks has more swag than them.

But when it comes to Africa, we are the same race and our color doesn't matter but your personal character to attract them. So far you're upto average height (5.7/5.8FT) you can get any girl, it now depends on your confidence and status.

Drop wizkid and davido and know who girls falls for more even as davido is taller.
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by ThorOdinson: 7:01am On Feb 10, 2025
I am not wack
I might be a geek and weird
I feel these things drives the ladies away since I'd be hard for them to measure up.

Don't get me wrong
Short girls do come my way
But I am tired of the play and the no trust Idea from the ladies is just too much to handle. Most do tell me that they initially thought me as a player or Casanova.
Little did they Know that
Na hustle and making money
Na waitin I dey see all day.

Please guys make money and forget this tall man talk. Ladies love money
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by Bendeco02: 7:48am On Feb 10, 2025
ThorOdinson:
I am not wack
I might be a geek and weird
I feel these things drives the ladies away since I'd be hard for them to measure up.

Don't get me wrong
Short girls do come my way
But I am tired of the play and the no trust Idea from the ladies is just too much to handle. Most do tell me that they initially thought me as a player or Casanova.
Little did they Know that
Na hustle and making money
Na waitin I dey see all day.

Please guys make money and forget this tall man talk. Ladies love money
Don't mind that guy. All these references sometime are like myth.

Even dwarfs marry pretty women.

Most women have low self esteem than men. So, anyone that has the confident can approach and get them just that some men first downgrade themself.

But most important thing is your status as a man. That can cover all the areas you flop
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by LUAN(op): 8:55am On Feb 10, 2025
Bendeco02:
That tall black trended in America base on white men are not that strong and blacks has more swag than them.

But when it comes to Africa, we are the same race and our color doesn't matter but your personal character to attract them. So far you're upto average height (5.7/5.8FT) you can get any girl, it now depends on your confidence and status.

Drop wizkid and davido and know who girls falls for more even as davido is taller.
I'm below this average Bro
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by Bendeco02:
LUAN:
I'm below this average Bro
One thing with getting a partner is no matter how you're, you must see a girl that will love you.

Just try socialize more with women

Them too are afraid if men are attracted to them grin
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by LUAN(op): 12:51pm On Feb 10, 2025
Bendeco02:
One thing with getting a partner is no matter how you're, you must see a girl that will love you.

Just try socialize more with women

Them too are afraid if men are attracted to them grin
it has affected my self esteem really much
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by Merry100: 7:01pm On Feb 10, 2025
Bendeco02:
Don't mind that guy. All these references sometime are like myth.

Even dwarfs marry pretty women.

Most women have low self esteem than men. So, anyone that has the confident can approach and get them just that some men first downgrade themself.

But most important thing is your status as a man. That can cover all the areas you flop
There is no shortage of nonsense online. The internet is indeed a world of its own.

What do you mean by 'Most women struggle with low self-esteem, so anyone who is confident can approach and win them over'?You don't have to share misleading information to encourage someone; you can offer encouragement while still being logical.

Most women are confident. The fact that some dwarfs marry pretty women doesn’t mean that every woman on the street will agree to marry a dwarf. Most women can turn a man down, regardless of his social class. Almost all women have their own preferences when it comes to physical appearance, but many also take other factors into consideration, such as a man's vibe, composure, attitude, intelligence, talent, and more.
Re: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by Bendeco02: 7:15pm On Feb 10, 2025
Merry100:
There is no shortage of nonsense online. The internet is indeed a world of its own.

What do you mean by 'Most women struggle with low self-esteem, so anyone who is confident can approach and win them over'?You don't have to share misleading information to encourage someone; you can offer encouragement while still being logical.

Most women are confident. The fact that some dwarfs marry pretty women doesn’t mean that every woman on the street will agree to marry a dwarf. Most women can turn a man down, regardless of his social class. Almost all women have their own preferences when it comes to physical appearance, but many also take other factors into consideration, such as a man's vibe, composure, attitude, intelligence, talent, and more.
Hope you understood my point at all?
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