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Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Gerrard59(m): 4:43am On Mar 09, 2025
haybhi1:
But in your response to Samantha125, men just want to cum. And you don't necessarily need sex to do that.
Penetrative sex and masturbation don't offer the same sexual feeling. There is a huge emotional difference.
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Gerrard59(m): 4:48am On Mar 09, 2025
Adexgentle005:
You go talk say you never jam person way fit do am. Dem dey na like addict
No man who earns 100K pays 50K to a sex worker. Let's be realistic in our utterances. It is not possible. People pay according to their pockets.

To your question, the demand for sex is very high by men due to testosterone. As a result, they are willing to pay just to cum and go. Women put a price on their vaginas because of this excessive demand. So, what do men who don't have enough resources do if not pay to access pay-as-you-go service providers? Moreover, the majority of these patrons are married men - yes, married men who we've been lied to get easy sex.

Lastly, sex is not free. Every man pays for it.
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by visaclick: 6:26am On Mar 09, 2025
A fine man like me will pay for pvssy, god abeg o.

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Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Baronthecelebri(m): 7:01am On Mar 09, 2025
No time to waste,
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by idahme(m): 8:11am On Mar 09, 2025
Samantha125:
I also wonder why would a man wants to be sleeping with a woman who probably slept with three or five more men on that same day to a point that he's even willing to pay for it?

Don't you guys ever get disgusted? Or is it because you can't hold your urges?

I'm not trying to bash my fellow sisters for doing what they have to do in order to survive, but I'm just curious.
Many men do this because they can't differentiate between those who say they aren't prostitutes and those who actually say they are because both most times operate in i open ny legs for you and you hand over money to me aka can you take care if my bills? Having a large chunk of women having the mindset of you sex me you take care of my bills (prostituting) makes it even harder for some men to navigate these waters and so now settle for the one who only bills him the moment he had sex and not bill him again until another sex time unlike the other so call girlfriend (prostitute) who calls herself a girlfriend and continues to bill the man even after the sex.

This is a very huge problem ik the society, to become sane you just avoid 99.9% of females you come across in order to avoid the one with a prostitute mindset (i sex you wnd you give me money) else you may never have peace of mind with your partner.
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by olabrad: 8:19am On Mar 09, 2025
Samantha125:
I also wonder why would a man wants to be sleeping with a woman who probably slept with three or five more men on that same day to a point that he's even willing to pay for it?

Don't you guys ever get disgusted? Or is it because you can't hold your urges?

I'm not trying to bash my fellow sisters for doing what they have to do in order to survive, but I'm just curious.
You condemn men for sleeping with women who sleep with several men daily but you carpet women who sleep with several men per day.

Doesn't that sound like double standard and mental irresponsibility to you?
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Flows001(m): 8:29am On Mar 09, 2025
Samantha125:
What is kpansh?😒😒😒
cheesy grin it's a slang in Nigerian pidgin that means to have sex.
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Adexgentle005(op): 8:53am On Mar 09, 2025
Gerrard59:
No man who earns 100K pays 50K to a sex worker. Let's be realistic in our utterances. It is not possible. People pay according to their pockets.

To your question, the demand for sex is very high by men due to testosterone. As a result, they are willing to pay just to cum and go. Women put a price on their vaginas because of this excessive demand. So, what do men who don't have enough resources do if not pay to access pay-as-you-go service providers? Moreover, the majority of these patrons are married men - yes, married men who we've been lied to get easy sex.

Lastly, sex is not free. Every man pays for it.
Dude you are a clown. Lol, people pay according to their pocket? Sex is now a commodity.. Do you how many women we have in this country? All women put price on their vaginas? What a baseless assumption. What of women that have high libido? They are so ready to pay men just to cure their konji. Go ahead and pay for sex, that’s your cup of tea.
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Adexgentle005(op): 8:55am On Mar 09, 2025
Dzzzz:
..Low self esteem my ass..Someone carry him mama mate and you say he has low self esteem!..
So wetin we go call am? Mama mate? I’m taking about young girlsz
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Samantha125(f): 8:57am On Mar 09, 2025
Is the K silent?
Flows001:
cheesy grin it's a slang in Nigerian pidgin that means to have sex.
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Samantha125(f): 9:00am On Mar 09, 2025
You're not making any sense... What are you saying?🤔🤔🤔
olabrad:
You condemn men for sleeping with women who sleep with several men daily but you carpet women who sleep with several men per day.

