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Never have an intimate relationship with another man, single or married, whether your spiritual father or brother, colleague, neighbour, personal assistant or cleaner. 🙏
Never get emotionally attached to a man other than your own husband. ❤️
Avoid celebrating a man outside your husband, father and brother. Don’t send bad signals to men.🙏
Never take advantage of a man who is for you, don’t do it, he put his trust in you, don’T destroy your life. 💅
Never help a man at work, in the neighborhood or anywhere without the consent and cooperation of your husband❤️
Never meet men in isolated places, parked cars or street corners❣️
Never allow your heart to covet another man, there is nothing they have that your husband doesn’t. No one is perfect. Be content with what your husband offers you 😍
Avoid accepting gifts from a man without consulting your spouse. It just might be a trap.🥰
Always wear your wedding ring.🫂
Avoid indecent courtship by going out of your house, only your husband can see your private parts. If you show it to the public, men will see that you are comfortable and they will take advantage of it to approach you. 💞
If a man shows you that he wants to sleep with you, rebuke him openly. Say no, boldly and calmly. 💕
Never get into dirty and naughty discussions with a man. You never know how far this will take you, be careful, carry yourself with dignity. ❤️
Don’t keep any secrets from your husband. Be totally open, it’s safe for you. ❤️‍🔥
Make your husband your best friend and display him anywhere, anyhow. Put his image as a screensaver on your phone, laptop and tablet.❣️
Celebrate your husband’s birthday and wedding anniversary publicly and everywhere, it will send signals to men that you love your husband and you are not available for them. ❣️
Never hide your marital status, let them know that you are married. 💞
Using “I love you” to any man except your husband and son could be misinterpreted❤️
Always talk about your husband. It drives the wrong men who want you far. 💝
The discussions you have outside about your husband should be positive, never talk negative about him.❣️
If you don’t appreciate your marriage, don’t share it with another man,instead go and see a marriage counselor. 💖
Cut all contacts with all your ex’s and anyone you had sex with before marriage, if you don’t you will ruin your marriage and theirs.❤️
Prove your love to your husband anywhere.💗
If a man starts getting too close to you, please inform your husband with his name, phone number and details.😍
Be kind to your co-workers, church members, neighbors, etc. , but you must be strict and disciplined when you notice a wrong approach.❣️
Always remember that pleasure is only 8 seconds, it can’t be more than that but it’s impact can last a lifetime and even eternity, please don’t waste your life for maximum pleasure. 💞
Avoid Night Partying: Partying encourages sexual immorality, if you really want to be faithful then avoid Night Partying.🥰
Avoid alcohol. When you drink alcohol you are likely to commit the irreparable.💞
Don’t forget about the sexually transmitted diseases. It’s true sex transmissions are possible when you don’t stay faithful to your husband, don’t ruin your life because of one moment of pleasure. 😍
Don’t think the HOOD can save you: Condom can break, it can’t even protect you from scandal, shame, reproach, broken trust and judgement of God, good conduct is what you need not a condom. 💖
Always remember your vows you promised to keep your vows to your husband on your wedding or engagement day be a keeper of your promises remember your vow.💕
Avoid night clubs:night clubs are not meant for ladies who want to respect their marriage vows, avoid them.❤️
No affectionate jokes: Don’t make affectionate jokes with a man, don’t do it.💞
No hugging: avoid carelessly hugging men, don’t do it, it’s not a demonstration of love, do it with a handshake, only hug your husband.❤️‍🔥
No shoulder contact: avoid touching men’s shoulders when you’re talking to them. Touching the shoulder is also a sign of love assurance, only your husband deserves it. ❤️
No private meals:avoid having lunch or dinner in private with a man other than your husband,eating together generates love and feelings. 💞
No road trips: Avoid taking private trips with men, except in a group. Spending hours with a man can create an affinity that can drag you down.❣️
No secret conversation: No secret or affectionate conversation with another man. ❤️
No private meeting: Never hold a meeting with a man your husband is not aware of.💞
No séxuäl discussion with another man. ❤️
Be cautious and protect your marriage 💞


Source:https://www.wahala.online/2025/03/09/how-married-women-can-keep-their-marriage-safe/

Hmm, going by these rules, many married women are not guilty free.

You might as well take us and get us locked up in a women's prison that has female guards only...🤦🤦🤦

Is it ok for Cele Pastor to bath grown up girl for river?…I wan know whether I go support my friend to slap him babe..How can a full grown girl with big breast and yansh say”Her pastor is taking her to stream for purification”Abi she Dey mad!..

Any man reasoning like this is insecure

My own na to keep doubling the bag
Any doubt na to carry the kids run DNA
Keep the ones that are mine marry a young one

Maybe other African ladies not our farm tools🤷

I thought you guys don't hit your women?😏😏😏

Dzzzz:
Is it ok for Cele Pastor to bath grown up girl for river?…I wan know whether I go support my friend to slap him babe..How can a full grown girl with big breast and yansh say”Her pastor is taking her to stream for purification”Abi she Dey mad!..

Samantha125:
I thought you guys don't hit your women?😏😏😏

It's called Reset Slap.

It is not intended to hurt...but to recall lost senses.
Usually done in love.

