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Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by happney65: 10:01am On Feb 21, 2025
Let her come and give her the oko and at the same time no job for her

She dey craze
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by BigIyanga:
Teach her a lesson. When you forgive some people they get liver to be meaner to their next victim. Dont mess with her… but mess with her plans and ego by inviting her to a non-existing job interview and switch off your phone.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by dauntless15(m): 10:02am On Feb 21, 2025
Very petty, assuming she shows up at whatever address you gave her are you going to lash her in the streets, and what if something happens to her during the course of this silly game you're playing untop small tfare hope you have the balls to shoulder responsibilities cuz this Nigeria is not safe, if anything happens to her there's a lot of evidence to implicate you and all the other devils up there encouraging you to deal with her won't follow you to kirikiri to chop watery beans, be wise and flee from problem, small mistake fit cost you your freedom, if you like no hear, untop tfare wey no reach 20k sef, just lock up and don't even reply her chats, watch giult eat her up, that's what I'd do, petty children everywhere.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Pootle: 10:02am On Feb 21, 2025
oga that one don bash let her know say na u and lockup, if unforeseen go happen to her na u them go hold responsible o
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by timocruzcmbb(m): 10:02am On Feb 21, 2025
You not really interested in helping her you just interested in fucking her all in the pretence of looking for job for her,she sense it that’s why she blocked you at first,she’s only giving you a second thought because she think you really trying to help her,you are a selfish person,how many men is she going to sleep with before getting a job,let her be if you can’t provide a job for her Don’t get her pregnant and another wahala start again.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by ukaface(f): 10:03am On Feb 21, 2025
ebubeson:
PLEASE FORGIVE HER.

I AM NOT SUPPORTING THAT SHE COLLECTED YOU TRANSPORT FARE

BUT IF YOU HAVE A YOUNGER SISTER, I AM NOT SURE YOU WILL WANT HER TO GO SLEEP WITH A GUY.
But she collect money from the guy o
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by mosicola(m): 10:03am On Feb 21, 2025
Use the opportunity and drill her kpekus till there is no water in it. Then ghost her. I always like this opportunity
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Astonmartin(m): 10:06am On Feb 21, 2025
Go on with you plan, Bro.Using the pseudo company number, Invite her over for an interview. Time should be 6am as that would make her come to your house on Sunday and pass the night there in anticipation for the interview. You know the drill as I don't have to say much ..Just make sure she know you'll be traveling to a another state that same Monday afternoon as she's leaving for the interview, gaskia
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by saviourGeorge: 10:07am On Feb 21, 2025
My guy let go
Some women think they can always get away
This kind gal, I tell u , she can never be trusted
Just tell her about the plans and let go
That's better
She gonna learn...
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by ukaface(f): 10:07am On Feb 21, 2025
Op talk true
You no wan help am before, na lash you wan lash am in the pretence of getting her a job.

The girl sensed this and played you 1-0 🤣🤣🤣
The thing come pain pe as the Omo ogbon wey you be one banny play you
Only God knows how you thought of this your revenge plan
All because of Pvssy
Later Una go say Una get sense.

Go on with your revenge if it will make you better.

Both of Una go Dey alright Laslas
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by ukaface(f): 10:08am On Feb 21, 2025
Astonmartin:
Go on with you plan, Bro.Using the pseudo company number, Invite her over for an interview. Time should be 6am as that would make her come to your house on Sunday and pass the night there in anticipation for the interview. You know the drill as I don't have to say much ..Just make sure she know you'll be traveling to a another state that same Monday afternoon as she's leaving for the interview, gaskia
Devils advocate
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by jaxxy(m): 10:09am On Feb 21, 2025
She ate ur tfair not so? Let her come joor grin
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by BaddaMan: 10:09am On Feb 21, 2025
Bruh no lash that girl cos tomorrow now you fit popular make the girl dey say you wan lash am before you knack, or make she popular begin tell story of how one guy wan lash am just because she’s searching for jobs. Make the lashing come freewill.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by saviourGeorge: 10:09am On Feb 21, 2025
Astonmartin:
Go on with you plan, Bro.Using the pseudo company number, Invite her over for an interview. Time should be 6am as that would make her come to your house on Sunday and pass the night there in anticipation for the interview. You know the drill as I don't have to say much ..Just make sure she know you'll be traveling to a another state that same Monday afternoon as she's leaving for the interview, gaskia
cheesy cheesy cheesy grin
Come on man
That's fuckin harsh
E go bloody like that
Tell him to let go
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by ehikwe22: 10:09am On Feb 21, 2025
Any lady that takes transport and block the guy is evil. If you forgive her, she'll do it to someone else. Teach her a lesson
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by saviourGeorge: 10:10am On Feb 21, 2025
My guy let go
Some women think they can always get away
This kind gal, I tell u , she can never be trusted
Just tell her about the plans and let go
That's better
She gonna learn...