Doesn't that sound like double standard and mental irresponsibility to you?
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Samantha125(f): 9:12am On Mar 09, 2025
Men have known to be the providers ever since the beginning of humanity, so what are you talking about? If she doesn't ask for anything, you'll say she's a cheap girl forming big girl, and if she asks for something, it's another issue...🤦🤦🤦

No one is forcing you to have any association with women... Buy yourself an intimacy gadget or manstubate and stay away from women for the rest of your life.
idahme:
Many men do this because they can't differentiate between those who say they aren't prostitutes and those who actually say they are because both most times operate in i open ny legs for you and you hand over money to me aka can you take care if my bills? Having a large chunk of women having the mindset of you sex me you take care of my bills (prostituting) makes it even harder for some men to navigate these waters and so now settle for the one who only bills him the moment he had sex and not bill him again until another sex time unlike the other so call girlfriend (prostitute) who calls herself a girlfriend and continues to bill the man even after the sex.

This is a very huge problem ik the society, to become sane you just avoid 99.9% of females you come across in order to avoid the one with a prostitute mindset (i sex you wnd you give me money) else you may never have peace of mind with your partner.
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by olabrad: 9:30am On Mar 09, 2025
Samantha125:
You're not making any sense... What are you saying?🤔🤔🤔
This means you don't see understand your initial comment. You condemn men for sleeping with women who sleep with multiple men. However, you carpet women who sleep with multiple men.

You are a biased and one sided
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Samantha125(f): 9:34am On Mar 09, 2025
Where did I condemn them? Didn't you read the part where I said I was asking out of curiosity? Because I'm not a man and I can't relate.

Are we no longer supposed to be asking questions where we're curious on this forum without people like yourself jumping into conclusions?
olabrad:
This means you don't see understand your initial comment. You condemn men for sleeping with women who sleep with multiple men. However, you carpet women who sleep with multiple men.

You are a biased and one sided
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Dzzzz: 9:48am On Mar 09, 2025
[quote author=Adexgentle005 post=134458828]So wetin we go call am? Mama mate? I’m taking about young girlsz[/quote…Bro no man get low self esteem…I have a friend who is very shy but once alchohol enter him mouth,he becomes over active and another friend na money Dey dull am but once money enter he can even toast President wife..
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by olabrad: 9:59am On Mar 09, 2025
Samantha125:
Where did I condemn them? Didn't you read the part where I said I was asking out of curiosity? Because I'm not a man and I can't relate.

Are we no longer supposed to be asking questions where we're curious on this forum without people like yourself jumping into conclusions?
You said you are not condemning your sisters won have to do what they have to do to make money.

Does that sound like condemnation to you?
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Samantha125(f): 10:12am On Mar 09, 2025
What they do with their lives is none my business...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

And I told you that I wasn't condemning anyone, but asking out of curiosity... Don't you understand English?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
olabrad:
You said you are not condemning your sisters won have to do what they have to do to make money.

Does that sound like condemnation to you?
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Adexgentle005(op): 10:13am On Mar 09, 2025
[quote author=Dzzzz post=134459361][/quote]You read wetin you write so?
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by idahme(m): 10:31am On Mar 09, 2025
Samantha125:
Men have known to be the providers ever since the beginning of humanity, so what are you talking about? If she doesn't ask for anything, you'll say she's a cheap girl forming big girl, and if she asks for something, it's another issue...🤦🤦🤦

No one is forcing you to have any association with women... Buy yourself an intimacy gadget or manstubate and stay away from women for the rest of your life.
This us why i said there isn't much difference between those that call themselves prostitutes and those who don't. Your assertion isn't different from women of easy virtue that's why i said taking away 99.9% to have sanity
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by olabrad: 10:52am On Mar 09, 2025
Samantha125:
What they do with their lives is none my business...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

And I told you that I wasn't condemning anyone, but asking out of curiosity... Don't you understand English?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
You said you weren't condemning women sleeping with many men, but your first statement condemned men sleeping with women who have had sex with several other men.
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Gerrard59(m): 12:11pm On Mar 09, 2025
Adexgentle005:
Dude you are a clown. Lol, people pay according to their pocket? Sex is now a commodity.. Do you how many women we have in this country? All women put price on their vaginas? What a baseless assumption. What of women that have high libido? They are so ready to pay men just to cure their konji. Go ahead and pay for sex, that’s your cup of tea.
First, it's your miserable father that is a clown! His sperm produced another big olodo clown!

So, why are you complaining about the men who pay for sex? Is it your preek? Is it your money? What the fvck would you to them? Call Tinubu to arrest men who patronise sex workers? So what do men who cannot woo women because they don't have financial resources? Are ugly? Are disabled? Or have high libido? What should these men do? Rape women?!