—it works.
Just one slap...not two or more; just one.

After the factory reset slap, the love continues.
However if she becomes aggressive afterwards, don't attempt another slap. Apologise and leave her be.

Samantha125:
I thought you guys don't hit your women?😏😏😏

I don’t but this slap is for correction..Na my friend babe and not me..Will allow your pastor to bath you naked cause him wan purify you?

MyExpression:
It's called Reset Slap.

It is not intended to hurt...but to recall lost senses.
Usually done in love.

—it works.
Just one slap...not two or more; just one.

After the factory reset slap, the love continues.
However if she becomes aggressive afterwards, don't attempt another slap. Apologise and leave her be.

God bless you..Why will a fully grown woman allow pastor to bath her naked!?

That's still abuse... Can't you talk to her instead of using violence?

MyExpression:
It's called Reset Slap.

It is not intended to hurt...but to recall lost senses.
Usually done in love.

—it works.
Just one slap...not two or more; just one.

After the factory reset slap, the love continues.
However if she becomes aggressive afterwards, don't attempt another slap. Apologise and leave her be.

Can't he talk to her instead of using violence? Or the only communication you guys know is through violence?

Dzzzz:
I don’t but this slap is for correction..Na my friend babe and not me..Will allow your pastor to bath you naked cause him wan purify you?

God bless him in abusing another person's child? Is God your friend that you're using his name in vain like this?

Dzzzz:
God bless you..Why will a fully grown woman allow pastor to bath her naked!?

Women think they do us favor by getting married. They like to play the victim card. They cannot even take what they dish out.

Samantha125:
That's still abuse... Can't you talk to her instead of using violence?

When my grandparents were still alive, on the days we were travelling back to school or the city, grandpa would pray for us and typically spit on our hands.
Guess what we do with it...we joyfully rub it on our head 😆 🤣 😂

I say that to say this...some things are mythical...and when done in love, they tend to be potent.

However, @Dazz, I don't think it's your place to do that.
Advice your friend to TALK to her...or HELP her...before he leaves her.

At the end, assault is still wrong...but same women do not want the man to leave- as option B.

Do you want rship to end, or you want us to try one reset slap?
...ask the ladies which option they'll go for.
—I will not be shocked.

Well, some ladies do enjoy getting abused until they're dead... One of the reasons why I find it hard sympathising with some of them because such ladies never want to listen to anyone's advice.

It's called Stockholm syndrome.

MyExpression:
When my grandparents were still alive, on the days we were travelling back to school or the city, grandpa would pray for us and typically spit on our hands.
Guess what we do with it...we joyfully rub it on our head 😆 🤣 😂

I say that to say this...some things are mythical...and when done in love, they tend to be potent.

However, @Dazz, I don't think it's your place to do that.
Advice your friend to TALK to her...or HELP her...before he leaves her.

At the end, assault is still wrong...but same women do not want the man to leave- as option B.

Do you want rship to end, or you want us to try one reset slap?
...ask the ladies which option they'll go for.
—I will not be shocked.

Dzzzz:
Is it ok for Cele Pastor to bath grown up girl for river?…I wan know whether I go support my friend to slap him babe..How can a full grown girl with big breast and yansh say”Her pastor is taking her to stream for purification”Abi she Dey mad!..

He's her father in the Lord ..

So why not

😁😁😁

You better just cage and lock us up yen yen yen..
This no do good of bitch is gonna definitely cheat on her husband..

Samantha125:
Can't he talk to her instead of using violence? Or the only communication you guys know is through violence?

Lol Samantha I know say you Dey whine me.

What does "dey whine me" mean?

Dzzzz:
Lol Samantha I know say you Dey whine me.

Samantha125:
What does "dey whine me" mean?

It means your spirit is in Nigeria, but your body is in south African 😂

Why are you quoting me since I'm not on your thread? I thought you don't converse with dumb people...😏😏😏

Ibkay32:
It means your spirit is in Nigeria, but your body is in south African 😂

Samantha125:
Why are you quoting me since I'm not on your thread? I thought you don't converse with dumb people...😏😏😏

Haha, you got me! Guess I couldn’t resist quoting you when I see it. But don’t worry, I’ll try to keep it low-key next time.😏

Good... 😌😌😌

Ibkay32:
Haha, you got me! Guess I couldn’t resist quoting you when I see it. But don’t worry, I’ll try to keep it low-key next time.😏

Samantha125:
What does "dey whine me" mean?

..Where are you from?

Burundi...

Dzzzz:
..Where are you from?

Samantha125:
Burundi...

..I see..It means you joking with me right!

No, I'm not... Why?🤔🤔🤔

Dzzzz:
..I see..It means you joking with me right!

Samantha125:
No, I'm not... Why?🤔🤔🤔

…Can you allow your pastor to bath you naked cause he wants to purify you?

All this thing

Samantha125:
No, I'm not... Why?🤔🤔🤔

hey!


what did u do to our thread, i just remembered it now and cant find it?

When I said "good luck", I meant it...

Your precious moderator thought he was smart and in charge, but some of us are smarter...😃😃😃

Stolen:
hey!


what did u do to our thread, i just remembered it now and cant find it?