Na hunger
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by pansophist(m): 10:12am On Feb 21, 2025
Situations like this is why I am still in conflict with that biblical passage (Mathew 5.39) that emphasises turning the other cheek when someone slap you.

When in reality, when people use you and you let them get away with it, they will use you more and more, laugh at your stupidity, and even kill you, afterall, what can you do?

See go ahead and punish her, I do not know how you will do it, but dont let her go free. Just make sure that your revenge is proportionate. So for example, dont leave her stranded and something evil will happen to her because she passed the night outside. That will be too far.

So at the bear minimum, collect your money back, or make her waste an equivalent of it by telling her to go somewhere to sign. Then make sure she never gets the job, and lastly, make her know that she is bursted and you have gotten your revenge.

IF you let evil people get away with their evil, then expect more evil.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by tropaz(m): 10:12am On Feb 21, 2025
Factcheck0001:
send her address but not your company address, tell her u will come pick her up at the park.


The moment she gets to the park in Lagos n she calls u then u can block her everywhere n off your phone

I can bet everything that u can't do that cos u will want to try your luck so that your money won't waste but I bet u if u allow that girl in, u will pay a price u will forever regret
This is the most mature response but I also bet he would ignore just because of youthful exorbirance
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by HeightsKE: 10:13am On Feb 21, 2025
See comments,my God!

People don't have chills at all...

Guy please forgive her and hands off before you land yourself in trouble.
Remember,cops check phones for recent calls and contacts..be careful
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Mercylike: 10:13am On Feb 21, 2025
ebubeson:
PLEASE FORGIVE HER.

I AM NOT SUPPORTING THAT SHE COLLECTED YOU TRANSPORT FARE

BUT IF YOU HAVE A YOUNGER SISTER, I AM NOT SURE YOU WILL WANT HER TO GO SLEEP WITH A GUY.
But ur own foolish younger sister can collect money and block àbi
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by lereinter(m): 10:14am On Feb 21, 2025
Can't you just tell her to refund your money

Instead of all this rubbish you are planning for her, if something happens to her

Will you be able to live with the guilt
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Ebubu: 10:15am On Feb 21, 2025
AffiliateGuruNG:
huh


Since she don fall your hand on to say she nor send you as e be say she just need your connection......what's your plan.

I see two choices

#1 choice:
Tell am say the guy for HR don give you her appointment letter based on say you and the guy Na paddy.

But she must meet you to collect the appointment letter that way you nor go lost.

#2 Choice:
Get her wrong address make she Waka tire.

Now you have the 2 Choices.

Choose wisely.
I'll combine the two options

Make her waka tire looking for the company obviously with her transport fare, then eventually tell her I'm in possession of it.

Get a good graphics guy to design one, and send her an image of appointment letter with some parts blurred, then if she comes and accepts to sex for the appointment letter, I go nack and give her the fake appointment letter.

If she chooses not to come for the nack and opts to go home after the stress of waka-ing about, I will have made her spend that transport fare on venture wey no get head.

So I go combine am.

But the common rule na to never send babe transport fare, there's chances theyll never come no matter how sweet she sounds on chat or no matter the nudes she send.

It's best to make her use her money to come, if the sex works out, you give her going back transport two times to recoup the coming tfare.

If the sex doesn't work out, you don't give her any at all, both coming and going.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Zonefree(m): 10:15am On Feb 21, 2025
Ki11YurSev:
Lol.. FORGIVENESS na LIE.

Finish the mission my G!
God bless you abundantly.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Mercylike: 10:15am On Feb 21, 2025
HeightsKE:
See comments,my God!

People don't have chills at all...

Guy please forgive her and hands off before you land yourself in trouble.
Remember,cops check phones for recent calls and contacts..be careful
You are mad..... Did she have chill b4 she scammed him?
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Zonefree(m): 10:16am On Feb 21, 2025
Factcheck0001:
send her address but not your company address, tell her u will come pick her up at the park.


