₦airaland Forum

HaneefahRN:
➜I really don't know what we are arguing about here. Do what works for you and advice people around you to do whatever. If I know a young lady or man in their 20s with a good job, and has a good, kind partner with similar or better financial standing they want to do life with I will encourage them.

The "do what works for you" mentality is to blame for the current state of poverty in Nigeria, with over 170,000,000 Nigerians living in abject poverty and that number projected to balloon to over 300,000,000 before 2050.

What is made obvious by these facts is that it is time to re-educate the Nigerian girl and woman, to cause them to realize that they are responsible for lifting themselves and their children — many generations after — from poverty. As a matter of fact, what is clear is that the generational curse of poverty, which so many are afraid of, is caused by women who are raised in poverty entering into marriage agreements without first conquering poverty. Yeah, the ones literally most responsible for spreading the curse are the women.

Consider a case where a woman from a poverty background is impregnated then abandoned either before marriage or after— it does not matter how long the marriage lasted— by her lover. She is left to fend for her child and is unable to provide it the best life possible as a result of her poverty situation. She might try to work hard at that point to escape poverty, but the fact that she has another mouth to feed and cater to will always limit her abilities at success. The vast majority who find themselves in these situations not only never escape poverty but are likely to raise children possessed by the poverty way of reasoning and processing life, leading to repeat of the same patterns in their own lives.

Adakintroy:
➜You derailing the topic. I think she was referring to every woman rich background or not. Its was not about poverty. But a consciousness to work non the less before entering marriage. I think its important but not utmost. Even in the west working women is what men dont need, rather a stay at home wife that will be faithful and dedicated to raising the children. Both patents working is not always a gain.

Now I am certain I am talking to someone who is literally off the benders!

numericalguy:
You are a very very dangerous person to women with your wicked and evil lies.

Women fertility declines rapidly once they clock 30 years
You may think you are attacking men but you are damaging women far more by making them to believe everything will be alright even when they are above 30 years.

I've seen many of my friends, acquaintances, and relatives get married in their 30s and have children without any issues. I have never personally encountered a woman in her 30s struggling with age-related fertility problems.

Of course, I can't dismiss the possibility that some women in Nigeria might be experiencing this because I haven’t conducted large-scale research.

If you’ve done thorough research or you're a medical professional with firsthand experience, I’d genuinely respect your opinion. In fact, I’d even ask you to educate us further on the matter, because medical professionals work with women daily and have access to real-world data.

That said, you can’t just rely on Google as your sole source of information. How many women around you have you personally seen dealing with this?

You shouldn’t take every search result as a universal truth. Some of those studies might be based on specific countries or regions, which may not reflect the reality in Nigeria or even Africa as a whole.

In fact, if a proper study were conducted in Nigeria, the results might show that age-related fertility issues aren’t as common among Nigerian women in their 30s as you’re presuming, or that only a small percentage are affected.

Yes, a woman's egg count declines once she reaches 30, but that doesn’t automatically mean majority of women struggle with fertility at that age. Women are born with a large number of eggs, so women still have more than enough left to conceive in their 30s.

And by the way, Mr. Man, why not first remove that which is in your own eye? Have you ever empathized with yourself and your fellow men? Hypocrite.

libertyfather:
Plenty plenty things , plenty plenty nonsense wey no suppose to dey happen for this life....it doesn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work for someone else.....u see that thing called marriage? ....in my next life I heard it nah run, who come know it may be favorable in another world. Man just tire sef

Leave them, let them be blabbing. Even in your 30s, one should have a second thought about marriage. A very nonsense and disgusting arrangement with overwhelming expectations, when you can't meet up, you are doomed!
I shake my head when I see couples getting married every Saturday, they don't know what they're getting themselves into, expecially THE GROOM. Time is a teacher!!!

