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I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by annolomy(op): 11:02pm On Feb 20, 2025
I'm afraid my girlfriend doesn't love me, but only after the money she receives from me. What can I do to test her loyalty and to know if she truly loves me and not double dating.

Additionally, next month is her birthday, what type of gift will you suggest I buy for her please?

Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Feb 20, 2025
then wake up and stop dulling yourself- go and find another girl who will not bill you. There are many girls out there, why focus on one that you are not even sure that she like you
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by budaatum:
annolomy:
I'm afraid my girlfriend doesn't love me, but only after the money she receives from me.
She loves you before you give her money, and then stops loving you once you've given her money and she's received it?

Now that's simple. If you want her to keep loving you, just stop giving her money, since from the above you sound like you are paying her to not love you. But if you want her to keep not loving you, just keep making sure she receives money from you.

Those other questions you asked are above my pay grade, but to be honest with you, a relationship where you have to decide to buy or not buy love is not exactly solid, I would have thought.
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by Carndidlaydid(f): 12:26am On Feb 21, 2025
Threads like this makes me wanna puke
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by fadal(m): 1:54am On Feb 21, 2025
U a foolish loc
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by MaziObinnaokija:
sad Leave her ALONE and regain yo SANITY/EXPERIENCE PEACE OF MIND.
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by imagrg(m): 6:12am On Feb 21, 2025
Stop fooling around with a Community Girl. If she doesn't love you, she can't love you. Pay only for your fvcking session with her and stop treating her like a girlfriend.
Your can buy her a big "Happy Birthday To You" card and a bottle of cheap wine to test her loyalty.
Dem nor dey buy birthday gift for ashawo. Be Wise!
annolomy:
I'm afraid my girlfriend doesn't love me, but only after the money she receives from me. What can I do to test her loyalty and to know if she truly loves me and not double dating.

Additionally, next month is her birthday, what type of gift will you suggest I buy for her please?
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by Goodmarlian: 7:08am On Feb 21, 2025
Nigerian guys are the most love starved men in the world hence they have become desperate,why are you desperate to be loved,Nigerian women don't love,once a collects money from you all the time she doesn't love you.
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by isan(m): 8:27am On Feb 21, 2025
You need find a way to Bleep her at least once the you'll will be the one controlling the relationship
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by Lanmonfishery(m): 9:21am On Feb 21, 2025
What a SIMPle man
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by Jesuspistol(m):
Stop being afraid and stop winning her heart by giving her money and gifts at least for a moment. I'm sure her real person will surface
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by EmperorIsaac(m): 12:20pm On Feb 21, 2025
So, would it take us to beg her to love you?
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by Memberclub(m): 1:22pm On Feb 21, 2025
You are suppose to find another girl not ask us questions
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by mecuries(m): 1:45pm On Feb 21, 2025
"Additionally, next month is her birthday, what type of gift will you suggest I buy for her please?".. The best gift to get her is moving on. For your own peace of mind and hers
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by Exceed15: 1:46pm On Feb 21, 2025
Grade 1 simp. . Continue
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by Greenlandz: 1:48pm On Feb 21, 2025
Give her money!Give her more money! Infact give her more and more money please!
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by duduade(m): 2:17pm On Feb 21, 2025
If at this stage and time you don't know what to do
Then I am sorry
Our gender has lost one man


Mayday mayday

One man down
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by chopnaira: 3:20pm On Feb 21, 2025
Go and make money oga. When you have money, multiple girls will love you.
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by NaijaGoBetter2(m): 3:20pm On Feb 21, 2025
Between you and Nairalander who do you think is in best position to make decision on your relationship.
Your is relationship is yours make a wise decision
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by CrownedPhoenix: 3:20pm On Feb 21, 2025
On one lip, she doesn't love you. On the other, what gift should you buy for her?

You're a contradiction.
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by phr0nesis(m): 3:21pm On Feb 21, 2025
Just make sure you power the relationship with money and gifts.

When she double-dates - Pump in money

When she provokes you - slap her with money

Whenever you doubt her love for you - make sure you buy her something expensive, you'll regain her love.
You don't have to wait for her birthday to buy her gifts, buy buy and buy everyday.

You will learn eventually
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by Father4all: 3:21pm On Feb 21, 2025
You can't force someone to LOVE you
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by TechCapon(m): 3:22pm On Feb 21, 2025
What kind of broad daylight simping is this Jesus?
God forbid. I'll curse any son of mine with this kind of weakness and simps around after girls like a fool. Spit on your head angry
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by DiasGodinHeaven: 3:22pm On Feb 21, 2025
annolomy:
I'm afraid my girlfriend doesn't love me, but only after the money she receives from me. What can I do to test her loyalty and to know if she truly loves me and not double dating.

Additionally, next month is her birthday, what type of gift will you suggest I buy for her please?
Kill yourself immediately
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by SmartPolician:
Don't bother testing her loyalty because she will fail. Men are loved for what they can offer.

The day society realises you have nothing to offer, nobody cares about you anymore. That's why every man is encouraged to work hard.

As for the ladies, that would've been the case, except that every day can offer that thing in-between her thighs by default.

To answer your question, just stop giving her stuff and see her reaction. That's the only test you can put her through and she's likely going to fail.
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by Factcheck0001: 3:22pm On Feb 21, 2025
For u to come out openly n say this, it means u have seen things that have make u doubt her loyalty n love.

I will implore to leave her for your sanity
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by FreeSpirited: 3:22pm On Feb 21, 2025
Break up before she deal with your simpy ass.
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Someone doesn't love you, and u still one waste money on top her head.....
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If u like buy car for her, u are just pouring water in a basket...
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Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by joromii: 3:22pm On Feb 21, 2025
Lol. You people are still doing relationship? Anyway. How do you know she doesn't love you. Does she behave in a kinda way. You didn't drop enough details for us Nairaland in-laws to work with
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by FineUsername(m): 3:23pm On Feb 21, 2025
Cease giving Ego kudi. grin


annolomy:
I'm afraid my girlfriend doesn't love me, but only after the money she receives from me. What can I do to test her loyalty and to know if she truly loves me and not double dating.

Additionally, next month is her birthday, what type of gift will you suggest I buy for her please?
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by SmartyPants(m): 3:23pm On Feb 21, 2025
So many idiots all around.

My advice is that you should give her all your money asap because foolish people shouldn't have any money at all.










But then is one of Seun's fake engagement seeking topics isn't it? Rubbish.
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:23pm On Feb 21, 2025
Get a loan and buy her a Range Rover.
Re: I'm Afraid My Girlfriend Don't Love Me— What Should I Do? by israelmao(m):
Love isn't by force it is by choice.If a woman doesn't love a man there's nothing that man can do that will make her love him if you like splash your entire life savings on her she will not still not love you.
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