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checky619:
You can’t turn a hoe to a house wife, but men never learn, sorry for the poor child you’re bringing to this world out of unah useless immorality. Life no get manual, you will learn

Davidnilla:
The second option doesn’t sound easy bro. I really need custody of my child.

I’ve told her a little about this, and in return, she said that if she stays loyal and i cheat, she’ll just run away with my baby.

Thanks alot for your input. Its one of the most helpful so far.

I’ve decided to take her to a new state, new people, new life. Then watch her closely for a year.

Davidnilla:
Useless immorality? You don’t need to be rude. No body wey no dey bang woman wey e never marry, e dey very for guys in a particular age set. Lets be realistic, na only online everyone be saint

DAramis:
Though your last paragraph seems noble, but I do hope it will not affect your source of income?

You don't have to relocate to a new state with her if your business or work is there where both of you are currently. You can simply change your house address, street or town where you guys will be new faces in the community and start afresh together.

In addition,get a new sim card, and give to her (then destroy the one she has after she gets her parents and important contact out. Also shut down her social media platforms (deactivate it completely including her WhatsApp)....I mean everything. After giving birth,she can set up one to document her new status as a mother.

These are practical steps to cut her off the old beastie or ex that don't add meaningful thing to her life. If she is intelligent,she will never protest against this approach because she will know it is for her own good.

Davidnilla:
The second paragraph, yes, relocating was already part of my plans before it happened. I just had include her in the plans.

The third paragraph, yes, but i’d be able to do that when i pay her bride or do the necessary. Then I know say, na woman i don pay for.

DAramis:
Okay bro.

As for the third paragraph of mine,you don't need to marry her to do that. Just throw it to her as suggestions and see if she will do it herself.

That it is to cut her off from situations that will tempt her back to those lifestyle she is planning to leave. It may only takes a hi, and maybe old picture of them together (she and ex together) to re-kindle the old flame between them. She shutting them off completely seems practical and logical

Davidnilla:
Thats very true. Cause last time she posted a twerking butt video, the replies to the status were all related to her “coming over”. You have strong point here.

Thanks alot bro. Just trying to take it slow, to avoid her aborting it

Davidnilla:
Good day y'all

Please I need advice on this, or more like suggestion

There's this girl I got pregnant, a childhood friend and we've been close for over 9 years. We always spend together

It was like friends with benefits but with strong bond. Based on old time friendship

Don't get me wrong on this, we've been friends for long to the extent that she tells me stories of her past and current relationship life.

She fit come visit me, post am, her boyfriend go ask her why, she go swear say she didn't do anything with me, but me deep down i know say we do something.

She fit dey with me make her boyfriend call her, she go swear say she dey house.

I've watched her date guys, visit male friends, get banged and so. Just as friends oo

She doesn't double date, but she gives access to just her male friends. Like, a girl go get serious relationship, but she still gets banged by just her friends.

My point is, (I'm not judging her tho), now she's pregnant for me, should I go ahead and settle with a girl with this kind of history? Cause As I do my follow my man, is there any guarantee she no go do same to me with other men? I carry two heads?

Yes I know it's wrong to bang another man's girl and expect not to experience same when I finally date her. Just that, I no dey even know when she dey relationship or not, she fit dey for January, make February she go begin cry say person break her heart.

Or do women change when they get pregnant for a guy?

Since the pregnancy she's been trying to make US A THING. like trying get me into a romantic relationship finally

I do have access to all her social handles as we were friends for over 9 years now, but since this past month on pregnancy stuff, she's been deleting some chats make I no see am, she's been trying to prove to me that she's a saint

Pls I need experienced advice on this, should I just support her till she gives birth? Which I'm scared I might get attached or feelings for her and will be difficult to let her go

(I've also confirmed the baby is mine)

Namaster:


Dude said she DOESN'T double-date. She just FUCCCKS her plethora of besties.

Dude emphasized it like it's a VIRTUE.