cr7lomo:
U have Google to help u instead of allowing ur emotions to get a better of u like every typical woman when facts are thrown at them and they are loosing.... at 30 , women loose 90% of their eggs ....I never said they can't get pregnant again, but at 30 the chances reduces drastically.... at 35 , the pregnancy could become geriatric.... it becomes even more difficult to conceive....not like it will become impossible..... but for men , it doesn't slow down, its still same like their teen years and 20s ... it remains same uptil their 80s , as long as he's healthy.... my uncle lost his only son at 73 , his son was 38 when he died... he had to marry another woman to bare him a son as his wife was aboutv60 at that time ... the new wife that was 24 when she married him, conceived within 3 months of the marriage and still gave birth to a 2nd 2 yrs later.... so this ur a man's sperm declines is just in ur head .... Trump is 78 while his last kid Baron is 18.... do the maths .... I remember the late fatai rolling dollars impregnating his 26yr old girlfriend at the age of 82 many years ago....as long as a man is healthy, he can impregnate a woman ( depending on the health issues ) ...but for a woman , even if she's the healthiest person on earth., once she reaches 40.... e don be

Kai you truly mentally low

DyshApp:
A young lady who identifies as a Christian woman has advised her fellow women to make enough money and desist from getting married in their 20s

In the video she posted, Faithful Femininity advised Christian women to stay away from early marriage especially when they can’t cater for themselves.

The young lady advised Christian women in their 20s to desist from getting married when they make enough money.

Her words: “As a Christian woman, I have decided that my 20s are not for marriage. My 20s are to make money. Christian women stop entering into marriage so early.”

”Go and make money. You don’t have a dime in your account. God and find a way to make money. In 20s, in your 30s, go and make money. Stop following men around. Some of you are doing Hallelujah Challenge and wearing bridal gowns.


“Have you made money? Like, I will not enter a marriage without money. And I’m talking about multiple sources of steady income. I’m not that kind of Christian woman that will enter her husband’s house with nothing in her account. God forbid. My 20s now na to work hard. My 20s is to make wealth.”

She is not a Christian woman but attention seeker if you read OPEN HEAVEN devotional of RCCG by Pastor Adeboye you learnt that it is not good to waste your time when you are young or chasing shadows .Ecclesiates 11 v 4;Genesis 2 v 18- -25; Lamentations 3 v 27.

Kobojunkie:
The "do what works for you" mentality is to blame for the current state of poverty in Nigeria, with over 170,000,000 Nigerians living in abject poverty and that number projected to balloon to over 300,000,000 before 2050.

What is made obvious by these facts is that it is time to re-educate the Nigerian girl and woman, to cause them to realize that they are responsible for lifting themselves and their children — many generations after — from poverty. As a matter of fact, what is clear is that the generational curse of poverty, which so many are afraid of, is caused by women who are raised in poverty entering into marriage agreements without first conquering poverty. Yeah, the ones literally most responsible for spreading the curse are the women.

Consider a case where a woman from a poverty background is impregnated then abandoned either before marriage or after— it does not matter how long the marriage lasted— by her lover. She is left to fend for her child and is unable to provide it the best life possible as a result of her poverty situation. She might try to work hard at that point to escape poverty, but the fact that she has another mouth to feed and cater to will always limit her abilities at success. The vast majority who find themselves in these situations not only never escape poverty but are likely to raise children possessed by the poverty way of reasoning and processing life, leading to repeat of the same patterns in their own lives.

Sorry not reading this. Bye

HaneefahRN:
➜Sorry not reading this. Bye

As expected!

drololaaof:
➜She is not a Christian woman but attention seeker if you read OPEN HEAVEN devotional of RCCG by Pastor Adeboye you learnt that it is not good to waste your time when you are young or chasing shadows .Ecclesiates 11 v 4;Genesis 2 v 18- -25; Lamentations 3 v 27.

A brain-washed religious bot spotted!

wany:
Kai you truly mentally low

I don't like arguing with women cos ur brains are just not well developed...u all reason like 14yr olds.... even when the facts are easy to access thru ordinary Google....una go still de argue like children

Uchesis:
For some people it is easy to see the right person.

For some, very difficult

And for some others, there may be no right partner.



Each to his own.

Word!

Kobojunkie:
. Society, powered by men, made it a norm for men to take care of women in marriage. So, if you have a problem with that, go and face the men, not the women.

2. Menopause? Science and medicine have made it possible for women to have children even past age 60, so menopause is no longer a valid reason for any woman to choose to enter marriage before first pulling herself out of poverty.

your ideology is not backed up by any standards.