Idiot! Cretinous fvcktard!
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Adexgentle005(op): 12:28pm On Mar 09, 2025
Gerrard59:
First, it's your miserable father that is a clown! His sperm produced another big olodo clown!

So, why are you complaining about the men who pay for sex? Is it your preek? Is it your money? What the fvck would you to them? Call Tinubu to arrest men who patronise sex workers? So what do men who cannot woo women because they don't have financial resources? Are ugly? Are disabled? Or have high libido? What should these men do? Rape women?!

Idiot! Cretinous fvcktard!
This guy is mentally deranged. If you can abuse your father in public like this, it means you are a very shameless person. I pity your father. He just wasted his sperm. He should have used condom to prevent someone like you coming to this world. Very unfortunate human being.
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Drella: 12:50pm On Mar 09, 2025
ednut1:
even in the animal kingdom only the strongest and most attractive males mate the available females. In real life 80% of women want just 20% of men. Even amongst the poorest. They will go for the poor with most money, looks or charisma. Meaning that majority of men cant get any pussy to nack. Paying prostitute is an easy way out. Men are only focused on ejaculation and they use condom. So all that one doesn’t follow. Even in normal relationships your girlfriend may cheat on you in the morning and still come have sex with you at night 😂
I disagree!
All a man needs to do is to lower his standards!
If you are in middle class and all girls in middle class want men in upper class, just go for the women in the lower class.
This is because women in lower class will be pleased to sleep with men in middle class.

In Uni environment, final year girls will prefer working class men to their fellow finalist boys. The final year boys can go for 100 and 200 level girls easily.
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Gerrard59(m): 1:21pm On Mar 09, 2025
Adexgentle005:
This guy is mentally deranged. If you can abuse your father in public like this, it means you are a very shameless person. I pity your father. He just wasted his sperm. He should have used condom to prevent someone like you coming to this world. Very unfortunate human being.
You called me a clown and expected no strong response? undecided
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by chidooh1: 1:25pm On Mar 09, 2025
YES
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Bola4boy(m): 2:14pm On Mar 09, 2025
Gerrard59:
You called me a clown and expected no strong response? undecided
did he called your father clown? To me, clown is not even an abusive word. But you went all out for his father. You dey bring machine gun for ordinary knife quarrel. Grow up!
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by ednut1(m): 2:22pm On Mar 09, 2025
Drella:
I disagree!
All a man needs to do is to lower his standards!
If you are in middle class and all girls in middle class want men in upper class, just go for the women in the lower class.
This is because women in lower class will be pleased to sleep with men in middle class.

In Uni environment, final year girls will prefer working class men to their fellow finalist boys. The final year boys can go for 100 and 200 level girls easily.
ok explain to us what happens to men in the lower standards 😒. The final year guys the babes gree for are the one with looks , game or money that can usually take care of them. The broke and or ugly final year guy that reeks of poverty which girl go look hin side?
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Flows001(m): 2:24pm On Mar 09, 2025
Samantha125:
Is the K silent?
Not really, ever heard of "Kpekus"?
The K and P in Kpansh, are pronounced together, same way as in "Kpekus"..

Can't believe I'm taking my time to explain these vulgar words😄😅
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Samantha125(f): 2:27pm On Mar 09, 2025
Okay, thanks... smiley smiley smiley
Flows001:
Not really, ever heard of "Kpekus"?
The K and P in Kpansh, are pronounced together, same way as in "Kpekus"..

Can't believe I'm taking my time to explain these vulgar words😄😅
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Flows001(m): 2:36pm On Mar 09, 2025
Samantha125:
Okay, thanks... smiley smiley smiley
You're welcome wink
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Gerrard59(m): 4:43pm On Mar 09, 2025
Bola4boy:
did he called your father clown? To me, clown is not even an abusive word. But you went all out for his father. You dey bring machine gun for ordinary knife quarrel. Grow up!
Next time, please advise him not to start what he cannot finish. I don't go about calling people names, but anyone who does will receive a backlash from me.

You don't decide what is abusive to anyone. That is your way of life, not everyone's or mine.
Re: Is It True That Men That Patronize Prostitute Have Low Self Esteem? by Samantha125(f): 5:20pm On Mar 09, 2025
I was wondering out of curiosity and not condemning. Do you know the difference?

olabrad:
You said you weren't condemning women sleeping with many men, but your first statement condemned men sleeping with women who have had sex with several other men.
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