A girl who DOESN'T respect commitments gets pregnant for a guy who DOESN'T respect commitment and BOTH want to enter into a COMMITED relationship.

Hilarious!

DAramis:
Though your last paragraph seems noble, but I do hope it will not affect your source of income?

You don't have to relocate to a new state with her if your business or work is there where both of you are currently. You can simply change your house address, street or town where you guys will be new faces in the community and start afresh together.

In addition,get a new sim card, and give to her (then destroy the one she has after she gets her parents and important contact out. Also shut down her social media platforms (deactivate it completely including her WhatsApp)....I mean everything. After giving birth,she can set up one to document her new status as a mother.

These are practical steps to cut her off the old beastie or ex that don't add meaningful thing to her life. If she is intelligent,she will never protest against this approach because she will know it is for her own good.

Davidnilla:
Useless immorality? You don’t need to be rude. No body wey no dey bang woman wey e never marry, e dey very for guys in a particular age set. Lets be realistic, na only online everyone be saint

DAramis:
Though your last paragraph seems noble, but I do hope it will not affect your source of income?

You don't have to relocate to a new state with her if your business or work is there where both of you are currently. You can simply change your house address, street or town where you guys will be new faces in the community and start afresh together.

In addition,get a new sim card, and give to her (then destroy the one she has after she gets her parents and important contact out. Also shut down her social media platforms (deactivate it completely including her WhatsApp)....I mean everything. After giving birth,she can set up one to document her new status as a mother.

These are practical steps to cut her off the old beastie or ex that don't add meaningful thing to her life. If she is intelligent,she will never protest against this approach because she will know it is for her own good.

Davidnilla:
I get your point and thats my sole concern. My problem again is that, I don’t know if they she will let go of my baby if it doesn’t work out. I wan keep custody of my child if anything goes wrong, is that possible?

Uptheante:
How are you sure the pregnancy is yours, since you said she has other male friends that she has sex with?

Maitunbi:
This advice sounds so out of touch with reality and it shows the state of mind of the person giving it.
Essentially you're advising this man to subject a woman to all these extreme measures just because she is pregnant for him?
You people are something else.

As for the silly poster,
The woman that serially cheats on her love interests with you and you enjoy it. Now the tables have turned and you're suddenly scared that she might also cheat on you. With all due respect sir, you're just dumb. What makes you think you're so special?
If you were smart, you would handle your business with your full chest and not run to this place and start whining.
Let me shock you; there is no type of advice anyone gives you here that would save you from the consequences of your action. So just zero your mind on that. Good luck

Davidnilla:
Scan bro. Tho i go still do dna, but we did scan to determine the age of the pregnancy vs the day we both ‘met’ last

Uptheante:
That's not a reliable way of determining that you are responsible for the pregnancy.

DNA test is the best solution

Davidnilla:
How sure are you?

Cause aint no way im spending or taking responsibility that long without confirming paternity, if i should wait for dna

Davidnilla:
Good day y'all

Please I need advice on this, or more like suggestion

There's this girl I got pregnant, a childhood friend and we've been close for over 9 years. We always spend together

It was like friends with benefits but with strong bond. Based on old time friendship

Don't get me wrong on this, we've been friends for long to the extent that she tells me stories of her past and current relationship life.

She fit come visit me, post am, her boyfriend go ask her why, she go swear say she didn't do anything with me, but me deep down i know say we do something.

She fit dey with me make her boyfriend call her, she go swear say she dey house.

I've watched her date guys, visit male friends, get banged and so. Just as friends oo

She doesn't double date, but she gives access to just her male friends. Like, a girl go get serious relationship, but she still gets banged by just her friends.

My point is, (I'm not judging her tho), now she's pregnant for me, should I go ahead and settle with a girl with this kind of history? Cause As I do my follow my man, is there any guarantee she no go do same to me with other men? I carry two heads?

Yes I know it's wrong to bang another man's girl and expect not to experience same when I finally date her. Just that, I no dey even know when she dey relationship or not, she fit dey for January, make February she go begin cry say person break her heart.