Na women dey do themselves if they do not look in the right direction early enough in life.

Afolue:
➜your ideology is not backed up by any standards.
➜Na women dey do themselves if they do not look in the right direction early enough in life.

1. I don't understand what you mean by this. What ideology is that?

2. Men do themselves by how? So, raising women who focus their energies initially on overcoming poverty before then approaching men for marriage is against men?

Merry100:
I've seen many of my friends, acquaintances, and relatives get married in their 30s and have children without any issues. I have never personally encountered a woman in her 30s struggling with age-related fertility problems.

Of course, I can't dismiss the possibility that some women in Nigeria might be experiencing this because I haven’t conducted large-scale research.

If you’ve done thorough research or you're a medical professional with firsthand experience, I’d genuinely respect your opinion. In fact, I’d even ask you to educate us further on the matter, because medical professionals work with women daily and have access to real-world data.

That said, you can’t just rely on Google as your sole source of information. How many women around you have you personally seen dealing with this?

You shouldn’t take every search result as a universal truth. Some of those studies might be based on specific countries or regions, which may not reflect the reality in Nigeria or even Africa as a whole.

In fact, if a proper study were conducted in Nigeria, the results might show that age-related fertility issues aren’t as common among Nigerian women in their 30s as you’re presuming, or that only a small percentage are affected.

Yes, a woman's egg count declines once she reaches 30, but that doesn’t automatically mean majority of women struggle with fertility at that age. Women are born with a large number of eggs, so women still have more than enough left to conceive in their 30s.

And by the way, Mr. Man, why not first remove that which is in your own eye? Have you ever empathized with yourself and your fellow men? Hypocrite.

I love your perspective and the way your mind works

I followed this thread from page 1 to this very last page all because I wanted to see the very last of your contribution.

I love the way you handled your mentions, without having to resort to the use of abusive and derogatory words; though at a point I thought you were going to lose your cool.

Highly impressive.

You are very intelligent, respectful and open-minded.
Keep it up.

I am in love already.

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cr7lomo:
I don't like arguing with women cos ur brains are just not well developed...u all reason like 14yr olds.... even when the facts are easy to access thru ordinary Google....una go still de argue like children

Hello,
What you wrote up there is a big insult to the women race... well, I leave u to ur conscience.

To you, all your claims are from Google research even when the other guy gave you real life statistics of women giving birth in their late thirties to forties .

Yes, women fertility declines in your thirties just like every part of our body ( both male and female ) but that doesn't mean women can't give birth naturally or without issues in their 30s/ 40s

If your aim is to scare women in their 30s that are yet to give birth that is no more in this age and time. (Thank God for science)

Dear gender, should natural birth be difficult, pls embrace surrogacy, embrace IVF, embrace adoption.

Live this one life with Joy jare!

Merry100:
I've seen many of my friends, acquaintances, and relatives get married in their 30s and have children without any issues. I have never personally encountered a woman in her 30s struggling with age-related fertility problems.

Of course, I can't dismiss the possibility that some women in Nigeria might be experiencing this because I haven’t conducted large-scale research.

If you’ve done thorough research or you're a medical professional with firsthand experience, I’d genuinely respect your opinion. In fact, I’d even ask you to educate us further on the matter, because medical professionals work with women daily and have access to real-world data.

That said, you can’t just rely on Google as your sole source of information. How many women around you have you personally seen dealing with this?

You shouldn’t take every search result as a universal truth. Some of those studies might be based on specific countries or regions, which may not reflect the reality in Nigeria or even Africa as a whole.

In fact, if a proper study were conducted in Nigeria, the results might show that age-related fertility issues aren’t as common among Nigerian women in their 30s as you’re presuming, or that only a small percentage are affected.

Yes, a woman's egg count declines once she reaches 30, but that doesn’t automatically mean majority of women struggle with fertility at that age. Women are born with a large number of eggs, so women still have more than enough left to conceive in their 30s.

And by the way, Mr. Man, why not first remove that which is in your own eye? Have you ever empathized with yourself and your fellow men? Hypocrite.

A special good evening to you.

I followed the thread cos of you and Crlomo.
You have really schooled everyone that cares to listen. Weldone!