The moment she gets to the park in Lagos n she calls u then u can block her everywhere n off your phone

I can bet everything that u can't do that cos u will want to try your luck so that your money won't waste but I bet u if u allow that girl in, u will pay a price u will forever regret
Can I marry your brain?
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Mom007(f): 10:17am On Feb 21, 2025
This generation of men and ladies sef... y'all deserve one another. Do whichever you want. It doesn't change the fact that both of you are going to hell if you don't repent and begin to live right before God.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Ebubu: 10:18am On Feb 21, 2025
timocruzcmbb:
You not really interested in helping her you just interested in fucking her all in the pretence of looking for job for her,she sense it that’s why she blocked you at first,she’s only giving you a second thought because she think you really trying to help her,you are a selfish person,how many men is she going to sleep with before getting a job,let her be if you can’t provide a job for her Don’t get her pregnant and another wahala start again.
So why collect money when she know she won't come ?
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by valentineuwakwe(m): 10:19am On Feb 21, 2025
Show no mercy....let her come n pretend there is an interview. Let her come n stay at your place that night. After you don lash her well well...the next day for the propose 'fake' interview send her another message say dem don postpone the interview date till further notice...

From here now u go begin dictate the relationship momentum!
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Arostar2023: 10:19am On Feb 21, 2025
If anything happens to her while she is on the trip to her supposedly new job, you will be in serious trouble. If she falls into bad hands, you will find it tough talking yourself out of the problem. Police can track phone lines oO
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Zonefree(m): 10:20am On Feb 21, 2025
I just wish I'm in OP's position, I'll frustrate this girl to the extent she may consider suicide.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by JuanDeDios: 10:21am On Feb 21, 2025
wayray:
I met a girl during a short visit to Ibadan at my uncle's place. We exchanged numbers and we got talking online. She happens to be a fresh graduate serving.

During one of our usual gist, she said since I'm based in Lagos, I should assist her to look for job by sharing her cv which I obliged. We fixed a date to lash ourselves as Omo ogbon that I am. But my stay got cut short due to urgent stuff at my workplace. ( I forgot to add that I was on leave during this visit) So I left but we still continued gisting and had the date rescheduled for Lagos at my place. When the date for the meeting came, this babe demanded for transport fare which I gave without thinking twice. But surprisingly this babe blocked me immediately after receiving the fund. As a sharp guy, I switched to plan B after waiting for a week without success. I used my other line WhatsApp to chat her and claimed to be chatting her from the company from which I dropped her cv. My people immediately, this babe unblocked me and started apologizing. I said no whala, I pretended to follow up with the company so that they can pick her.

Now I have dropped a particular address not too far from my home for her in Lagos as the location of the company? SHOULD I ALLOW HER TO EMBARK ON THE JOURNEY OR I SHOULD FORGIVE HER?

Pls. I need your advice before Monday. I apologize about the long write up typo.
I'm not one for revenge. In fact, I have always preached against it. But you see this matter of TRANSPORT SCAM? It's becoming a major national problem that demands intervention by the Nass and DSS.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by killuminati(m): 10:23am On Feb 21, 2025
wayray:
I met a girl during a short visit to Ibadan at my uncle's place. We exchanged numbers and we got talking online. She happens to be a fresh graduate serving.

During one of our usual gist, she said since I'm based in Lagos, I should assist her to look for job by sharing her cv which I obliged. We fixed a date to lash ourselves as Omo ogbon that I am. But my stay got cut short due to urgent stuff at my workplace. ( I forgot to add that I was on leave during this visit) So I left but we still continued gisting and had the date rescheduled for Lagos at my place. When the date for the meeting came, this babe demanded for transport fare which I gave without thinking twice. But surprisingly this babe blocked me immediately after receiving the fund. As a sharp guy, I switched to plan B after waiting for a week without success. I used my other line WhatsApp to chat her and claimed to be chatting her from the company from which I dropped her cv. My people immediately, this babe unblocked me and started apologizing. I said no whala, I pretended to follow up with the company so that they can pick her.

Now I have dropped a particular address not too far from my home for her in Lagos as the location of the company? SHOULD I ALLOW HER TO EMBARK ON THE JOURNEY OR I SHOULD FORGIVE HER?

Pls. I need your advice before Monday. I apologize about the long write up typo.
Na this kain questions dey make us vex for BROTHERHOOD INC. if you don't want your name removed from our book better do the right thing cry


We're waiting for the result by next week..


SIGNED

.......... huh

BROTHERHOOD SECRETARY
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