Or do women change when they get pregnant for a guy?

Since the pregnancy she's been trying to make US A THING. like trying get me into a romantic relationship finally

I do have access to all her social handles as we were friends for over 9 years now, but since this past month on pregnancy stuff, she's been deleting some chats make I no see am, she's been trying to prove to me that she's a saint

Pls I need experienced advice on this, should I just support her till she gives birth? Which I'm scared I might get attached or feelings for her and will be difficult to let her go

(I've also confirmed the baby is mine)

Dzzzz:
When you Dey shoot sperm inside like Rambo you no remover history lesson..Oga shut up and be responsible..

Davidnilla:
Good day y'all

Please I need advice on this, or more like suggestion

There's this girl I got pregnant, a childhood friend and we've been close for over 9 years. We always spend together

It was like friends with benefits but with strong bond. Based on old time friendship

Don't get me wrong on this, we've been friends for long to the extent that she tells me stories of her past and current relationship life.

She fit come visit me, post am, her boyfriend go ask her why, she go swear say she didn't do anything with me, but me deep down i know say we do something.

She fit dey with me make her boyfriend call her, she go swear say she dey house.

I've watched her date guys, visit male friends, get banged and so. Just as friends oo

She doesn't double date, but she gives access to just her male friends. Like, a girl go get serious relationship, but she still gets banged by just her friends.

My point is, (I'm not judging her tho), now she's pregnant for me, should I go ahead and settle with a girl with this kind of history? Cause As I do my follow my man, is there any guarantee she no go do same to me with other men? I carry two heads?

Yes I know it's wrong to bang another man's girl and expect not to experience same when I finally date her. Just that, I no dey even know when she dey relationship or not, she fit dey for January, make February she go begin cry say person break her heart.

Or do women change when they get pregnant for a guy?

Since the pregnancy she's been trying to make US A THING. like trying get me into a romantic relationship finally

I do have access to all her social handles as we were friends for over 9 years now, but since this past month on pregnancy stuff, she's been deleting some chats make I no see am, she's been trying to prove to me that she's a saint

Pls I need experienced advice on this, should I just support her till she gives birth? Which I'm scared I might get attached or feelings for her and will be difficult to let her go

(I've also confirmed the baby is mine)

Uptheante:
What if DNA test shows that you are not the father, at the end of day, what happens to all you have spent to take care of her during the pregnancy & delivery?

Davidnilla:
Good day y'all

Please I need advice on this, or more like suggestion

There's this girl I got pregnant, a childhood friend and we've been close for over 9 years. We always spend together

It was like friends with benefits but with strong bond. Based on old time friendship

Don't get me wrong on this, we've been friends for long to the extent that she tells me stories of her past and current relationship life.

She fit come visit me, post am, her boyfriend go ask her why, she go swear say she didn't do anything with me, but me deep down i know say we do something.

She fit dey with me make her boyfriend call her, she go swear say she dey house.

I've watched her date guys, visit male friends, get banged and so. Just as friends oo

She doesn't double date, but she gives access to just her male friends. Like, a girl go get serious relationship, but she still gets banged by just her friends.

My point is, (I'm not judging her tho), now she's pregnant for me, should I go ahead and settle with a girl with this kind of history? Cause As I do my follow my man, is there any guarantee she no go do same to me with other men? I carry two heads?

Yes I know it's wrong to bang another man's girl and expect not to experience same when I finally date her. Just that, I no dey even know when she dey relationship or not, she fit dey for January, make February she go begin cry say person break her heart.

Or do women change when they get pregnant for a guy?

Since the pregnancy she's been trying to make US A THING. like trying get me into a romantic relationship finally

I do have access to all her social handles as we were friends for over 9 years now, but since this past month on pregnancy stuff, she's been deleting some chats make I no see am, she's been trying to prove to me that she's a saint

Pls I need experienced advice on this, should I just support her till she gives birth? Which I'm scared I might get attached or feelings for her and will be difficult to let her go

(I've also confirmed the baby is mine)

MrCork:
Ok Daniella...is she lightskin sir??