Take your trophy jare!

Ingriid:
Hello,
What you wrote up there is a big insult to the women race... well, I leave u to ur conscience.

To you, all your claims are from Google research even when the other guy gave you real life statistics of women giving birth in their late thirties to forties .

Yes, women fertility declines in your thirties just like every part of our body ( both male and female ) but that doesn't mean women can't give birth naturally or without issues in their 30s/ 40s

If your aim is to scare women in their 30s that are yet to give birth that is no more in this age and time. (Thank God for science)

Dear gender, should natural birth be difficult, pls embrace surrogacy, embrace IVF, embrace adoption.

Live this one life with Joy jare!

What's the percentage of women in their 30s and 40s giving birth...especially for their first pregnancy.... most of these women are the reason IVF is making so much money... remove IVF and it becomes a major problem... by the way, I don't give a 4k about the " insult to woman gender" .... u women think the world revolves around u people, but without men , animals will take over the world... and again, me sperm don't decline , we are not like women... I don't need IVF to impregnate a woman , even if I'm 70 , as long as she hasn't reached her 30s or 40s.... and I'm not here to scare any woman...I'm here to give facts .... men are usually more successful in what they do cos we are logical , and not like " dontvsay these stuffs to scare men "... the earlier women understand the world they live in and stop acting like babies , the better for them .... this day and age , men don't care again about how women feel... even this same IVF was created by man

ewa20buredi100:
I love your perspective and the way your mind works

I followed this thread from page 1 to this very last page all because I wanted to see the very last of your contribution.

I love the way you handled your mentions, without having to resort to the use of abusive and derogatory words; though at a point I thought you were going to lose your cool.

Highly impressive.

You are very intelligent, respectful and open-minded.
Keep it up.

I am in love already.

If u have money for IVF which is a 50 / 50 thing , then believe her ... I just don't know why u guys don't research....women always think everything is a competition even when their are scientific facts right in front of them, they will still dispute it as long as it doesn't favour them....that's the difference between a man and woman... once a man see scientific facts , he accepts and try to prevent it from happening by taking good measures....women will not accept till it consumes them and then find someone to blame

[quote author=BloomingDale post=134554996][/quote]Lonely single men?
I beg show me one?

lebete3000:
That's if he attracts any at all. Most men like broke and broken women

Most men are like god, they want their women modelled after their interest and it becomes very difficult when the suppose lady drags authority with you and this is very common with ladies who think they have arrived.

If i take a lady out we will spend on what i can afford, i like generous ladies but i cherish it more when she is loyal and humble any-thing short aunty will keep her money.

Not really the way you think about it but hoping you too are coming across it someday and if l may ask, are you married or you are still single ?


quote author=Kobojunkie post=134554502] That only works with those who have transcended such things as religion/tradition and their manipulation. [/quote]

Mopeola:
✓ Not really the way you think about it but hoping you too are coming across it someday and if l may ask, are you married or you are still single

Why should it matter whether I am marred or single though?

Ingriid:
A special good evening to you.

I followed the thread cos of you and Crlomo.
You have really schooled everyone that cares to listen. Weldone!

Take your trophy jare!

Thanks

ewa20buredi100:
I love your perspective and the way your mind works

I followed this thread from page 1 to this very last page all because I wanted to see the very last of your contribution.

I love the way you handled your mentions, without having to resort to the use of abusive and derogatory words; though at a point I thought you were going to lose your cool.

Highly impressive.

You are very intelligent, respectful and open-minded.
Keep it up.

I am in love already.

Thanks.

Are you afraid of saying the truth that you are married or not, it's just a simple test that I needed to give you just to prove my points.the issues is don't be scared

Kobojunkie:
Why should it matter whether I am marred or single though?

Mopeola:
➜Are you afraid of saying the truth that you are married or not,
➜ it's just a simple test that I needed to give you just to prove my points. the issues is don't be scared

Why do you care whether I am afraid of not of divulging private information over the internet?

2. Your simple test is depended on me divulging information that is private to me? If the proof you claim to have is subjective, doesn't that already indicate that it is invalid i.e. false, to begin with?

Your mouth like pig toto. Olosho!!!