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Bitoin:
Omo looking at the options just made me realize what I have but I dey use am play. I have a girl that's doting on me, she's intelligent, hard working, not religious but fears God, she's not super beautiful but she's above average, she's very bursty for a slim girl but she no get ass (maybe na why I never reason her 😁), she's even a virgin untop (yes I know and very sure), and she's the supportive type.

E blike I go reason her self as better girls don
dey go into extinction


Op to answer your question, I fit manage the virgin but lazy, but unfortunately non of the option make sense to me

pansophist:
You can't have it all man.

You have a good woman, protect her fiercely and privatize her, because the evil men of this world will target her, and because she is young, emotional, weak and broke, she will fall.

Then give her useless "experience" That will make your stomach purge if you ever find out. There are predator men out there that just want to damage women.

Just as men have the burden to gain virtue (develop themselves), women have the burden to preserve virtue (be pure and have chastity)

It's hard for men to be high status and a good man, and it's also hard for a woman to preserve her virtue and give her husband the flex of being her first man.

And because she don't know, she will think she is enjoying herself by messing up with guys, but she is destroying herself and her options for good men in the future.

There are many girls that loved me before and would have made good partners, but when I discovered their past, I just lost interest.

My psyche cannot tolerate the idea that other men have had the best of the woman I'll pay bride price for.

In fact if a woman was married as a virgin and her husband died, I'm more likely to marry her than a single girl that was forked by different men and none paid her bride price.

So keep am well. Good women scarce. If na yansh you want, she can get it with proper glute training if she can work for it for like two years in the gym.

Your priority will also change as you grow der, and what you'll cherish will be peace, your own personal person, a good partner, and someone that you can beat your chest has not been around the block

I've adviced you. In fact I've warned you. Take heed.

Thundafireseun:
Virgin and Lazy with big nyash

Rexymania:
Until your hous start to smell like cemetery

pansophist:
You can't have it all man.

You have a good woman, protect her fiercely and privatize her, because the evil men of this world will target her, and because she is young, emotional, weak and broke, she will fall.

Then give her useless "experience" That will make your stomach purge if you ever find out. There are predator men out there that just want to damage women.

Just as men have the burden to gain virtue (develop themselves), women have the burden to preserve virtue (be pure and have chastity)

It's hard for men to be high status and a good man, and it's also hard for a woman to preserve her virtue and give her husband the flex of being her first man.

And because she don't know, she will think she is enjoying herself by messing up with guys, but she is destroying herself and her options for good men in the future.

There are many girls that loved me before and would have made good partners, but when I discovered their past, I just lost interest.

My psyche cannot tolerate the idea that other men have had the best of the woman I'll pay bride price for.

In fact if a woman was married as a virgin and her husband died, I'm more likely to marry her than a single girl that was forked by different men and none paid her bride price.

So keep am well. Good women scarce. If na yansh you want, she can get it with proper glute training if she can work for it for like two years in the gym.

Your priority will also change as you grow der, and what you'll cherish will be peace, your own personal person, a good partner, and someone that you can beat your chest has not been around the block

I've adviced you. In fact I've warned you. Take heed.

Savagethe21st:
pansophist, all you've said it's true but Sir, I disagree with you that women who messed up don't land high status men. Even Gerrard59 can testify, most women who whored around later married high status men

Thundafireseun:
Is it your house??

Meanwhile have you heard the word “house help”

keemsleek:
Ugly but intelligent

pansophist:
You are right, and no where have I said that women who messed up do not have high status men. But the chance is slim. Its like me telling you that people are winning Betnaija daily, so you should start gambling. But what are your chances? Will you work with probability, or on certainty? I also think such men that are with damaged have given women hope to go and spoil themselves. Afterall, one guy out there will forget her past. I have had on Turkish exchange student that refused to date guy while she was in school, all because it will be hard for her to get married in Turkey if she loose her virginity. Turkish men will hardly accept her and see her as unfit as a wife, and for that reason, she kept herself virtuous. If Naija men have such standards, infidelity will reduce.

pansophist:
You are right, and no where have I said that women who messed up do not have high status men. But the chance is slim. Its like me telling you that people are winning Betnaija daily, so you should start gambling.

But what are your chances? Will you work with probability, or on certainty? I also think such men that are with damaged have given women hope to go and spoil themselves. Afterall, one guy out there will forget her past.

I have had on Turkish exchange student that refused to date guy while she was in school, all because it will be hard for her to get married in Turkey if she loose her virginity.

Turkish men will hardly accept her and see her as unfit as a wife, and for that reason, she kept herself virtuous. If Naija men have such standards, infidelity will reduce.

Merry100:
It takes two to tango; advise your fellow men to stop having premarital sex as well.

The chances of non-virgins marrying a high-status man are even higher than those of virgins because many non-virgins enjoy mingling and meeting new people, while some virgins, especially Christian virgins, prefer not to mingle and instead relate mostly with those who are highly religious or Spiritual. They often spend their days at home, at work, or in Church.

How many virgins marry high-status men? Can you even name just five well-known, high-status men who are married to virgins?

High-status men do not even prioritize a woman's virginity; they prefer intelligent, talented, industrious, elegant, or supportive partners.

A lot of virgins are too rigid to socialize, attend outings, or go to parties and functions, and men don't go from house to house searching for women to marry; they mostly meet women during their outings.

Virginity is good, but ladies need to focus on attaining success rather than solely looking forward to what their partner can offer and basing their happiness solely on their partner. Virginity is not an asset and should not be viewed as such because it is unlikely to yield any significant profit, unless it is being kept for sale.

Virginity cannot even be relied upon as a tool to strengthen relationships or have a healthy marriage because after wedding, a lady's virginity becomes a thing of the past, and all that will be left is her personality and personal achievements. All ladies, including virgins, need to carefully select their partner because any woman who ends up marrying the wrong man, whether a virgin or not, will end up with regrets.

People need to stop overhyping, misinforming, or misleading virgins because it often leads the gullible ones to remain unproductive. I myself am a virgin, but I don't take it as a big deal; it is just a decision I made a long time ago.

Thundafireseun:
Who asked you??

Just pick one from the list that you can marry and stay away from my mentions

pansophist:
Is the number 4 (beautiful but illiterate) not a Virgin? If she is, that's my preferred choice.

Illiteracy can be corrected. Just a year of one-to-one coaching, she will know how to read and write.

Zocalite:
Then you don't know what intelligence mean

When your wife is intelligent your planning and organising at home will be Top notch

When she gives you advice on your own issues self you go dey happy for inside

Asawoboy:
Choose wisely