Davidnilla:
You dey suspect your babe?

MrCork:
No. Your Sister sir. I used to date her. Real talk!(no oofencsse)

Davidnilla:
Good day y'all

Please I need advice on this, or more like suggestion

There's this girl I got pregnant, a childhood friend and we've been close for over 9 years. We always spend together

It was like friends with benefits but with strong bond. Based on old time friendship

Don't get me wrong on this, we've been friends for long to the extent that she tells me stories of her past and current relationship life.

She fit come visit me, post am, her boyfriend go ask her why, she go swear say she didn't do anything with me, but me deep down i know say we do something.

She fit dey with me make her boyfriend call her, she go swear say she dey house.

I've watched her date guys, visit male friends, get banged and so. Just as friends oo
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She doesn't double date, but she gives access to just her male friends. Like, a girl go get serious relationship, but she still gets banged by just her friends.

My point is, (I'm not judging her tho), now she's pregnant for me, should I go ahead and settle with a girl with this kind of history? Cause As I do my follow my man, is there any guarantee she no go do same to me with other men? I carry two heads?

Yes I know it's wrong to bang another man's girl and expect not to experience same when I finally date her. Just that, I no dey even know when she dey relationship or not, she fit dey for January, make February she go begin cry say person break her heart.

Or do women change when they get pregnant for a guy?

Since the pregnancy she's been trying to make US A THING. like trying get me into a romantic relationship finally

I do have access to all her social handles as we were friends for over 9 years now, but since this past month on pregnancy stuff, she's been deleting some chats make I no see am, she's been trying to prove to me that she's a saint

Pls I need experienced advice on this, should I just support her till she gives birth? Which I'm scared I might get attached or feelings for her and will be difficult to let her go

(I've also confirmed the baby is mine)

Yugoslavia247:
Someone that fuc.ked. other guys while she was dating.
You that bleeped while she was dating.

You believe the pregnancy was yours.

Truly she knew why she did not date you.
You are not a man yet.

You could not even date her because you were a weakling and she saw u as a tool.

But worse is you are now a fo.ol.

Because you will regret your life.

You will live in constant mistrust.

What makes you think you are the only fuckmate?

Someone u did not date?

Someone that hardly keeps a relationship and it is because of you

Fwb is so easy. You know why? It jas not sense of commitment or responsibility. You know why married men are called responsible and marriage is used to tame wayward adults? It has so much responsibility overload.

You think u can shoulder her excesses that other guys ran from within a month.

Someone that has no emotion or knows what dating entails.

I always say this the motive of a relationship is far more important that starting.

If the motive was fwb then it will always be as such and regrets go full am.


U why we have many single mothers

The gals want to chop the money and guy want to Bleep kpekus
Belle enter they cant keep it together

What is the issue? The motive.

The guy will want that kpekus without responsibility and the girl wants more money with no responsibility.

After some time they start forcing each other to be responsible while being irresponsible at the same time.

Chaos
Fight
Hate
Disgust
Ends it all

Whether it is your child or not. You will pay the price

Davidnilla:
You made alot of irrelevant comments here and ‘slow’ assumptions

Your comments sound so personal, like you’re trying to take out the anger of your past experience on me.

If you actually took your time to read the post, you’d see where i pointed that i always decline whenever she asks us to be in a relationship. Someone here said “why buy the cow while you can always get the milk”

Listen again, we are childhood friends, and naturally meeting alot would bring sexual temptations. I no dey pay her and she no dey ask me for financial support.

Is she the one to see me as a tool, or me as a guy to see her as a tool?

I never said i was the only fukmate, i only asked if pregnancy can calm a girl down

Bro, no be me hurt you. I only shared and asked for suggestions

Yugoslavia247:
U go cry

Las las u go accept that pikin.

Your church and family go put mouth.

U go cry better cry.

Make sure to quote me then.